Anatomy of Change

“Llévame al momento en que tu vida se rompió por completo — el divorcio, el desmoronamiento, la pérdida de identidad. ¿Qué creías sobre ti en esa etapa… y qué descubriste después que era mentira?” “En tu punto más bajo, ¿cómo sonaban tus conversaciones con Dios? No la versión bonita o correcta — las oraciones reales, crudas, desordenadas. ¿Y qué cambió cuando dejaste de actuar para Dios y empezaste a ser honesta con Él?” “Has dicho muchas veces que estás mejor equipada para ayudar a la persona que fuiste. Describe a esa mujer: ¿cuáles eran sus miedos? ¿Sus patrones? ¿Sus puntos ciegos? ¿Qué necesitaba escuchar desesperadamente y por qué no lo escuchó antes?” “Hay una diferencia entre crecer y transformarse. Crecer es agregar cosas; transformarse es convertirte en alguien diferente. ¿Qué tuviste que matar, soltar o enterrar para transformarte de verdad?” “¿Cuáles son las disciplinas no negociables — espirituales, físicas, mentales y relacionales — que han moldeado tu identidad y te han reconstruido desde adentro? Cuéntame cómo cada una te reprogramó en algo específico.” “¿Qué es una cosa que creías sobre Dios, el amor o la feminidad que resultó estar completamente equivocada — y cómo te cambió esa nueva comprensión en la manera en que te muestras como madre, pareja y mujer?” “Si una mujer está escuchando ahora — enojada, rota, avergonzada, atrapada en patrones — y no cree que el cambio sea posible para ella… ¿qué le dirías que no sea motivación barata, sino una verdad dura y esperanzadora?” “Cuando miras hacia adelante — no a metas, sino a la mujer en la que te estás convirtiendo — ¿cómo se ve tu fuerza espiritual, tu madurez emocional, tu liderazgo y tu manera de amar en 5 años? ¿Y cómo te aseguras de que esa futura versión tuya realmente nazca, y no se quede solo en una idea?” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1. “Take me back to the moment when your life cracked open — the divorce, the unraveling, the identity collapse. What did you believe about yourself in that season… and what did you later realize was a lie?” 2. “At your lowest point, how did your conversations with God sound? Not the polished, Sunday-school version — the real, raw, messy prayers. And what changed when you stopped performing for God and started being honest with Him?” 3. “You’ve said many times that you are best equipped to help the person you used to be. Describe that man: What were his fears? His patterns? His blind spots? What did he most desperately need to hear, and why didn’t he hear it sooner?” 4. “There’s a difference between growth and transformation. Growth is additions; transformation is becoming someone different. What did you have to kill, surrender, or bury in order to truly transform?” 5. “What are the non-negotiable disciplines — spiritual, physical, mental, relational — that have actively re-shaped your identity and helped rebuild you from the inside out? Tell me how each one rewired something specific in you.” 6. “What is one thing you believed about God, love, or masculinity that turned out to be completely wrong — and how has that new understanding changed how you show up as a father, partner, and man?” 7. “If a man is listening right now — angry, heartbroken, ashamed, stuck in patterns — and he doesn’t believe change is possible for him… what would you say that isn’t motivational fluff, but a brutal, hopeful truth?” 8. “When you look ahead — not at goals, but at the man you are becoming — what does spiritual strength, emotional maturity, leadership, and love look like in 5 years? And how do you make sure that future man is born, not just imagined?” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Anatomy of Change podcast, Seth Studley reconnects with Luke LeFevre, founder of Holy Work and (former Director at Dave Ramsey), to discuss the transformative power of journaling and personal growth. They explore Luke's journey from feeling emotionally numb to discovering purpose through writing, the importance of being still, and the role of fear and resistance in the process of change. Luke shares insights on how to embrace discomfort, take small actions, and cultivate patience in the journey of self-discovery. The conversation emphasizes the significance of building a supportive community and the gift of vulnerability in healing. Keywords journaling, personal growth, emotional health, transformation, coaching, self-discovery, fear, change, Holy Work, mental health Takeaways Journaling helps unlock emotions and find purpose. The journey to self-discovery often begins with discomfort. Patience is crucial in the process of transformation. Fear is a natural part of making significant changes. Small actions can lead to significant transformations. Being still allows for deeper connection with oneself and God. Free writing can help clarify thoughts and feelings. Overcoming resistance is essential for personal growth. The act of writing can provide clarity and reduce anxiety. Building a supportive community can enhance the journey of change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Anatomy of Change podcast, Seth explores the concept of empathy, discussing its three types: cognitive, emotional, and compassionate empathy. He delves into the psychological roots of empathy, emotional projection, and the importance of moral and spiritual sensitivity. Seth emphasizes the need for setting boundaries to prevent empathy from turning into enabling behavior and offers practical tips for empaths to manage their responses effectively. The conversation highlights the significance of self-care and the ability to change at any moment. Empathy can be a powerful tool for connection and healing. There are three types of empathy: cognitive, emotional, and compassionate. Understanding the psychological roots of empathy can help us navigate our responses. Emotional projection can lead us to react to our own pain rather than others'. Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy empathy. Empathy should not turn into enabling behavior. Self-care is essential for those who are highly empathetic. Recognizing our empathic responses can help us honor our feelings. The only way out of pain is through it. Change can happen at any moment when we decide to take action. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Resumen: S3 La paz guarda el corazón En este episodio caminamos verso a verso por un pasaje que nos enseña a pasar de la ansiedad a la paz, de la preocupación al descanso en Dios. Alegría- Encontrar gozo incluso cuando nada tiene sentido. Amabilidad- Responder con el corazón de Cristo. Oración- Soltar el control y confiar Paz-Descansar en lo que solo Dios puede dar. Un episodio para quienes desean respirar profundo, orar más y volver a confiar.  Síguenos en Instagram:  @anatomyofchangeofficial @_stillwaters365 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This conversation explores the transformative power of prayer and gratitude in alleviating anxiety and enhancing emotional well-being. It emphasizes the importance of petitioning God and presenting requests with thanksgiving, highlighting how these practices can lead to a more peaceful and fulfilling life. The author encourages not to be anxious about anything. Prayer, petition, and thanksgiving are essential in every situation. Speaking to God can provide comfort and guidance. Gratitude practice is vital for emotional health. Presenting requests to God can alleviate anxiety. Thanksgiving enhances the effectiveness of prayer. Petitioning God is a way to seek peace. Emotional well-being is supported by spiritual practices. Prayer can cover a wide range of emotions. Engaging in gratitude can shift one's mindset. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Anatomy of Change, Seth (an LMFT) discusses the theme of change and personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of embracing new experiences, giving oneself grace in the face of the unknown, and having courage and compassion for oneself during the learning process. Seth shares personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate life's challenges, highlighting the significance of patience and bravery in pursuing new endeavors. The conversation encourages listeners to view every first-time experience as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. -Everything in your life that you've done before, there was a first time. -Your attitude towards first-time experiences makes all the difference. -Give yourself grace in the unknown and courage in new territory. -Compassion for the version of you that is learning is essential. -Growth unfolds in the pauses between breakdowns. -Doing something new for the first time doesn't mean you're broken. -You only fail if you give up. -Bravery is required to step into new experiences. -Everything is okay; trust the process. -Every first time is an invitation for growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Anatomy of Change podcast, Seth Studley, licensed marriage and family therapist, addresses listener questions about change, fear, emotions, and self-discovery. He emphasizes the importance of overcoming fear, navigating changes in relationships, embracing emotions, and rediscovering oneself amidst family responsibilities. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Seth encourages listeners to confront their fears, communicate openly in relationships, and engage in self-reflection to foster personal growth and change. Takeaways- Fear often drives our choices, but it can be overcome. False evidence appearing real (FEAR) is a common experience. No one is focused on your fears; they are often in your mind. Relieving fear requires intention and action. Change in relationships may require difficult conversations. Embracing emotions is essential for personal growth. Physical activity can help reconnect with emotions. Journaling can clarify thoughts and feelings. Rediscovering oneself is possible even after years of neglect. You are the example for your children; prioritize self-care. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of S3- Seth discusses Bianca's theme of losing peace and finding growth. The conversation explores how fear, anxiety, and distractions can lead to a loss of peace, and emphasizes the importance of focusing on spiritual growth and trust in God. The host shares insights on overcoming fear, the power of focus, and the anatomy of the soul, encouraging listeners to choose peace and trust in God's plan. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“La anatomía del cuerpo y del alma” explora cómo nuestras emociones, pensamientos y fe se conectan. Así como el cuerpo reacciona al estrés o al descanso, el alma también responde cuando aprendemos a confiar en Dios. Aquí hablamos de ese proceso: cómo volver a la paz cuando todo parece imposible. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Anatomy of Change podcast, Seth Studley delves into the concept of boundaries, emphasizing their importance in personal growth and relationships. He reviews the ten laws of boundaries as outlined in Dr. Henry Cloud's book, discussing how these laws can help individuals navigate their responsibilities, respect, and personal power. The conversation highlights the necessity of clear communication and proactive boundary-setting to foster healthier relationships and personal well-being. Boundaries are essential for healthy relationships. The law of sowing and reaping emphasizes consequences of actions. You are responsible to others, not for their actions. True power lies in controlling your own choices. Respecting others' boundaries is crucial for mutual respect. Boundaries should stem from love, not fear or guilt. Evaluating the impact of boundaries is important. Proactive boundaries define what you stand for, not just against. Envy can be mitigated by focusing on personal goals. Boundaries require action and clear communication. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Summary In this episode of S Cubed, Seth discusses Philippians 3:16, emphasizing the importance of living up to what we have already attained. He connects this biblical principle to mental health, focusing on progress over perfection, the significance of consistency in building stability, and the role of identity in navigating life's challenges. Through practical takeaways, Seth encourages listeners to reflect on their growth, establish routines, and anchor themselves in their identity to foster resilience and hope. Takeaways Only let us live up to what we have already attained. Progress, not perfection, is key to growth. Consistency builds stability in our lives. Gratitude grounds us in our spiritual and emotional growth. Habits and routines protect us from chaos. Your identity can anchor you against life's challenges. Celebrate small steps to create momentum. You can replicate past successes in your life. Hope drives us towards our goals and aspirations. Knowing who we are reduces anxiety and confusion. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

S3 con mi novia Bianca- Filipenses 3:16 Solamente vivamos de acuerdo con lo que ya hemos alcanzado Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Anatomy of Change, the host delves into the concept of boundaries, emphasizing their importance in personal growth and healthy relationships. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical references, the discussion highlights how boundaries can lead to freedom, self-respect, and clarity. The host shares practical insights on identifying unhealthy patterns, replacing them with new boundaries, and the significance of saying no. The episode concludes with actionable takeaways for listeners to apply boundaries in their own lives. Takeaways- Boundaries are essential for healthy relationships and personal growth. Recognizing and establishing boundaries can lead to less stress and more freedom. Biblical teachings provide valuable insights into the importance of boundaries. Awareness of unhealthy patterns is crucial for personal change. Replacing old habits with new boundaries is necessary for growth. Boundaries bring clarity and peace to our lives. Saying no is a powerful tool for maintaining boundaries. Consequences of actions matter in the context of boundaries. We are responsible to others, but not for their choices. Boundaries can teach responsibility and accountability. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Boundaries 03:02 The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships 05:52 Personal Anecdotes and Family of Origin 09:04 Biblical Perspectives on Boundaries 11:50 Identifying and Breaking Unhealthy Patterns 14:41 Replacing Old Patterns with New Boundaries 17:30 Boundaries as a Form of Self-Care 20:48 The Power of Saying No 23:22 Consequences and Accountability 26:12 Practical Applications of Boundaries 29:34 Final Thoughts and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

En este episodio de S3: Sermones Cortos con Seth, Bianca nos guía en español a través de los pensamientos y vivencias de Seth, mostrándonos cómo un cambio de perspectiva puede transformar nuestras emociones, nuestra conducta y hasta nuestra fe. Con frases inspiradoras y versículos como Filipenses 4:8, 2 Corintios 4:18 y Romanos 12:2, este mensaje nos recuerda que no son las circunstancias las que nos definen, sino el significado que decidimos darles. Un viaje breve pero profundo que nos anima a ver lo invisible, agradecer incluso en lo difícil y renovar nuestra mente en Cristo. Escúchalo y pregúntate: ¿cómo estás mirando tu vida hoy? Nos puedes visitar a nuestra página de instagram _stillwaters365 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Summary In this episode of Short Sermons with Seth, the host explores the transformative power of perspective and meaning in our lives. Drawing on quotes from Dr. Wayne Dyer and biblical verses, Seth emphasizes that life is inherently meaningless until we assign our own meanings to experiences. He discusses the importance of focusing on positive aspects and renewing our minds to change our outlook on difficult situations. The conversation encourages listeners to seek gratitude and positivity, even in challenging times, and to rely on spiritual guidance for personal growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Summary In this episode of Anatomy of Change, Seth Studley shares his personal journey through a challenging year marked by divorce, relocation, and emotional turmoil. He emphasizes the importance of faith, prayer, mental health, and physical fitness as key elements that helped him navigate this period of change. Seth discusses the significance of adopting a growth mindset, the role of sobriety in gaining clarity, and the necessity of feeling all emotions to foster personal growth. He concludes with a recap of the core principles that guided him through his transformation. Takeaways Change can be scary but is necessary for growth. Faith is a crucial foundation during difficult times. Prayer can be a lifeline and a source of strength. Mental health requires allowing oneself to feel all emotions. A growth mindset is essential for overcoming challenges. Fitness contributes significantly to mental and emotional well-being. Sobriety can clear mental fog and enhance clarity. Real self-care involves effort and sacrifice, not just relaxation. Every choice leads to where we are now; we can always choose again. Sharing experiences can help others navigate their own changes. Keywords change, personal growth, faith, mental health, prayer, fitness, sobriety, mindset, resilience, therapy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

En este episodio de Sermones Breves con Seth, el presentador profundiza en Proverbios 3:5-6, enfatizando la importancia de confiar en Dios con todo el corazón, ceder el control y someterse a su voluntad. Seth comparte sus reflexiones personales sobre cómo estos principios pueden guiar a las personas ante los desafíos de la vida, animando a los oyentes a buscar sabiduría y alinear sus pensamientos con los de Dios. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Summary In this episode of Short Sermons with Seth, the host delves into Proverbs 3:5-6, emphasizing the importance of trusting God wholeheartedly, surrendering control, and submitting to His will. Seth shares personal insights on how these principles can guide individuals through life's challenges, encouraging listeners to seek wisdom and align their thoughts with God. Keywords trust, surrender, Proverbs, mental health, faith, wisdom, guidance, spirituality, personal growth, encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Summary In this episode of the Anatomy of Change podcast, host Seth shares his personal journey through divorce and the lessons learned along the way. He discusses the importance of sharing stories, the strategies that helped him cope with change, and the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. Seth emphasizes the role of spirituality, mental health, and physical fitness in personal growth, and expresses excitement for the future of the podcast as a platform for exploring these themes. Takeaways Seth reintroduces the podcast with a focus on change. He shares his personal experience of divorce and its challenges. The importance of vulnerability in sharing personal stories is highlighted. Sobriety played a crucial role in Seth's journey of change. Seth emphasizes the need for a strong support system during tough times. Mindset and mental health are key components of personal growth. Journaling helped Seth process his emotions and thoughts. Surrounding oneself with positive influences is essential for growth. Finding purpose and identity through faith. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices