Around The Way Curls

In this episode, Shanti feels the pressure build as she prepares for high-school selections for her daughter while Antoinette deals with her pet parenthood challenges. Together, we listen to a voicemail that requests a bit more accountability from both of us beyond the "claim of victimhood". For our main topic, we discuss the addictive nature of tumultuous relationships and how childhood experiences shape adult relationships. We discuss the addictive nature of these relationships, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of therapy in breaking the cycle of toxicity. The conversation is tender for Shanti as it touches on the challenges of parenting and her own ability to form healthy connections.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes05:50 Understanding Anxiety and Family Dynamics11:59 The Pressures of Parenting in Modern Society22:04 The Accountability Challenge in Relationships26:10 Understanding Our Role in Relationship Dynamics30:27 Co-Creation in Relationships40:34 Addiction to Roller Coaster Relationships49:25 The Allure of Chaos in Relationships52:38 Understanding Trauma Bonds and Attachments59:10 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Adult Relationships01:06:12 Navigating Parenting and Self-Awareness01:10:46 Breaking the Cycle of Toxic RelationshipsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti discovers the world of young professionals at a recent Tech conference while Antoinette finally shares Bae with the world. For politics, we discuss Hurricane Milton's impact, the challenges FEMA and Congress faced in providing adequate funding, and the ethical implications of price gouging during crises. For pop- culture, we dive into J-Cole's recent song "Port Antonio". We discuss Drake's rant on having "fake friends", whether Kendrick's strategy was a money/fame grab, and the importance of authenticity in any art form. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes02:58 Cultural References and TV Shows05:58 Experiences at a Women's Tech Conference09:02 The Importance of Networking and Community Support11:52 Celebrating Personal Milestones and Relationships14:59 Reflections on Social Media and Privacy17:58 Insights from CultureCon and Future Aspirations21:05 Support for the Podcast and Community Engagement23:55 Discussion on Hurricane Milton and Climate Change28:40 Misinformation and Hurricane Relief32:22 Congress and FEMA Funding Challenges36:33 Price Gouging in Crisis Situations39:00 Corporate Responsibility During Disasters44:35 The Complexities of Emergency Shelters52:34 Pop Culture and Public Figures' Accountability01:03:59 The Reality of Fake Friends01:06:12 Drake's Authenticity and Character Judgments01:09:10 Insecurity and Social Status in Hip-Hop01:12:11 Kendrick vs. Drake: The Battle of Authenticity01:18:29 J. Cole's Compassion and Reflection01:28:34 Navigating Fame and Personal GrowthSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode, Shanti shares a deep, dark secret while Antoinette is delighted to be reminded of a song she forgot about. After listening to listener voicemails, we discuss friendship. We are inspired to explore friendships after listening to a thoughtful conversation about friendship between Trevor Noah + Simon Sinek. What does it mean to be a good friend? How do we make new friends as adults? We reflect on our own experiences with friendships, the challenges of maintaining relationships as adults, and the need for vulnerability and intentionality in nurturing these bonds. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSimone Sinek + Trevor Noah on Friendship https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNBxIhxHHxM 00:00 Nail Care and Personal Grooming02:59 Exploring Friendship and Its Importance06:01 Media Consumption and Cultural Reflections09:00 Reflections on Recent Podcast Guests12:07 The Value of Community and Connection14:49 Listener Voicemails and Engagement18:01 Friendship Dynamics and Personal Growth20:54 Mental Health and Social Connections24:00 Creating Space for Friendships26:56 Navigating Adult Friendships29:58 Intentionality in Relationships32:59 The Role of Vulnerability in Friendships35:54 Balancing Work and Personal Relationships38:54 Practical Steps for Nurturing Friendships41:59 Final Thoughts on Friendship and CommunitySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Antoinette feels the heavy weight of life on her shoulders as she does her best to keep her head above water while Shanti pushes through on business projects. Together we discuss the recent Vice Presidential debate, the legacy of John Amos, and the controversial claims made by Jaguar Wright regarding the music industry including allegations against Jay-Z and Beyonce. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for high school applications while Antoinette masters the art of roasting chicken. After listening to voice mails, we are joined by very special guest, adrienne maree brown. In this conversation, adrienne discusses her new book, 'Loving Corrections. Together we explore themes of offering and receiving loving correction within interpersonal relationships and the greater collective. The discussion touches on the balance between revolutionary and reformist approaches to social change and how we can transform hopelessness into actionable steps toward collective freedom. Join us....Learn more about adrienne maree brown and buy her books HERE.Follow adrienne maree brown on instagram HEREContact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesNY Phil: Afromodernism - Music of the African DiasporaDiscount Code: CULTURELP20 Dates and Times:Thursday, October 17, 2024, at 7:30 PMFriday, October 18, 2024, at 7:30 PMLocation: David Geffen Hall, Lincoln CenterTicket Information:Tickets are available at https://bit.ly/afromodernism See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti connects her recent emotional sensitivity to her fitness journey while Antoinette recounts seeing Jazmine Sullivan and Maxwell at the Serenade Tour. For politics, they briefly touch on Israel's expansion into Lebanon, discuss the murder of Marcellus Khaliifah Williams, and explore the moral dilemmas surrounding the death penalty in the United States. The dialogue shifts to Cardi B & Offset's recent social media crash out, the indictment of New York City Mayor Eric Adams, and a critique of Janet Jackson's controversial remarks regarding Kamala Harris, emphasizing the importance of informed discourse in public figures. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesNY Phil: Afromodernism - Music of the African DiasporaDiscount Code: CULTURELP20 Dates and Times:Thursday, October 17, 2024, at 7:30 PMFriday, October 18, 2024, at 7:30 PMLocation: David Geffen Hall, Lincoln CenterTicket Information:Tickets are available at https://bit.ly/afromodernism TimestampTimestamps00:00 Emotional Unraveling and Physical Connection14:58 Reflections on Jazmine Sullivan & Maxwell17:58 Cultural Events and Community Engagement20:57 Current Events and Political Commentary29:58 Patreon and Community Support44:36 The Psychological Warfare of Conflict48:14 The Normalization of Violence and Its Consequences49:56 Media Control and the Impact on Public Perception52:03 The Case of Marcellus Williams and the Death Penalty01:02:46 The Death Penalty Debate: Morality and Justice01:09:51 Cultural Reflections: Cardi B and Personal Agency01:16:10 Janet Jackson's Controversial Remarks on Kamala HarrisSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti struggles with motherhood and the infamous "I told you so" while Antoinette juggles her love life and dog "motherhood". For the main topic, we revisit the recent controversy surrounding the Shxngigs podcast and attempt to uncover "the perfect apology". We discuss the importance of accountability and authenticity in apologies and the complexities of navigating humor, especially in the context of race and gender, and offer strategies for responding to offensive jokes. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes00:00 Navigating Parenting Challenges03:01 The Struggles of New Parenthood05:59 The Impact of Pets on Relationships08:59 Pop Culture Reflections: Breaking Bad12:03 Addressing Controversial Comedy: Shits and Gigs16:01 Understanding Apologies and Accountability20:07 The Importance of Authenticity in Apologies24:02 Strategies for Responding to Offensive HumorSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti finds deep satisfaction in discovering a new cleaning product while Antoinette encourages us to walk more to live longer. For politics, we offer love and light to Amber Thurman who recently died unnecessarily due to abortion laws in GA and we share our thoughts and fears on the recent conflicts between Israel and Hezbollah. We return to the conversation about immigration and how the recent racist tropes about Haitins may reveal a time-old story about race and class in America. For pop culture, we discuss the recent allegations against Diddy, discussing public perception, accountability, the intricacies of consent and abusive behavior, and the societal structures that create and enable it. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes03:01The Quest for the Perfect Cleaner06:00Struggles with Sleep and Hormonal Changes09:03Health Insights: The Importance of Walking11:56Reproductive Rights and Tragic Consequences15:00Political Updates and Controversies17:59Hezbollah and Israel: Recent Conflicts30:00Understanding the Broader Implications of Warfare44:33Asylum Seekers and Community Dynamics47:55Historical Context of Racism and Classism50:45The Role of Media in Shaping Narratives54:55Diddy: Allegations and Indictments01:01:41Public Perception and Accountability01:10:02The Complexity of Consent and Abuse01:22:10Understanding the Roots of Abusive BehaviorSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti plans a trip while Antoinette welcomes back her goddaughter pup, JoI. For our main topic, we reflect on how we lost ourselves in past love relationships. We delve into the importance of self-awareness and how we are conditioned to acquiesce in imbalanced relationship dynamics as women. We offer insight into the importance of maintaining one's identity and the significance of community and self-love to keep us grounded and honest. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's conversation, we welcome back Salaah Muhammad, community organizer, social justice advocate, political strategist and current Organizing Director for the Working Families Party, leading statewide organizing efforts in Pennsylvania.Together we discuss the recent debate between Kamala Harris and Donald Trump. We delve into the performances of both candidates, highlighting Harris's surgical approach and Trump's outrageous statements. The discussion covers the implications of the debate on voter dynamics, the strengths and weaknesses of the candidates, and the public's response. Salaah shares insights on the Working Families Party and the importance of community organizing, emphasizing that a vote is a strategic move rather than an emotional one.We end with our own predictions for the upcoming election and the need for continued activism. Join us...Learn more about Working Families PartyFollow the work of Salaah on instagram @salaahscornerContact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti considers starting martial arts classes while Antoinette shares her growing attraction to a popular character on "Breaking Bad". We respond to a voicemail from a listener about feeling dismissed or overwhelmed by well-intentioned encouragement. For our main topic, we discuss being a "people pleaser" and how we each express it differently. We explore the trauma-based causes of betraying ourselves for the benefit of others and how we can begin to notice and change those patterns. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti and Antoinette discuss the tragic school shooting in Georgia including trying the 14-year-old shooter as an adult and a continued need for gun measures. The conversation then shifts to the new Netflix film 'The Deliverance' by Lee Daniels where Antoinette basically brings him up on charges. Does Lee Daniels deserve criticism for his continued use of stereotypical tropes lacking depth in the storytelling? Or are we just snobs? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Antoinette shares her recent date night in a questionable neighborhood, while Shanti reconsiders the power of affirmations by watching a television series about successful athletes. For politics, we discuss Trump's recent spiraling behavior and the speeches by the Obamas at the Democratic National Convention. We delve into Vice President Kamala's stance on the border, fracking, and Israel and address the recent division between Black and Arab communities within the pro-Palestinian movement.For pop culture, we shift to Cam Newton's podcast interview with Dr. Bryant, where they explore the dynamics of fatherhood and broken families. The conversation explores the importance of having both parents present and attuned in a child's life. We discuss our personal experiences and differing beliefs about the ideal family structure and what the concept of being present and involved in a child's life is to us. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We are back! In this week's episode, we discuss our return to recording after a break, our personal experiences over the summer, and the very important inter-relational work we have been doing with our business coach. We highlight the challenges and growth we have experienced in our friendship and business partnership and the need for open communication and self-correction. We share a breakthrough in learning to provide relief before correction. We explore the dynamics of correction without punishment and the need for acknowledgment and understanding. We share our attempts (and failures) of being in practice with that theory. Join us...Support the Alkerim Family In GazaRally for Reproductive Rights Learn More about our business coach Rolando Brown Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Shanti was busy prepping for The Roots Picnic so Antoinette enlisted the help of POD GAWD, King Crissle West. Together, they chop it up and discuss: SPORTS (NOT SHORTS), public outrage with Target for their recent Pride collection, slaves apparently missing from The Little Mermaid, Orcas conspiring & teaming up to jump boats off the coast of Spain, biracials overcompensating, and problematic pop psychology. Join usFollow CrissleIG: @crissle & @thereadTwitter: @crisslesWebsite: https://www.crissle.com/Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4RNYC3VAEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Shanti mentally spirals as her birthday nears while Antoinette recounts bearing witness to Sir. Marvelous's care and sexual healing at a sex club. For politics as usual, Antoinette explains the New York Survivors Act and the misconceptions around sexual misconduct civil suits. For pop culture, we share our thoughts on Beyonce's Renaissance movie premiere look & the claims that she "wants to be white", Mama TIna's defense of her daughter, and the newly emerged details around Iman and Teyana Taylor's unfortunate divorce. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/4hRQbTkBEmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We are joined by the great Dr. Mama Yaba. Dr. Yaba Blay is a scholar-activist, public speaker, and cultural consultant whose scholarship, work and practice centers on the lived experiences of Black women and girls, with a particular focus on identity/body politics and beauty practices. We discuss her AMAZING book, One Drop & deep dive into the politics of race and colorism. Join us.Buy One Drop https://bookshop.org/books?keywords=one+dropContact Yaba: https://www.yabablay.com/Follow Yaba: @yabablayGeneral Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPurchase Four Women by Nina Simone here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/four-women/1426021626?i=1426021739See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Shanti recalls stealing hoagies from the corner store & childhood eating habits while Antoinette readies herself for an upcoming GYN visit. The ladies answer voicemails that range from The Roots Picnic attendance to dealing with a friend's infidelity. For our main topic, we are joined by Dr. Kelli Ruglass. Dr. Kelly, a licensed clinical psychologist and certified eating disorder specialist, discusses the prevalence and impact of eating disorders, particularly among Black and Brown women. She challenges the perception of eating disorders as solely affecting thin individuals and highlights the importance of understanding the spectrum of eating disorders. She emphasizes the damaging societal beauty standards and the role of trauma in shaping our relationship with food. Lastly, she challenges the notion of food addiction and highlights the importance of mindful eating and self-compassion. Join us.Follow Dr. KelliIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.kellirugless?igsh=MWl5OTQ5dDQ5MDludQ==Project Heal: https://www.instagram.com/projectheal/?igsh=MWU2Y253dnlocnB3eQ%3D%3DFlourish Psychology: https://www.instagram.com/weflourishpsychology/?igsh=MTF4ZnpoN3dxZGlnZQ%3D%3DContact us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6REmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Shanti is away this week BUT Antoinette is joined by pod royalty Hey Fran Hey & Jade of All Jades. Together, we talk about leaning into our cougar energy, dating crunchy dudes, online dating, and the mess that was Republican presidential hopeful, Larry Elder. For our main topic, we deep dive into aging. How do we feel about aging? What were we taught about aging? What did we observe from our mothers? What outside influences have informed our thoughts and feelings on it? Have we considered getting work done? Why or why not? Join us.Follow Hey Fran Hey:Website: https://heyfranhey.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyfranhey/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/heyfranhey?lang=enLiving for We Podcast: https://www.npr.org/podcasts/1160361239/living-for-we_Follow Jade of All Jades:Website: https://jadeofalljades.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jadeofalljades/Twitter: https://twitter.com/JadeofallJades_Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord: https://discord.gg/SU8uds9pSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.