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Around The Way Curls
Author: Antoinette Lee & Shanti Mayers
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Rooted in friendship, humor, and self-actualization, Shanti and Antoinette are a differing, but dynamic duo who explore both the profound and the profane because #DualityIsAThing.
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In this episode, Shanti reflects on the ups and downs of guiding a teenager through the world of public transportation, while Antoinette sends heartfelt birthday love to the Virgos who matter most. For politics, we break down Israel’s recent attacks on neighboring countries and unpack the shocking murder of Charlie Kirk—exploring his controversial career and questioning the narrative the media is shaping around his legacy. For pop culture, we ask: Is Lizzo betraying her fan base by embracing weight loss? Did Summer Walker quietly debut a new man? And Shanti shares why she’s so impressed with Doja Cat’s latest album release. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, we delve into the topic of consumerism. Together, we reflect on what drives us to buy, how we value material possessions, and society's pressures that drive consumer behavior. Antoinette questions how often consumerism masquerades as self-care, leading to a cycle of emotional spending. We challenge ourselves to interrogate our purchasing habits and consider the deeper motivations behind our buying choices. How can we prioritize real emotional well-being over material acquisition? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We are back from break, and the chaos continues. Shanti buys a lock box for her phone, while Antoinette juggles two needy pets. For politics, we discuss the National Guard in D.C, and the many changes to the CDC and its possible impact on public health. For pop culture, we unpack Tracee Ellis Ross's recent robbery, Cardi B's undefeated marketing and courtroom shenanigans, Lil Nas X's jailing and Tabitha Brown's controversial advice to struggling entrepreneurs. Join us...Follow Yogawithromani_Watch Mustafa The Poet on Tiny DeskContact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We are joined by the ladies of Gettin Grown pod. We talk Bill Cosby, Monqiue, bonnets, tricky Lord and saviors, and much more. Join us.General Inquiries:Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Antoinette is joined by the breath of fresh air that is Hey Fran Hey. Together they discuss various topics including personal growth, finding balance, and of course, The Jerrod Carmichael Show. Fran shares her experience of living a calmer and more fulfilling life, while Antoinette talks about her journey of self-discovery and finding her way back to herself. Finally, with the help of 'This Here Flesh' by Cole Aurthur Riley, Fran walks us through the concept of being present, in awe of, and connected to oneself as a tool to collectively combat evil & live a more fulfilling, peaceful life. Join Us.Follow Hey Fran Hey:Website: https://heyfranhey.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyfranhey/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/heyfranhey?lang=enListen to Fran's Webby Award-winning podcast Living for We: https://www.npr.org/podcasts/1160361239/living-for-weContact us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/ehvKtK6REmail: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus contentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Antoinette is inspired by the NFL draft to create her own version: The Black Draft. We compete to select the strongest combinations of Blackness under the categories of "Blackest Movies, Albums, and Influential Figures of All Time to name a few. Who do you think won? Who did we miss? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Shanti discovers Raising Caine's Chicken Fingers on a dark, cold night while Antoinette pays her condolences to Irv Gotti. We focus on our main topic after listening to very insightful listener voicemails about US farming and biracial coupling. Shanti poses the question: is modern mating in direct conflict with how we are biologically wired to select our partners? Is it wrong to want a man with height, muscles, and a lot of money or a woman with a fat ass, big breasts and a submissive nature if that is how our early ancestors choose their partners? Have we thrown the baby out with the bath water with our modern-day expressions of masculinity and femininity? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, inspired by psychotherapist Elliot Connie, we discuss what it means to live fulfilled, inspired lives by unpacking the weighted question: "What do you want?" Antoinette reveals a hidden desire she has been avoiding expressing, and together we explore the importance of authenticity, defining personal success, and overcoming perfectionism. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this week's episode, Shanti sees The Clipse while Antoinette experiences new puppy love. For politics, we discuss Texas Republicans' attempt at drawing a new congressional map and the shutdown of the Corporation for Public Broadcasting. For pop culture, we share our excitement for Tracie Ellis Ross' new travel show, the end of the BET awards, and dildo distractions occuring within the WNBA. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, we invite you to a free-flowing Around The Way Kiki. We talk about rewatching Sex and the City, health scares, food and recipes, Superman, and the state of small Black businesses. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
For this episode, Shanti has aches and pains while Antoinette prepares for a family trip. For politics, we discuss Trump making matters worse for himself with Epstein and the growing global support for the recognition of Palestine as a state. For pop culture, we react to the many surprises revealed when Deion Sanders announced his current health challenges. Lastly, we share our critique of Sydney Sweeney's controversial ad campaign that sparked discussions on eugenics and marketing ethics. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, we are joined by Mandi Money of Brown Ambition. She generously shares her journey from journalism to becoming a career coach and personal finance expert. She discusses the importance of financial independence, investing, and building a strong professional network. Together, we unpack the emotional aspects of financial transformation and the significance of having honest conversations about compensation in the workplace. We touch on the challenges of maintaining friendships in business and the necessity of having a plan for unexpected financial gains. Join us...Listen to Mandi's podcast Brown Ambition here.Follow Brown Ambition on instagram hereFollow Mandi Money instagram here.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Shanti prepares for a birthday while Antoinette prepares for a family trip. Together, we discuss Trump's recent attempts of distractions from the Epstein files, and AOC's vote against withdrawing money from Israel's defense budget. For pop culture, we unpack Laverne Cox admitting she had a Maga ex, and the untimely death of Malcolm Jamal Warner. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week Shanti and Antoinette are joined by the incredible Dr. Anna Malaika Tubbs. Together, we discuss her new book Erased: What American Patriarchy Has Hidden from Us. She explores the historical context of patriarchy in the U.S., its implications on gender equality, and the intersection of religion and societal norms. Dr. Tubbs emphasizes the importance of recognizing the contributions of women, particularly Black women, in history and how motherhood can be a powerful tool for change. Join us. Purchase Erased here: https://bookshop.org/p/books/erased-what-american-patriarchy-has-hidden-from-us-anna-malaika-tubbs/21732912?ean=9781250876690&next=tFollow Dr. Anna Malaika TubbsIG: https://www.instagram.com/annamalaikatubbs/?hl=en Website: https://annamalaikatubbs.com/Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Antoinette provides a comprehensive analysis of the recently passed Big Beautiful Bill, discussing its implications on various sectors, including healthcare, food assistance, education, immigration, and the environment. She highlights the disparities in how the bill affects different socioeconomic groups, emphasizing the negative impact on marginalized communities while benefiting the wealthy. Antoinette calls for community support and action in response to the bill's provisions, urging listeners to consider the broader implications of the legislation.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSources:White House: https://www.whitehouse.gov/articles/2025/07/president-trumps-one-big-beautiful-bill-is-now-the-law/Pod Save America: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJ3O06mEr9ECNN: https://www.cnn.com/politics/big-beautiful-bill-text-compare-dgCNN: https://www.cnn.com/2025/07/03/business/trump-big-beautiful-bill-business-economyCNN: https://www.cnn.com/2025/07/01/politics/congress-senate-bill-tax-spending-trump-gop-explainerCNN:https://www.cnn.com/politics/live-news/trump-big-beautiful-bill-house-vote-07-03-25#cmcna6sgq00113b6n0nip3sfyMSNBC: https://www.msnbc.com/top-stories/latest/trump-administration-surprising-critics-republicans-budget-bill-rcna216472MSNBC: https://www.msnbc.com/top-stories/latest/lawrence-odonnell-says-gop-megabill-part-trumps-wider-campaign-cruelty-rcna216565MSNBC: https://www.msnbc.com/top-stories/latest/trump-administration-surprising-critics-republicans-budget-bill-rcna216472MSNBC: https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/lisa-murkowski-abortion-rights-big-beautiful-bill-rcna216370CNBC: https://www.cnbc.com/2025/07/10/how-trumps-big-beautiful-bill-will-change-college-financing.htmlCBS: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/whats-in-trump-big-beautiful-bill-senate-version/BBC: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c0eqpz23l9joFOX News: https://www.foxnews.com/politics/heres-money-people-each-state-could-pocket-under-trumps-big-beautiful-bill-savingsFox News: https://www.foxbusiness.com/real-estate/american-homeowners-families-get-relief-one-big-beautiful-billDave Ramsey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7rjkQVfIBwLYFE Accounting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTg-TzoP5rwSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Shanti misses Bad Bunny while Antoinette is renewed through her colonic series. For politics, we discuss MAGA supporters' discontent regarding Donald Trump's failure to release the Epstein files, and the impact of AI on content creators, particularly for black creatives. For pop culture, we discuss the newly released Clipse album and the iconic reign of Cher. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, we discuss the duality of motherhood as both a gift and a burden, and the societal expectations placed on women regarding their roles as mothers and professionals. We discuss the challenges of balancing personal identity, career aspirations, and the realities of motherhood, while also addressing the myth of 'having it all' in a capitalist society. The dialogue highlights the need for a shift in how motherhood is perceived and valued, advocating for greater support and understanding for mothers in today's world. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, Shanti recaps taking her daughter to her first arena concert, while Antoinette saw the F1 movie and nearly lost her mind. For politics, we discuss the Texas floods, climate change, and the need for political accountability, as well as Mamdani's recent "scandal" surrounding his identity. For pop culture, we discuss the challenges faced by Essence Festival this year, highlighting the disconnect between its traditional audience and newer generations, and if Jay-Z is a dead beat daddy? Join us...RSVP to the Culture LP's Free Event Shades of Discourse on July 31st http://bit.ly/shadesclp Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
*Trigger Warning* This episode discusses suicidal thoughts and alcoholismThis week, Antoinette and Shanti start with some light-hearted pleasantries and respond to some comedic listener voicemails. We are then joined by Antoinette's father, Jay Henry. Mr. Henry's full humanity is on display as he shares his experience as both an intentionally present father and recovering alcoholic. Antoinette and her father navigate this conversation with nuance and grace, while offering listeners the opportunity to bear witness to this healing conversation between father and daughter. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesIf you or anyone you know is experiencing addiction, please see the resources below that may prove helpful: Alcoholics Anonymous: https://www.aa.org/Narcotics Anonymous: https://na.org/Al-Anon members are people, just like you, who are worried about someone with a drinking problem. https://al-anon.org/Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this week's episode, Shanti hosts visiting family while Antoinette may be getting something off her chest (literally). For politics, we react to the ugliness of the "Big Beautiful Bill" as well as Elon Musk's villainous promise to politicians. For pop culture, Antoinette goes in on the Diddy verdict, we discuss Beyonce's recent scare, and laugh at Drake's abs. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
RIGHT! On time. Wow thank you!
def can relate to the body dismorphia..and having a real body...and trying to date when the expectation/beauty standard now is based on bought bodies