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In this deeply practical and insightful episode, James and Lisa unpack a powerful diagnostic tool from GiANT called the Peace Index. This framework helps individuals—and couples—measure five key areas that influence internal wellbeing: purpose, place, provision, personal health, and people. With honest reflection, engaging stories, and easy-to-use language, this episode equips you to recognize what’s really going on beneath the surface and take intentional steps toward renewed peace in your life and marriage.Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just want to grow more aware together, this episode offers clarity, connection, and tangible next steps.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:The Peace Index Visual Tool (by GiANT)Marriage Reboot Coaching with James & LisaBook: The Purpose Formula by Jessica RimmerRelated Episodes:Ep 64 – The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in MarriageEp 19 – The Tension Is Real: Money Stress in MarriageEp 7 – Know Yourself to Lead YourselfEp 21 – The Power of a Pro-Marriage CollectiveConnect with Us:Instagram: @artofspousingWebsite: www.liveleadlast.comSubscribe & Review:If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.DISCLAIMER:Show Notes contain affiliate links. If you click and make a purchase, we may earn a small commission. Thanks for supporting the work that helps us keep the mics on!

In this heart-opening episode, James and Lisa share exciting updates—including the relaunch of the Live Lead Last podcast—and how launching something new inevitably impacts marriage. They introduce the Change Equation, a powerful visual tool from GiANT that explains why real change happens—or doesn’t—in relationships. Through vulnerable personal stories and practical insights, they walk you through how to overcome resistance together using vision, first steps, and emotional clarity. If your marriage feels stuck or off-track, this episode will help you reconnect and move forward with purpose.Resources Mentioned in this Episode:Marriage Reboot CoachingLive Lead Last Podcast (Launching June 4)Free Five Voices AssessmentVoices 25 Conference – Oklahoma CityChange Equation Visual ToolRelated Episodes:Ep 64 – The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in MarriageEp 59 – Navigating the In-Between Seasons of Marriage!Ep 29 – Us in Mind: How Changing Your  Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage With Ted LoweEp 7 – The Gap Between Here and ThereConnect with Us:Instagram: @artofspousingWebsite: www.artofspousing.comSubscribe & Review:If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.DISCLAIMER:Show Notes contain affiliate links. If you click and make a purchase, we may earn a small commission—thank you for supporting the mission of Art of Spousing!

Commitment in marriage is so much deeper than just staying under the same roof. In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa Duvall explore what it really means to build a lifelong marriage rooted in intentional, daily choices. They unpack the four layers of commitment—personal, moral, spiritual, and structural—and share how couples can move from surviving to thriving, even when seasons get tough. You'll also hear real stories, biblical encouragement, and practical tools you can start using today to strengthen your "we still do."Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, this conversation will help you cultivate a marriage that lasts — and inspires.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Marriage Reboot Coaching Experience — 3 months of intensive coaching designed to help you move from surviving to thriving FREE 30-minute Discovery Call — Schedule with James and Lisa hereRelated Episodes:Four Choices to a Masterpiece Marriage with Don and Joy BrayHow to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common GroundPractising the Art of SpousingThe Gap Between Here and There(Find these episodes wherever you listen to The Art of Spousing!)Connect with Us:📸 Instagram: @artofspousing🌐 Website: www.artofspousing.comWe love hearing from you! DM us your thoughts or questions — and if today's episode encouraged you, please share it with someone who needs it.Subscribe & Review:If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps us reach more couples who are ready to build strong, resilient, Christ-centered marriages.DISCLAIMER: Some show notes contain affiliate links. If you click and make a purchase, we may earn a small commission — at no extra cost to you. It helps us keep bringing you free content to strengthen your marriage!

In this heartwarming and practical episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa break down one of the most transformative tools for marriage communication: The Communication Code. Ever found yourself trying to be helpful, only to realize your spouse needed something entirely different? This episode will help you stop the cycle of misfires and start connecting more deeply.You’ll learn how to use five powerful communication codes—Celebrate, Care, Clarify, Collaborate, and Critique—to improve emotional safety, reduce frustration, and build deeper intimacy. Packed with relatable stories (including a hilarious miscommunication over “small smart choices”) and powerful insights, this episode equips couples to decode not just what’s being said—but how it’s meant to be received.Whether you're a problem-solver or a feeler, a planner or a processor, this episode will help you and your spouse communicate with greater grace, clarity, and unity.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Free Communication Code Assessment Understand your top two default communication styles—and how they impact your marriage.Free The Five Voices Assessment Learn your leadership voice and how it affects how you give and receive communication.Know Yourself to Lead Yourself Tool Understand how your tendencies shape your relational patterns.Provisional Plan Promise Tool Use this tool to reduce planning misfires and clarify whether you’re brainstorming, planning, or committing.Marriage Reboot Coaching A 3-month intentional journey for couples seeking breakthrough, clarity, and renewed connection. artofspousing.com/coaching or schedule a Discovery Call with James and Lisa,Related Episodes:Practising the Art of SpousingLove: Defining the Three EssentialsThe Gap Between the Event and the ResponseBuilding on Common GroundConnect with Us:Instagram: @artofspousingWebsite: www.artofspousing.comSubscribe & Review:If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave us a review. Your encouragement helps us reach more couples who are ready to build intentional, Christ-centered marriages.

Let’s face it—married life can be a wild ride. Between never-ending to-do lists, navigating seasons of grief, and the everyday chaos of family life, it’s easy to lose sight of the fun. But what if we told you that learning to laugh together might just be one of the most powerful tools you have to build connection, reduce stress, and keep your love vibrant?In this episode, we explore why humor isn’t just a “nice-to-have” in marriage—it’s essential. We’ll unpack the four types of humor, dive into what science and Scripture say about laughter, and share stories (like Lisa’s “this is what I do” southern cooking moment and James’ infamous floating shelf fail) that show how humor can bond us… or blow up in our face. We also talk about what not to joke about, how timing and tone matter, and how to bring more intentional joy into your relationship—without crossing emotional lines.Whether your marriage feels light and playful or a little dried up like that overcooked kielbasa (you’ll get it when you listen), this episode will inspire you to embrace laughter as a pathway to intimacy.Key TakeawaysLaughter builds connection and reduces stress—it literally rewires your brain with bonding hormones like oxytocin.Know your humor style—and your spouse’s. Healthy humor (like affiliative and self-enhancing) draws you closer; aggressive or self-defeating humor can harm connection.Create “callbacks” or inside jokes. They build emotional intimacy and give you a shared language of joy.Tone and timing are everything. A well-placed joke can heal, but the wrong moment can wound.Honor your spouse’s sensitivities. Don’t joke to make a point. Be sensitive and lighthearted—it's not either/or.Don't just hope for fun—plan it. Schedule laughter through games, funny shows, silly traditions, or storytelling.Resources Mentioned in This EpisodeMarriage Reboot – Our two-day coaching intensive plus 3 months of intentional follow-up to help couples move from surviving to thriving. Learn more at artofspousing.com/coachingSchedule a a Marriage Reboot Discovery CallTools Referenced:Know Yourself to Lead Yourself – understanding your humor style and voice weapon systems5 Voices – using humor in ways that align with your personalityCheckpoints – use humor to shift tension, but with permission🎧 Related EpisodesThe 5 Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in MarriageNavigating Three Types of Tension in MarriageMe Awareness and We Awareness📲 Connect with UsInstagram: @artofspousingWebsite: www.artofspousing.comJoin the Marriage Practice Email: Text AOS to 66866 for weekly encouragement and tools💬 Subscribe & ReviewIf you enjoyed this episode, we’d love it if you subscribed, left a review, and shared it with another couple who needs a little more laughter in their lives. Your support helps us reach more couples who are ready to build a strong, Christ-centered, joy-filled marriage.And remember—if you're in a tough season, and laughter feels far off, there is hope. Don’t just survive—start practicing the art of spousing today. 💛🎙️

Decision-making is a daily reality in marriage—sometimes small (what’s for dinner?) and sometimes huge (where do we live?). But if we’re not intentional, making decisions together can turn into a battleground or a passive-aggressive standoff.In this episode, we explore how to make decisions as a team, even when you and your spouse see things differently. We’ll walk through practical tools to navigate different decision-making styles, how to build a bridge between future-oriented and present-oriented spouses, and how to seek unity even when you disagree. You’ll also hear some of our personal stories (including Lisa’s hilarious “no snakes or orange shag carpet” church move requirements) and biblical wisdom to help you grow in this crucial area of marriage.Key Takeaways: ✅ Biblical unity isn’t about thinking alike—it’s about thinking together. ✅ Identify your decision-making style and learn how to complement each other. ✅ Build a bridge between your perspectives instead of dragging your spouse across the gap. ✅ When you don’t see eye to eye, focus on listening, compromise, and trust. ✅ Who gets the final say? We unpack biblical leadership and servant-hearted decision-making.By the end of this episode, you’ll have practical strategies to make decisions together in a way that strengthens—not stresses—your marriage.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:FREE Five Voices Assessment (to identify if you are more future- or present-oriented) – Marriage Reboot – A two-day coaching experience to bring clarity and unity to your marriage. Learn More HereRelated Episodes:🎧 The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect 🎧 Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity  Connect with Us:📸 Instagram: @artofspousing 🌐 Website: www.artofspousing.com💌 Join our weekly Marriage Practice email for tools & encouragement: Text AOS to 66866Subscribe & Review:If you enjoyed this episode, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us reach more couples who want to build strong, thriving marriages.Know a couple who could use this episode? Share it with them! 💛Until next time—keep practicing the art of spousing! 🎙️💍

Ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? In this episode, we dive into The Five Voices—a powerful tool that helps you understand your unique communication style and how it interacts with your spouse’s. When you recognize your voice and your spouse’s, you can stop having the same frustrating conversations and start truly understanding each other.This episode will help you:✅ Identify your Foundational Voice (and your spouse’s!)✅ Understand why some conversations feel like a constant battle✅ Learn practical ways to use your voice to build unity instead of conflictIf you’ve ever wished for a user manual on marriage communication, this is it! Tune in, take the Five Voices Assessment (link below), and start speaking each other’s language.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Take the Free Five Voices Assessment Marriage Reboot: One-on-One Coaching with James & LisaSign up for The Weekly Practice Email - Text AOS to 66866Related Episodes:🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect🎧 Breaking Through Communication Roadblocks🎧 Unleashing the Power of Grace: Strengthen Your Marriage Through HumilityConnect with Us:📷 Instagram: @artofspousing🌐 Website: www.artofspousing.comSubscribe & Review:If this episode helped you, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps more couples build strong, resilient marriages. And if you found this conversation valuable, share it with a friend who could use these insights too! ❤️Until next time, remember: A better me = A better we. 💙

This week, James and Lisa dive into a topic that affects every marriage: communication roadblocks. Whether you're struggling with distractions, misunderstandings, or emotional reactions, today’s episode is packed with practical tools and biblical wisdom to help you break through barriers and build a deeper connection with your spouse.Episode HighlightsWhy Communication is FoundationalCommunication is the heartbeat of a healthy marriage, influencing every other area of your relationship.Poor communication can lead to frustration, disconnection, and unresolved conflict—but with intentionality, you can transform it.5 Common Communication Roadblocks & How to Overcome ThemDistracted ListeningProblem: One or both spouses aren't fully present.Fix: Use the "Five Gears" framework to shift into the right gear for meaningful connection. Spend at least 10 minutes daily in “Gear 2” with no distractions.Biblical Insight: James 1:19—“Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”Assumptions & MisunderstandingsProblem: Believing you're a mind reader, leading to miscommunication.Fix: Use the “Impact and Intent” tool and avoid J.A.D.E. (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain).Pro Tip: Practice the CLEAR Model—Clarify, Listen, Empathize, Ask, Respond.Emotional EscalationProblem: Letting emotions like anger or contempt take over.Fix: Manage the pause with E+R=O (Event + Response = Outcome). Respond with gentleness instead of reacting emotionally.Biblical Insight: Proverbs 15:1—“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”Avoiding or Controlling ConflictProblem: Stonewalling or dominating discussions.Fix: Name your feelings and set time to revisit the conversation if overwhelmed. Use the Platinum Rule: Treat your spouse how they want to be treated.Biblical Insight: Romans 12:18—“As far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”Lack of Appreciation and BalanceProblem: Conversations focus only on critiques.Fix: Adopt a 5:1 gratitude-to-critique ratio. Use tools like the Enneagram to foster empathy and celebrate your spouse’s strengths.Biblical Insight: 1 Thessalonians 5:11—“Encourage one another and build each other up.”Practical TakeawaysDedicate 10 minutes daily for distraction-free connection in “Gear 2.”Share five specific affirmations with your spouse this week.Tackle only one issue at a time during tough conversations.Resources & RecommendationsWeekly Practise: Get tools and encouragement straight to your inbox! Text AOS to 66866 to sign up.Episode Throwback:Shifting Gears for CommunicationEnneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCordMore Than Your Number with Beth and Jeff McCordGet InvolvedIf you found this episode helpful:Share it with friends who might benefit!Leave us a review—it helps others find the show.Subscribe to ensure you never miss an episode.Work With Us:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallConnect With Us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvall

In this episode, James and Lisa reflect on the lessons learned from 2024 and share practical steps for designing a thriving marriage in 2025. From navigating challenges like caregiving and career transitions to building a vision for the future, this conversation will inspire and equip you to create a marriage filled with intention and growth.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Reflect on the Past Year:Why pausing to look back can uncover valuable lessons for growth.Key questions to reflect on as a couple:What did you do well as a team in 2024?Where did you grow through challenges?How did you see God’s hand at work in your marriage?Cast a Vision for 2025:Shift from setting “to-do” goals to becoming the couple you want to be.Explore questions like:How do you want to show up for each other this year?What values will you prioritize together?Learn how choosing a shared “word of the year” can help you stay focused on your vision.Turn Vision into Action:Small, intentional steps can build a strong foundation for growth.Examples include:Scheduling regular date nights.Planning adventurous getaways.Practicing patience or gratitude daily.Let Go of What’s Holding You Back:Release habits, mindsets, or frustrations that don’t serve your marriage.Practical steps for “praying through” bitterness and creating space for new growth.Create Habits of Connection & Accountability:Simple ideas to stay connected:Quarterly marriage check-ins.Weekly highs-and-lows discussions.Celebrating small wins together.Key Resources Mentioned:Weekly Practise Email: Get marriage tips and exercises delivered to your inbox every Monday. Text AOS to 66866 to sign up.Marriage Reboot: Ready to invest deeply in your marriage? Learn about our transformative 2-day marriage coaching experience. Click here to schedule a call.Action Steps for This Week:Take 10 minutes to reflect on 2024 using the guided questions shared in this episode.Set a vision for your marriage in 2025 and choose a shared word to guide you.Identify one habit to let go of and one intentional step to take toward your vision.Share your 2025 word or goals with us on Instagram @artofspousing or email hello@artofspousing.com.Related Episodes:Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This YearThe Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanConnect with Us:  - Instagram: @artofspousing  - Website: www.artofspousing.com Subscribe & Review:  If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

In this episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa give listeners a behind-the-scenes look at their creative process as they develop a new framework for marriage growth: The Flywheel of Momentum. They share five key priorities that, when practiced intentionally, create synergy and depth in a marriage. From foundational communication to fostering growth, this episode is packed with practical insights, engaging stories, and actionable tools to help your marriage thrive.Resources mentioned in this episode:- Marriage Reboot- The Collective- The Weekly Practise Newsletter- The Five Gears- The Communication Code by Jeremie Kubicek- Stay tuned for updates on the Art of Spousing Marriage Retreat, coming Fall 2025!Related Episodes:Unlocking the Secret Sauce of Lasting Marriages with 3 Key IngredientsSix Practises For Avoiding Complacency in Your MarriageThe Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanConnect with Us:  - Instagram: @artofspousing  - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox!Subscribe & Review:  If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!Click here to view the episode transcript.

In today’s powerful episode, James and Lisa welcome Ray and Linda, a couple who overcame deep challenges in their marriage, including a rare and often misunderstood condition called Intimacy Anorexia (IA). Ray and Linda share how this condition impacted their marriage for decades, creating emotional distance and loneliness, even while they appeared outwardly successful. Through honest storytelling, they reveal how discovering IA transformed their relationship and brought lasting healing. Ray and Linda also provide insights for couples who may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stuck, and they offer hope that healing is possible.Resources mentioned in this episode:- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call- The Collective- The Weekly Practise Newsletter- Dr. Doug Weiss ResourcesIntimacy AnorexiaSin of WithholdingMarried and AloneRelated Episodes:From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration with Travis & Adelle GrahamIntentional IntimacyConnect with Ray and Linda Raya:Linda@onepurposemarriage.comRay@onepurposemarriage.comConnect with Us:  - Instagram: @artofspousing  - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox!Subscribe & Review:  If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

In this episode, James and Lisa explore the concept of liminality—the “in-between” seasons of marriage where uncertainty reigns, and you’re not quite where you were, but not yet where you’re going. Whether you're in a major life transition, feeling stuck, or simply unsure of what's next, this episode offers practical advice to navigate these challenging yet transformative moments in your marriage with intention, patience, and grace. James and Lisa also share personal stories from their own liminal seasons and provide hope for couples in similar spaces, especially those facing seasons of deep pain and loss.Resources mentioned in this episode:- The Collective- The Weekly Practise NewsletterRelated Episodes:Jeremy & Kourtney Roseberry - Courageous Faith: Finding Strength in the Face of AdversityFrom Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration with Travis & Adelle GrahamNavigating Three Types of Tension in MarriageIntentional IntimacyConnect with Us:  - Instagram: @artofspousing  - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox!Subscribe & Review:  If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

In this episode, James and Lisa return after a few months break to kick off a new season! They take us on a journey through the whirlwind of life changes they’ve faced, from becoming "empty nesters" to James' major career shift and Lisa’s experience caring for her mother. Together, they unpack how they navigated this season of transitions, challenges, and blessings while fighting to maintain a strong connection in their marriage.Key Takeaways: 1. Major Life Transitions: James shares about stepping out of 30 years of vocational ministry to launch a new tech company. Lisa reflects on how they both approached this significant career shift, even as they anticipated becoming empty nesters.  2. Embracing Unexpected Changes: Just as they were settling into their new season, Lisa’s mother moved in with them due to a diagnosis of Lewy Body Dementia. The couple opens up about how this shift in their daily lives impacted their marriage and family dynamics.  3. Fighting for Connection: Despite the disruptions, they discuss how they stayed intentional about prioritizing each other, reclaiming moments of connection, and ensuring their relationship remained a priority amidst caregiving responsibilities.  4. The Importance of Community: They explore the vital role community played during this season, both in providing support and in the emotional challenges of feeling isolated.  5. Lessons Learned: From God’s provision to the power of community and being intentional about nurturing their marriage, James and Lisa share the key lessons they’ve learned through these past months.Resources mentioned in this episode:- The CollectiveNext Episode Teaser: Join James and Lisa next time as they teach the concept of "liminality." If you’re wondering what that means and how it applies to marriage, don’t miss the upcoming episode where they unpack this intriguing idea!Connect with Us:  - Instagram: @artofspousing  - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox!Subscribe & Review:  If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages.Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

Merry Christmas, and welcome to the season four finale of the Art of Spousing Podcast!  As we wrap up another incredible season, we're grateful for the journey we've shared and excited for what Season 5 will bring. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of Christmas, exploring traditions and memories that make this season so special.We reminisce about our own Christmas experiences. We invite some of our  Season 4 guests back to share their heartwarming Christmas traditions. You'll hear:- Our Personal Memories: James reminisces about Christmas day at his grandparents' home, filled with music and laughter. Lisa shares a humorous childhood practice of sneakily unwrapping gifts and a heartwarming family tradition involving a special moon pie box.- Decorating the Tree: We hear from the Gormans about their delightful tree decorating ritual, complete with fun music and the three Christmas keys tradition.- Creative Gift Giving: Discover our family's unique tradition of creating riddles for gift tags, adding a touch of mystery and fun to our Christmas morning.- Stocking Surprises: Dive into the debate of where the best gifts belong – under the tree or in the stocking. Hear the Kushes’ story of how their stocking tradition began.- Food and Festivities: From James' standing rib roast tradition to Lisa's pumpkin bread, food plays a central role in our Christmas celebrations.- Embracing Change: We discuss how traditions evolve over time, adapting to life’s changes, as exemplified by the Robinsons and their Christmas Eve celebration.- Gift Giving with a Heart: Learn about the Luffmans' tradition of adopting a family each Christmas and their lively Christmas Eve gathering.- Gratitude and Vision: We share insights from the noble marriage, highlighting the importance of gratitude and vision planning post-Christmas.We invite you to share your Christmas traditions with us. Whether you're newly married or enjoying the golden years, every tradition enriches the festive season.From our hearts to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Join us for this festive episode as we celebrate the love, joy, and togetherness that Christmas brings. Stay tuned for Season 5, where we'll continue to explore the art of nurturing a loving, God-centered marriage. Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingStay tuned for the upcoming episodes, and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here 

In this heartwarming episode of Art of Spousing, we welcome Terry and Carol Moss, whose story is a testament to the beauty of God's grace and the power of second chances in marriage. With humor, honesty, and a deep faith, the Mosses open up about their journey from individual struggles and growth to finding unexpected love and unity in a blended family. They share the challenges of blending two families into one harmonious unit, the importance of respect and honor in marriage, and how they've navigated the complexities of co-parenting and step-parenting with grace.Terry and Carol also delve into their passionate work with blended families, offering encouragement, practical advice, and the wisdom they've gained from their own experiences. Whether you're part of a blended family or know someone who is, the Mosses' insights on maintaining a strong marital foundation amidst the "knots" of blended family life are invaluable.Moreover, the Mosses discuss their book "In the Beginning, It Was Not So," where they draw powerful lessons from the very inception of marriage as intended by God. It's an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and above all, an unshakable belief in the covenant of marriage. Join us as we explore the intricacies of blended family dynamics and learn how to strengthen your own family bonds with Terry and Carol Moss.Resources mentioned in this episode:- Marriage Reboot Discovery Call- SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter- In The Beginning, It Was Not So: Seven Marriage Lessons Learned In The GardenFor more on Terry and Carol's ministry and to connect with their community, visit:- URL: One Flesh Ministries- IG: @onefleshministries- FB: OneFleshMinistriesConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallOther Resources:Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)SUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here 

In this episode of "The Art of Spousing" podcast, hosts James and Lisa bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing the complexities and joys of marriage and family life. We start off with a light-hearted reflection on our own experiences, setting the tone for an episode filled with warmth, humor, and insightful discussions.They revisit a compelling Q&A session from a Re Engag gathering, focusing on pressing questions that resonate with many married couples. A significant part of the conversation revolves around the intricacies of nurturing intimacy in marriage, especially when balancing the demands of parenting. They introduce the concept of 'parent office hours,' a practical approach to carving out precious time for each other amidst the busy rhythms of family life.Diving into the theme of trust and transparency, James and Lisa discuss the delicate balance of managing personal devices and friendships within a marriage. Emphasizing voluntary transparency over control, we share our thoughts on building a foundation of trust and openness in a relationship.Addressing the often-misunderstood dynamics of parenting, they challenge the notion that children are a distraction to marriage. Instead, they explore how children can actually enrich the marital bond. We offer strategies for handling different stages of child development, emphasizing the impact on marital health and unity.The conversation also covers the sensitive topic of setting boundaries with extended family and in-laws. James and Lisa stress the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship while maintaining respectful and healthy relationships with extended family members.Lastly, they touch upon the importance of spiritual guidance in making major life decisions. James and Lisa highlight the need for unity and collaboration within marriage, especially when faced with significant choices.The Art of Spousing podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to grow and thrive in your relationship.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes mentioned:Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with GraceStay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here 

Do you want to deepen your connection and foster a greater understanding in your relationship? Are you seeking a solution to enhance the love between you and your spouse? Look no further. Dr. Scott Symington joins us to share the key to achieving a heightened bond and a more profound connection with your spouse. Discover how intentional acts of love can transform your relationship and bring about a result of enriched love and strengthened commitment.  Dr. Symington, co-founder of Act Agape shares how this app can foster intentionality and help you fill you and your spouse fill each other's love tank.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Connect with Guests:Website: actagape.comDr. Scott Symington IG: @drscottsymingtonConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here 

Do you long for a marriage that not only survives adversity but thrives in the face of it? Are you seeking inspiration and guidance to strengthen your relationship? Look no further because today we have a special guest, Jeremy and Kourtney Roseberry, who will be sharing the key to achieving a resilient and flourishing marriage. They have overcome immense challenges and will reveal their solution for building a marriage that withstands any storm. Get ready to unlock the secret to a marriage filled with unwavering perseverance, vulnerability, and a deep-rooted faith that leads to an unbreakable bond.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Connect with Guests:Jeremy IG: @roseberryjeremyKourtney IG: @kourtney.roseberryConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here 

In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, hosts James Duvall and Lisa Duvall dive into the importance of grace and humility in marriage. They've learned a thing or two about this topic through their own experiences and want to share their insights with you. They discuss the power of viewing your spouse through a lens of value, celebrating their strengths instead of focusing on weaknesses. They also introduce the concept of pride and how it can hinder intimacy and cause conflict in a relationship. But don't worry, they've got the antidote: humility. They define humility as having an accurate estimate of your worth and thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. They provide practical applications of humility in marriage, like putting your spouse first and being quick to listen and slow to speak. By incorporating these principles, you can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. So, if you're looking to improve communication and strengthen your marriage, this episode is definitely worth a listen!Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Support the Podcast:patreon.com/ArtofSpousingOther episodes mentioned:Shifting Gears for CommunicationConflict: The Opportunity for Unity10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse!Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here 

In this episode, James and Lisa welcome Cole and Karissa Robinson to the podcast. They share their love story, which begins with an "arranged marriage". Cole's shares candidly about his commitment issues. They hilariously recount breaking up after an introduction to Cole's mother at Disney. Despite three breakups, Karissa stuck with Cole, and they reflect on their rollercoaster journey. They discuss the importance of personal growth and self-reflection before entering marriage. Cole and Karissa share their decision to become foster parents, which initially caused some hesitation. They explain how their church gathering and a vision Karissa had inspired them to foster children. They talk about the challenges and rewards of fostering, including the emotional attachment they develop with the children. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and work-life integration. Lastly, they discuss the impact of investing in the lives of foster children and the support they receive from their church community and share two marriage tips that are sure to help any marriage relationship.Resources:Marriage Reboot Discovery CallSUBSCRIBE: Monthly NewsletterLife Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa)Life Plan Discovery Call (With James)Other episodes you'll enjoy:The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanConnect with Guests:Cole IG: @colejbrJasmine IG: @karissabrConnect with us:Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.comWebsite: artofspousing.comFB: artofspousingIG: @artofspousingJames IG: @thejamesduvallLisa IG: @lisaduvallSUBSCRIBE ON:Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsAmazon MusicArt of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application.Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here