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Author: Jordan & Milena Ciciotti

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Husband and wife duo Jordan and Milena Ciciotti take you on a raw and unfiltered journey through their lives as followers of Jesus and parents of Three. Whether they are sharing truth and Biblical wisdom, giving relationship advice, or telling funny stories of their dogs, Samson and Delilah, Jordan and Milena seek to exist as a platform for encouragement, love, and support for all who listen.
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This week’s guest has been one of the *most* influential voices in our parenting - Ginger Hubbard! You can have all the parenting books and study all the articles, yet if the Word of God is not your source of wisdom it will accomplish absolutely nothing. Ginger has taken principles found in the Word of God and teaches practical approaches to raising children that don’t just obey you, but most importantly honor the Lord. This conversation was an absolute honor!Ginger’s Wise Words for Moms chart and books referenced in this episode can all be found here https://www.gingerhubbard.com/collections/all (https://www.gingerhubbard.com/collections/all) AND she has given our listeners 10% off her resources using code ‘PARENTING’ at checkout!
Continuing our World vs. Word series, today’s “hot take” is God’s original design for raising children. When we look at the Scriptures we see how much emphasis God places on family, yet when we look at our society today we see more and more people choosing to delay starting their families or even opting to not have children at all. Our hearts behind today’s episode is to get back to the significance of why strong families are still important and desperately needed. Our children need Biblically sound parenting, but more importantly they need Jesus.
TW: miscarriage and TTC. Welcome back fam! This is an episode that is long overdue. Milena sits down with Christian Content Creator and good friend, Brittany Dawn. If you’re familiar with Brittany, you know that she boldly takes a stand for the Kingdom of God and in the wake of cancel culture doesn’t shy away from speaking the Truth. From sharing how Jesus radically saved her life, to miscarriage & trying to conceive, Brittany uses every part of her story to bring God glory. Join us for a raw and extremely vulnerable conversation on trusting God through such pain and heartache.
Dear friends, it’s an honor to reach this milestone with you all. Today marks 5 years since we released this podcast, and it’s been such a joy to share parts of our lives with you all and receive such encouraging feedback from you. Whether you have been here since the beginning or are just tuning in for the first time, we want you to feel welcomed in “our house” and experience the unfiltered truth of God’s Word and how it applies to our marriages, child rearing, and relationship with Jesus. We took 5 questions you asked us in celebration of 5 years together and answer them on this short but meaningful episode. Thank you again for your love and support, and Lord bless you!
Hey friends! This week’s episode is a continuation in our examination of the various ways in which the world’s ideas have influenced our way of life. Join us as we look at what God is calling us to regarding His institution of marriage versus the rationale the world has to offer. May God richly bless you and lead you into all truth!
Hey friends! We are thrilled to hear your feedback from last week’s episode, and how so many of you are thinking and feeling the same as we are regarding the need to take an objective look at the world around us. As we delve into our series on opting out of the ways of the world, we—like you—desire to re-examine our approach to things like marriage, raising kids, and finances in light of everything happening in the world around us. Of course, there’s no better foundation to start with than the Scriptures and how God envisioned the meaning and purpose for family from the very beginning. Genesis 1:27-28 serves as the origination point for how we can think about making changes in our family for the better, and how we can opt into what God has called us to. In this episode, we will share our thoughts as well as some rich insights from our friends Jeremy Pryor and Jeff Bethke from Family Teams. Be sure to check out their website, podcast, and resources for more content that has inspired this podcast tremendously!
Hey friends! Have you felt that it is becoming increasingly difficult in our world today to raise children in the way of the Lord and seek to live out the Scriptures in a practical way? We shouldn’t be surprised by this, as we are told throughout the Bible that we are in a spiritual battle and that we who know Jesus are “in the world but no longer of the world.” Still it seems that we are highly under-resourced, or simply not even having the conversations we ought to be having about what we should do in light of this reality. Over the next few weeks, we are going to share some ideas regarding how we plan to implement a God-honoring approach to raising our kids in 2024 and beyond. We want to preface by saying that with this approach comes the likelihood of opting out of certain systems or ways of thinking that have become commonly accepted and considered standard—even for many Christians. We are simply opening the door for conversation and not shying away from asking questions like “why do we do things in *this* way?” or “Should we do something different instead?” If you’ve felt the same or are considering your own options, we welcome you to join us as we unpack this new mini series and we welcome your feedback and insight also!Thank you to Caden Lane for sponsoring this episode! Head to CadenLane.com/myhouse and use code “myhouse” for 20% off your order.
Hey friends! This week’s episode is probably going to be a spicy one, but necessary. We want to encourage our listeners who have children how important your role as a mother or a father are in your child’s life. Confusion around the specific roles and identity of mother and father in our world today has caused a ripple effect to our children. It’s our desire to revert to an ancient, Biblical model of raising children and have a discussion around just how vital fathers and mothers are. If you’ve ever felt inconsequential to your child in your role, think again! God has made you (and no one else) the mother or father of your children for a specific purpose. Please do not take that fact for granted. If you are not yet a mom or a dad, there are many ways you can spiritually father or mother others who are younger than you who desperately need your encouragement and fellowship. If you are a single mom or dad who is seeking to honor the Lord in the way you raise your children, please know the Lord has a very special place for you in His heart. Your ability to live in such a super-human way ought to be celebrated, never shamed! Let us know your thoughts in the comments and how the Lord has called you to care for your children either biological, adopted, fostered, or spiritual.
Hey friends! In this episode, we are sharing our 2¢ on what our family & parenting plan will be as we get ready to welcome our newest addition to team Ciciotti. If you’re a new parent, first time parent, or expanding your family with us, please share with us your thoughts and feedback on what your plans look like as you make adjustments to your family rhythms. God bless you tremendously!Thank you to Hillsdale College for sponsoring this episode! Go to hillsdale.edu/MyHouse to enroll. There's no cost, and it's easy to get started.
“Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.” - ‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭13‬:‭2‬.Hey y’all! Join us on this episode as we share some of the ways we show hospitality and use our home as ground zero for ministry opportunities. As Christians, we ought to be opening up our homes as much as possible to bring others into the world of the gospel on display. Share meals, have fellowship, and involve multiple generations in your life as often as you are able to. This is how the early church operated and it serves as a model for us in the church today. Let us know your thoughts in the comments and how you practice hospitality also!
Hey all! On today's episode, we discuss some of the key mistakes we made (and still sometimes make) when it comes to our marriage and how we are striving to improve in those areas. If you want to fail in marriage, do what we did and make no changes, LOL. If however, you want to have forward progress in your marriage and not continually run into the same problems over and over, this episode is for you!Thank you to Caden Lane for sponsoring today's episode!Caden Lane is your one-stop shop for all your newborn, infant, and toddler apparel. Head toCadenLane.com/MYHOUSE and use code MYHOUSE for 20% off your order.
Hey friends! We are honored to have our dear brother and sister in Christ, Elisha and Katie, from Now That We're A Family on today's episode! We often hear about the downside of having children in today's day and age, and that position is only growing more and more popular in society. But what if we took seriously God's intent for our lives to be fruitful and multiply in all aspects of our lives, and that includes having children of our own, adopting, fostering, and mentoring the next generation? Join us as we discuss the benefits of large family teams and the joy that comes from doing life in this way for the glory of God! For more amazing content from Elisha and Katie, check out their website, www.nowthatwereafamily.com/, and follow them on Instagram at @nowthatwereafamily.
Hello Friends and Happy 2024! We pray your year is off to a good start thus far. Since announcing the news that we are expecting again, we thought it would be the perfect opportunity for Jordan to share seven ways to care for your wife during pregnancy in hopes of helping other husbands out there when they experience it. If you're a mama, let us know in the comments what your husband has done that helped you during your pregnancy!Thank you to Hillsdale College for sponsoring today's episode! Go to hillsdale.edu/myhouse to sign up for more than 40 free online courses in the most important and enduring subjects. They have numerous offerings that are sure to enrich your life and deepen your knowledge such as studies through The Book of Genesis, the Works of C.S. Lewis, or our recommendation, "Ancient Christianity."
Hey friends! It's hard to believe this is our last episode of 2023!! We are just blown away at the love and support y'all have shown us this year and we are so grateful you've been with us for the journey. We wanted to share some new adjustments we are making to our Christmas traditions in an attempt to honor the Lord in how we observe and celebrate the coming of Jesus. While we are certainly not against gifts and holiday festivities, we do want to examine our hearts inwardly to see if what we have always done should stay that way or change for the better. We pray this episode encourages you to keep the focus on Jesus and not lose sight of what (and who) really matters this Christmas season. Have a blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year! See you in 2024!A big thank you to today's sponsors:Caden Lane: Head to cadenlane.com/myhouse and use code, "myhouse" for 20% off your orderReliefBand: Get 20% off plus free shipping when you use promo code, "myhouse" at reliefband.com
What’s up Fam! Today we’re diving into the nitty gritty of what the life of a Christian should truly look like– glorifying God in ALL things. On this Christian walk, it’s crucial to reflect often, taking the time to determine if our habits are truly reflecting Christ as they should. God has given us His Spirit which allows us to live a life that is pleasing and honoring unto Him. With Christ we can do all things, but apart from Him we can do nothing. May we glorify Him in ALL things. Join us as we share from our heart to yours.
Hey friends! Wow, this episode was emotional for us (clearly lol). We thought it would be cool to take a look at some of the aspects of Jesus’s encounters with others in the gospels—and this week in particular—how his hands played such a powerful role in his ministry. We pray this episode blesses you as it has blessed us. We are honored you’re here!A big thank you to today’s sponsors!Caden Lane: Get 20% off at cadenlane.com/myhousePaint Your Life: Text “HOUSE” to 87204 to get 20% off and free shipping
Hey friends! On today’s show, we are discussing some practical ways to implement rhythms of instilling Biblical truths in your household from the time your kids are very little all the way through their young adult years. The Bible tells us that when we train up children in the way of the Lord, they will not depart from it when they are older (proverbs 22:6). And when Jesus was asked about the heavenly kingdom, he took a child and said “the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these” (Matthew 19:14). Little children have a special place in God’s heart, and he has entrusted us as parents and guardians to care for them in the same way the Lord cares for us. Let us know what you found helpful in the comments below!We are also excited to officially announce to our AFM+MH family a special project we’ve been working on called “Bible Stories for Kids” app! If you want a screen-free, immersive audio experience for your children that can be played at home, in the car, or as your child is being lulled to sleep, this is the app for you! You can check it out and download at this link: https://biblestoriesforkids.app/God bless you!
Hey friends! As you can tell, we are in a different set for today’s show, thanks to our friends at XO Marriage, whom we had the pleasure to spend some time with at their brand new headquarters facility in Southlake, Texas. We are looking forward to doing some fun stuff with XO in 2024, and can’t wait for y’all to experience it with us! On today’s episode, we provide some thoughts about how we speak to our children and how much a parent’s words weigh in a child’s life. The Lord has already brought much conviction to us in this regard, and we pray it’s an encouragement to you as you navigate conversations with your children.A big thank you to today’s sponsors!Relief Band: Get 20% off plus free shipping with promo code “myhouse” at reliefband.comCaden Lane: Go to cadenlane.com/myhouse and use code “myhouse” for 20% offPaint Your Life: Text HOUSE to 87204 to get 20% off plus free shipping
Hey y’all! It’s been a minute since we did a Q&A and these were some GOOD questions you sent in! Let us know in the comments your thoughts on the topics discussed, and tell us what questions you want us to answer next time!
Hey friends! As we pivot slightly away from our most recent series on the Spirit Realm, we thought a discussion on Halloween is both timely and relevant to what we've been discussing previously. While we both grew up trick or treating, dressing in costumes, and even going to ghost and ghoul-themed parties, our perspective on how we choose to observe Halloween has shifted greatly since becoming parents and journeying with the Lord in recent times. While we do not seek to pass judgment or condemn anyone who doesn't see eye to eye with us on this topic, we do desire to share our thoughts and convictions on why we are choosing to not celebrate Halloween and what we are still trying to figure out ourselves. Let us know in the comments what your thoughts are on the whole topic of Halloween!A big thank you to today's sponsors!Caden Lane: Head to CadenLane.com/MYHOUSE and use code MYHOUSE for 20% off your order.Trust & Will: Get 10% off plus free shipping of your estate plan documents byvisiting trustandwill.com/myhouse.Paint Your Life: Text HOUSE to 87204 to get 20% off and free shipping.
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Leah Briggs

I would LOVE a cheat sheet!!!!!

Aug 15th
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Sheha sangma

👍 thanks for the topic

Apr 23rd
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Annie Wiebe

hi your podcast is my absolute favorite most calming podcast out there but I have one question. you mentioned you don't spank and you seem to go to the Bible alot but what about the verse, He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. Proverbs 13:24 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/pro.13.24.KJV

Feb 18th
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Rebecca K Snodgrass

To the point that you made about saying “let’s not do that” or “no thank you” I am a nanny and the two year old that i nannied copied me when I told him “no thank you” when he was not supposed to be doing something. He started telling his sister “no thank you” when she did something that he did not like. And he also copied me when I said “thank you so much” to a checkout lady at the store. Cutest thing and most rewarding moment ever.

Apr 30th
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Ndifelani Ramalamula

hi guys. thanks for the wonderful episode. love it.

Apr 29th
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Sam Gray

I loved this episode. I'm trying to find your notes from it but not having any luck. can you please tell me where i can find them? Much love and God bless xx

Apr 8th
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Becca Oliver

I love all the podcasts with Milena in them!

Feb 26th
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CHELSY STRICKLAND

Im sorry this is long., but I really hope you will read, if you do hopefully it will make you two very proud of yourselves and confirm this is what God wanted you to do. I have been having a really hard time dealing with complication and understanding of my job. I feel I am 100% in the wrong place and couldn't understand why I cant get another job. I felt like there was so much more for me out there but nothing was happening. I wouldn't say I lost faith, I always knew God has something for me in his own time, but I fought against his will by being impatient. I am in such a negative place that I got wrapped up in it all and started being negative myself and really forgot about God. There would be moments where it would hit me, I hadn't talked to God in a good while. So once I realized where I was at with myself, the people I was surrounded by, and it was himpering me being a woman of God, all I wanted was to get out. Hints the impatiens. With all the rush rush to leave, being depressed

Jan 24th
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Manuela Castro

Hi Milena, there's a spelling error in your puracy link. just thought you should know!

Dec 26th
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Christen Lightchaser

Hi Milena and Jordan. I have been listening to your podcast for the past few months now. And I remember u mentioned that sometimes u refer to qotquestions.org. I just have a question bec my friend who's a Baptist kept insisting that evangelical church nowadays are not supposed to be having WOMEN as preachers/pastors and it should only be MEN who have the right to be onstage and preach to people. I kind of disagree with that. So when I went online one time, I came across this answer from gotquestions.org and they said the same thing. Lol. I mean, accdg to the Word of God, that ‘In the last days,’ God says, ‘I will pour out my Spirit upon all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy. Your young men will see visions, and your old men will dream dreams... (Acts2:17) I just thought that in North America, nowadays there are so many women who are proactive when it comes to spreading the Gospel. At school, church, in different communities, etc. But I dunno why Baptists' reasoning seem a

Dec 3rd
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steffen funk

Best podcast i have found so far yet! God bless your family🙏

Oct 3rd
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Shy M

Yes Melanie! Loved Transformation Church and the sermons posted to YouTube

Sep 10th
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Mindi Carson

loved the sign off! my pastor (whom I love - super chill, super down to earth) always ends each sermon the same way

Sep 1st
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Shy M

Had to tame the tongue this morning. This ep came in good timing. I cant agree with everything said but our words do have real power. Faith, power of decreeing, ask & shall receive (but of course everything in context).

Jul 17th
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Christina Luimes

Thanks for your desire to serve others by talking about God. I couldn't keep listening, however, because of the undertones of M wanting to be in charge and J sounding nervous to speak because she would cut him off so much and correct him all the time. As a wife, I get that. I struggle with it a lot too. I'm sure she's not disrespecting him intentionally, but it kind of boils down to that. This could also be the reason for your "not really" disagreement in the first place. Remember in Genesis, part of the curse placed on us is that the woman will always try to Lord it over the man. We are so used to it we don't even realize it. May the Holy Spirit speak to your hearts in His Word, even in this regard.

Jul 10th
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KRIS KOHO

This was such a brilliant episode in my opinion! Quite frankly, I loved listening to Dary Nagle and his explanation from scripture and the history of Easter. I learned something I never knew from growing up in the church. Thx guys for having him on.

Jun 8th
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KRIS KOHO

I love listening to u guys! I set up my ironing board (yes, some of us do still iron), and turned the podcast on to this episode. I've listened to almost every episode. Jordan, u are awesome, and no disrespect, but thank God u have Milana there to balance out the broadcast!

Jun 8th
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Brenden Weber

If you were actually trying to do your evolution and creationist episode CORRECTLY and from a genuine place of truth you’d bring on both an evolution perspective and creationist. I’ll volunteer if you’d like to do this again, I run a successful podcast, The Philosophy Guy and I would be more than happy to come on

Jun 6th
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Brenden Weber

This dude does not understand how fossil records work. Wow.

Jun 6th
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Brenden Weber

This is an absurd episode. Please do more research before spreading this junk

Jun 6th
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