Asexuals Anonymous

In this weeks episode we reply to a lovely message with some advice on being worried about people accepting your sexuality and how to be more confident with who you are. We also start our brand new segment of "Asexual Island' where we drop different asexuality identity 'bombshells' and discuss what they mean. If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comInsta: @asexualsanonymouspodcastTikTok: @amiebutler66Youtube: @amiebutler1862Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96

This week there's 3 of us! Ellie joins our conversation to tell us all about her new book; That's What She Said, which is based around a Demi sexual character. We talk about her writing journey for this story and how important it is to have this kind of representation out there. It was really interesting to talk to Ellie about her realisation story too and how she didn't feel the need to 'come out' to her family... until the book happened. Ellie's book, That's What She Said, is available to purchase all around the world.. which is handy for us because we're World Wide BABY! You can also find Ellie on instagram- @eleanorpilcherauthor & TikTok- @eleanorpilcher If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok: @amiebutler66Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcastYoutube: @amiebutler1862Amie's Insta: @amiebutlerg6

In this weeks episode we talking about experiencing a form of grief when you first realise your sexuality. How your future might look completely different to how you thought it would growing up and how this kicks off a cycle of grieving. We talk about the stages of grief and how we related/ still do relate to them now and how we got/get through each stage. If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok: @amiebutler66Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcastYoutube: @amiebutler1862Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96

In this weeks episode we discuss a relationship without sex and different ways that might look. We talk about virgin island coming to an end and our final thoughts.How being a virgin may be thought of a bit differently now and although the social norms around loosing virginity may not of changed, how people view virgins might have. Also how we know what we want and don't want regarding a relationship and intimacy.If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok: @amiebutler66Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcastYoutube: @amiebutler1862Amie's Insta: @amiebutlerg6

In this weeks episode we talk to Maya and discuss her asesxual identity. Maya is from the US and discovered she was asexual after being married and in a relationship for 7 years. She didn't know asexuality was a real thing until her, at the time, partner spoke to her about it. She never really experienced any real interest in sex or felt any sexual attraction. Whenever she engaged in sexual behaviour she explains it as just an act and she thought that must be how everyone felt. She is still wanting to stay anonymous but it is something she wants to work on- letting people know the real Maya. This was a gorgeous conversation and we really appreciate Maya's generosity and taking the time to talk on the pod. If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! Or if you would like to be a guest on the show, please get in touch!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok: @amiebutler66Insta: @asexualsanonymouspodcast Youtube: @amiebutler1862Amie's Insta: @amiebutler96

In this weeks episode we talk about, can you be too early on telling your date about your asexuality? Virgin Island's steps of dating, and still having romantic/physical/sensual attention whilst being ace. Make sure you are following us on our new instagram page-@asexualsanonymouspodcast, where will be posting more content and interacting with you all. Every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96Youtube- amiebutler1862

In this weeks episode we chat about the first episode of a new UK Series, Virgin Island. We discuss how we, if at all, related to the islanders, and how it was a bit of an uncomfortable watch.. but also why? Why is something the world is obsessed with (sex), such a taboo subject to talk about? If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@asexualsanonymouspodcast @amiebutler96

This week we talk a lot about a new TV show called Virgin Island and how we feel about this concept of a show. Make sure you are following us on our new instagram page-@asexualsanonymouspodcast, where will be posting more content and interacting with you all. We are so proud of this podcast community we have built and appreciate every single one of you that listen and message in.Every download, subscribe, rate, like comment is really noticed and appreciated!If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96

In this weeks episode we chat a lot about different theories and how they have influenced our lives for the better with more positive thinking, which is always needed. We play a game of agree or disagree and also a little dating school update! We have a new Instagram page - @asexualsanonymouspodcast so please give that a follow if you haven't already! If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96

In this episode we have a lovely catch up after our week off, dive into the lovely emails from you lovely listeners, and talk about needing to educate ourselves on the aromantic spectrum. If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96

A short but sweet one this week. In this episode we have another amazing email to reflect on. Bringing up conversations on the value of labels, femininity within males and the thought of taking the podcast across the pond...??If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96

In this episode we talk about why the world and as individuals we are 'obsessed' and fascinated with sex. From school life into adult life, sex is everywhere but we are never actually educated about it properly. Does this lead to an obsession, and want, to find out more? If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96

In this episode we read more emails from you listeners! We discuss the phrase 'Love Is Love' and talk about if it is exclusive to parts of our community or not. We also talk about whether being aromatic is under the asexual umbrella. As we state a lot in these episode, we are not experts, we just give our opinions on topics like these, which are open to change and disagreement. We absolutely love hearing other peoples thoughts, whether they agree or not, discussions like these only lead to furthering our education on sexualities and opening our minds. Thank you so much to everyone who is emailing in or messaging, we appreciate every single one. If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do!You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96

In this weeks episode, we set up Amie's hinge profile and talk about dating apps and how we feel about maybe not 100% knowing our identity or the kind of person we are looking for in a relationship. We also talk about reinventing ourselves when out and meeting people in bars by having fake jobs.. which always led to an entertaining night out. A massive thank you to everyone who has already got in touch, we really appreciate it!If you would like to message us with any questions, stories, or advice, please do! You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96

This week we have our anonymous friend back with us and we discuss more of your lovely messages. We talk about figuring out your sexualities at different ages, finding other asexuals and how you pronounce Aroace. We also talk about how we thought and saw life at 16 and how it has not panned out as we may have once thought. Please leave comments, like, rate, subscribe, download.. all the bits to help us push this podcast out to the world!And also Please get in touch with any questions, stories, or advice.You're more than welcome to stay anonymous is you'd prefer, we understand not everyone is comfortable talking publicly about sexuality.asexualsanon@hotmail.comTikTok-@amiebutler66Insta-@amiebutler96