Ask & Tell

Ask & Tell is a series where friends B (a het/cis male) and J (a het/cis female) ask all the taboo questions about sex, dating and romance and tell no lies. Featuring diverse guests, each episode boldly tackles topics ranging from giving good head, to body positivity to finding your kink.

Episode 11 - My Body, My Body, My Body.

B shares some big news, J shares some surprising news, and then the two compare notes on VR porn and body image.Send us your listener questions! askandtellpod@gmail.comhttps://www.instagram.com/askandtellpod/

01-26
51:32

Episode 10 - The Best and Worst of Dating in 2021

J and guest co-host C reflect on their best and worst dates, kisses, sexual encounters and more in this New Year’s episode.

01-05
01:33:14

Episode 9 - When Bad Relationships Get Worse

J navigates the “he’s just not that into you” conundrum after a second date and B reflects on his experience in an emotionally abusive relationship.Send in your listener questions! askandtellpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram @askandtellpod

12-15
01:05:52

Episode 8 - The Sex Toy Situation

B & J explore the ins and outs of sex toys, including the risks of homemade contraptions and the joys of dildos, butt plugs and partner-controlled devices. Send your listener questions to askandtellpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram @askandtellpod

12-01
47:03

Episode 7 - Un/Ethical Non Monogamy

It’s the ultimate taboo… J slept with a married man. B asks all the questions, J tells no lies, and they explore all the dirty, messy ethical dimensions of her choice.Send your listener questions to askandtellpod@gmail.comOR direct message us on instagram @askandtellpod

11-17
01:00:36

Episode 6 - The Threesome

B&J discuss visible sex-injuries and J spills the tea on her first threesome and newfound status as a unicorn.Send listener questions to askandtellpod@gmail.comFollow us on instagram @askandtellpod

11-04
59:58

Episode 5 - Two Friends, a Pornstar, and a Therapist Walk into a Bar

B shares what it’s like starting a porn clip only to find an old friend in the starring role. G, a sex therapist, provides an introduction to his work and passion, your sexual health.We want to hear from you! Send your questions to askandtellpod@gmail.com and we will address them on the podcast.Follow us on Instagram @askandtellpod

10-20
32:58

Episode 4 – Summer Lovin’ (AKA: The Triple Crown Episode)

B & J check-in after an extended summer hiatus. Topics include the hilarity that ensues when J inadvertently triggers the "save me" sex alarm during a blazing hot encounter and B finding himself in L-O-V-E.

10-06
43:30

Episode 3 - Cunnilingus Quorum

J processes getting cut off from some high-quality "d" and B helps her reframe the experience. R joins the crew for a multi-generational pussy panel, touching on changes in the culture around female pleasure over the last two decades and diving into the complexities of cunnilingus.eks5RA4aBLZkqF8DCTh7

09-22
30:06

Episode 2 - BJ Bonanza

J provides an update on the continuing success of her sex post, B dives into the stigma around not being able to "get it up" when getting down with his lover and C - a man who has given 3000 blow jobs - joins the crew to discuss giving really good head.

09-22
01:02:44

Episode 1 - How to Get Laid In a Day

Ask & Tell is a new series where friends B (a het/cis male) and J (a het/cis female) ask all the taboo questions about sex, dating and romance and tell no lies. Featuring diverse guests, each episode boldly tackles topics ranging from giving good head, to body positivity to finding your kink. In this episode, B & J discuss the art of a Reddit sex post and the necessity of a safety plan for hookups with strangers.

09-22
36:07

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