Attack Life Not Others

Tim and Steve talk about how big goals don’t happen overnight — they come from small steps every day. They share how even a champion like Larry Holmes had to win one fight at a time to reach the top. The message is simple: stick to a winning process, focus on little wins each day, and you’ll get closer to your dreams.

Tim and Steve talk about how things have changed from the old days to now. They remember when food, like McDonald’s fries, used to be made in a healthier way, and laugh about kids today not even knowing what a pay phone is. They explain how life with Siri and smartphones can be helpful, but we still need old-school habits like moving our bodies, sitting up straight, and eating real food. The big message is that we need to balance new technology with smart choices and lessons from the past.

“You know, I never looked down the road and said, 'Hey look, one day, the Hall of Fame.' It's always about playing each and every game 100 percent and I thank my teammates for getting me into the Hall because football is a team sport, not an individual sport.” — Jerry Rice

Tim and Steve take a deeper look at what “true fame” really means. It’s not about followers, headlines, or being in the spotlight. Instead, it’s about lasting fulfillment: feeling healthy, secure, connected, and at peace with yourself. The conversation breaks down the four pillars of a truly fulfilling life — mental health, physical health, financial freedom, and meaningful relationships. These are what create those rare “perfect days” where everything just feels right. Fame in the traditional sense often fades. Too many celebrities and athletes struggle once the applause dies down. Real success is found in resilience, balance, and living in line with your values — not in chasing temporary recognition. At its heart, this episode is about redefining success. True fame is building a life you don’t just remember, but cherish — one filled with joy, strength, freedom, and connection.

“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.” — Albert Einstein

Tim and Steve explore the enduring power of words, reflecting on the wisdom of historical religious figures like Buddha, Christ, and Muhammad, along with Seneca and other Stoics. They discuss history’s peaks of enlightenment, the lasting truth found in the written word — especially the Bible — and the importance of seeking light and wisdom in a world often filled with disorder.

“If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.” — Albert Einstein

Tim Hoover and Steve Mittman dive into how martial arts shaped Tim’s life — and how its principles can apply to anyone seeking purpose. From childhood inspiration to becoming a sensei, Tim shares how discipline, growth, and passing on knowledge fuel fulfillment. They discuss the danger of “mailing it in,” the power of taking small steps, and why purpose matters more than ever in today’s world. Whether or not you practice martial arts, this episode will inspire you to live with intention, face fear, and keep learning.

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” — Mahatma Gandhi

Tim and Steve talk about the power of everyday conversations — especially with strangers like Uber drivers. Some drivers are quiet, others love to chat — but each ride shows how a small moment of connection can brighten someone’s day. They also touch on how society is becoming more disconnected — and how even a smile or quick “hello” to a waiter, cashier, or stranger can make a difference. It’s a simple message: be kind, be open, and don’t be afraid to talk to people. You never know the impact you might have.

“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” — Marcus Aurelius

Tim and Steve explore the power of being present and attuned to the moment, especially in how we connect with others. They reflect on how rigid expectations and a linear mindset can hinder growth — whether in personal relationships or martial arts. Drawing from real experiences, they emphasize the importance of sensitivity, receptivity, and creating space for genuine connection.

“You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” — Marcus Aurelius “The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.” — Marcus Aurelius

Tim Hoover shares how a cancer diagnosis at 36 became a life-changing blessing The power of adversity to teach gratitude and perspective Why doing the hard work matters — especially when life gets tough The vital role of community, family, faith, and friendship — your “tribe” Steve Mittman highlights the importance of taking ownership of your circumstances A call to action: find your tribe — whether through faith, martial arts, or meaningful relationships A powerful reminder: resilience grows through connection and support

“I feel like I'm the best, but you're not going to get me to say that.” — Jerry Rice

Tim Hoover and Steve Mittman talk about endurance — how going through hard times builds real strength. Tim shares how he trains his martial arts students to push through both physical and mental challenges. He explains that nothing worthwhile comes easy, and even young kids can understand the value of earning something. They discuss how today’s generation often avoids struggle, but real growth only comes when you push past your limits. Endurance isn’t just about the body — it’s about the mind staying strong when things get tough.

“It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor.” — Seneca

Discipline today creates freedom tomorrow. Tim shares a recent conversation with Bernie, a living example of vitality and wisdom, to explore the true meaning of the "golden years." Bernie talks about the four pillars of a fulfilling life — mental health, physical health, financial freedom, and meaningful connection. From daily prayer and stair climbing to lessons in hard work and shared happiness, Bernie reminds us that a rich life is built with intention. The golden years, Bernie teaches, aren't just for the elderly — they start whenever we commit to living well.

“Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.” — Marcus Aurelius

Seneca’s quote, "No man was ever wise by chance," sets the tone for this episode as Tim and Steve explore how wisdom isn’t a byproduct of aging alone, but the result of intentional effort, experience, and learning. Aging alone does not guarantee wisdom; it is the experiences we gather and the lessons we learn from them that shape our understanding of life. Growing older comes with a unique opportunity to acquire wisdom, but this process is not automatic. It requires intentional effort — an active engagement with the world and the people around us.