Bebe and Toro introduce themselves and the podcast, and begin to walk through Bebe’s story starting with her escape from an abusive marriage with her three young children in tow, and the circumstances that prompted it. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe recounts the details of her harrowing escape and the aftermath. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe converses with her parents about their close observations and perspectives, especially the happenings in the aftermath of her daring escape from the clutches of Paulinus and his family. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe talks about the different levels and dimensions of the physical abuse she endured at the hands of Paulinus. She highlights the added danger/elevated abuse during her pregnancies. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe talks about the different levels and dimensions of the physical abuse she endured at the hands of Paulinus. She narrates the famed Feb 2020 incident that marked the beginning of the end for her. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe discusses her state of extreme lack (SAPA) and financial neglect at the hands of Paulinus, even as the family kept expanding. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe recounts in detail, some of her traumatic sexual experiences (abuse) at the hands of Paulinus, and his weaponization of his bio-waste. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe recounts in detail, some of her traumatic sexual experiences (abuse) at the hands of Paulinus, and his sexual misconduct with others. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe addresses Paulinus’ lengthy and scandalous email response to her 21 Nov 2021 email, and escape. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe addresses individual members of Paulinus’ family. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe describes the red flags she ignored right from the very first day she met Paulinus, all the way through the relationship, and marriage. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe speaks with on-ground friend and ally Roxy about their close observations and perspective. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe speaks with sister Lulu about their close observations and perspective. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*
Bebe speaks with her oldest friend and ally Mendz about their close observations and perspective, and their awareness about Bebe’s abusive marriage. Guidance and Support for Victims of Intimate Partner Violence *All characters have been anonymized through the use of pseudonyms*