BDSM Reimagined

In one of his favourite and probably most important episodes, Michael uses the video essay "How Fight Club Turns Men into Space Monkeys" by the YouTube channel "Like Stories of Old", to discuss how it parallels the dynamics of dominance and submission, particularly the appeal of the "unconflicted" alpha figure. Michael reflects on human instincts around hierarchy, the yearning for role models, and how individuals surrender their individuality in the pursuit of symbolic immortality. He emphasises the importance of critically examining the motivations behind following dominant figures and how these connections offer a sense of meaning and escape from existential fears. Watch the video NOW: Like Stories Of Old: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymgoem4v4u4&t=66s Please like, comment and subscribe to his channel. Featuring; ‘Where Is My Mind’ cover by Alex Voulgaris (Follow Alex at @alexvgr)  ‘Where Is My Mind’ cover by Gattobus Additional Music: Skyler Lawson – Eclater Luke Atencio – Projections Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode, Michael updates listeners on his recent experiences with dating and navigating the complexities of financial domination (fandom). He shares reflections on a fragile connection he formed with someone he met, noting the emotional highs and lows of the dynamic. The episode delves into the struggles of finding authentic connections in the kink and dating scenes, as well as the psychological aspects behind his desires. Michael also touches on the impact of therapy and his inner child work, highlighting the intricate layers of guilt, power, and control that shape his experiences. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode, Michael talks about his recent break up and where that has led him. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode, Michael contacts Phil from Master Slave Lifestyle to see if he could help some of the shame he holds around his kink. Phil uses his coaching skills to give solid advice that would be helpful for anyone in a similar situation. Website: masterslavelifestyle.com Podcast: @masterslavelifestylepodcast Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode, Michael discuss how meeting someone has potentially changed his sexual identity. However, it can't be that easy... can it? He also gives a brief update on his inner child work and how this may have played a part. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode, Michael shares his encounter with his deepest fantasy about chavs. However, there is an unexpected twist to the story... Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

I talk with Phil, the creator of the Master Slave Lifestyle website and podcast (masterslavelifestyle.com), about my journey into and out of Findom. This episode premiered on his podcast Jan 2024, recorded late 2023.

In this episode, Michael shares his personal journey of deciding to stop being a sex worker. He talks about how he started in the industry, the enjoyment and challenges it brought, and why he chose to leave. Michael highlights the conflict between his online persona and his true self, the demands of the job, and its impact on his relationships and personal growth. He sees this change as a new beginning to explore his interests, form deeper connections, and live more in the moment. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode Michael opens up about the complexities of navigating a recent breakup and how it has impacted his exploration of intimacy and kink. He also discusses the exciting yet challenging world of escorting, sharing insights into his new venture and the deeper motivations behind it. Michael also reflects on the difficulties of satisfying his own kinks and the emotional toll it takes. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode, Michael gives an update on his therapeutic work with his inner child. He talks about feeling a sense of confidence from a previous session with the therapist but also still finding it hard to identify his needs and wants in the bedroom. He also announces two new social accounts: one for his kink and one for possible sex work. He speaks about his fears around addiction and also wonders how to tell people he dates about... all this. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

To change things up, Michael gets intimate with the face of the fetish platform Recon. Antoin, also known as @ajfs71, opens up for a personal and revealing tell-all. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In this episode of BDSM Reimagined, Michael speaks about his latest therapy session where he encounters his inner child. He talks about how he's been working on understanding the parts of him that make it tough to really connect or stay in the moment when things get sexual or intimate. He also shares a curious similarity he noticed with a recent submissive he met, and how at times, it reminded him of the therapy work he's been doing. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

In Part 1 of this episode, Michael explores the current conditions that are leading him to flirt with the idea, and at times enact, paying men for sex - in particular straight men. He speaks about why it is straight men that activate him, the difficulty of finding someone into the same kinks, the burden he feels he puts on others for wanting what he desires, and also explores how he is shocked that people actually want to be sexual with him at all. Originally released a week later, but now included as one, Part 2 explores a further dimension of this behaviour. Michael speaks about how a recent break up has lead him to have lower moods making him more inclined to do things he feels he would not normally do. He also speculates that the urge to pay men could be an indicator to his own needs not being met. The space he pays for is a place he could satisfy his needs without feeling guilt. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

The philosopher Baruch Spinoza, in his Tractatus de Intellectus Emendatione, wrote: "For as far as sensual pleasure is concerned, the mind is so caught up in it, as if at peace in a [true] good, that it is quite prevented from thinking of anything else. But after the enjoyment of sensual pleasure is passed, the greatest sadness follows. If this does not completely engross, still it thoroughly confuses and dulls the mind." Arthur Schopenhauer, writing later on the phenomenon, observed that "directly after copulation the devil's laughter is heard." In this episode, Michael aims to further explore aspects of his sexual life, documenting areas that can become obstacles. Here, he shares his experiences living with Postcoital Dysphoria (PCD). While he has previously discussed this topic in earlier seasons (S1E5 Extras), he goes into more detail here. Study: One study (1) reported that among a sample of 1208 male participants, 40% of them had experienced PCT at least once in their lifetime and 20% reported experiencing PCT in the four weeks preceding the study. This study also reports that 3–4% of the sample experienced PCT symptoms on a regular basis. (1) Maczkowiack, Joel; Schweitzer, Robert D. (July 2018). "Postcoital Dysphoria: Prevalence and Correlates among Males" (PDF). Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy. 45 (2): 128–140. doi:10.1080/0092623X.2018.1488326. PMID 30040588. S2CID 51717755. Reports are much higher for females. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

Join Michael in a new chapter of BDSM Reimagined, where he delves into his personal exploration of sexual preferences and behaviours. With a fresh approach featuring short, introspective episodes, Michael seeks to uncover the layers of gay sexuality around the traditional labels. In this candid instalment, he confronts the expectations and pressures from dating apps to the roles of dominance and submission, sharing his internal battle with societal norms. 'Meeting Michael' is not just a podcast—it's a raw and intimate glimpse into the challenges of defining sex and identity in today's world, especially as one approaches their late 30s. This series is for anyone looking for solidarity, insight, or an open dialogue on the diverse spectrum of sexual experiences. Tune in to connect, reflect, and perhaps discover a part of yourself in 'Meeting Michael. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (02:07) Admin-shmadmin (03:24) Michael's Update (20:11) Indy's Update In this episode of BDSM Reimagined, the hosts Indy and Michael conclude Season 4. They take the opportunity to share personal reflections on their respective journeys. Michael discusses his experiences with relationships, shedding light on the role of social media platforms like Twitter and Instagram in shaping connections and communication. Additionally, he opens up about his identity as a submissive within the BDSM community, exploring how it has impacted his life and relationships. On the other hand, Indy delves into her own journey with intimacy, discussing the various aspects she has encountered and navigated throughout her experiences. She also addresses her exploration of gender identity, revealing how this aspect of her life has evolved over time. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. In this episode of BDSM Reimagined, hosts Indy and Michael delve into the question: "Do I Need Therapy?" They explore the topic within the context of kinks and fetish lifestyles, aiming to determine whether therapy is necessary and beneficial for individuals embracing their unique sexual preferences. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

Please rate our show! It helps us more than you know. (00:30) Fantasy and Analysis (33:30) After Thoughts In Part 2 of the episode, the focus was on Kitty's growth as a femme domme. It delved into her process of self-discovery, learning, and gaining knowledge about BDSM practices, consent, negotiation, and communication. This section explored the resources, communities, or mentors that Kitty sought out to deepen her understanding of her dominant role. Throughout this phase of her journey, Kitty faced various challenges. She encountered societal judgments and misconceptions about BDSM, which required her to navigate and challenge the prevailing stereotypes. Additionally, she experienced personal struggles with embracing her desires and effectively communicating them within her relationships. However, Kitty persevered, determined to explore and embrace her dominant side. She actively sought out educational resources, attending workshops and seminars to expand her knowledge of BDSM dynamics and techniques. These learning opportunities not only provided her with practical skills but also helped her cultivate a deeper understanding of the importance of consent, boundaries, and aftercare in the context of BDSM. Moreover, Kitty's journey as a femme domme was not just about power dynamics but also about emotional and psychological growth. She engaged in self-reflection and introspection, discovering aspects of herself that she had not fully explored before. This inner exploration allowed her to better understand her own desires, boundaries, and the ways in which she could create fulfilling and consensual power exchange dynamics within her relationships. By embracing her identity as a femme domme and actively seeking personal growth, Kitty not only empowered herself but also became a source of inspiration and support for others within the BDSM community. Her journey exemplified the importance of self-acceptance, education, and communication in creating healthy and consensual power dynamics. Throughout the episode, the aim was to provide a respectful and insightful portrayal of Kitty's experiences, emphasising her agency, personal growth, and the consensual nature of her exploration. By shedding light on her backstory, critical moments, and the evolution of her identity as a femme domme, the episode sought to foster understanding, awareness, and empathy towards alternative sexual expressions and lifestyles. We would like to remind listeners of the incredible bravery and honesty of our guests. Please treat our guests with compassion as they reveal profoundly intimate details about their personal and sexual life. It is important to remember that our sexual fantasies can often change and so these accounts are only a snapshot of a moment that could have already shifted and changed by the time you've listened. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

Please rate our show! It helps us more than you know. (00:15) Intro (01:20) Upbringing In this two-part episode, the focus is on Kitty and her journey to becoming a femme domme. The term "femme domme" refers to a dominant woman who engages in consensual power dynamics, often within the context of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism). Kitty's story sheds light on her personal experiences and the critical points that shaped her path. Part 1 of the episode delves into Kitty's early life and background. It explores her upbringing, relationships, and influences that eventually led her to discover her interest in dominance and power dynamics. This section may delve into Kitty's exploration of her sexuality, her initial encounters with BDSM concepts, and the gradual realization that she identified as a dominant woman. The episode may highlight various milestones and critical moments in Kitty's journey. These could include significant relationships or encounters that helped her further understand her desires and preferences as a femme domme. It might also touch upon the emotional and psychological aspects involved in embracing and expressing her dominant side. We would like to remind listeners of the incredible bravery and honesty of our guests. Please treat our guests with compassion as they reveal profoundly intimate details about their personal and sexual life. It is important to remember that our sexual fantasies can often change and so these accounts are only a snapshot of a moment that could have already shifted and changed by the time you've listened. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:15) Intro (01:12) Fetishes and Kinks (03:00) Upbringing (37:37) Fantasy and Analysis (52:40) Final Thoughts In this episode we take a look at Adam's kink - race play. Although quite a controversial topic, it exists. And like always, Indy and Michael like to delve deep to explore why. We speak to Adam not just about his sexual interests, but his upbringing and how is formative years have influenced his desires. We would like to remind listeners of the incredible bravery and honesty of our guests. Please treat our guests with compassion as they reveal profoundly intimate details about their personal and sexual life. It is important to remember that our sexual fantasies can often change and so these accounts are only a snapshot of a moment that could have already shifted and changed by the time you've listened. You can find Adam on Twitter at @adz792. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ