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BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery

BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Author: Lisa Limehouse - Christian Betrayal Trauma Specialist, Affair Recovery Coach, Certified Life Coach, Phoenix Rising
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Hope and Healing for Christian Women
Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again?
In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal.
If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place.
Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought.
Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair.
The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?”
I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan.
I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level.
But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal.
If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you!
So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire.
Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/
Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/
Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again?
In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal.
If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place.
Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought.
Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair.
The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?”
I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan.
I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level.
But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal.
If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you!
So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire.
Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/
Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/
Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
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How do you talk about betrayal without causing more pain? After infidelity, every conversation about what happened can feel like walking into a battlefield. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa shares how couples can discuss the betrayal in a way that promotes healing rather than retraumatization.
You’ll discover:
Why creating a safe space is essential before discussing the betrayal
The importance of setting ground rules and respectful communication
How “I” statements reduce defensiveness and foster connection
Practical boundaries around timing and duration of conversations
5 steps to move into non-traumatizing, healing-focused dialogue
These tools will help you and your spouse begin rebuilding trust, restoring communication, and moving forward on your healing journey. And if you’re ready to go deeper, this is exactly what we walk couples through inside Marriage Redesigned—our faith-based coaching program that helps you move beyond behavior fixes into true heart transformation so your marriage can be rebuilt on a stronger foundation than before.
If you’re ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way, start here.
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After betrayal, one of the deepest wounds a wife carries is the loss of safety. In this powerful episode, Lisa unpacks what “feeling unsafe” really means to a betrayed spouse, what safety looks like in the aftermath of infidelity, and why it’s the unfaithful husband’s responsibility to help rebuild it.
You’ll discover five practical ways to create safety again—through honesty, consistency, transparency, empathy, and intentional growth. These are the very foundations couples work through inside Marriage Redesigned, the coaching program designed to help couples heal from betrayal and rebuild a marriage that’s stronger, healthier, and more connected than ever before.
If you’re ready to understand your wife’s pain and take the first steps toward rebuilding trust and intimacy, this episode will guide you in the right direction—and Marriage Redesigned can walk with you the rest of the way.
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Are you resentful that you’re the one doing all the healing work after betrayal? It feels unfair—you didn’t cause the affair or the lies, yet you’re left carrying the heavy weight of betrayal trauma. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa unpacks why healing, as unjust as it feels, is still your choice, your responsibility, and your gift to yourself.
You’ll discover 3 powerful steps to move out of resentment and step into healing, freedom, and hope. Learn how to shift your mindset from “Why me?” to “What now?”, reclaim your daily power through practical tools, and release resentment through biblical truth.
If you’re ready to break free from bitterness and step into God’s restoration, this episode is for you.
🔑 Key Takeaways:
Why healing from betrayal trauma is about freedom, not fairness
3 steps to release resentment and reclaim peace
How forgiveness sets you free (without excusing the betrayal)
The biblical foundation for choosing your own healing journey
✨ Ready for a deeper path to healing? Discover Lisa’s self-guided 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Sexual sobriety is about more than your behavior—it begins in your thought life. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse unpacks why your thoughts matter, how they shape your feelings, beliefs, and actions, and why true freedom requires taking every thought captive and submitting it to Christ.
You’ll discover:
The biblical foundation for renewing your mind (2 Corinthians 10:5, Romans 12:2, Philippians 4:8)
What neuroscience reveals about how your thought patterns create or break addictions
How to rewire your brain through God’s truth
5 practical steps to take every thought captive and walk in lasting sexual sobriety
If you’ve ever struggled to break free from lust, pornography, or sexual sin, this episode will give you both biblical wisdom and brain-based strategies to help you finally overcome.
👉 Ready to rebuild your marriage after betrayal? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned program
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Have you ever tried to explain betrayal trauma to a therapist, pastor, family member, or friend—only to be met with blank stares, clichés, or advice that left you feeling even more alone? You’re not crazy, and you’re not overreacting. Betrayal trauma is real, and in this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I’ll give you the exact language to help others finally understand.
You’ll discover:
3 powerful ways to explain what betrayal trauma really is
How betrayal trauma impacts your body, mind, and spirit
3 specific things you can share about what you need in order to heal
If you’ve ever felt unseen or unheard in your pain, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and hope as you invite others into your healing journey.
And if you’re ready to go deeper, my 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program is designed to help you move from shattered to restored—step by step, God’s way. Don’t wait to begin your healing.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Is he gaslighting you after betrayal?
In this powerful episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse uncovers the 5 clear signs of gaslighting after infidelity—and what Christian women can do to stop the emotional manipulation for good.
If you’ve ever felt confused, questioned your memory, or started to believe you’re the problem… this episode is for you.
Lisa breaks down what gaslighting looks like in a marriage rocked by sexual betrayal, how it keeps you stuck in shame and doubt, and the biblical truth and boundaries that will help you reclaim your voice, your clarity, and your healing.
🌸 Ready to take the next step?
Join the Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood—a free private Facebook community for Christian women healing from betrayal trauma
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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After betrayal, rebuilding trust can feel impossible—especially if every conversation starts to feel like an interrogation.
In today's episode, Christian marriage coach Lisa Limehouse reveals the top daily check-in routine that helps couples restore trust and connection without turning the betrayed spouse into a parole officer.
You’ll learn why proactive, consistent check-ins—led by the unfaithful spouse—create emotional safety, foster accountability, and help both partners begin to heal. Lisa walks you through the exact 5-question nightly routine she teaches inside her Marriage Redesigned Coaching Program, along with Scripture and real-life examples.
Whether you're the betrayed or the unfaithful spouse, this is a must-listen episode filled with practical tools and biblical truth to guide your healing journey.
🔗 Ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned coaching program.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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If you’re the unfaithful spouse wondering how to rebuild trust after infidelity, this episode is for you. Today, I'm sharing powerful insight on why behavior modification isn’t enough—and how true heart transformation is what your wife desperately needs to see.
Learn why early recovery often feels like "checking boxes" and how that structure actually helps you stay the course and support your wife's healing. I offer 3 clear ways to demonstrate real change, plus 3 traits every man becoming new in Christ begins to show—humility, consistency, and servant leadership.
Backed by Scripture and real-world examples, this episode is your next step toward becoming the man God created you to be.
🔥 Ready to restore your marriage after betrayal? Learn about my Marriage Redesigned program and book your free consult at MARRIAGE REDESIGNED
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
What do you do when you unexpectedly see the other woman in public?
Today's episode is vulnerable and truth-filled. I'm guiding you through one of the most emotionally triggering moments after infidelity.
Learn how to manage your trauma response, why confronting the other woman won’t bring healing, and the 3 best practices to protect your peace and walk away with strength. Anchored in biblical truth and practical tools, this episode is a must-listen for any betrayed wife navigating the aftermath of an affair.
💔 Ready to start healing today?
Grab the 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma self-paced course HERE
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Keywords: Christian betrayal recovery, infidelity healing, seeing the other woman, how to deal with triggers, betrayal trauma response, Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse, 7 Pillars program, affair recovery, Christian podcast for betrayed wives
When healing after betrayal, there is one boundary that absolutely must be in place before trust can be rebuilt: complete severance from the affair partner — or the complete cutoff of pornography if addiction is the issue.
In this episode, I'm explaining why this boundary is the non-negotiable first step toward safety, healing, and restoration. You'll learn what boundaries are, what they’re not, how to set them biblically, and how to follow through — even when it’s hard.
If you’re ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way: MARRIAGE REDESIGNED
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
When your husband chooses infidelity, it’s easy to internalize the betrayal and wonder, “What did I do wrong?”
Today, I'm exposing one of the most damaging lies betrayed wives believe: that his betrayal means you failed.
I'm unpacking why infidelity is never the wife’s fault, what’s truly at the root of his choices, and how societal and even church-driven messages have wrongly placed the burden of a husband’s sexual sobriety on the wife’s shoulders. You’ll discover the emotional and spiritual damage this belief causes—and how to begin healing your mindset, releasing shame, and reclaiming your worth.
If you’ve ever wrestled with guilt, shame, or self-blame after betrayal, this is the episode your heart needs.
🔗 Ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned coaching program.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Keywords: infidelity recovery, betrayed wife healing, Christian marriage betrayal, shame after affair, self-worth after betrayal, betrayal trauma, marriage coaching after affair
How can you tell if your husband is truly remorseful or just feeling guilty after infidelity? In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm breaking down the critical difference between guilt and true remorse—and why that distinction matters deeply for your healing journey as a betrayed wife.
You’ll learn:
Clear definitions and examples of guilt vs. true remorse
How to recognize when your spouse is just “checking boxes”
The top 3 signs that reveal whether he’s walking in true repentance
Why true remorse is essential for rebuilding trust
What you can do when guilt is present but transformation is not
I'm also sharing how my Marriage Redesigned program helps couples go beyond surface-level change to rebuild their relationship God’s way—through full ownership, heart transformation, and lasting healing.
If you’re tired of wondering whether his apology is real—or you just need clarity—this episode will equip you with the wisdom and encouragement you need.
True Apology | E117: Listen Here
👉 Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned coaching program: Schedule your Consult Here
💬 Let’s connect on Instagram: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
How long does it really take to heal after betrayal?
Today's episode is for couples who are seeking to restore your marriage after betrayal.
I'm breaking down the truth about the healing timeline after infidelity—and why there’s no “one size fits all” when it comes to restoring a marriage shattered by betrayal. You’ll discover the 5 major stages every couple must walk through, why your healing might not look like someone else's, and how to navigate the ups and downs without losing hope.
Whether you're the betrayed or the unfaithful spouse, this episode will give you the roadmap and encouragement you need to stay the course.
Plus, learn how our Marriage Redesigned coaching program can guide you step-by-step through the full restoration process—with a proven 94% success rate.
Keywords: healing after infidelity, betrayal trauma recovery, how long to heal after affair, Christian marriage restoration, Marriage Redesigned program
🎧 Listen now and take the next step toward true healing—together.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Commit to Full Disclosure: Why Secrets Keep You Stuck After Infidelity
Today, I'm revealing why full therapeutic disclosure is essential for couples healing after sexual betrayal or an affair.
Learn what true disclosure involves, how it helps both partners begin real restoration, and what the latest research shows about its impact.
Plus, get a sneak peek into the Marriage Redesigned program—a proven path to healing, truth, and reconnection for Christian couples ready to rebuild their marriage God’s way.
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
What if your healing didn’t have to wait for his recovery?
Today, I'm sharing 3 practical, hope-filled steps you can take today to begin healing from the trauma of marital betrayal—even if your unfaithful husband does nothing.
Learn why waiting on him can keep you stuck, how to reclaim your voice and safety, and what it means to choose healing with God at the center.
Plus, discover how the 7 Pillars of Healing self-guided program can help you take your next step forward with clarity and strength.
Ready to take the next step? Grab instant access to my 7 Pillars of Healing self-guided program — a Christ-centered, trauma-informed roadmap to help you move from brokenness to breakthrough. But don’t wait — enrollment is open for a limited time!
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Quotes from the Episode:
"Your healing is not dependent on his choices—it’s your responsibility, your freedom, and your act of worship. Don’t wait for him to change before you begin to rise." – Lisa Limehouse
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Work with Lisa: Coaching Information
Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
After an affair or sexual betrayal, many husbands misinterpret their wife’s pain, anger, or boundaries as control or manipulation. But what if her reactions are actually the natural response to deep betrayal trauma?
Today, I'm breaking down why your wife’s emotional responses aren’t manipulation—but signs of devastation, confusion, and survival.
You’ll learn:
What betrayal trauma looks like for your wife
Why her emotions may feel overwhelming but are entirely valid
The difference between healthy boundaries and control
5 specific ways you can step into her healing as a godly man
Why it’s your responsibility to rebuild trust if you want to save your marriage
If you're a husband who wants to lead your wife through healing after infidelity, this episode is your roadmap.
🎯 Ready to take action? Only 3 spots remain for our Marriage Redesigned couples coaching program starting in August. Schedule your free consult today at MARRIAGE REDESIGNED
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Marriage ReDesigned FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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Keywords: betrayal trauma, Christian marriage recovery, affair recovery, healing after infidelity, sexual betrayal, betrayed wife support, Marriage Redesigned, how to rebuild trust, Christian husband after affair, post-affair recovery steps
If you’re experiencing panic, flashbacks, or constant anxiety after discovering your spouse’s betrayal—you’re not imagining things. You could be struggling with PTSD from betrayal trauma.
In this episode, I'm breaking down what PTSD really looks like after infidelity, how it affects your past, present, and future—and how you can begin healing today.
You'll learn:
What PTSD is (and why it’s common post-affair)
How betrayal trauma rewires your brain and body
3 powerful steps to take if you’re experiencing symptoms
Encouragement and hope to remind you healing is possible
⚠️ LAST CHANCE! Registration for my Roadmap to Recovery 6-month group coaching program is extended through July 15th. After that, doors close until January 2026. Learn more at ROADMAP TO RECOVERY
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Marriage ReDesigned FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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Are your boundaries truly healthy—or are they quietly controlling?
In today’s episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, we’re breaking down a common struggle for Christian women healing from betrayal: how to know if the boundaries you’ve set are leading you toward safety or sliding into control.
You’ll learn:
What God-honoring boundaries actually are (and what they’re not)
Why boundaries are essential to healing after infidelity or betrayal trauma
The difference between self-protection and manipulation
Real-life examples of healthy, biblical boundaries
How to stop trying to manage his behavior and start stewarding your own healing
If you’re wrestling with fear, confusion, or second-guessing your every move post-betrayal, this episode will bring clarity, hope, and truth.
💥 Enrollment is NOW OPEN for Roadmap to Recovery—my 6-month group coaching program for Christian women healing from betrayal. We begin July 7 and spots are limited. Grab your seat here: ROADMAP TO RECOVERY
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→ Join the Roadmap to Recovery program now – spots are filling fast
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NEXT STEPS:
Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Marriage ReDesigned FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Keywords:
healthy boundaries after betrayal, Christian betrayal trauma recovery, controlling behavior vs boundaries, healing after infidelity, faith-based marriage healing, Christian women’s coaching, emotional safety, betrayal trauma support
Have you ever felt panic rise out of nowhere while standing in line at the grocery store, sitting in church, or scrolling your phone in public? That sudden wave of fear, shame, or heartbreak may be a trauma trigger—a common and painful part of betrayal trauma recovery.
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm unpacking what triggers are, why they happen, and how to ground yourself in the moment when they hit outside the safety of home.
You’ll learn:
What betrayal trauma triggers feel like (and why they’re not your fault)
Real-life examples of public triggers after infidelity or emotional betrayal
3 practical, Christ-centered strategies to calm your nervous system and reclaim peace
How to remind your heart and body that you are safe, seen, and supported
Plus, I'm sharing how my 6-month group coaching program launching July 7 can help you heal deeply with biblical tools, neuroscience, and a supportive community of women walking a similar journey.
📥 Spots are limited! Learn more or sign up today at ROADMAP TO RECOVERY
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→ Join the Roadmap to Recovery program now – spots are filling fast
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
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Keywords: betrayal trauma, trauma triggers in public, how to ground after betrayal, healing from infidelity, Christian trauma recovery, nervous system regulation, emotional healing after betrayal, Roadmap to Recovery program, Christian women healing from affairs
She just found out. The truth is out. Now what?
In today’s episode, I'm speaking directly to the man who’s been caught in betrayal—whether through sexual addiction, pornography, or an affair—and wants to know how to help his wife begin to heal.
This episode walks you through five powerful, biblical, and trauma-informed ways to step into your wife’s healing after you’ve shattered her trust. Learn why your response in this season matters more than ever—and how to show up in humility, ownership, and love.
You’ll also hear how my Roadmap to Recovery 6-month group coaching program (starting July 7th) can be the care and community your wife desperately needs right now. Spots are limited.
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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org
Marriage ReDesigned FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal
Email: info@lisalimehouse.com
Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
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Keywords: betrayal recovery, Christian marriage after infidelity, how to help my wife heal, supporting betrayed spouse, betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, biblical marriage restoration, group coaching for betrayed wives
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