BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

This week your BFF's give you one more episode for 2024. We chat things our parents didn't warn us about being a (Black) adult, our personal Wrapped and why grief is a whole a$$hole.  Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok  Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week's episode, your BFFs sit down with digital maven and Archie: The Podcast host Archie Jay to talk about what it takes to bet on yourself in the industry. The trio also discuss what words describe their personal brands (chaotic) and more. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok  Follow Archie: Instagram l Podcast l Tik-Tok l Website Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's talk Black telekinesis, what makes A.A.V.E. (African American Vernacular English) so special and how we plan to stop being so hard on ourselves in 2025 - because honestly, life is already hard enough. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok  Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the show your BFF's invite LEGEND Miss Lawrence to the mic to talk self preservation during the holidays, standing on BIG business and how we plan to fix our plates for turkey day, sans Christopher Columbus.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok  Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok  Follow Miss Lawrence: Instagram  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the show your BFF's invite our new sister to the show, Anania, to talk top and bottom of the crop bops, art as resistance and why we really need to keep praying to the ancestors for guidance at this time in history.  MY. GAWD.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Instagram  Follow DoctorJonPaul:  BlueSky | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website  Follow Anania: Instagram  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's episode, Jon and Joho break down their reactions to the election, and explore the role toxic masculinity may have played in its outcome. Also, your faves talk about the best candies, and knocking down transphobes.   Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the rewind, listen to one of our favorite episodes with the iconic and super funny Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you for making our show what it continues to be.  We will be back with all new episodes next week. 😁 Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube!  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Dexter Mayfield: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's get political and talk about direct implications of trans bills and California propositions. We also discuss why folks need to leave earlier for the airport.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's are rejoined by our good Judy Mayhem Miller as we discuss the ever-iconic and ever-relevant Paris is Burning! We also dive into our beauty secrets, and Joho got a salacious no ma'am pam tell-all. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Mayhem Miller: Twitter | InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's talk the vulnerability of coming out, the problems we have with Netflix's "Love is Blind" show and why we all need to move with more audacity.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE!  Watch the live recording for free on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here.  Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Buy Tickets to Kid Fury's tour here.  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Kid Fury: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's share their thoughts on conferences, the new hit Hulu Show, "How to Die Alone" and why Chappell Roan needs a chaperone.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here.  Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Check out more information on George Floyd Square here.  Check out Amber's new show, "Have I Got News For You" here.  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Amber Ruffin: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by Darren & Esther from the Second Sunday to chat the difference between being spiritual vs. religious, how one get's over religious trauma and why Jesus and Michelle have the same meaning.  If you know, YOU KNOW.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer  Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here!  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Listen to Second Sunday podcast here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the BFF's talk about the thing that every millennial can relate to - parenting the parent. We also talk things our parents said to us when we were younger (that we now get as adults) and why Jon might actually like Sade.   Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFFs invite the incomprehensible Bebe Soft on to talk about life, finding love for yourself while in transition and how fun it can be to deconstruct gender and identity expectations on the internet.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our YouTube page here!  Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Bebé: Twitter | Instagram | YouTubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, the BFFs do a deep dive into activism, how Black folks are sometimes made to be activists without their permission, and how we are actually doing ENOUGH. We also get into last week’s DNC and Joho gives his mama a special shoutout. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's dive into a nuanced conversation on why each of us are the sh*t and what it has taken us to get there and why sometimes you gotta believe it to achieve it.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's talk the anniversary of #FadeintheWater (Montgomery Riverfront Brawl 2024), Colorism and why ANYTHING is better than Panda Express.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week your BFF's talk adulting, things that feel racist and the name that's on EVERYONE's tongue - our good sis COMMA - LA (Kamala).  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website  Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.