Becoming Relationship Ready

Becoming Relationship Ready will help you show up in your love life with fresh thinking, opening a world of possibilities. With a new way to approach dating - a new dating life is just one thought away. Join us to discover what keeps you from finding the real connection you are looking for so you can be Relationship Ready.

The Thought Shift That Made Space for Real Love with Susan Marmot

Susan Marmot’s journey through heartbreak, self-discovery, and true connection is powerful. She opens up about marrying young in search of safety, leaving a marriage that no longer served her, and the surprising, grounded way she eventually found love again. Not by fixing herself, but by being deeply present and trusting her inner wisdom. This conversation is heartfelt, funny, raw, and full of life lessons that will resonate with anyone who’s ever doubted whether real love is still possible for them.

04-21
44:30

Letting Go of the Rules – Redefining What Dating Can Be with Zebedee Friedman

Lila Turner sits down with her sister, Zebedee, for a refreshingly real conversation about life after heartbreak, redefining connection, and the magic of dating without the pressure. Zebedee shares her journey from COVID-era breakup blues to building a vibrant, flirt-friendly life rooted in honesty, clarity, and her own invention: the "undate." This episode is full of wit, wisdom, and a radically new take on how to meet people, without the usual rules, pressure, or romantic scripts.

04-14
34:52

Redefining Cultural Narratives through Burlesque with Pat Elle

In this episode, Asha, also known as Pat Elle, shares her remarkable journey from marketing professional to professional burlesque performer. Through vulnerability, humor, and authenticity, she explores themes of identity, cultural representation, and the power of embracing sensuality. Asha’s story celebrates breaking stereotypes, owning individuality, and learning to love oneself fully.

04-07
40:31

How to Date Fearlessly and Find Your Match with Rhino Julie

Lila gets honest with Rhino Julie, an entrepreneur and fearless truth-seeker who shares her remarkable journey of self-discovery, relationships, and resilience. From overcoming self-doubt to reshaping her beliefs, Rhino Julie’s story is a testament to the power of following what feels true. She opens up about how she navigated an unhappy marriage, transformed her passion for fitness into a thriving business, and redefined dating through a fearless and practical approach.

03-31
50:57

A Radically New Way to Date - Lila’s Insights from Her New Book

Lila Turner is back with a solo episode, and this time, she’s sharing something deeply personal - her brand-new book, Becoming Relationship Ready: Discovering a Radically New Way to Date. In this episode, she takes us behind the scenes of how the book came to be, from her early struggles with writing to realizing that she had to include her own story. With warmth, humor, and honesty, Lila reflects on the central theme of her book: the relationship we have with ourselves is the foundation for every other relationship in our lives.

03-24
15:32

Sex Positivity - The Art of Open Conversations with Nicole Banister

The Becoming Relationship Ready podcast is back! In this episode, host Lila Turner speaks with Nicole Banister, an award-winning TV show host, presenter, international change-maker, and sex positivity activist. In this insightful episode, Lila and Nicole explore open conversations about intimacy, consent, and connection.

03-17
44:34

Parenting, Partnership, and Presence w/ Leslie Zinn

Leslie Zinn shares her journey from growing up in a turbulent household to becoming a single mom and eventually finding a deeply supportive relationship. Her story is filled with warmth, humor, and unexpected turns, showing how healing and self-awareness can open the door to connection. Through parenting, entrepreneurship, and a little Latin dancing, Leslie discovered what it means to be present, soft, and truly ready for love.

08-11
37:52

Peace Over Perfection: Let Go of Control w/ Katie Steel

Not everyone reacts the same to really hitting it off with someone new. Sometimes things going really well with a new romantic connection can be overwhelming. Meet Katie, whose first steps into a new relationship brought more than just excitement - they stirred a wave of unexpected anxiety. In this episode, Katie shares how a profoundly deep connection with someone new unearthed old mental habits and emotional tension, even though, intuitively, this new person felt right. Through gentle self-awareness and a shift in perspective, she discovered how turning toward her own calm allowed her to show up fully, speak honestly, and experience the relationship as it unfolded - with a spacious, nurturing pace.

08-04
35:03

The Power of Reversible Risks in Love and Career w/ Dre Wien

Lila and Dre Wien explore how bold choices and deep self-trust can create a life that feels true, whether you’re building a boutique or finding the right partner. Dre opens up about taking reversible risks - from moving across the world to starting new businesses - without the fear of breaking something. Along the way, she shares how tuning into her body and embracing softness transformed both her career path and her marriage.

07-28
40:00

When You’re Ready, Love Feels Different w/ Tracy Marlowe

Tracy Marlowe shares her warm, honest journey of becoming herself again after a long marriage, building a business that empowers women, and finally finding love without losing herself in the process. She opens up about the quiet courage it took to heal, rediscover what lights her up, and align her life with the love she desired. Her story reminds us that relationships can feel expansive, not confining, when we allow ourselves to be fully seen and known.

07-21
31:30

Choosing Love Without Losing Yourself w/ Kate Morgan

Kate Morgan joins Lila to talk about why high-achieving women often get stuck in their love lives and how the same intentional approach that builds strong teams can help you build a meaningful relationship. She shares her honest insights on why many women shrink themselves to fit into relationships that don’t truly align with their values and desires. This conversation is an invitation to stop settling, get clear on what you want, and create the type of love that feels aligned with the life you’re building.

07-14
38:22

Stepping back into dating following marriage/a long-term relationship with Lila Turner and guest, Colette

This week hear from Colette talk about marriage and feeling comfortable pursuing dating after a long-term relationship.  

07-01
46:36

Finding true connection, not the next person to make you feel better - with Lila Turner and guest, Christine

This week, Lila chats to Christine - a Three Principles-based therapist, marriage and family therapist, master addictions counsellor and much more - based in Hawaii - talking about relationships and finding connection over looking for the next person to make yo feel better. Take a listen to Christine's podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/psychology-has-it-backwards/id1533373977

06-22
52:05

Changing your beliefs on dating with Lila Turner and guest, Joanna

This week, hear Joanna talk about her past and present relationships as well as how Relationship Ready helped her change her beliefs on dating.

06-18
29:18

Freeing yourself of scripted feelings with Lila Turner and guest, Zebedee

This week, Lila chats with her sister, Zebedee on shifting your perspective and freeing yourself of scripted feelings after coming out of a 16-year relationship.

05-18
31:52

True connection is not a 'Build-a-Bear' scenario with Lila Turner and guest, Julia

This week's guest is Julia, one of Relationship Ready's first clients who joins Lila to talk about how the programme helped her step away from her dating strategies and tick lists to find a true connection.

05-07
28:20

Relationship experiences and trusting your own thoughts and decisions with Lila Turner and guest, Chetna

This week, hear from Chetna about her relationship experiences and how she's gone from having a 'relationship agenda' to now having freedom and trust in her own thoughts and decisions.

04-30
30:29

Finding love and connection with Lila Turner and this week's guest, Katie

This week, hear from Katie about her relationship patterns, stumbling blocks and relationship hacks which have been a game changer for her.

04-27
33:19

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