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You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all things dating, healing anxious, avoidant, & disorganized attachment styles, and healthy relationships - so you can feel as amazing in relationships as you do in every other area of your life 💕
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***Additional Notes/Correction*** Around 16 minutes, Emily says that dismissive avoidants don't trigger as much of the *anxious* side of a fearful avoidant's attachment, but she meant to say they don't tigger the *avoidant* side as much because there's not as much emotional closeness. When fearful avoidants, who have both an anxious and avoidant side to their attachment, date a dismissive avoidant, they will often present more anxious in their relationship and even believe they are anxiously ...
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In this episode, Emily invites Ana Eve back on the podcast to talk about why we attach so quickly and common mistakes to avoid that cause you to attach more quickly! They also announce the re-opening of the Art of Secure Dating with Black Friday bonuses! Read more via the link below! Read more and register for the Art of Secure Dating Here Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
Do you ever feel like your anxiety is the problem? Like your life would be better if you didn't have it? Believe it or not, this perspective may actually be hindering your healing & making your anxiety worse! In this episode, Emily breaks down what it looks like to learn to work with your anxiety, to stop seeing it as the enemy, and to learn to actually love - yes love - your anxiety. Free training on self soothing here Apply for Attachment Alchemy here Apply for the Art of Secure Dating ...
Not sure how to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition talking when a voice tells you to run, to end the relationship, or that you're going to get hurt? Emily breaks down why this happens and how to tell the difference. Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
Do you ever feel like you become a different person around guys you're interested in? Emily unpacks why this happens in this episode of Becoming Secure! Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14 Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
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Have you ever completely missed it when someone lovebombed you? Today, Emily is talking about why this happens & how to catch it in the future! Apply for the Art of Secure Dating Get me free masterclass How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
Keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Here are some common mistakes when it comes to *how* you date that lead to attracting emotionally unavailable men! Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
Free Masterclass on How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here! Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
You've done therapy or counseling or coaching - you're super self aware...and yet you're still attracting emotionally unavailable men...In this episode Emily unpacks why that is and what the key is to shifting it! Links mentioned in podcast: Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men Read all the details & register for The Art of Secure Dating Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here ...
Emily and Ana talk about where the good men are and how you can find one in this episode of Becoming Secure! Want to learn to attract an emotionally available man? Come to our free masterclass on May 31st at 2pm US Eastern Time! If you came from Emily's audience, register for the masterclass here. If you found the podcast through Ana, register for the masterclass here. Join the June 2025 cohort of Art of Secure Dating Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30]...
Ready to trust again after being blindsided in the past? To be able to trust healthy love & stop waiting for the other shoe to drop? Emily discusses how to begin that journey in this episode of Becoming Secure! Other links referenced: Listen to Chelsea's Interview on Apple or on Spotify. Single? Apply for the Art of Secure Dating In a relationship? Apply for Secure in Love Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training ...
Emily talks about a common mistake she sees clients make on their attachment healing journey. Interested in working with Emily 1-1? Read more and apply below: Secure in Love Attachment Alchemy Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Training Here Apply for Attachment Alchemy Here
In this episode, Emily interviews TASD alumnus Chelsea about her experience dating an emotionally available, commitment-ready man after years of situationships and chasing non-committal guys. We talk about where to find emotionally available men, navigating all the confusing dating advice online, and the challenges of dating as a fearful avoidant attachment style. The Art of Secure Dating Round 2 starts in June. You can read more and access early bird pricing NOW here: The Art of Secure Dat...
Emily talks about her personal healing journey: from being the runner in relationships to mistakenly thinking she was anxiously attached, why she didn't think she was an FA, becoming securely attached & navigating the complexities of forgiving parents who were neglectful. Download: How to Stop Sabotaging Healthy Love, the free guide Apply for Secure in Love Here Apply for the Art of Secure Dating [Black Friday Bonuses Avail. Thru 11/30] Get the Securely Attached Free Trai...
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