Becoming Whole

Becoming Whole

<p>Relationships and sexuality are areas of life that can be beautiful or confusing, life-giving, or painful. Becoming Whole is a conversational podcast for men, women, and families seeking to draw nearer to Jesus as they navigate topics like sexual integrity, relational healing, spiritual health, and so much more.</p>

Marriage Recovery Part 2 with The Raabsmiths

Send us a text In this episode of Becoming Whole, we sit down with Matthew and Joanna RaabSmith to discuss their personal journey of recovering from marital betrayal and the work they do with other couples to rebuild intimacy. They share their unique story of whirlwind romance, struggles with sexual addiction, and the steps they took towards healing and recovery. The conversation delves into their development of the 'intimacy pyramid,' a framework to guide couples through honesty, safety, tru...

04-22
44:03

Marriage Recovery: How Full Therapeutic Disclosure Heals Relationships

Send us a text Imagine driving past a house that looks a bit off, maybe the porch is sagging, or the house seems to lean. That’s what happens when a foundation is compromised, and you know, relationships can face the same troubles, especially after betrayal. Today's podcast talks about how full therapeutic disclosure can be a game-changer for couples dealing with betrayal. It’s like laying down a solid truth foundation. It’s not just about spilling the beans; it’s about sharing everything in ...

04-15
40:47

Singleness Part 2: with Connally Gilliam

Send us a text Singleness often exists in the shadows of our cultural conversation, especially in faith communities where marriage is frequently celebrated as the ultimate destination. But what if your life's unexpected path includes long-term singleness? How do you navigate sexuality, loneliness, and purpose when the "happily ever after" narrative hasn't materialized as planned? Connelly Gillum, author of "Revelations of a Single Woman: Loving the Life I Didn't Expect," brings refreshing ho...

04-08
32:53

Embracing Singleness

Send us a text In this episode, Josh and Kyle Bowman, the Director of Coaches at Regen, dive deep into the experiences and challenges faced by singles, especially within the Christian community. They discuss the unique loneliness singles may feel, particularly in church settings, and emphasize that singleness should not be seen as merely a transitional phase. Kyle shares invaluable insights from her personal journey as a mature single woman, highlighting the importance of community, sel...

04-01
47:43

Remember the body of Jesus

Send us a text The episode dives into the necessity of community in personal growth and healing. We discuss how God created us for relationships and the importance of the church in supporting individual journeys. • Understanding the connection between personal faith and community • The role of the church in personal struggles • Addressing isolation in spiritual growth • The importance of honesty and vulnerability in faith communities • Real stories of triumphs and str...

03-18
42:53

Remember: You are what you Forget

Send us a text Healing by Remembering: Overcoming Trauma and Sin Join us today as we explore the importance of remembering our personal pain and triumphs, focusing on how past trauma and unwanted behaviors are connected. We will look at the Israelites and Peter to explore how God helps us remember and heal. A few key points for this episode include practical steps on dealing with trauma, the significance of community, and finding hope through suffering. Tune in for a journey toward deeper he...

03-04
36:28

Remember 2 - Stones in the River

Send us a text In this episode, James, a spiritual coach, and Kyle Bowman, Director of Ministry discuss the profound impact of remembering God on growing in sexual integrity. They explore the importance of remembering one's origins, the transformational power of recalling God's presence and love, and how integrating these memories can realign our heart postures. They also delve into the significance of marking milestones, using tangible icons, and scripture to anchor our faith, and share pers...

02-25
35:10

The Power of Remember

Send us a text Join us as we dive into a conversation about the power of remembering in faith and recovery. In this episode, James Craig and Josh Glaser introduce the story of Alan Menninger, the founder of Regeneration Ministries. Alan's journey from sexual brokenness to miraculous transformation showcases the power of God’s intervention. We'll explore how remembering God's miracles in our own lives is vital to our recovery journeys and faith walks. Hear about the unexpected ways God moves, ...

02-18
45:17

Exposing Idolatry

Send us a text Welcome to another episode of Becoming Whole. Today our host Josh Glaser opens up the issue of idolatry, which many of us mistakenly believe to be a relic of the past or a concern only in other cultures. But idolatry is alive and rampant in our modern world, communities, and even in our churches. Tune in for an honest discussion on how turning to God can lead us to true freedom and fulfillment. Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lus...

02-11
17:29

Navigating a World Not Conducive to Walking with God

Send us a text In this episode Josh explores the tension between living in a distracted world and maintaining a close relationship with God. We discuss how our engagement with worldly systems affects our struggles with sin, particularly unwanted sexual behaviors, and explore spiritual disciplines that can guide us back to a life of thriving in faith. • Exploring the dual meanings of 'world' in scripture • Understanding friendship with the world as spiritual conflict • The im...

02-04
17:58

Pursuing Goodness : Godly Self-care

Send us a text Welcome to the final week of the Pursuing Goodness mini-series on the Becoming Whole podcast! This episode we talk about how godly self care is essential for anyone seeking healing and wholeness from sexual and relational brokenness. Join Aaron Tagert and Kyle Bowman as they explore why many struggle with self-care, how shame and deprivation play a role, and practical ways to implement self-care in physical, mental, and spiritual aspects. Resources discussed in thi...

01-28
39:54

Pursuing Goodness : Reclaiming the senses

Send us a text Welcome back to the Becoming Whole podcast! Join Aaron Tagert, men's spiritual coach, and Andrea Smithberger, host of the Sacred by Design podcast, as they dive into week two of our 'Pursuing Goodness' mini-series. In this episode, we explore the idea of 'Reclaiming Our Senses' and how the enemy attempts to steal, kill, and destroy the goodness in our lives. Tune in for an enriching conversation that encourages you to slow down and embrace the inherent goodness God has pl...

01-21
38:32

Pursuing Goodness: Grief & Lament part 2

Send us a text Welcome back to part two of our four-part series on "Pursuing Goodness" in 2025! In today's episode, hosts Aaron Tagert and James Craig dive further into the topics of grief and lament. Contrary to popular belief, these emotions can be a catalysts for healing and growth. Aaron and James discuss personal experiences, the importance of acknowledging sorrow, and share insights on how grieving well can lead to genuine comfort and maturity. Join us as we explore how to embrace these...

01-14
23:42

Pursuing Goodness: Grief & Lament part 1

Send us a text Welcome to the first part of our four-part series on pursuing goodness in 2025! In today's episode, hosts Aaron Tagert and James Craig dive deep into the often-overlooked topics of grief and lament. Contrary to popular belief, these emotions can be a catalysts for healing and growth. Aaron and James discuss personal experiences, the importance of acknowledging sorrow, and share insights on how grieving well can lead to genuine comfort and maturity. Join us as we explore how to ...

01-07
21:36

And Yet, Undaunted With Connally Gilliam

Send us a text Join Josh and Kit as they again speak with Connally about her latest book And Yet, Undaunted: Embraced by the Goodness of God in the Chaos of Life. Highlights: Creation - the way things ought to be Fall - the way it is Redemption - in Jesus redemption is possible Restoration - how things will be when things are set right between us and God. "…the holes in my soul, I have discovered them to be portals to the heart of God…" Guests: Connally Gilliam Mentions: Yet, Undaunted: Em...

03-30
31:08

Why Emotions Matter With Tristen and Jonathan Collins

Send us a text Join Josh and Kit this week as they welcome Tristen and Jonathan Collins in speaking about Why Emotions Matter. Highlights: Shame is a signal that your identity is being threatened Fear is a signal that you are in danger Anger is a signal that an expectation wasn't met Sadness is a signal that something needs to heal Jealousy is a signal of an unfulfilled desire Happiness is a signal that a desire has been met Guests: Tristen and Jonathan Collins Mentions: Why Emotions Matter...

03-23
43:04

Ordinary Ain't Sexy

Send us a text Join Josh and Kit as they discuss the ordinary of life and the gift it can be if we rest in it. Highlights: …life is really a mystery that God invites us into so that we can trust him… …there is also a lot of other moments that are ordinary and mysterious and who do we not miss those?… …I didn’t realize I was running to that other stuff to try and distract myself from this deep pain, this deep wound,… Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a review/ratin...

03-16
20:29

Bored and Tempted

Send us a text Join Josh and Kit as they discuss boredom and temptation, and all of the practical ways we can go to something meaningful in those times. Highlights: …why does boredom turn into “I need to be stimulated, distracted, aroused, as opposed to rest or this thing I want to accomplish?”… …I feel more alive than I have in years because it’s hard… Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating on the Regeneration podcast (here’s how). Original music by S...

03-09
24:50

Lent, and Why It's Meaningful

Send us a text Join Josh and Kit this week as they discuss all of the ways that Lent has become meaningful for them and how it can be for us! Highlights: …looking for opportunities to find God… …Lord would you help me to have eyes to see what you see?… …it’s going to deepen our connectedness, our intimacy… Mentions: 2020 Lenten Gospel Reflections Thanks for joining us. We would be honored if you would leave a review/rating on the Regeneration podcast (here’s how). Original music by Shannon S...

03-02
18:02

Mere Sexuality with Todd Wilson

Send us a text Join Josh and Kit this week as they speak with Todd Wilson, the author of Mere Sexuality: Rediscovering the Christian Vision of Sexuality. Highlights: …explore the Christian vision of human sexuality… …they needed help in engaging people who were same-sex attracted with grace and love and compassion and understanding… …God has woven sexual difference, male and female, into the fabric of creation… Guests: Todd A Wilson Mentions: Mere Sexuality: Rediscovering the Christian Vision...

02-24
38:53

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