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Becoming You Again is for women going through divorce who need guidance and support. In this podcast you'll learn from Karin Nelson, a certified confidence divorce coach, on three main pillars that will help you as you create an even better life than when you were married. You'll learn about creating a solid, authentic identify full of self love and confidence, how to be emotionally resilient taking back control over your own emotional life, and how to live a truly independent life after divorce.
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Amidst the turmoil of divorce, managing stress can feel like an insurmountable challenge, but what if you could navigate it with healing, clarity and control? Join me as I teach you about the complexities of the stress cycle and uncover how understanding its nuances can transform your experience during and after a divorce. With insights in this episode, you'll discover how to reclaim your power, manage stress effectively, and lay the groundwork for a resilient future.In this episode, you will...
Setting boundaries after divorce is a transformative step towards reclaiming your emotional well-being. Ever wondered how boundaries differ from ultimatums, especially when navigating the complexities of post-divorce life? Join me as I walk you through the difference between the two, helping you establish personal limits that protect your emotional safety while fostering healthier relationships. We’ll explore how life’s challenges can be approached with a hopeful perspective, ensuring that yo...
Do you find yourself spinning in thoughts of worst case scenario after divorce? Do you try to anticipate all of things that could go wrong and try to figure out a way to stop it all from happening? In this episode you will learn to unlock the secret to stopping the cycle of catastrophic thinking. Imagine yourself navigating the storm of intrusive thoughts and worst-case scenarios with understanding, grace and resilience. Join me as I offer insights into how our brains, wired for survival...
Over-functioning, especially among women in the midst of divorce, becomes a relentless cycle of exhaustion and misplaced control. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I share insights, personal stories and heartfelt exploration of how societal pressures and more lead us to take on too much, become burdened by the mental load of it all and feel like we have the world on our shoulders - always at the expense of our own well-being. Learn how recognizing and addressing these patterns can be the first step t...
Discover the transformative power of movement in managing anxiety and the overwhelming freeze response that often accompanies the journey of divorce recovery. Listen in as I relay my personal experience with going from my habitual freeze/shutdown state to instant realigning of my nervous system and feeling better through movement. You will learn a quick practical technique to calm your nervous system and foster emotional resilience. By using visual cues like post-it notes with "move now" writ...
How often have you made choices and decisions based off of what someone else might think? If you're like me, that happens pretty often. In this episode I'll teach you about the mirror effect of perceived society judgment. You'll discover the transformative power of self-acceptance and confidence as you learn to overcome rejection and self-judgment. You'll learn the key to being able to not care what others think of you and how our own self-judgments often shapes how we perceive the opinions o...
Can breaking free from all-or-nothing thinking transform your post-divorce life? This episode promises to show you how shifting away from black-and-white thought patterns can unlock the power and choices you didn't realize you had. I'll walk you through how this limiting mindset can leave you feeling powerless and stuck during your divorce. I'll also offer practical strategies to recognize and challenge these habitual thoughts. By the end of this episode you'll have tools to step into your in...
Ever wondered why comparison during and after a divorce feels so painful? Join me on this episode of "Becoming You Again" as we uncover the deep-rooted reasons behind the comparison instinct and how it affects our emotional well-being. You'll learn why our mind turns to comparison in the first place. You'll hear relatable scenarios from divorce and family life that illustrate how our minds, conditioned by societal beliefs, can trap us in a cycle of inadequacy. And of course, you'll learn stra...
Navigating the emotional whirlwind of divorce can feel overwhelming and isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode you will learn a transformative emotional processing tool that can help you manage the complex feelings you're experiencing. I'll guide you through the practical exercise that will help you shift your focus from distressing narratives to your physical sensations. This technique will help you gain power over even the seemingly scariest emotions, making them less intimid...
Feeling lonely after a divorce can be an overwhelming experience, particularly for women. It's essential to understand that loneliness is an emotional state and not a reflection of your worth. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I unpack the difference between being alone and feeling lonely. I'll show you why loneliness feels so heavy and how being alone in society today has gotten a bad rap. I offer the antithesis to loneliness and how you can start to reframe the loneliness that you're feeling ...
What if the act of letting go isn’t a one-time event, but a continuous, liberating journey? Join me, Karin Nelson, as I walk you through the intricate and often emotional process of moving forward after a divorce. This episode unpacks the concept of letting go, emphasizing that it's a skill requiring time, patience, and emotional resilience. I will explore and offer practical strategies to gradually release and let go through consistent physical, mental and emotional practices. This episode i...
Can you truly transform your emotional state during a divorce by changing your thoughts? Discover the profound impact of your mental habits and gain control over your emotions in what can often feel like an overwhelming time. Through this episode of "Becoming You Again," we explore the top-down versus bottom-up processes of thought and emotional responses, revealing how awareness of these mechanisms can help you step into your power to manage your well-being.This episode emphasizes the import...
What if trusting yourself was the key to rebuilding a strong, independent life post-divorce? Rediscover the power of self-trust this week as we explore how you can reconnect with your innate confidence and intuition, even amidst the turbulence of life changes. Drawing from my own experiences, I share actionable insights designed to help you remember what your self trust feels like so you can revitalize this crucial skill. Throughout this journey to rediscover self-trust you will learn to gran...
Feeling overwhelmed by divorce guilt? Discover how to break free from societal and internal pressures that make you feel like a failure. This week on "Becoming You Again," we unravel the deep-rooted sources of divorce guilt, especially among women, and challenge the patriarchal beliefs that surround divorce. Divorce guilt can feel like a heavy burden, but it doesn’t have to dictate your actions or your future. Hear how prioritizing self-care and emotional stability can create a nurturing envi...
When you're in the thick of your divorce, it can feel like EVERYTHING sucks, EVERYTHING is hard, EVERYONE is against you, and you're life will NEVER feel peaceful or normal again. In this episode I'm teaching you the 50/50 principle that can help you look at your divorce and anything else in your life through a different lens. This episode will serve as a guide to getting through the emotional labyrinth of divorce, emphasizing that hardships are temporary while some kind of peace or positive ...
Discover a powerful grounding technique that can help you find stability and emotional resilience during challenging times. In this week's episode of Becoming You Again, I'm back from a refreshing break and ready to introduce you to "Centered Hands," a simple yet transformative exercise designed to reconnect you with your body and inner self. Whether you decide to stand or sit, I'll guide you through each step, helping you achieve a sense of peace and presence. This technique will not only gr...
Have you ever found yourself caught in the emotional whirlwind of single parenting after a divorce, trying to juggle your feelings while managing your child's outbursts? Being a single parent after the end of your marriage can feel daunting and foreign. In this episode you will learn two main strategies to help you through the challenges of single parenting. You will learn strategies to help break the cycle of mirroring your children's emotions and how to shift away from a scarcity mindset. Y...
Struggling to regain your footing after a divorce? In this greatest hits episode, you'll discover powerful strategies to manage the overwhelming emotions and life situations that often follow such a life-changing event. You'll learn how to recognize what you can control and make conscious choices to prioritize your well-being. You'll learn about common patterns like procrastination and feeling buried under responsibilities, and how to tackle them head-on to restore balance and control in your...
Having expectations for our kids feels important, useful and a type of guide to the often mysterious and dismaying act of parenting. But what happens when your kids don't meet or live up to your expectations? What happens to your parent child relationship? Do you define yourself as a parent on their outcomes? Do you blame them for your emotional disregulation? Find out more in this episode where we will explore how clinging to specific expectations may actually be causing more harm than...
Is your partner manipulating you? In this episode you will learn how to spot five common manipulation tactics, how they may be showing up in your relationship and how to decide what to do for yourself if you find yourself being manipulated by your partner. You will learn practical steps to recognize and combat these manipulations, ensuring you can navigate your relationships with confidence and clarity. If you are in a relationship right now, going through a divorce and the end of a relations...
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