Before You Build℠ Podcast

<p>Whether you’re dreaming of building a custom home in the future or you’re ready to start planning now, this show is for you! The Before You Build Podcast is your one-stop shop for actionable home-building tips and advice as well as tips for designing your dream home so that you feel equipped to design the home of your dreams that makes you (and your wallet) happy for years to come. </p><p>We’ll answer all of your burning questions such as: How do I plan for building a custom home? What should I do before building a house? How do I design my new house? What mistakes should I avoid when building a house? How do I create the perfect floor plan for my family? How do I hire a builder? How do I finance my home build? And the biggest question of all, how do I bring my dream home to life without blowing the budget? Well, friends … the answer is in PLANNING for your home build long before you ever break ground.</p><p>I’m your host, Carrie Barker (aka, Caroline on Design). I designed my own custom home from the ground up, inside and out. Through trial and error (psst … I built pre-Pinterest), I created my absolute dream home that is not only perfect for the way my family lives but also turned out more beautiful than I imagined. The best part … I did this all without blowing the budget and without design regrets. </p><p>I cracked the code on how to bring my own dream home vision to life while sticking VERY close to budget and now I’m here to teach you everything I learned along the way so that you, too, end up with that cozy, beautiful home you envision in your head and a mortgage you’re comfy with. </p><p>The short, actionable, and bingeable ‘Before You Build’ episodes will prepare YOU for a successful home build with less stress, more confidence, and joy throughout the process. And just so you know … the key to building your dream home close to budget is all in the planning you do BEFORE YOU BUILD! So let’s dive in and get started!</p>

091. Building a Custom Home With Your Spouse (Without Killing Each Other!)

Building a custom home with your spouse doesn't have to be stressful or dramatic. It can actually bring you closer together ... and I'm sharing exactly how to make that happen. Learn the simple strategy that helped me get along great with my husband throughout our build and has helped hundreds of my clients build their dream homes without the drama. Spoiler alert ... you don't need to agree on everything – you just need to respect what matters most to each other. We'll cover: ✅ Why building t...

08-20
15:17

090. The #1 Question Before Planning Your Custom Home

Planning your custom home? Before you dive into Pinterest boards and floor plans, there's one crucial question that will determine whether you truly love your home for decades to come. In this episode, I'm sharing the most important consideration when planning your custom home ... and it's probably not what you think! I'll explain why location matters more than design decisions, how to evaluate potential properties, and the real cost of getting this wrong. Plus, I'm sharing my own current loc...

07-30
12:04

089. Custom Home Must-Haves (Ignore the Generic Lists!)

Okay, real talk. Those generic "must-have" lists all over Pinterest and home-building blogs set you up to build a house that might have some cool features, but most likely won't even work for YOUR family's lifestyle. In this episode, I'm spilling the truth about why there are NO universal must-haves when building a custom home, and I'm sharing the four questions that'll help you figure out what YOUR family actually needs (spoiler: it's probably way different than what those lists tell you). W...

07-16
14:25

088. The #1 Custom Home Building Mistake That Could Cost You Thousands

Building your first custom home should be exciting, but there's one massive mistake I see first-time builders make over and over again ... and it's costing them thousands of dollars and major regrets on move-in day. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what this critical mistake is and how you can completely avoid it with the right planning process. You'll learn: The biggest custom home building mistake that sets everything else up for failureWhy having Pinterest boards isn't the same a...

07-02
11:14

087. How Construction Loans Work: A Beginner's Guide

Feeling confused about construction loans? You're definitely not alone... and you're not the only one who finds this part of home building overwhelming. In this episode, I'm breaking down how construction loans actually work so you can approach this part of your build with confidence instead of confusion. Understanding construction loans is crucial to avoiding costly surprises and timeline issues that could derail your build. We'll cover: ✅ How construction loans work (and why they're d...

06-04
16:41

086. Draftsperson vs. Architect: What’s the Difference?

Not sure whether to hire an architect or a draftsperson for your custom home build? You’re not alone ... and you’re definitely not the only one confused by this decision. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real differences between an architect and a draftsperson so you can make the smartest choice for your project, your budget, and your design needs. Whether you’re looking to save money or you want a one-of-a-kind design, understanding your options is key to building a home you’ll love fo...

05-21
12:01

085. 3 Functional Custom Basement Details (That I Love!)

Thinking about finishing your basement? Whether you're building a custom home or planning a future reno, this episode shares 3 simple custom basement details that are totally worth it—and easy to overlook. From a clever built-in cooler to the one upgrade I’d do in every home from now on, I’m walking you through the little things we added that make our basement more functional, fun, and guest-friendly. These aren’t just cool ideas—they’re practical, everyday features that you’ll be so glad you...

05-07
11:04

084. The Secret to a Confident Home Build (That Most People Overlook)

You might think building a confident home starts with picking finishes or trusting your builder to guide you. But here’s the truth most people don’t hear (until it’s too late): the real secret is planning—real, intentional planning—long before construction begins. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it actually means to “plan ahead”. We’ll talk through the kind of behind-the-scenes decisions that make all the difference when it comes to building a home you truly love—and how...

04-23
10:11

083. What to Do When Your Builder Says 'No'

Possibly you haven’t started building yet—but here’s a heads-up: at some point during your build, your builder’s going to say, “We can’t do that.” Sometimes that “no” is legit. But other times? It’s just not standard. In this episode, I’m walking you through a real story of a homeowner who dropped something she really wanted (and still regrets it 😳)—and how YOU can avoid the same fate. You’ll learn exactly what to say, what to ask, and how to advocate for the things that matter most… *before*...

04-09
09:27

082. 3 Mindset Shifts Before You Build Your Home

Feeling excited (yet OVERWHELMED!) about building your dream home? You’re not alone—and you’re not doing it wrong. In this episode, I’m walking you through 3 simple mindset shifts that will help you approach your home build with more clarity and confidence. Before you dive into layouts and finishes, the real foundation for your entire home build experience starts with your mindset. We’ll cover: 🔑 Why your home should reflect your lifestyle, not just square footage 💰 How to think ...

03-26
09:43

081. 15 Common Custom Home Oversights (and How to Avoid Them!)

Building your dream home? You’ve probably spent hours planning the big things—your floor plan, kitchen design, and must-have features. But what about the small details that can make or break your home’s functionality? In this episode, I’m sharing 15 commonly overlooked details that people building for the first time regret not doing—and how you can avoid them. From outlet placement mistakes to traffic flow issues and not adding enough windows, these are the things you’ll be so glad you planne...

03-12
16:09

080. Where to Splurge + Save When Building a Custom Home

One of the biggest concerns when building a custom home is going over budget. However, YOU don’t have to fear this because I know it’s possible to build within (or very close to) budget … you just need to know where to splurge and save when building your home. In this episode, I’ll walk you through the best areas (in general) to splurge and save when building a custom home. I’ll also share the choices I personally made while building my own home—because sometimes it helps to hear ...

02-26
19:49

079. Trending Exterior Paint Colors for Lake Houses 2025

This episode is for anyone out there who is building a lake house and, more specifically, looking for trending exterior paint colors for lake houses in 2025. I decided to record this episode because, ironically, a significant number of my clients inside BEFORE YOU BUILD℠ are planning to build a lake house. For some, it’s a secondary home, but for others, it will be their primary residence. Either way, they obviously want to get their exterior colors RIGHT! And hey … even if you aren’t p...

02-12
13:16

078. 3 Common Mistakes to Avoid When Building a Home

Sticking to budget when building all starts with avoiding three common mistakes that I see people make ALL. THE. TIME. These mistakes can lead to significant budget overages (especially mistake #3!). BUT … I’m not gonna let them happen to you! These are all 100% avoidable ... and I'm so glad you’re listening to this episode so that you'll know exactly what to avoid. --- EPISODE SHOW NOTES: carolineondesign.com/mistakes-to-avoid-when-building-a-home BEFORE YOU BUILD℠ PROGRAM: carolineond...

01-15
12:13

077. Building Your Dream Home in 2025?

If you plan on building your dream home in 2025 (or 2026 or even 2027), you're in the right place! I'm here to help YOU bring your dream home to life … within budget and without regrets. 😘 This podcast is a great place to start ... The short, binge-able episodes are full of actionable home-build tips and advice to help you feel more confident as you prepare for, and build, your dream home. And, if you want to dive deeper and work with me in 2025, I invite you to join BEFORE YOU BUILD℠. 🙌 Tune...

01-01
14:42

076. How to Get Accurate Quotes Without a Floor Plan

One of the most important keys to staying on budget while building is getting accurate home construction quotes BEFORE you hire your builder. However, it can be a little tricky to get quotes when you most likely don’t even have a floor plan when you’re interviewing builders. So, how do you get (accurate) quotes from builders without a floor plan? It all starts with a crystal clear vision of your future home. In this episode, we’ll discuss some (really important) things to consider...

12-04
11:29

075. A Custom Home Build MUST DO!

Building a custom home is a HUGE investment in both time and money. Obviously, you want to get it RIGHT! I want this for you, too, so I’m giving you a huge tip in this episode … stay tuned because this is a custom home build MUST DO! EPISODE SHOW NOTES: carolineondesign.com/custom-home-build-must-do BEFORE YOU BUILD℠ PROGRAM: carolineondesign.com/before-you-build FREE CLASS: carolineondesign.com/free-training WEBSITE: carolineondesign.com 👉 Grab a seat in my FREE CLASS, 'The 3 Most Expensive ...

11-06
12:36

074. The Key to Confidence when Building a House

If you’re feeling overwhelmed about your upcoming home build and you don’t know how you can possibly feel confident designing an entire house, this episode is for you. All it takes to feel confident is to have CLARITY before building your house. There’s a reason that ‘Clarifying Your Vision’ is the very first step in my BEFORE YOU BUILD℠ Blueprint that I teach my clients. A clear vision is an essential component to feeling confident (and in control) as you go through your home build. It is th...

10-23
14:59

073. My Top Floor Plan Regret (What I'd Change if I Could)

This episode is a little different than my typical episode … it’s more of a personal explanation of my top floor plan regret that I have for my own custom home. Although this is a personal story about my own home build experience, I know it will help anyone out there who is toying with the idea of doing what I did (and now regret). I'm also sharing a BONUS at the end of the episode ... my second biggest floor plan regret :). EPISODE SHOW NOTES: carolineondesign.com/floor-plan-regret FR...

10-09
11:26

072. Floor Plan Design with ChatGPT

I recently decided I was going to try to create a floor plan design with ChatGPT. I was looking online at different floor plans, and I found things I liked about each one, and then I thought, "Well, why don't I just create my own, and I'll have ChatGPT do it?" I thought I could plug everything that I wanted in, and a beautiful floor plan would spit out, and voila, I would have it. That's not exactly what happened. A floor plan did spit out, but it was far from beautifu...

09-17
11:07

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