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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Author: Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

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No woman wants to face the horror of her husband’s betrayal. Or have to recover from the emotional, physical & financial trauma and never-ending consequences.

But these courageous women DID. And we’ll walk with you, so YOU can too.

If you’re experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to your husband’s lying, anger, gaslighting, manipulation, infidelity, and/or emotional abuse…

If he’s undermined you and condemned you as an angry, codependent, controlling gold-digger…

If you think your husband might be an addict or narcissist. Or even if he’s “just” a jerk…

If your husband (or ex) is miserable to be around, this podcast is for YOU.

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Here's how to protect your child from online dangers.
If you're struggling to deal with your husband's addiction, here's what you need to know.
Have you been dismissed, minimized, and vilified by those who should have helped you? Here's the support you've needed.
If your husband's actions make him untrustworthy, here's what that means.
Many women have a difficult time finding the right support for betrayal trauma and emotional & psychological abuse.
Victims of abuse often experience trauma when we try to get help.
There is no fear or pain equivalent to the trauma when your ex uses the kids to hurt you.
Things aren't adding up. Here's what that blank stare might mean.
You deserve emotional safety no matter what anyone says. Here's what you need to know.
Do you have betrayal trauma symptoms? Check to see if you're experiencing any of these common symptoms.
Women suffering from betrayal trauma want to know if their husbands will ever change.
Does your husband apologize? If it's happened before, here's how to know if it's a genuine apology.
Do you keep going to therapy, thinking the next session will help? But then it doesn't? Here are the warning signs of an abusive therapist you need to know.
If you're wondering how to get back to yourself after emotional abuse, Anne shares how she healed.
Here's how spiritual bypass can increase suffering for victims.
If your husband is constantly on the phone, here's what you need to know.
Tania share's her difficult story of living through emotional abuse, financial, physical, and sexual abuse. All while her in-laws are emotionally abusive too.
Are you experiencing narcissistic abuse? It can be hard to spot. These 5 signs will help you know if you're a victim of narcissistic abuse.
Does your husband make big promises but refuse or "forget" to follow through?
If a husband has a secret sexual basement that his wife doesn't know about, he's abusive in so many ways. Here's what you need to know.
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Comments (13)

Bethany Kuhlig

This speaker mentions a book and I have heard about it a few times but I couldn't catch the name. Could you tell me the name so I can order it please?

Mar 23rd
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Marnie Crisp

Hearing and understand the message was difficult for me during this episode due to the use of the term "girls" while referring to adult women. The use of a word for adolescent females should not be included in consensual sexual safety dialogue about marital betrayal.

Aug 14th
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Sara Lasenby

hi. I would really like to listen to coach Sarah's podcast. how do I find it? please. many thanks.

Jun 4th
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Carolan

Great show thank you both.

Nov 18th
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Kati Florida

Why do you insist on bringing porn into EVERY podcast? Your guests will have a whole story and you’re like “yeah! But porn is bad” and you can hear that it throws your guests off, when they hadn’t even brought it up in THEIR story..only you do!! Obsessed much?

Sep 27th
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Somerset Davidson

Thank you for giving a voice to the victims. Thank you for giving us the words we didn't know we had, the strength we didn't see and the ability to be heard and validated. Your podcast helps those of us that have been so manipulated by chaos to find clarity and peace. Thank you for your courageous actions to face the abusers, the liars and manipulators, to take a stand and offer a community to the victims, so that we can be validated, heal and live productively. You are a true advocate.

Sep 17th
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BTR admirer

Oh Connie! I'm so glad to hear your story. I am going through the EXACT SAME thing. A lot of his family saw the abuse and acting out. But when he left, suddenly I was the abuser, terrible mother and wife, liar....... everything you described. And now they're banding together to attack me through the family court system here in Australia. All the best to you and the beautiful women experiencing the same.

Sep 5th
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Nicole Brewer

This was huge for me to listen to both podcasts. Brought me to tears! My husband is an alcoholic who lies constantly. I keep trying to save our marriage while he does nothing. I’m glad to know I’m not alone.

Sep 1st
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Amy Hawthorne

I can relate to this so much. I feel seen and validated, thank you so much ❤

Feb 19th
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Alanna Wolfe Van Leeuwen

I was surprised by the 10% stat of men who will try to overcome this addiction, but not all succeed. My husband is one of them who has overcome, but it did take him over 5 years and he had a 40 year addiction! He is now actively involved in helping other men through The Conquer series and Seven Pillars by Pure Desire Ministries.

Sep 28th
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Jennifer Grace Hebel

this is great, very insightful-thank you!

May 27th
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Megan Iorg

BTR is a lifeline and a personal resource for me. The moments of solace and understanding as I listen are a blessing -throughout an arduous journey of pain & destruction. I feel inspired to reclaim confidence, self-respect, and to remember life BEFORE gaslighting and betrayal. The ever-present, insidiously amplifying behaviors of a S/A cannot be "fixed" with my false sense of control and pleading for mercy. Now, I will reach out to the intensively trained counselors, accept/ offer support to others, and focus on my spirituality. Thank you so much, A Fellow S.H.E.R.O.

Nov 28th
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Felicia Simard

I have been reaching out. Asking for an accountability partner within my church to help cope with mental states, with no response back. I joined Codependents Anonymous (CoDA) online, which wasn't the community connections I thought it would be. I believe one on one in person is probably effective other wise you write on a message board and someone may get back to you that day or in a week. It can feel hopeless via online. I downloaded these podcasts in a last attempt to salvage what little sanity I was trying to rebuild. These podcasts have been the single most helpful 'tools' I have gained since my last 'internally drowning' episode. Obviously professional counselling and going in person to groups such as CoDA would be alot more beneficial. If your like me and transportation or finances make it so that those aren't really attainable at this present time then this is a GO TO! It's instilled HOPE and made me feel understood (which feels like half the battle at times.) Even though I'm th

Oct 18th
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