Betrayed Bestie

The Betrayed Bestie Podcast will cover everything from betrayal trauma, breakups/ divorce, and going on to live your best life after the sh*tshow of it all. Think of this as an informative, empowering, relatable girly chat with your bestie.

40 | Peace After Betrayal: Three Truths That Will Save Your Sanity

In this episode, we discuss: Why your thoughts like "we were supposed to be together forever!" are making your healing journey harder after betrayal trauma/ a breakup or divorce How to surrender and TRUST - in yourself and in your higher power The truths of our existence, drawn from Buddhist principles (they have suffering figured out!) Free consultation Work with me 1-on-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

04-13
26:15

39 | Dr. Debi Silber on Post-Betrayal Transformation

In today's special episode with Dr. Debi Silber, she shares: The 5 stages of betrayal trauma healing Where most women get stuck (and why) Transcending your old self/ relationship and taking your power back What it means to transform (not just be resilient)   You definitely do not want to miss this one!   Dr Debi's links Instagram Website   Betrayed Bestie Resources Free consultation Work with me 1-on-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

03-30
30:04

38 | Stop Asking Him to Change & Do This Instead

In this episode, we discuss: The cycle of waiting for someone to change What it means to be too attached to your vision The lesson that this is trying to teach you (over & over) How to let go of the anxious, "needy" energy and step into your own power  Free consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

03-16
30:07

37 | You're Focusing on the Wrong Thing to Heal from Betrayal

In this episode, I discuss: Why you're obsessing over your partner/ ex and how to stop Your burning questions and how to get the answers to them Why you're still stuck even after a breakup 5 tangible things to do that will make a HUGE difference in your healing Enroll in my membership, New Vision: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/newvision Schedule your FREE consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

02-23
24:26

36 | Your Independence Will Not Ruin Your Relationship

In this episode, we discuss: How my client went from afraid to work out in her HOME gym because she felt like she had to "watch" over her partner, to working out, meeting friends, and joining multiple groups outside of her home. Why you shouldn't worry that your relationship will crumble if you stop "keeping tabs" on your partner, start to heal or gain some independence   Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Join New Vision membership: www.betrayedbestie.com/newvision Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

02-09
19:40

35 | Why Nighttime is so Hard After Betrayal + a Breakup (& Tips to Make it Easier)

Join New Vision membership: www.betrayedbestie.com/newvision Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

01-26
21:11

34 | Creating Habits & Routines That Actually Matter + Stick

In this episode, I give you one of the lessons from my brand new membership, New Vision. We cover: Why our habits and routines matter Why most new habits don't "stick" The importance of our identity/ how we see ourselves Routine/ habit ideas Get on the waitlist for my membership, New Vision: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/newvisionwaitlist Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

01-12
21:11

33 | Rebuilding Self-Trust After Betrayal

In this episode, I talk about: Why we lose self-trust after betrayal How to regain it Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

01-05
17:41

32 | Your Permission Slip to Leave

In this episode, I talk about: The pressure to stay in your relationship Why your partner's recovery doesn't erase the betrayal Why you are WELL within your rights to decide if this is something you want Find all masterclasses here: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/masterclasses Schedule your free 30-min consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

12-29
13:30

31 | Signs of Cheating and Porn/ Sex Addiction

 Learn more + enroll in 1:1 Coaching: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

12-22
14:35

30 | 10 Min Meditation for Enjoying the Holidays After Betrayal

For today's episode, I am sharing a meditation that is usually only available to my clients! This will bring you a sense of peace and joy, even if you are in the midst of betrayal and/ or a breakup. 🎄✨♥️ This is my Christmas present to you, and a way to say thank you for listening to the podcast. If you enjoy it, I would so appreciate a rating/ review! 🎁 This is a part of my masterclass, Peace After Betrayal: Holiday Edition. If you're looking for practical tips on keeping your peace and dealing with other people (and your own emotions) during the holidays, you can check out the masterclass HERE All my masterclasses + meditations are included in my online course, BBA, and in my 1:1 coaching (links below) Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

12-15
10:08

29 | My Beef With the Infidelity Recovery Industry

Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

12-08
19:25

28 | Are You Looking for the ONE Thing to Help You Heal From Betrayal?

Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

12-01
12:11

27 | 11 Questions To Ask Yourself to Feel Better About Your Decision to Leave Your Cheater

The title says 11, but there's actually 12 (my bad) 🤭 Click HERE to download the list of questions! BLACK FRIDAY SALE on 1:1 coaching and my online course!! Now - Dec 1. Learn more: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/blackfriday Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

11-17
25:29

26 | 12 Signs of Self-Abandonment in Relationships

In this episode, I talk about: The role of self abandonment in relationships where there is sexual betrayal, addiction, narcissism, and emotional/ mental abuse. Becoming aware of self-abandoning behaviors so that you do not repeat them in the future.   Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/coaching-1 Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

11-10
25:22

25 | Making My Partner Do a Polygraph Before Marriage?

In this episode, I talk about: The efficacy/ controversy about polygraphs (lie detector tests) Polygraphs in therapeutic full disclosure after infidelity/ betrayal How my thoughts on requiring a polygraph before marriage again has changed throughout my relationship   Schedule a 30-min consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

11-03
20:28

24 | Why You Struggle With Rumination Post-Betrayal/ Breakup + How to Stop

In this episode, I talk about: Why you struggle with rumination post-betrayal/ breakup (safety-seeking, processing, reality acclimation, and more) Techniques to stop or contain rumination Tips for moving on Find all masterclasses here: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/masterclasses Schedule your free 30-min consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

10-27
28:30

23 | Winter Arc - My Top Tips to Level Up Before 2025

In this episode, I talk about: The key to getting what you want is through your thought and beliefs How to make the conscious choice to choose differently The top habits that will improve your life over the next few months Schedule your free 30-min consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

10-20
28:45

22 | Importance of Self-Compassion on Your Betrayal Healing Journey

In this episode, I talk about: How betrayal impacts our self-esteem Why self-criticism is extremely common in betrayed partners The importance of having both "push" and "pull" factors in recovery Register for the Self-Compassion After Betrayal Masterclass happening on 10/21: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/offers/DZu2KNVw/checkout Schedule your free 30-min consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

10-13
19:00

21 | You Can't Heal In the Same Environment That Broke You

In today's episode, I talk about: The limbo period of "should I stay or should I go?" after betrayal What is actually required of your partner to recover? Can your relationship be saved? The QUICKEST way to know Schedule your free 30-min consultation: https://calendly.com/betrayedbestie/first-call Learn more + enroll in Betrayed Bestie Academy: https://www.betrayedbestie.com/bba-sales-page-1 Follow Me on Instagram @betrayedbestie Follow Me on Tiktok

09-23
31:30

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