Better Husband

<p><b>Better Husband</b>, hosted by men’s marriage and relationship coach <b>Angelo Santiago</b>, is a podcast for any man who’s ever asked, <em>“How can I be a better husband?”</em></p><p><br /></p><p>Each week, you’ll learn simple, practical ways to <b>fix your marriage</b>, <b>reconnect with your wife</b>, <b>rebuild trust</b>, and <b>bring back real intimacy</b>.</p><p><br /></p><p>If your marriage feels <b>stuck, distant, or on the edge</b>, this podcast gives you real tools and step-by-step skills to <b>communicate better</b>, <b>handle conflict</b>, and <b>build a stronger marriage that lasts</b>.</p><p><br /></p><p>After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the turning point for change—Angelo has dedicated his life to <b>helping men save their marriages and become the husbands their wives can trust and feel close to again</b>.</p><p><br /></p><p>Through years of leading <b>men’s retreats</b>, <b>online communities</b>, and <b>one-on-one coaching</b>, he brings grounded, real-world guidance on <b>communication, conflict, and connection</b>.</p><p><br /></p><p>If you want to <b>repair what’s broken</b>, <b>rebuild connection</b>, and <b>learn the skills to make your marriage work</b>, <b>Better Husband</b> will show you how—one episode at a time.</p>

056|Your Situation Is Unique — And the Work Is Still the Same

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, Angelo explores the belief many men hold that their marriage is somehow the exception — too complicated, too far gone, or too different for change to happen. He explains why that belief feels true, why it isn’t, and what men discover when they realize the same...

12-02
20:26

055|How to Bring Something Up Without Starting a Fight

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re looking at how to bring up the things that matter without turning them into conflict. Angelo explains why men hesitate to start difficult conversations, how avoidance slowly builds resentment, and what it means to speak with steadiness instead of fear. You’...

11-25
25:06

054|You’re Changing — But She Still Can’t Trust It Yet

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, we look at why early growth can feel invisible at home. You handle moments better, stay calm, and choose care, yet the response feels flat. Angelo explains why trust returns slowly, how her nervous system needs repetition to feel safe again, and what to do whe...

11-18
24:12

053|Your Phone Is Stealing the One Thing Your Marriage Needs Most

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re looking at what happens when distraction replaces connection and your marriage starts running on divided attention. Angelo talks about how constant stimulation reshapes your focus, why your phone feels easier than presence, and how to reclaim your attention...

11-11
22:30

052|You Stopped Dating Your Wife—and It Shows

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, we’re looking at what happens when pursuit fades and your marriage shifts from warmth and play to logistics and maintenance. Angelo talks about why men stop initiating, how fear and pressure get in the way, and how to bring back a steady rhythm of simple, gene...

11-04
24:33

051|You Keep Hearing Complaints—Here’s What She’s Really Trying to Tell You

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most common and misunderstood dynamics in marriage—complaints. When your wife says things like “You never listen” or “You’re always working,” it’s easy to take it as criticism. But what she’s really expressing is a deeper, unspoken need...

10-28
19:45

050|How You Start Your Day Determines How You Show Up as a Husband

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, we’re exploring how the first few minutes of your morning set the tone for the rest of your day—and your marriage. If you start the day in chaos, you carry that chaos everywhere. If you start grounded, you bring steadiness, patience, and presence into your wor...

10-21
24:42

049|Why the Man You Were Taught to Be Isn’t the One Your Marriage Needs

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the biggest challenges men face in marriage: the version of masculinity we were taught growing up doesn’t work at home. The same traits that make you successful in the world—strength, logic, stoicism—can create distance and disconnection wi...

10-14
17:02

048|Micro Repairs: The Small, Daily Habit That Will Hold Your Marriage Together

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, we’re exploring one of the most overlooked habits in marriage: micro repairs. These are the small, intentional moments of ownership and reconnection that keep little cuts from becoming big wounds. You’ll learn why big fights rarely start big, how small disconn...

10-07
17:24

047|From Better Husband to Better Human: Practicing Full Respect Living Everywhere

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re talking about Terry Real’s idea of Full Respect Living—a simple, hard standard: no one above you, no one beneath you. Through a story at the gym and practical examples from daily life, you’ll see how the same nervous system that handles strangers, coworkers...

09-23
21:31

046|You Can’t Save the Marriage Alone: How to Respond When She Won’t Change

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, we are talking about what happens when you have done the work, shown up differently, and your wife still refuses to change. For some men, this means living with a partner who is dismissive, verbally abusive, or even physically unsafe. It is one of the hardest ...

09-16
20:09

045|The Cycle That’s Destroying Your Marriage: The Stance–Stance–Dance

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re breaking down the Stance Stance Dance, the cycle of her push and your withdrawal that keeps you stuck in the same fight over and over. You’ll learn why this pattern is so destructive, how it shows up in daily life, and the practical steps you can take to in...

09-09
16:02

044|The Harshest Voice in Your Marriage Might Be Your Own—and Why That’s a Problem

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, we’re talking about the voice in your head that does the most damage. The one that tells you you’re worthless when you fall short, or flips the blame on your wife when things get tense. That voice is contempt. Whether it pulls you down into shame or pushes you...

09-02
17:59

043|Connected and Protected: How Healthy Boundaries Strengthen Your Marriage

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re breaking down what healthy internal boundaries actually are and why being thin-skinned or walled-off keeps your marriage stuck. You’ll learn how to build boundaries that let you be both connected and protected, how to use them in the heat of the moment, and...

08-26
16:45

042|The Hidden Danger of Settling for ‘Good Enough’—And How to Keep Growing Together

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - When your marriage feels “good enough,” it’s tempting to coast. The tension is lower. The conversations aren’t as hard. Things finally feel steady. But here’s the danger: coasting is exactly what sets you up to slide back into the old patterns that got you stuck in the first p...

08-19
15:22

041|Love Avoidant? Attachment Styles? Enmeshment? Here’s What It All Means—And What to Do About It

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between attachment styles, enmeshment, and love avoidance without the therapy jargon. You’ll learn the two main ways men become “love avoidant,” how those patterns show up in daily married life, and what to do about it starting ...

08-12
14:03

040|You Messed Up... Again—Here’s How to Recover and Come Back Stronger

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - You were doing better. You’ve been putting in the work. And then you lost it. Snapped. Shut down. Did the one thing you promised yourself you wouldn’t do again. It’s a familiar moment for a lot of men: the shame hits hard, the story in your head says “you blew it,” and you sta...

08-05
18:38

039|Why the Need to "Be Right" Is Destroying Your Marriage. Here’s What to Do Instead

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - You’re trying to stay calm. You’re doing your best to show up. But when she says something you disagree with—or finally admits something you’ve been saying for months—something inside you snaps. You want to be right. You want her to see it. In this episode of Better Husband, we’r...

07-29
17:25

038|How to Bring Pleasure, Play, and Joy Back into Your Marriage

🎯 Want to Be a Better Husband? Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - You’ve been doing the work. You’re leading with presence, staying grounded, learning how to communicate. But what about joy? In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about what happens when marriage becomes all responsibility and no pleasure—when everything feels ...

07-22
17:47

037|The Better Husband’s Guide to Listening: A 3-Step Practice

🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop to learn Angelo's 3 Secrets to Becoming a Better Husband Without Endless Therapy, Hating the Process, or Pretending to Be Someone You Are Not at www.BetterHusbandSecrets.com - You’re physically present—but she still doesn’t feel heard. You’re responding—but she doesn’t feel understood. And the harder you try to fix it, the more it backfires. In this episode of Better Husband, we break down why most men struggle to listen in a way that actually creates ...

07-15
21:53

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