Better Sports Parents

Sports agent and advisor Ross Gurney shares his unique perspective on youth sports from both sides - as a professional who's guided players through leagues like the NHL & CFL and as a father navigating the youth sports environment with his own two children.With clients like Duncan Keith, Devon Toews, and Zach Benson, Ross has seen what it actually takes to make it to the highest levels of sport. But his message might surprise you: it's not about early specialization, elite camps, or rushing up levels. Instead, Ross advocates for "overcooking"—playing level-appropriate hockey where kids get more reps and meaningful roles.In this conversation, Ross discusses:Why early specialization is concerning from both a professional and parental lensThe dangerous overuse of the word "elite" in youth sportsHow good people can become "crazy sports parents" in one sport but not anotherWhat coaches actually want (hint: it's not always the stat-sheet leaders)Warning signs for parents when evaluating programs and organizationsWhy the biggest issue in youth sports today is access and facilitiesHow to identify a child's unique "internal scorecard" beyond traditional statisticsRoss also shares the powerful moment when his own son told him, "Dad, I don't think I want to be a hockey player"—and why that conversation was actually "really cool."Whether your child dreams of playing professionally or your focus is on wanting them to develop a lifelong love of sport, this episode offers invaluable wisdom on keeping joy, passion, and authentic play at the center of the youth sports experience.Chapters00:00 Introduction03:28 Breaking Into the Sports Agency Business06:48 Growing Up With Unstructured Play in Kelowna07:54 Parents' Hands-Off Approach to Youth Sports11:02 What Ross Sees in Today's Youth Sports Landscape12:13 Why Early Specialization Is Concerning13:10 Recognizing Kids Who Lack Joy in Their Sport14:12 How Good Parents Become "Crazy Sports Parents"15:53 Navigating His Own Child's Hockey Journey16:30 "I Don't Think I Want to Be a Hockey Player"18:45 Dealing With the Pressure of the Family Business19:26 What "Slow Down" Means for Youth Sports Parents21:05 Most Common Questions Parents Ask Ross23:15 "What Do We Need to Do to Get Seen?"25:20 How Life Changes When Sports Becomes a Business28:14 The Conflict of Talking to 14-Year-Olds About Pro Aspirations30:14 Elite: A Dangerous Word in Youth Sports33:43 The Business of Youth Sports & Skill Development36:27 Passion and the Internal Scorecard37:50 Finding Each Player's Contribution41:40 What Sport Has Brought to His Children's Lives43:18 What a Sports Agent Actually Is (At Their Best)46:28 Satisfaction Beyond a Client Going Pro49:50 The Philosophy of "Overcooking"52:52 Warning Signs: When to Walk Away From a Family54:56 What Coaches Actually Want vs. What Parents Think They Want57:16 Warning Signs in Organizations for Parents01:01:35 Lack of Recreational Pathways for Teenagers01:04:35 The Biggest Issue in Youth Sports Today: Access

Former CFL centre and Grey Cup champion Angus Reid discusses the troubling state of youth sports, the business model destroying accessibility, and what it really means to develop champions. Reid, now a high school football coach and author of "⁠Teenager: A Story About Finding Your Way⁠," shares why he refuses to charge kids for coaching, how parents unknowingly harm their children's development, and the critical difference between being demanding and demeaning.In this conversation, Reid reveals his approach to building resilience in teenagers, why he quit football in grade 8, and the coaching philosophy that keeps kids coming back. He challenges the year-round specialization model, advocates for multi-sport participation, and explains why the real goal isn't winning championships -- it's creating high-agency people who can handle life's challenges.KEY TOPICS:The privatization crisis in youth sports and its impact on accessibilityWhy Reid coaches for free and refuses to monetize youth developmentThe difference between coaching to win vs. coaching to developHow to build real confidence (not false bravado) in teenagersThe danger of waiting for external validationWhy football shouldn't be played until high schoolCreating environments where bringing your best is normalizedThe power of asking kids what they want from sports🔔 Subscribe to Better Sports Parents for more conversations about youth sports, parenting, and coaching#YouthSports #Coaching #Parenting #Football #AthleteDevelopment #teenagers #SportsParenting #HighSchoolSports #CFLChapters00:00 Introduction04:18 The Current Youth Sports Landscape04:42 The Business Model Problem in Youth Sports06:20 Defining Success and Winning in Youth Sports10:50 Why Angus Wrote "Teenager"12:10 Becoming Somebody vs. Wanting Things15:46 The Difficulty of Being a Teenager16:15 Why Angus Advocates for Difficult Challenges19:42 Finding the Courage to Join Football in Grade 1123:41 Balancing Firm Coaching with Positive Support25:10 Asking Kids What They Want from Sports29:52 The Duty to Give Back - Why Angus Coaches for Free31:28 Parental Investment and Healthy Sports Participation35:35 Multi-Sport Benefits Beyond Physical Development37:46 Learning from Angus's Parents45:30 Post-Game Conversations with Kids49:08 Was Football Ever Not Fun?54:20 The Mission: Raising Better Youth01:00:33 Why Football Despite Safety Concerns?01:02:11 The Evolution from Contact to Collision Sport01:06:33 How Parents Can Identify Good Coaches01:09:46 The Unlimited Impact of Coaches01:11:02 Making Kids Want to Be CoachedResources: https://angusreid.ca/book-teenager/

Former Canadian national team soccer player Steve Kindel shares invaluable insights on youth sports development through the lens of a player, a parent, and a coach. As Senior Technical Director for North Vancouver FC, father to NHL player Ben Kindel and Canada U17 soccer player Lacey, plus husband to former national team player Sara, Steve offers a unique perspective on balancing competition with healthy development.Among the issues Steve discusses in this episode:✅ The benefits and drawbacks of early sport specialization✅ How multi-sport participation develops better athletes✅ Managing playing time conversations with parents✅ When and how to implement age-appropriate tiering✅ The decision to let Ben leave home at 16 for major junior hockey✅ Why compete level matters more than outcome✅ The impact of social media and video games on youth sports✅ Cost barriers and accessibility challenges in modern youth sportsConnect with Better Sports Parents:🎙️ Subscribe for more expert insights on youth sports parenting📧 Share your thoughts and questions in the comments👍 Like if you found this valuableChapters00:00 Introduction06:18 Developing Competitiveness as a Youth Player09:21 Nature vs. Nurture: Can You Teach Compete?10:15 Understanding When Youth Engage in Sports12:53 The Four Pillars of Player Development16:22 Building Strong Parent-Coach Relationships20:52 Common Parent Concerns: Playing Time & Selection23:58 Club Philosophy: Healthy Lifestyle Beyond Youth25:51 Zooming Out: Long-Term Development Goals32:10 Tiering Young Players: When and How?39:14 Fluid Systems and Late Bloomers41:24 Removing Adult Pressure from Kids' Sports44:42 Steve's Youth Development and His Parents' Approach47:27 Are We Better Off Now? Accessibility & Free Play49:15 Connor Bedard's Path vs Patrick Kane's Path51:20 Teaching Kids to Miss Their Sport53:01 Multi-Sport Benefits: Soccer's Impact on Hockey IQ57:57 The Tough Decision: Leaving Home at 161:02:56 Fostering Love Without Parental Pressure1:06:43 The School Sports Debate1:11:07 The Biggest Challenge in Youth Sports1:15:32 Trying to Parent in the Social Media & Smart Phone EraResources: https://nvfc.ca/

Former NHL captain Andrew Ladd opens up about the hard truths facing kids in today’s youth sports system and what parents must change to help their children thrive. From early specialization to unhealthy pressure, entitlement, burnout, and the myth of the “perfect path,” Andrew shares powerful lessons from his pro career, his parenting journey, and years spent studying youth development after retirement. He also details "1616" - a mental health initiative he founded to equip young hockey players, coaches, and parents with tools to navigate the challenges that arise in both sport and life.If you’re a parent, coach, or athlete, this episode will shift the way you think about growth, motivation, confidence, mental skills, and why fun is the fuel kids actually need.Topics include:• Why today’s youth sport model pushes kids out too early• The critical difference between development and performance• How parents unintentionally block growth• Why success is never linear• The emotional skills kids must learn to thrive long-term• What Andrew wishes every parent understood sooner• How we can rebuild sports into a healthier, more joyful experienceChapters00:00 Introduction03:45 Life as a sports parent with three kids04:30 Multi-sport benefits and free play06:41 The loss of Free Play for today's kids10:55 Growing up with inclusion and special needs family members14:17 The importance of modelling behaviour as a parent15:16 How Andrew's parents approached youth sports17:57 Falling in love with hockey18:56 His grandfather as his biggest advocate22:07 Being a late bloomer and getting cut from teams25:00 Playing the long game in athlete development27:35 Teaching kids what "hard work" actually means29:12 How coaches and parents unintentionally create pressure32:36 Career struggles and mental health challenges38:35 Getting help from a mental performance coach39:36 Introduction to 1616 and the buffalo metaphor45:19 Making 1616 accessible to everyone49:19 The car ride home after the game55:41 How tools from 1616 might have helped Andrew as a teenager57:36 Helping today's youth open up about their challenges59:25 How coaches can benefit from 161601:01:55 Advice for youth coaches01:04:10 Setting expectations with parents01:06:12 Stop directing your kids from the stands01:07:33 Social media's impact on youth athletes01:11:15 Identity beyond sport01:13:25 Biggest issue in youth sports: Early specializationResources:https://1616.org/

Will Loftus didn't start playing football until grade 10, yet he went on to win two Grey Cups and play 11 years in the CFL.In this episode, the BC Football Hall of Fame inductee and founder of Game Ready Fitness shares game-changing insights for parents navigating youth sports today.What You'll Learn:✅ Why starting sports late can still lead to professional success✅ The power of multi-sport participation for athletic development✅ How to identify quality coaches who truly develop young athletes✅ When (and if) kids should specialize in one sport✅ Breaking down barriers to sports access for all families✅ The difference between fitting in vs. truly belonging in youth sports✅ How to handle tryouts, cuts, and disappointment with your child✅ Why physical literacy matters more than elite performance for most kidsWill's mission through Game Ready Fitness and the Washington Kids Foundation ensures every child has access to quality coaching and mentorship, regardless of background or skill level.His message to parents: Be present. Be your child's biggest cheerleader. You are their greatest coach.Chapters00:00 Introduction03:54 The Impact of Youth Sports on Personal Development05:43 Parental Influence on Will's Youth Sports Experience07:25 The Role of Multi-Sport Participation09:31 Transitioning to Football: A New Passion14:48 The Importance of Coaches and Mentorship19:02 Football: A Game of Inclusion22:57 Founding Game Ready Fitness: A New Direction25:37 Expanding Access and Inclusion in Youth Sports31:09 Impact on the Entire Family34:35 Navigating the Modern Youth Sports Landscape37:03 How do Youth Responsibly Specialize in a Sport?37:50 Advice for Overwhelmed Parents40:25 Developing the Whole Athlete43:14 Building Confidence Through Sports46:45 Creating a Sense of Belonging48:52 Navigating Youth Sports as a Parent51:18 Trusting Coaches and Their Decisions56:00 The Reality of Competition in Youth Sports01:00:34 Finding Quality Coaches01:06:43 Coaches: Take Ownership of Mistakes01:07:34 The Lasting Impact a Coach can HaveResources:https://gamereadyfitness.com/

Former NCAA Division 1 and professional soccer player John O’Sullivan, founder of Changing the Game Project, joins Scott Rintoul for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about the biggest issues in youth sports today – and how parents can fix them.From “joysticking” kids on the sidelines to early specialization, car-ride coaching, toxic environments, fear-based decisions, and the loss of free play, John breaks down why so many well-intentioned parents accidentally harm their child’s long-term development and what to do instead.You’ll learn:• Why shouting instructions (“shoot!”, “pass!”, “go wide!”) steals vital reps from kids• How to build motivated, resilient, self-driven athletes• The difference between talent selection and talent identification• What healthy sideline support ACTUALLY looks like• How parents, coaches, and clubs can work together• Why “I love watching you play” changes everythingIf you want your child to truly thrive in sports — physically, mentally, emotionally — this episode is essential.Subscribe for more conversations with world-class coaches, athletes, and experts improving youth sports.Chapters 00:00 Introduction03:34 Why John launched Changing the Game Project05:45 “Parents losing the plot”07:30 The danger of “joysticking” kids during games09:28 What positive sideline support actually looks like11:29 John’s own parenting mistakes13:40 How John’s parents shaped his athletic journey15:12 The importance of multi-sport backgrounds20:14 Would John succeed today?21:28 Why early talent selection fails kids22:57 Talent identification vs. talent selection26:00 The most logical North Star in youth sports29:00 The death of free play & how to bring it back31:53 Phones vs. play: the changing childhood34:36 John’s coaching philosophy and how to create joy37:37 What coach training often misses40:00 Holding parents accountable in clubs41:58 How parents unintentionally focus on the wrong things43:50 “I love watching you play”: why it’s magic47:20 How do parents eliminate car coaching?49:47 John’s approach with his own kids51:56 The FOMO trap in youth sports55:40 Healthy coach-parent communication59:18 What responsible tiering really looks like in youth sports1:04:05 Why development must stay fluid1:06:13 Kids want to play, not sit1:08:10 The most common problems John is hired to solve1:10:18 The growing crisis of access to youth sports1:12:14 Final thoughts and closingResources:Changing the Game Project https://changingthegameproject.com/John's 2014 Tedx Talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXw0XGOVQvw

Shane Doan, a former NHL player and current special advisor for the Toronto Maple Leafs, shares his insights on youth sports, parenting, and the importance of community in sports. He discusses his own experiences growing up in a small town, the value of playing multiple sports, and the challenges of coaching his own children. Shane emphasizes the significance of letting children experience both success and failure, embracing what's best for the team over the individual, and the role of sports in teaching life lessons.Chapters 00:00 Introduction03:37 Why Shane Cares Deeply About Youth Sports04:55 Parenting from the Sidelines06:20 What He Wanted His Kids to Get From Sports07:30 Learning as a Parent from Different Sports08:30 Dealing with Expectations and Legacy Pressure10:15 Teaching Confidence and Perspective12:25 Josh Doan’s Journey: The Long Game14:55 The Kamloops Moment: Testing Desire17:50 Letting Kids Choose Their Path19:15 The Value of Failure20:30 Guiding, Not Controlling23:05 Learning Through Failure (and a Little Humor)28:20 Playing the Game the Right Way31:40 Small-Town Roots: Halkirk, Alberta33:15 Community vs. Club Sports36:50 Multi-Sport Benefits and Perspective38:50 Balancing Club and School Sports41:30 Longevity Through Athletic Diversity43:45 Lessons from His Parents45:22 Managing Pressure and Emotions49:20 Listening Instead of Fixing51:20 The “Anything Is Possible” Mindset53:00 Coaching Your Own Child55:00 Influential Coaches and Mentors56:30 Navigating Parental Relationships as a Coach59:00 Building People, Not Just Players01:00:30 The Social Media Challenge01:03:20 Highlights vs. Real Life01:05:00 Parenting and Social Media Boundaries01:06:50 The Biggest Issue in Youth Sports Today01:09:20 Fixing the Game: Rebuilding Understanding01:12:41 Closing Thoughts

Gareth Rees, a proud Canadian who is a prominent figure in international rugby, discusses the multifaceted nature of youth sports. He emphasizes the importance of community, parental influence, and the need for a balanced approach to sports participation. Rees reflects on his own experiences and the lessons learned through sport, advocating for multi-sport participation and the necessity of creating a supportive environment for young athletes. He also addresses the pressures faced by parents and children in the competitive sports landscape, urging a shift in focus from high performance to holistic development.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Gareth Rees04:25 His Passion for Sports05:45 Parental Behaviour Youth Sports07:05 Navigating the Business of Youth Sports08:40 Where Should Parents Look for Direction11:00 Gareth's Early Sports Journey and Influences13:40 The Importance of his Parents Modeling Participation in Sports15:00 Sports Parents and The Fear of "Not Making It"17:35 The Value of Independence in Youth Sports20:45 Choosing Rugby: A Personal Journey23:35 Comparing Canadian and New Zealand Sport Cultures25:27 Self-Governance in Rugby and Community Values29:25 Encouraging Inclusivity & Building Self-Worth through Sports31:55 Barriers to Accessing Sports35:00 The Future of School Sports32:51 Enhancing Access to School Sports39:00 His Parental Approach Youth Sports42:40 Navigating Pressure in Youth Sports44:35 Overuse of "Elite" & "High Performance" in Youth Sports46:30 Identifying Good Coaching Practices49:05 Red Flags in Coaching51:05 Values Instilled Through Sports53:45 Building Community Through Sports56:40 The Importance of Mentorship in Sports58:40The Case for Multi-Sport Participation01:03:45 Forging a Unique Path in Sports01:05:40 Access and Affordability in Youth SportsResources:Gareth's Induction Speech at Canada's Sport Hall of Fame https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Q9WGTaTjgI

The Fear of Missing Out is a common pitfall in youth sports today. Find out how to spot it and combat it so that you're making the decisions that work best for your children and your family.

Travis Snider, a former Major League Baseball player, discusses his transition from professional sports to advocating for youth sports and the evolution of his company, ⁠3A Athletics⁠. He emphasizes the importance of emotional development, the impact of parental expectations, and the need for unstructured play in children's lives. Travis shares his personal experiences with identity crises and mental health, highlighting the significance of communication between parents and coaches. He advocates for a supportive community in youth sports and stresses the necessity of education for parents and coaches to foster a healthier environment for young athletes.Chapters00:00 Introduction04:05 Transitioning from Baseball to Youth Sports Advocacy06:30 Identity Crisis: The Fragility of Self-Worth in Sports08:45 The Impact of Personal Struggles on Professional Life17:05 Parenting and Emotional Regulation24:30 How Travis' Parents Approached Youth Sports25:15 The Importance of Unstructured Play in Youth Sports26:30 The Role of Community in Youth Sports30:00 FOMO: The Fear of Missing Out in Youth Sports32:35 Ensuring Enjoyment is Present in Youth Sports35:00 How Are We as Parents Getting Better?37:00 When Pressure Became Present for Travis40:57 Generational Impact of Parenting in Sports43:10 Adversity in Youth Sports45:00 The Impact of Intensity and Expectations48:30 Creating a Stronger Foundation for Kids52:00 Bridging the Gap Between Coaches and Parents55:25 Prioritizing the Mental Health of Our Children58:00 Improving Communication in Youth Sports01:01:20 The Power of Words and Their Impact01:09:10 Coping With Failure in Sports and Life01:12:30 The Importance of Modeling Behavior01:15:43 Resources for Parents and CoachesResources: https://3athletics.com/

Landon Ferraro shares his experiences growing up in a sports-oriented family, the pressures of constant comparison to his famous father, and the importance of fostering a positive environment for young athletes. He discusses the impact of parental influence, the value of multi-sport participation, and the necessity of free play in developing a love for sports. Landon emphasizes the need for parents to respect boundaries and allow coaches to guide their children, while also highlighting the importance of fun and enjoyment in youth sports. His personal anecdote about trying out refereeing as a kid provides a shining example of how adult behaviours can impact participation.Chapters00:00 Intro04:30 Navigating Legacy: The Ferraro Name08:10 The Pressure of Expectations10:30 Parental Influence in Youth Sports13:30 Early Sporting Memories and Influences19:00 Finding Balance: Father and Son Dynamics23:15 How His Father's Approach Changed Over Time27:00 Choosing Hockey a Path to Pursue31:00 Approaching Specialization vs. Multi-Sport as a Parent35:50 The Importance of Free Play in Youth Sports40:00 What was it about Hockey that Drew Him in?44:10 Can You Tell Which Kids Really Want to be Playing a Sport?51:05 The Role of Parents at Practice in Youth Sports1:00:05 Understanding the Coach-Parent Dynamic1:05:10 Landon's Experience as a Young RefereeResources: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/100-canucks-with-ferraro-shannon/id1819755909

Hockey Hall of Famer Cammi Granato shares her journey from a young girl playing hockey in Chicago to becoming a pioneer in the sport. She discusses the importance of family support, the challenges of being a female athlete in a male-dominated sport, and the pressures faced by young athletes today. Cammi emphasizes the need for inclusion in sports, the benefits of multi-sport participation, and the role of coaches in fostering a positive environment for youth athletes. She reflects on her own experiences and the lessons learned from her family, highlighting the importance of humility and love for the game.Chapters0:00 Introduction4:20 Growing Up in a Hockey Family7:20 Breaking Barriers as the Only Girl10:35 How Parents Protected and Supported Her Journey11:50 Sibling Dynamics and Basement Mini Sticks13:35 How Her Upbringing Taught Cammi Parenting Lessons15:35 The Pressure of Athletic Legacy20:30 Playing Multiple Sports Growing Up23:30 How Multi-Sport Experience Builds Better Athletes25:00 Programming vs. Creativity in Youth Sports27:30 The Narrow Path and Parent Pressure29:40 Viewing Sport Holistically33:00 What She Wanted Her Children to Get From Youth Sports34:40 What Inspires Her About Youth Sports Today36:50 Ground Rules for Coaches and Parents41:00 The Decline of Volunteers: Coaches and Referees46:15 Need for Socio-Emotional Coaching Education47:38 Inclusion and Accessibility in Youth Sports52:16 Helping Kids Deal with Pressure and Adversity55:20 When Coaching Crosses the Line58:30 Embracing Mistakes and Empowering Kids1:03:00 Family Values: Humility and TeamworkResources:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MNE1FaF29EE

Teaching your child to have respect and gratitude for officials and referees can positively influence your own behaviour towards those officiating youth sports.

Ray Ferraro's extensive experience in sports and parenting has provided him with a broad view of youth sports that spans many decades. As a former professional athlete, a globally recognized broadcaster, and a parent of four athletic boys, Ray has seen the youth sports environment change dramatically. In this conversation, he reflects on his own upbringing in the small town of Trail, discusses the influence of impactful youth sports' coaches, and emphasizes the importance of allowing children to enjoy sports without the pressure of adult expectations. Ferraro stresses the significance of understanding a child's love for their chosen activities, highlights the need for balance in parenting, and addresses the impact of social media on youth sports. He advocates for a supportive environment where children can thrive and enjoy their sporting experiences without undue pressure from adults.Chapters00:00 Intro04:35 Ray's Youth Sports Experience in Trail10:00 The Most Influential Coach on Ray's Life16:00 Sports Aren't a "Have To"18:25 How Ray Parented His Children in Sports19:30 Expectations in Kids' Sports23:50 Let the Coaches Coach and Players Play24:30 The Unintentional Pressure Parents Can Apply30:00 Increased Parental Attention in Youth Sports37:05 Observing Your Child's Choices40:00 How Ray Changed as a Sports Parent45:00 Following His Youngest Boys into Soccer50:30 Labeling Kids "Elite" at a Young Age55:15 Parents Using Kids' Achievements as a Status Symbol57:00 Why Does My Child Like Playing Sports?1:03:30 Why is there More Pressure in Youth Sports Today?1:07:10 How Parents Can Help Coaches1:10:15 Parents Giving Instructions from the Sidelines1:14:00 Achievement in Sport Does Not Impact Love for Your KidsResources: https://www.rayanddregs.com/

In the inaugural episode of Sideline Strategies, Scott Rintoul provides a quick and easy way to learn more about your child's interest in specific sports. Asking his own child this question gave him insight into what mattered to her and allowed him to reframe how he watched her play.

Andrea Neil, a Canadian soccer legend, shares her journey from overcoming several physical challenges to becoming a multi-sport athlete and eventually representing Canada internationally in soccer. She emphasizes the importance of heart-centered coaching, the purpose of sports beyond the objective of winning, and the role of parents in shaping a positive youth sports environment. Andrea discusses the need for ethical leadership in sports organizations, the importance of keeping girls engaged in sports, and why everyone should be questioning the current status quo in sports organizations. Through her experiences, she advocates for a holistic approach to sports that prioritizes personal development and community values over mere competition.Chapters00:00 Intro04:00 Early Physical Challenges05:10 Movement as Medicine07:00 Overcoming Adversity through Proactive Parenting10:40 The Importance of Multi-Sport Participation15:15 Heart-Centered Coaching: A New Approach21:00 Soccer: On Purpose By Accident31:00 Purpose vs. Objective in Youth Sports37:00 What She Wants Her Son to Get From Sports38:55 Football or Fightball?42:00 Coaching Soccer at Multiple Levels45:55 Are Sports Organizations Properly Preparing Coaches & Volunteers?49:00 Questioning Waivers and the Status Quo in Sports53:30 Ethical Leadership in Sports58:40 Defining Healthy Relationships Between Parents & Coaches01:02:45 Keeping Girls in Sports LongerResources: https://www.andreaneil.ca/Tedx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D8pljLzg8mg

Dr. Rick Celebrini is a former professional soccer player, the Vice President of Player Health and Performance for the Golden State Warriors, and the father of four extremely athletic children, including Macklin Celebrini, the NHL's number 1 overall draft pick in 2024. Rick shares his insights on youth sports, parenting, and athlete development from both a personal and professional perspective. In this conversation, he emphasizes the importance of allowing children to explore their passions, the balance between coaching and parenting, and the significance of character development in sports. He also discusses the risks of early specialization, the need for a multi-sport approach, and the pressures faced by young athletes today. He advocates for a long-term perspective in youth sports, focusing on enjoyment and personal growth rather than solely on competition and results.Chapters 00:00 Introduction05:20 Parenting Philosophy and Individuality in Sports06:30 Balancing Coaching and Parenting10:45 Fostering a Love of Sport in Children13:45 Rick's Passion for Youth Sports15:15 How Rick's Parents Supporting His Athletic Pursuits19:12 Competition and Life Skills in Sports21:40 The Role of Obsession in Athletic Success24:37 Personal Experiences Shaped His Professional Path25:51 Identity and Mental Game in Sports28:50 Multi-Sport Approach vs. Specialization31:30 Injury Risks with Early Specialization in Youth Sports33:20 The Business Side of Early Specialization38:30 The Child Needs to Lead the Sports Journey40:20 You Can See Burnout in the Eyes of Young Athletes42:45 What He Wants His Kids to Get out of Sports47:20 Non-Negotiables in Parenting and Sports48:45 How to Combat the Pressure of Youth Sports51:20 The Importance of a Lifelong Love of Sport53:55 Making Sports Accessible for All Children55:45 The Biggest Issue in Youth Sports Today57:10 Communication Between Coaches, Parents, and Organizations59:30 How the Golden State Warriors Create a Purpose-Filled Environment1:02:00 Empowering Parents in Youth Sports

Jon Montgomery, a gold medalist and host of The Amazing Race Canada, shares his insights on the importance of youth sports in personal development. He reflects on his own childhood experiences, the role of parents in shaping athletic identities, and the pressures faced by young athletes today. Montgomery emphasizes the value of multi-sport participation, the impact of social media, and the need for open conversations about sports and life with children. He advocates for a balanced approach to youth sports, focusing on enjoyment, physical literacy, and resilience rather than specialization and narrow development channels.Chapters00:00 Intro03:42 Jon's Foundation of Passion for Youth Sports05:14 Childhood Sports Experiences & Community Connection09:20 Influence of Family and Early Memories in Sports12:50 The Impact of Jon's Father on His Sports Experience17:55 Being Coached by Dad, Coaching Your Own Kids22:50 How Parents Stepped Up for Jon's Hockey Team26:50 The Shift to More Specialization in Youth Sports33:52 Transitioning to Skeleton and Olympic Aspirations38:25 The Impact of Multi-Sport Backgrounds42:00 The Role of Parents in Instilling Confidence48:20 Jon's Approach to Youth Sports as a Parent50:55 What He Wants His Children to Get From Youth Sports53:35 The Pressure of Youth Sports Today56:35 Setting Boundaries in Youth Sports59:40 Finding the Right Fit for Your Family1:01:26 Reflections on Changing Times in Sports1:04:10 Addressing Social Media Challenges1:07:10 Conversations as a Tool for Growth Resources: https://www.ctv.ca/shows/the-amazing-race-canada

Allison Forsyth, a Canadian Olympian and founder of Generation Safe, discusses her passion for youth sports and the importance of creating safe and positive environments for young athletes. She shares her own experiences growing up in a sports-oriented family, the role of parents in shaping children's sports experiences, and the challenges of pressure and expectations in youth sports. Allison emphasizes the need for diverse sporting experiences, the significance of socio-emotional coaching, and the critical issue of maltreatment in sports. As a parent of three children in sports, Allison shares her parental approach to youth sports and the experiences she has had with her children in various sports. She advocates for redefining success in sports beyond just winning and encourages parents to engage in safe sport education to empower themselves and their children.Chapters00:00 Intro05:22 The Passion for Youth Sports06:02 Allison's Early Sports Journey08:57 Her Parents' Influence in Sports12:10 The Joy of Skiing and Training14:11 The Importance of Multi-Sport Participation17:55 Understanding Pressure in Youth Sports20:40 How She Discovered Her Ability in Skiing25:30 Allison's Approach to Sports as a Parent33:12 The Biggest Issues in Youth Sports Today35:09 Understanding Maltreatment in Sports39:56 How Youth Sports Puts Pressure on Parents46:10 Treat Athletes as Humans First49:00 Keeping Youth Sports in Perspective51:24 How to Determine Safe Sport Environments58:06 The Importance of Socio-Emotional Coaching59:40 What to Look for in Your Child's CoachResources: https://generationsafe.ca/

An introduction to Better Sports Parents, a resource for parents to access perspectives, advice, and tools from world-class performers from across the world of sports. Hosted by veteran broadcaster Scott Rintoul, this weekly podcast examines the experiences, practices, and issues that have and continue to shape youth sports.