Have you ever heart... "Sure, whatever" only to come home to a furious spouse? This isn't a lack of communication skills—it's the Different Glasses Problem.We reveal why husbands and wives often see the same moment through completely different lenses: Blue Glasses filter through logic and respect, while Pink Glasses filter through love and emotional connection.Discover the critical truth found in Ephesians 5:33 and the universal core needs of men (respect) and women (love).We'll expose the three most dangerous phrases—"Sure, whatever," "I'm Fine," and "We Need to Talk"—and give you practical Translation Tools to bridge the gap.Stop focusing on the 7% (the words) and start understanding the 93% (tone and context) to experience breakthroughs in your marriage.
The empty nest can feel like a sudden silence after years of a full house. It’s a time of major change, and it's okay to feel a mix of emotions—grief, excitement, and uncertainty. But what if this new season isn't just an ending, but a new beginning designed by God?In this episode, my wife, Lorrie, and I share 10 powerful, biblical truths to help you find joy and purpose in the empty nest. We'll explore:Why we are stewards, not owners, of our children.How to shift your prayers from management to intercession.Finding your identity not in your role as "parent," but in Christ alone.The importance of building a deeper relationship with your spouse now that you have more time together.Whether you're already an empty nester or just getting ready for the transition, this episode is full of practical wisdom and encouragement to help you embrace the season God has for you.
Welcome to Better Together! This is the podcast for Christian couples and parents seeking to build a stronger, more intentional family. We dive into real-life topics like communication, discipline, and spiritual growth, offering practical advice and heartfelt encouragement grounded in God's Word.Join us weekly as we navigate the challenges and joys of marriage and parenting, learning to grow closer to each other and to God every day.
Imagine this: You've raised your kids, your house is quieter, and you're finally free to focus on yourself... only to realize that your marriage is falling apart. This is a more common occurrence than you might think.In today's episode, we're diving into the all-too-real danger of post-kid divorce. We'll explore why it happens and provide practical tips to prevent it.Check out our youtube channel where DJ answers some of life's toughest questions from God's Word!! www.youtube.com/@djharryteaches
Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're talking about something that's super important but can be really tough: being on the same page in your parenting. We've definitely made our fair share of mistakes in this area, especially early on in our marriage.For us it often seemed to center around discipline...we just weren't on the same wavelength! Yeah, it wasn't pretty.But we've learned that when it comes to parenting, unity is key. Having those tough conversations behind closed doors and presenting a united front to our kids is essential. Disunity can create a wedge between you and your spouse, and it can leave your kids feeling confused and insecure. So, let's talk about how to bridge the gap, find common ground, and work together to raise happy, healthy, and faithful kids!Let's do this together!
Hey there, Parents! Today on Better Together, we're diving into a topic that's super important but often overlooked: setting boundaries for your kids. Let's face it, boundaries can feel like a buzzkill sometimes. We want our kids to feel loved and free, but without clear limits, things can get chaotic fast. We're talking confusion, frustration, and a whole lot of it!! But guess what? Boundaries aren't about being mean or strict. They're actually a way to show your kids that you really love them. When they know what's expected of them, they feel more secure and less anxious. It's like having a roadmap for life. So, let's talk about how to set boundaries that are both loving and effective. We'll share some real-life examples and practical tips that you can start using today. Let's do this together!
We recorded a previous episode on the analogy of parents as coaches...and walked through how parenting changes as your kids mature and change. We have also talked a lot about the seasons of parenting...it has come up in several episodes.As our children walk through those seasons of life, the discipline that we impose serves a different purpose depending on the season of developement... So today we are going to talk about the purpose of discipline for our children and how it changes as they change!