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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.

From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.

Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.

🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.
🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Compersion Isn't Automatic — And That's Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it's a requirement, sometimes like it's a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn't come naturally? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the pressure people feel to "do non-monogamy right." This is a raw, honest conversation pulled straight from real life — no scripts, no coaching language, and no pretending it's always easy. Pris opens up about why compersion doesn't come naturally to her, how cultural upbringing and jealousy wiring play a role, and why being okay is sometimes the best she can offer in the moment. Adam shares what it feels like to want to share excitement and connection with your partner — and what happens when that moment doesn't land the way you expected. What We Talk About In This Episode What compersion actually means (and why it's not the opposite of jealousy) Why compersion is not natural for everyone Jealousy, possessiveness, and territorial instincts in non-monogamy The pressure to perform happiness for your partner How ADHD, stress, and mental overload affect emotional presence Why not talking can be more damaging than feeling jealous Different processing styles between partners Learning to communicate without shutting down Why compromise matters more than emotional perfection Real-Life Moments, Not Theory This episode is sparked by a real play-date experience that went well — but didn't get talked about right away. Adam and Pris unpack why timing, mental space, and communication matter just as much as intentions. If you've ever felt like you were failing at non-monogamy because jealousy showed up instead of compersion, this conversation will feel very familiar. The Takeaway You do not need to feel compersion to be successful in ethical non-monogamy. You do need honesty, self-awareness, communication, and respect for each other's boundaries. This episode is a reminder that non-monogamy isn't about checking emotional boxes — it's about navigating real human feelings together. Connect With Beyond Monogamy Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com for: Upcoming events and meetups Beyond Monogamy merchandise The anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Blog posts and episode breakdowns You can also hear us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. If this episode resonated, please subscribe, rate, review, and share the show — it helps us grow and keeps these conversations going.
Episode Summary: In this powerful and overdue conversation, Adam & Pris are joined by Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast to talk openly about bisexual men in the swinging lifestyle, the stigma that still exists even in sex-positive spaces, and why honest communication matters more than labels. Ashley shares how Rob came out early in their relationship and why that honesty laid the foundation for trust instead of fear. Rob opens up about navigating bisexuality as a man in the lifestyle, why bi men often stay invisible, and how judgment — not desire — keeps people silent. This episode tackles myths, insecurities, and real-world experiences around mixed-orientation relationships, consent, and boundaries. It's honest, supportive, and exactly the kind of conversation the lifestyle needs more of. In this episode, we discuss: How Ashley & Rob entered the swinging lifestyle Why bi men still face stigma in sex-positive communities The myth that "bi men are rare" Why visibility doesn't always mean being out publicly Consent, boundaries, and debunking harmful assumptions Supporting a bisexual partner without fear or control Why community matters when you feel isolated Guest: Ashley & Rob – United Bi Swinging Podcast Connect with Beyond Monogamy: Website & Events: www.beyond-monogamy.com Streaming on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central Follow us: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X: @beyomono YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Please rate, review, and share the show. It helps these conversations reach the people who need them most.
In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as "being ghosted." Just because someone doesn't reply immediately doesn't mean they disappeared — it usually means they're busy living a real life. This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies turned into accusations, guilt-tripping, and a crash course in what not to do when talking to people in the lifestyle. We break down: The difference between being busy and actual ghosting Why patience is sexy and entitlement is not How lifestyle etiquette gets thrown out the window in DMs Why visibility does not equal availability Respecting boundaries without killing the vibe How pushiness quietly ruins attraction If you've ever thought "Why haven't they responded yet?" — this episode is for you. Take a breath, slow your roll, and remember that confidence, respect, and patience are what actually make connections last. Find everything Beyond Monogamy at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Check out our Events tab to see where we'll be in 2025 and 2026, stream us on FullSwapRadio.com, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review.
Episode Summary In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it's really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle. Rae shares how she stumbled into the lifestyle, why she immediately felt at home, and how her journey as a content creator naturally overlaps with ethical non-monogamy. We dig into monetization in the lifestyle, why "free access" entitlement is a red flag, and how communication (especially for women) makes sex exponentially better. Recorded live at Club Eden San Antonio, this episode is funny, sexy, validating, and full of real talk you won't hear anywhere else. Show Notes Meeting Rae and why she fit right in immediately Being new to the lifestyle as a single bi woman Cosplay, anime cats, and content creation beginnings OnlyFans, boundaries, and monetization in the lifestyle Entitlement culture and why it doesn't belong here Hypersexuality, gooning, and finding your people Why communication makes sex better (especially for women) Feeling safe at lifestyle events and clubs Why content creators absolutely belong in non-monogamy Guest Info Rae Crush is a content creator, cosplayer, and lifestyle unicorn known for her playful anime-inspired looks, authenticity, and zero-BS honesty. Find Rae here: https://raecrush.carrd.co About Beyond Monogamy Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris explores real conversations around consensual non-monogamy, swinging, lifestyle dynamics, sex positivity, and connection — without the fluff or judgment. Website & extras: www.beyond-monogamy.com Hear us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave us a review on your favorite platform.
In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio. From arriving early to record a live podcast with content creator Rae, to dancing, pizza breaks, lingerie changes, and multiple unexpected play sessions, this night turned into the ultimate reminder of why we love this lifestyle. We talk about: Hosting our first Beyond Monogamy meet & greet at a lifestyle club Recording a podcast inside Club Eden before doors opened Being lifestylers who also create adult content — without being salesy Entitlement, authenticity, and monetizing the lifestyle How one play session turned into a full-blown multi-person orgy Why comfort, trust, and connection matter more than labels Overcoming anxiety as hosts and fully leaning into the night This episode is raw, funny, sexy, chaotic, and honest — exactly what a Wednesday QUICKIE should be. If you've ever wondered what happens when podcast hosts, content creators, and lifestyle friends collide at a club… this one's for you. Want to see us in person? We've already posted the first half of our 2026 events calendar. Find everything Beyond Monogamy at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Don't forget to check out our Events tab, Confessionals, blog posts, merch, and all the juicy extras. Streaming every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 2 PM & 7 PM Central. Support the show: patreon.com/beyondmonogamy
SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term "ethical non-monogamy," there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic. In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the 60s and 70s when freedom was brand new, communication was everything, and consent was just starting to evolve. From key clubs and the dawn of "no-fault" divorce to the lessons that still apply to modern swingers, Sam's stories remind us how much the world has changed — and how much it really hasn't. We talk about jealousy, connection, freedom, communication, and how couples can keep their spark alive even decades later. This one's a fun, flirty, and eye-opening history lesson for anyone exploring non-monogamy today. Sam's humor and honesty prove that freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile. SHOW NOTES Guest: Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances Topics covered: The sexual revolution and how "key clubs" started it all How couples handled jealousy and boundaries before "rules" existed What freedom meant for women in the 60s and 70s — and what's at stake today Why communication and consent still make or break connection How to keep date nights, desire, and humor alive — even after 60+ years of marriage Favorite quote from Sam: "Freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile." 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! And don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — it helps us grow and keep bringing real conversations like this your way. 📣 JOIN THE BEYOND MONOGAMY COMMUNITY 💻 Visit our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 🎙️ Stream us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 📬 Share your stories (anonymous or not) in the Beyond Monogamy Confessional 🎟️ Check out our Events Page for live shows, meet-and-greets, and travel plans — 2026 dates are already stacking up! 📚 Grab Sam's book: Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances 👉 Help keep the conversations going — rate, review, and share the show with your lifestyle friends, club buddies, and open-minded circles. Every review helps more curious couples find us! Follow us on social media for all things Beyond Monogamy: Facebook: @BeyondMonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond X/Twitter: @beyomono YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Real talk, real couples, real connection.
This Week's QUICKIE: Confessionals This week's QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories. Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with "horny brain." From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it's equal parts sexy, funny, and real-life relatable. They also shout out The Happy Swinger for the handmade gifts (yes, including a penis whistle), talk about their live hotel-takeover show that almost survived the tech gods, and share why sometimes the best nights in the lifestyle are the ones spent doing absolutely nothing. 👉 Don't forget: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Saturday, Dec 13 @ 9 PM Central at Club Eden in San Antonio! Come hang out, meet the crew, and catch a live show taping before doors open. 🎧 Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com. 💋 Join our community for behind-the-scenes content, early drops, and exclusive extras at Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris. 🌐 Find everything — blog, merch, confessionals, events, and more — at www.Beyond-Monogamy.com. 🗒️ Show Notes  Episode: QUICKIE Confessionals Hosts: Adam & Pris Alvarez Highlights: Real listener confessions about navigating attraction, rejection, and self-doubt in the lifestyle The struggle of saying "no" gracefully — and why honesty is the sexiest thing you can bring to playtime "Horny brain" moments, hotel takeovers, and why it's okay to skip the play and just rest The awkward art of separating vanilla life from lifestyle life BDSM trust, vulnerability, and what it means to feel truly safe with your partner A special shoutout to The Happy Swinger — custom lifestyle-themed gifts, including that unforgettable dick whistle 🎟️ Upcoming Event: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Naughty & Nice Edition 📍 Club Eden San Antonio 📅 Saturday, Dec 13 • 9 PM CST Come meet Adam & Pris, join the party, and be part of the Beyond Monogamy energy live! 💬 Submit your own anonymous story via the Beyond Monogamy Confessional at www.Beyond-Monogamy.com. 🎧 Listen every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. 💋 Support the show and unlock Patreon-only extras at Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris. 📱 Follow us everywhere: Facebook | Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u | TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adamandbeyond | X (Twitter) @beyomono | YouTube @BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris
🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute, and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes. She's teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe. From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it's a shark tank out there), Ms. Nookie keeps it real, funny, and refreshingly human. Whether you're a swinger, poly, ENM, or just relationship-curious, this episode is packed with truth bombs, belly laughs, and practical takeaways you can use tonight. 🔥 Key Topics How to make consent sound sexy, not clinical The two questions swingers fear most — and how to stop being awkward about them Why self-love is your sexiest asset Nookie's guide to dating apps (and how to filter out the first layer of scum 😉) The art of slowing down and tapping into your feminine energy Confidence, communication, and why monogamy isn't "natural" — it's a choice 💬 Favorite Quotes "Big life changes come from small mindset changes." – Ms. Nookie "If you don't love yourself, why would I?" – Adam "Monogamy isn't natural. Anything you have to work at isn't." – Ms. Nookie "You craft your relationship. It doesn't have to fit society's box." – Ms. Nookie ✨ Connect with Ms. Nookie 🌐 Website: https://msnookie.com 📸 Instagram: Follow on Instagram 📘 Facebook: Follow on Facebook 🧵 Threads: Follow on Threads 💼 LinkedIn: Connect on LinkedIn 🔥 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 💋 Listen on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 🔥 Find us on SDC.com & 3Fun 🎙 Leave us a voicemail or confessional directly on our website ❤️ Like | Subscribe | Share | Review — it keeps the lifestyle love flowing!
QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival Hosts: Adam & Pris Series: Beyond Monogamy — Wednesday QUICKIE Episode Summary (SEO-Optimized) Holiday stress hits hard — and yes, it can put your libido on ice. In this candid QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get real (and hilarious) about December's money crunch, mental overload, and what to do when "just not in the mood" becomes the default setting. They unpack how finances and old triggers collide with lifestyle plans, why connection matters more than performance, and how to reset as a couple when the season gets heavy. Expect straight talk, empathy, and laugh-out-loud moments you'll relate to immediately — plus real tips on surviving the holidays without sacrificing your relationship health (or your sense of humor). Key Talking Points & Highlights Why December feels like the "broke season" for couples and how that impacts desire Stress vs. sex: the evolution from "f**k the stress away" to intentional reconnection Pris on shutting down when overwhelmed — and what helps pull her back in Adam's raw story of surviving Christmas while homeless, and why the holidays can trigger old memories Practical compassion: how to prioritize your partner when they need comfort more than play Community matters: you are not alone in holiday blues or financial stress Favorite Quotes "We're dropping money at Thanksgiving and we're dropping money at Christmas… the weeks in between are literally broke weeks." "Sometimes I just need a hug, not a hookup." "You're not the only ones who are stressed… when things are better, you bang it out." Find Us, Join Us, Talk to Us Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Anonymous Confessional & Voicemail: On our website — share a story, ask a question, or vent completely anonymously. Full Swap Radio: We stream every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Tune in and show us love! Affiliates: SDC (find our link on our site/show notes), 3Fun, and more on our website Links page. Socials: Find all our platforms via the website header (Facebook, Instagram, X, TikTok, YouTube). Upcoming Events Texas Desires Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover — Dec 5–7, 2025 We'll be there all weekend doing a live show and mixing it up. Day passes and rooms still available — come hang out with us! Club Eden Meet & Greet (San Antonio) — Dec 13, 2025 @ 9 PM Naughty & Nice: Beyond Santa's List — the perfect holiday mingle if you're local or nearby. See the Events tab for details. All details live on our Events tab. Help Us Grow — It Truly Helps If you enjoyed this episode, please Like, Subscribe, Share, and leave a Review. Your support helps other open-minded couples discover the show and keeps our community growing. Drop a confession or voicemail on the site — we might feature it in a future episode! © Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Episode Summary Adam & Pris sit down with Jhannyphil Contreras of Tropical Unicorn Travels to unpack the real world of lifestyle-friendly travel—from Temptation Resort vibes to practical safety tips, payment-plan budgeting, and how to pick the right adults-only resort for your energy. We get candid about community, confidence, and body acceptance, and how a thoughtful, drama-free plan can turn any couples' getaway into something unforgettable. If you've been curious about Temptation Cancun, Hedonism in Jamaica, group trips, or simply want a romantic, private escape that fits your budget and boundaries, this episode gives you a step-by-step feel for what to expect and how to book like a pro. Keywords: Temptation Resort, Temptation Cancun, Hedonism Jamaica, lifestyle travel, swinger travel, adults-only resorts, couples vacations, Caribbean travel tips, travel safety, payment plan vacations, Beyond Monogamy podcast, Tropical Unicorn Travels. Show Notes Guest: Tropical Unicorn Travels Name: Jhannyphil Contreras Website: tropicalunicorntravels.com Instagram: @tropicalunicorntravels TikTok: @tropicalunicorntravels What She Does: Helps couples plan lifestyle-friendly, adults-only trips (with privacy), matching resort vibe to comfort level—plus realistic budgeting, flexible deposits, and travel safety coaching. What We Cover How curiosity (not participation) brought Jhannyphil into lifestyle spaces and ultimately to Temptation Resort Body confidence & community: why lifestyle-friendly environments often feel more welcoming Resort vibes 101: choosing adults-only vs. party vs. chill—and when the Caribbean is actually at its best Planning smart: deposits, payment timelines, and why booking 3+ months out matters Safety basics: vetting plans, avoiding scams, and protecting your privacy when traveling Romance on a budget: small details (limo transfers, room setups, surprises) that land big Quick Tips & Insights Best Caribbean window: roughly November–April for prettier beaches & milder weather Budget sanity: flexible deposits & payment plans can make bigger trips realistic Excursions: book after you feel out your energy on arrival—don't lock yourself into early mornings post-party Chapters Intro & guest story Finding lifestyle spaces & community energy Temptation Resort and resort-vibe matching Safety, privacy, and smart planning Budget, deposits, and when to book Romance tips & easy "wow" moments How to work with a travel pro Connect with Beyond Monogamy Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Events: Upcoming events & live shows Patreon: patreon.com/beyondmonogamy Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Call to Action Book a lifestyle-friendly trip with Tropical Unicorn Travels: tropicalunicorntravels.com Join our Patreon community for extras & behind-the-scenes: patreon.com/beyondmonogamy Share this episode with a travel-curious couple & leave a review on Apple or Spotify
🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and strengthened their connection inside and outside the lifestyle. They share favorite moments, biggest lessons, raw behind-the-scenes stories, and the truth about juggling love, libido, and life on air. Whether you're a new listener or a long-time fan, this episode proves that honesty, humor, and real talk are the heart of non-monogamy done right. Hear how Beyond Monogamy grew from a small Thanksgiving idea into a global community — and why Adam & Pris are just getting started. 🎉 Beyond Monogamy Turns One! One year ago, Adam & Pris hit record without knowing what the hell they were doing—and somehow turned Beyond Monogamy into one of the most talked-about shows in ethical non-monogamy. This anniversary episode is part reflection, part roast, and 100% real. 🔥 What You'll Hear: How the podcast changed their marriage (and communication) Funniest and most emotional behind-the-scenes moments What surprised them most about fame inside the lifestyle Lessons from swinging, polyamory, and finding confidence The listener messages that made them realize they're helping people Why year two will be bigger, deeper, and wilder 💬 Adam & Pris Say: "We started this as a hobby—and now it's a mission. If you've ever felt seen, challenged, or cracked up listening to us… thank you. You're part of this crazy, beautiful ride." ☕ Join the Conversation: www.beyond-monogamy.com Support us on Patreon Follow us on social: Facebook: @BeyondMonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X (Twitter): @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris 📻 Hear Us on Full Swap Radio: Thursdays 2 PM & 7 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com 🖤 Help Us Grow! If you loved this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe wherever you listen. It helps more open-minded people discover Beyond Monogamy. And don't forget to share it with your lifestyle friends—you never know whose world it might open up. Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Raw, Real, and Definitely Not PG.
What happens when a couple turns their home into one of Houston's most talked-about lifestyle destinations? Adam and Pris sit down with Nicole and Isaac, founders of Pineapple House TX, for an open, hilarious, and eye-opening conversation about what it takes to build a judgment-free space for connection, curiosity, and seriously sexy fun. They talk about how it all started, the challenges of throwing house parties in the lifestyle, and what separates Pineapple House TX from anything else in the Houston scene. From custom-built themed rooms and a fully functional (and classy) glory wall, to screening guests for safety and comfort, Nicole and Isaac have created an experience that balances erotic freedom with genuine hospitality. This one's equal parts funny, raw, and informative — perfect for anyone curious about what really goes on behind the black curtain at a lifestyle house party. Show Notes Episode: Inside Pineapple House TX: The Houston Couple Redefining Lifestyle House Parties Guests: Nicole & Isaac — Founders of Pineapple House TX Location: Houston, Texas About This Episode Adam and Pris take listeners inside one of the most unique lifestyle spots in Texas — Pineapple House TX. The founders, Nicole and Isaac, share how they went from attending events to creating their own, why safety and comfort are their top priorities, and what they've learned after years of hosting themed, inclusive, and wildly creative house parties. Topics Covered How Isaac started in the kink and BDSM community before entering the swinging scene Nicole's journey from curiosity to confidence in her bisexuality and lifestyle comfort Building a judgment-free, welcoming environment for newbies and experienced couples alike Why their parties are different — themed rooms, lighting, music, and intentional hosting The screening process for guests (especially single men) and why safety comes first Lessons learned from their very first party (and the 15 pizzas no one showed up for) The emotional rollercoaster of hosting and what keeps them motivated Why consent, comfort, and community always come before play Beyond Monogamy at Pineapple House TX Adam and Pris share their firsthand experience attending Pineapple House TX — including the décor, themed rooms like the Zen Room, Enchanted Forest, and Orgy Room, and the surprisingly classy take on the glory wall that became a crowd favorite. The conversation dives into how Pineapple House TX strikes a perfect balance between erotic energy and genuine hospitality, giving new meaning to "Texas-sized" fun in the lifestyle house party scene. Where to Find Pineapple House TX Website: https://sites.google.com/pineapplehousetx.com/home Instagram: @thepineapplehousetx Lifestyle sites: Search "TravelingCoupl3" on SDC and Quiver Connect with Beyond Monogamy Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Events: beyond-monogamy.com/events Patreon: patreon.com/beyondmonogamy Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM CST on fullswapradio.com Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) and @adam&beyond (Adam) Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Join the Community Stay up to date on all Beyond Monogamy live events, guest collaborations, and upcoming Pineapple House TX parties. You don't have to be non-monogamous to enjoy a show about non-monogamy — you just have to be curious enough to press play. SEO Keywords Pineapple House TX, Houston swinger parties, lifestyle house parties, Beyond Monogamy podcast, swinger events Texas, lifestyle community Houston, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, swingers podcast, kink and BDSM, couples events, safe lifestyle spaces, inclusive swinger parties, lifestyle house party Houston, glory hole wall, Texas lifestyle events.
Mental Health & The Lifestyle: Depression, Anxiety, Jealousy & the Parts Nobody Talks About In this week's Beyond Monogamy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris crack open a conversation most lifestyle folks avoid: mental health. From depression that hides behind humor, to feeling unwanted in LS spaces, to the pressure of always "being on" because of content creation, this episode gets raw, honest, and deeply needed. Adam opens up about a form of depression that doesn't look like the stereotypical "can't get out of bed" kind — it looks more like working nonstop, smiling through the storm, and masking with jokes. Pris shares the emotional weight of their poly years, what she kept inside, how depression silently grew, and how finally being honest helped her breathe again. Together, they break down the emotional side of non-monogamy that impacts self-worth, jealousy, compersion, body image, performance anxiety, rejection, and confidence in the lifestyle. If you've ever felt overwhelmed in the lifestyle… if you've ever questioned your worth… if you've ever smiled on the outside while drowning inside… this one's for you. 💬 Episode Focus: Mental Health & The Lifestyle In this candid, heartfelt QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into the mental and emotional side of ethical non-monogamy and swinging: Why mental health struggles are common but rarely talked about in the lifestyle What happens when one partner is "more into it" than the other, and depression quietly builds under the surface The emotional weight of their poly years and what hiding feelings did to Pris's mental health The heavy feeling of not feeling wanted or noticed at lifestyle events and clubs How the lifestyle can sometimes feel like high school all over again — cliques, comparison, and insecurity How rejection and "you're not my type" moments hit self-esteem and confidence The pressure of being "on" all the time when you're known for your podcast and content Adam's personal experience with depression that hides behind humor, productivity, and obsession with work Why communication is absolutely crucial when jealousy, compersion, and insecurity show up How mental health and sexual health are deeply connected — and why it's hard to perform when your brain is overloaded Why it's okay (and healthy) to pause, reset, or step back from the lifestyle when life starts "lifing" The main takeaway? Protect your peace as much as you protect your parts. The lifestyle can be fun as hell, but only if your mind is in a good place while you're living it. 🌐 Start Here: Our Website 👉 https://www.beyond-monogamy.com Events Page: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/beyond-monogamy-events/ Anonymous Confessional: Share your story, question, or struggle completely anonymously from the site. Patreon: Join for bonus behind-the-scenes extras, deeper dives, and more time with Adam & Pris. 🎧 Listen & Watch You can find Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris on all major platforms, including: Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music Pandora YouTube – full video episodes Remember: You don't have to be non-monogamous to enjoy a show about non-monogamy. 📻 Full Swap Radio Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at: 2:00 PM Central 7:00 PM Central 📱 Follow & Connect With Us Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Twitter / X: @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Discord: Join our community for lifestyle chat, episode discussions, and event info. 💌 Need Support or Someone to Talk To? If this episode hit close to home and you're struggling with depression, anxiety, jealousy, or feeling unwanted in the lifestyle, please know: You're not weird. You're not broken. You're human. Your mental health matters just as much as your sexual exploration. It's okay to step back, slow down, or hit pause when life gets heavy. You can: Submit an anonymous story or question through our Confessional on the website. Reach out privately through our contact form or DMs on social media. Share this episode with a partner or friend if you don't know how to start the conversation. We can't be your therapists, but we can be your people — a couple who gets it, who's been through it, and who is willing to talk about the stuff most lifestyle conversations skip. ✅ Before You Go Like, subscribe, and follow on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a rating and review — it helps more people in (and out of) the lifestyle find the show. Share this episode with someone who might be struggling silently. Join our Patreon for deeper dives, behind-the-scenes content, and more real talk.
The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover Episode Summary This episode opens with a listener voicemail from a lesbian couple asking how they fit into the lifestyle—so we break down inclusive, real-world guidance for same-sex couples navigating LS spaces, boundaries, and community. Then we sit down with Texas Desires to preview their Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, Dec 5–6, where we'll be recording a live Beyond Monogamy podcast. Expect a true full-property buyout (not just a "top-floor party"), flat $500 room rate (king for 2 or double-queen for up to 4), BYOB, and upgraded breakfast included—no hidden fees. To reserve, email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one "L"). Listener Voicemail: "How do lesbian couples fit into the lifestyle?" We discuss why many events historically skew toward the straight-male / bi-female dynamic and how to navigate that as a same-sex couple—focusing on mentorship, clear boundaries, and finding welcoming communities. Practical tips: look for friendly faces, build your table if no one pulls out a chair, and use lighthearted icebreakers to meet people. Texas Desires: Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio • Dec 5–6) Dates/Location: Dec 5–6 in San Antonio (exact hotel released the week of for attendee safety). True hotel buyout: Texas Desires rents the entire hotel for the weekend, creating a cohesive, clothing-optional vibe within legal rules. Pricing (flat, no add-ons): $500 per room; up to 4 people in a double-queen, 2 people in a king. Organizer covers credit card fees, hotel taxes, security, and DJ. Food & Drinks: BYOB; breakfast included and upgraded; food trucks on site (purchase your own food). Rules & Comfort: Clothing required in food-service areas; full itinerary coming soon. Ladies—bring comfy shoes! How to Reserve: Email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one "L"). Rooms still available—don't lose your spot! Why This Takeover's Different Texas Desires designs a true weekend escape—an all-inclusive, full-property experience for the lifestyle community, not a scattered, mixed-public hotel setup. It's an event where connection, comfort, and freedom meet. Beyond Monogamy Events Keep an eye on our Events Page for updates on this takeover and other upcoming meetups. We'll sync our calendar as Texas Desires releases their full itinerary. Links & How to Support Website & Events: www.beyond-monogamy.com • Events Confessional (anonymous stories): Available on our website under "Confessional." Patreon (bonus content & behind-the-scenes): Join on Patreon FullSwapRadio: Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. Socials Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X (Twitter): @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) • @adam&beyond (Adam) Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Calls to Action Reserve your room: Email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one "L"). Subscribe on YouTube, follow on socials, join Patreon, and drop an anonymous Confession on our site. Share & Review the show—help us grow the lifestyle community!
Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage Episode Type: QUICKIE Show: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris What keeps a man grounded when life, love, and the lifestyle all collide? In this fun, raw, and real QUICKIE, Pris flips the mic on her husband and co-host, Adam, to dig deep into how he balances it all: a fiery wife, a busy podcast, family life, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy. From jealousy and communication struggles to menopause, ADHD, finances, and the messy moments in marriage, Adam gets vulnerable about what it really takes to stay connected, keep the peace, and grow stronger together. If you've ever wondered what makes a relationship survive the chaos of real life and the lifestyle, this one's for you. They talk teamwork, love languages, reconnection rituals, emotional self-awareness, and why "meet in the middle" might be the ultimate relationship cheat code. You'll laugh, relate, and maybe even tear up as Adam shares the heart behind the brand — and why this podcast is so much more than stories and sex talk. ☕ Grab your coffee, your partner, or your favorite toy — this episode is real-life love in the raw. In This Episode How Adam stays balanced through love, chaos, and menopause The truth about communication and emotional reconnection in long-term relationships Jealousy vs. security in non-monogamy and the lifestyle How teamwork and "meeting in the middle" matter more than chemistry alone Reconnecting after lifestyle events: coffee, food, and real conversations Real talk about finances, stress, and why relationships matter more than money How Beyond Monogamy became a growing community for couples and the curious Adam's passion for turning this podcast into a lifelong mission for both of them Top Takeaways Communication beats competition. If you're trying to "win" an argument, you both lose. Meet in the middle. Love isn't always 50/50 — it's about showing up as a team. Hormones are real. Menopause, cycles, mental health and hormones affect communication and reactions for both partners. Appreciation matters. Small acts of service, physical affection, and words of gratitude stack up over time. Reconnection is a ritual. Post-event coffee dates, debriefs, and honest talks keep you grounded and close. Remember your priorities. Money, jobs, and outside stress come and go — your partner, kids, and core relationships are the real foundation. Honesty over perfection. It's okay to admit when you're struggling, shutting down, or needing space — as long as you communicate it. Links & Resources Main Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com Beyond Monogamy Confessional: Share your anonymous stories at the Confessional Events & Live Shows: Check out our upcoming events, live podcasts, and meet & greets at the Events Page Listen to Us Around the Web Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central at FullSwapRadio.com YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Support & Extras Patreon: Early access, behind-the-scenes, and extra content at patreon.com/BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Merch: Shirts, mugs, and more via our website's merch section. Affiliates & Partners 3Fun: Explore the lifestyle-friendly dating app at our 3Fun link SDC: Join the lifestyle community using our referral at SDC.com/?ref=38236 Forbidden Fruit: Your local & online adult boutique at ForbiddenFruit.com Upcoming Events Texas Legends Hotel Takeover – San Antonio December 5–7 — Live Beyond Monogamy show & Q&A on-site. Details on our Events Page. Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet – Club Eden San Antonio December 13 — Hang out with us, ask questions, and connect with community. Info also on our Events Page. Follow Beyond Monogamy Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X (Twitter): @beyomono TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Help Us Grow If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review wherever you listen. It helps more people find Beyond Monogamy and keeps this community growing strong.
🎧 Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle Step inside Austin's legendary adult boutique, Forbidden Fruit, with Adam & Pris for a wild and hilarious live recording of Beyond Monogamy. In this special episode, the duo explores the shelves of Texas' oldest adult store — surrounded by locally made toys, leather gear, art, and laughter — while diving into the unspoken rules of flirting in the lifestyle. From favorite toy confessions and lube mishaps to open talk about pleasure, body confidence, and communication, this episode blends real education with the humor and honesty Beyond Monogamy is known for. Whether you're a curious newcomer or a longtime swinger, this one's packed with relatable insights, Austin flavor, and a reminder that pleasure is personal — and better when shared. 🔥 Highlights Live at ForbiddenFruit.com — Austin's oldest adult store Local toy makers, workshops, and sex-positive education Adam's first guy toy experience (and how it changed his mind) Pris on female pleasure, confidence, and toys in the bedroom How to introduce toys and talk about pleasure with new partners Upcoming events: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet, Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (Dec 5–7 in San Antonio) 🎙️ Episode Details Hosts: Adam & Pris Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 💬 What We Talk About Behind the scenes of Forbidden Fruit, Austin's oldest adult store Supporting local Texas toy makers and artists Exploring toys, kink gear, and sexual wellness in a welcoming environment The difference between flirting and hitting on people in the lifestyle Why using toys doesn't replace your partner — it enhances connection Flirting Etiquette 101: how to read energy, respect consent, and avoid awkwardness Real talk about size, pleasure, and confidence between couples Adam & Pris's personal stories (and hilarious moments caught on mic) 🗓️ Upcoming Events 💥 Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet + Live Show 📍 Forbidden Fruit Austin 🗓️ Saturday • 12 PM – 4 PM 🎅 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover 📍 San Antonio, TX • Dec 5–7 🎤 Live Podcast & Q&A with Adam & Pris 👉 Event Details & Tickets 🌐 Connect with Beyond Monogamy Website → www.beyond-monogamy.com Patreon → Exclusive After Hours, bloopers & behind-the-scenes Full Swap Radio → Thursdays @ 2 PM & 7 PM CST 3Fun App → https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932 SDC → https://www.sdc.com/?ref=38236 📱 Follow Us Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u Facebook: beyondmonogamy4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam) X (Twitter): @beyomono YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy 🏷️ SEO Tags / Keywords Austin adult store, Forbidden Fruit Austin, sex toys Texas, lifestyle podcast, swinger podcast, Beyond Monogamy, non-monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, flirting in the lifestyle, swinger tips, sexual wellness, kink in Austin, couples communication, Adam & Pris, Full Swap Radio, Austin block party, Naughty and Nice Hotel Takeover, ForbiddenFruit.com
Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar Episode Summary Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We've got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you're there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, where we'll host a live Beyond Monogamy show with audience Q&A.   Come Hang With Us — Upcoming Events ➡️ Full Events Page (dates, times, maps, updates) 📍 Saturday, November 8 — Meet & Greet @ Forbidden Fruit (Austin, TX) Time: 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM (we may stay later if it's poppin') Where: Inside Forbidden Fruit (Austin's oldest locally owned adult boutique; block-party vibes with neighboring local shops) What's happening: Photos, lives, light Q&A, merch, and meet-the-hosts energy Parking tip: It's tight—street or neighborhood parking recommended. Worth the walk! Full address, updates, and reminders are on our Events Page. 🎄 December 5–7 — Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio, TX) Weekend takeover: Lifestyle community, day events, and night parties We're performing: A live Beyond Monogamy podcast + audience Q&A (seating + mic setup on site) Heads-up: Rooms are moving fast—see the Events Page for info & booking details Traveling in to see us? Tell us you're coming—we love meeting out-of-towners. How to Find Lifestyle Events Check vetted platforms like SDC and Kasidie for party & meet-and-greet listings. Local Facebook communities (often invite-only)—meet people at clubs and ask for a group invite. At meet-and-greets, introduce yourself to the host or a connector; start with one person, let them introduce you onward. First-Timer Tips (Real Talk) It's normal to be nervous—your first event is the hardest; it gets easier fast. Have a drink if you want, but avoid overdoing it—staying aware keeps you safe and confident. Safety first: watch your surroundings, stick together, and honor consent like it's sacred.   Links & Resources Mentioned 🗓️ All Events (first stop): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/beyond-monogamy-events/ 🌐 Main Site: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com 📬 Beyond Monogamy Confessional (anonymous): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/confess/  📻 Full Swap Radio: https://fullswapradio.com — catch us Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM Central ❤️ Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris  📱 SDC (events/platform): https://www.sdc.com  📱 Kasidie (events/platform): https://www.kasidie.com    SEO Keywords lifestyle events, swinger events, ethical non-monogamy, meet and greet Austin, Naughty and Nice hotel takeover, swinger podcast, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, non-monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio, lifestyle community Texas Enjoyed the episode? Please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review—this helps the community find us and keeps the conversations.
In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories. 💧 Jaime's work: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com 🌐 Our site: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Listen on FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com ❤️ Support us on Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris CTA: If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review on whatever platform you listen on—it seriously helps the community grow! Meet Us IRL: We'll be at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) on November 8—come say hi and join our live Q&A session! Show Notes Key Topics How labels help—when they're guides, not molds Swinging vs. Polyamory: sex-forward vs. romance-forward dynamics Jealousy isn't the villain: safety, communication, and growth Latin culture, masculinity, shame, and sexual autonomy Consent, agency, honesty & compassion as relationship pillars Why community is the #1 unlock for sustainable ENM About Our Guest Jaime Gama is a psychologist and Gestalt therapist, international educator on ethical non-monogamy, and author of Si te duele, ahí no es. He leads workshops, writes, and creates hugely popular content that makes complex relationship ideas practical and accessible. Website: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com Links & Resources Beyond Monogamy: www.beyond-monogamy.com FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris Guest site: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com How You Can Help Tap those buttons—like, subscribe, share, and review—so more curious, open-minded folks can find the show. Thank you for supporting independent creators! Come Hang With Us Forbidden Fruit (Austin) — November 8 Meet-and-greet + listener Q&A. Can't wait to see you there!
Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Sometimes you're vibing at a lifestyle club—lights low, bodies moving, drinks flowing—and boom… someone from your vanilla life walks in. Your coworker. A family friend. Someone from the PTA. 😳 Now what? In today's Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down exactly what happens when you get SPOTTED in the wild… and how to turn that panic moment into a confident lifestyle win. From awkward introductions to "keep your eyes up" territory, this episode shares a real-life run-in that ended up being surprisingly great. What You'll Learn The #1 newbie fear: "What if I run into someone I know?!"—and how to handle it Consent, discretion, and reading the room when worlds collide When not to approach someone—and why Why being open can feel freeing (and build real community) Turning "oh no" into "we're good" without the drama Listen & Support Subscribe on your favorite platform, tap LIKE, SHARE with a friend, and please leave a REVIEW. It takes seconds and massively boosts the show in search and recommendations. Community Links Join Our Patreon Get bonus episodes, Couch Confessionals, After Hours, behind-the-scenes & more. Your support keeps the mics hot. ❤️ Become a Patron Anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Drop your wild stories, burning questions, or true confessions—100% anonymous. We may feature yours in a future episode. Submit to the Confessional Catch Us on FullSwapRadio Listen every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central alongside a curated lineup of adult talk shows. fullswapradio.com Everything in One Place Episodes • Events • Confessional • Merch • Socials: www.beyond-monogamy.com Episode Keywords ethical non-monogamy, ENM, swinging, lifestyle clubs, getting spotted in the lifestyle, discretion and consent, open relationships, Beyond Monogamy podcast Thanks for listening! If this helped you breathe easier about "getting spotted," share it with a friend who needs it.
Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Attachment, Resentment & Rewriting the Rules of Non-Monogamy Guests: Jessica Fern (author of Polysecure, Polywise, and Transforming the Shame Triangle) and David Cooley (restorative-justice facilitator, creator of Restorative Relationship Conversations). Episode Summary  In this heart-to-heart, Adam & Pris sit down with Jessica Fern and David Cooley to go deeper than "What is polyamory?" They unpack attachment styles, why resentment is jealousy's sneaky cousin, and how the Shame Triangle (inner persecutor, inner victim, inner rescuer) quietly shapes conflict—and how to transform it with practical tools rooted in IFS and restorative practices. The convo hits real-life dynamics: ditching the "50/50" myth, navigating capacity and time (especially with kids), and why relationships thrive when both partners bring 100%—just not in the same way every day. Adam & Pris get candid about their own poly chapter, burnout, and finding balance, while Jessica & David share how their post-divorce collaboration became one of their healthiest partnerships. Keywords: Jessica Fern, David Cooley, Polysecure, Polywise, Transforming the Shame Triangle, attachment theory, IFS therapy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, jealousy vs resentment, relationship repair, capacity, family dynamics, Beyond Monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio. Listen & Subscribe Website: beyond-monogamy.com Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamywith Show Notes Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with needs-based clarity. Jealousy vs. Resentment: Resentment is the "check-engine light" for unmet needs or long-standing imbalances—don't villainize it, learn from it. The 50/50 Myth: Healthy partnerships aren't perfectly split; they're capacity-aware and transparent about changing needs over time. Polyamory + Parenting: Why time/energy constraints shift when kids are young—and how integrating partners into the family system can help. The Shame Triangle: Inner persecutor ➝ inner victim (shame) ➝ inner rescuer/escapers (over/under-functioning, numbing, projection) and how to break the cycle. Collaboration After Divorce: Jessica & David describe dissolving romance, rebuilding trust, and co-creating work that actually deepens harmony. Guest Links & Resources JessicaFern.com — book info, events, workshops (New book Transforming the Shame Triangle releases on October 31; pre-release discount via site). Polysecure, The Polysecure Workbook, Polywise — widely available wherever books are sold. Upcoming signings mentioned: Asheville (Malaprops, Oct 28), Atlanta (Cherish Books, Nov 4), Bay Area events week of Dec 17 with a day-long workshop on Dec 22. Favorite Moments "Resentment is a really important signal—like a dashboard light. There's a need underneath it asking to be seen." "Stop chasing 50/50. Bring your 100%—and expect your partner to bring theirs—in ways that ebb and flow with real capacity." "The Shame Triangle links that inner critic, the shame it creates, and the 'escapes' we use to avoid feeling it. Naming it is the first step to changing it."Timestamps 00:01 — Meet Jessica & David; books, backgrounds, collaboration 16:00 — Sacredness, conditioning & rethinking mononormative scripts 18:00 — Jealousy vs. resentment; needs, signals & repair 22:00 — Ditching 50/50; capacity, boundaries, expectations 29:00 — Poly + parenting; integrating partners into family systems 44:00 — The Shame Triangle explained (persecutor, victim, rescuer/escapers) 54:00 — Why feedback can trigger shame—and how to receive it better 55:00 — Book release timing & event tour details Support the Show Love the conversation? Join our Patreon for early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord hangs, and more. Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST. Follow us: Facebook @BeyondMonogamy4U • Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond • YouTube @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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