Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)
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Created by: Mocha SMC LLC (Author)
Hi, Pod. First, I want to thank you for listening to this podcast series. As you listen, you may notice areas where the episodes have been edited, and that's by design. The Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast is actually based on an original co hosted podcast, which ran from January 2021 through November 2022.
This edited series is a way for me to tease out my individual contributions and those of the guests who generously gave of their time during the interview. These are some of my really good friends who supported me through my SMC journey and I wanted to value their contributions as well. It really mattered to me that the content remained available to Black women considering the SMC path.
It also memorializes who I was, where I was, and how the pandemic impacted me as a solo parent. I have since moved on and created a second podcast series that is solo hosted by me. It's called Start to Finish Motherhood. It was created in November of 2022. This podcast series, Black Single Mothers by Choice, focuses on my trying to conceive journey and the early parts of me parenting two children as a solo parent.
And Start to Finish Motherhood is a podcast that focuses on parenting and on me coming to terms with my own identity post children. I wanted to take a bit of time with this new trailer to explain that to you because I do respect you as listeners. I hope you support both podcasts, Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood.
They're both a labor of love for me. I hope you enjoy. Bye now.
Hi, Pod. First, I want to thank you for listening to this podcast series. As you listen, you may notice areas where the episodes have been edited, and that's by design. The Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast is actually based on an original co hosted podcast, which ran from January 2021 through November 2022.
This edited series is a way for me to tease out my individual contributions and those of the guests who generously gave of their time during the interview. These are some of my really good friends who supported me through my SMC journey and I wanted to value their contributions as well. It really mattered to me that the content remained available to Black women considering the SMC path.
It also memorializes who I was, where I was, and how the pandemic impacted me as a solo parent. I have since moved on and created a second podcast series that is solo hosted by me. It's called Start to Finish Motherhood. It was created in November of 2022. This podcast series, Black Single Mothers by Choice, focuses on my trying to conceive journey and the early parts of me parenting two children as a solo parent.
And Start to Finish Motherhood is a podcast that focuses on parenting and on me coming to terms with my own identity post children. I wanted to take a bit of time with this new trailer to explain that to you because I do respect you as listeners. I hope you support both podcasts, Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood.
They're both a labor of love for me. I hope you enjoy. Bye now.
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Aisha, former co-host of the Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) podcast, is launching Start to Finish Motherhood, a podcast for those thinking or already Single Mothers by Choice, just looking for practical advice for navigating life's relationships. When you decide to have children on your own, it doesn't mean that you're completely alone. Aisha is partnering with you every step of your journey.
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Embark on a transformative journey with the "NorthStar Gaze" podcast, sharing intimate stories from Geo-Stem luminaries. In 1-on-1 chats, explore their journeys and profound contributions to geography and GIS.Inspired by our Telescope program, each episode offers a telescopic view into their lives. Uncover the human side of Geo-Stem, where passion meets purpose, and racial justice is central."The NorthStar Gaze" is your invitation to a Homecoming, where diverse voices paint the tapestry of contributions to geography and STEM. Tune in and let the brilliance of these geo-stars guide you.
In this, the podcast series finale, Aisha sits down with some of the moms she admires to discuss parenting. In this heartfelt episode, our host reflects on the parenting wisdom imparted by their own mother and how it shapes their approach to parenting today. Joined by fellow SMC moms Christina and Jillian, they dive deep into the joys and challenges of raising children as single mothers by choice. The conversation spans topics from respecting children's individuality and creating safe, emotionally supportive environments, to navigating school systems and setting healthy boundaries. Tune in for touching anecdotes, valuable insights, and practical advice. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our mailing list for more inspiring content!
00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections
00:48 Meet the Guests: Christina and Jillian
03:49 Parenting Philosophies and Early Expectations
09:27 Navigating Discipline and Emotional Health
17:54 Intentional Parenting and Family Values
25:27 Cultural Etiquette and Parenting Reflections
26:50 Navigating Modern Parenting Challenges
28:00 Balancing Boundaries and Family Dynamics
29:30 Surprising Lessons in Parenting
33:20 Understanding and Supporting Special Needs
34:47 School and Developmental Milestones
41:33 Building a Supportive Village
45:39 Kids' Career Aspirations and Parenting Joys
In this episode, explore the common question of whether to move closer to family and dive into the personal journey of relocating for a vibrant SMC (Single Mothers by Choice) community. Our speaker discusses the importance of assessing your reasons for moving, leveraging your support network during emergencies, and the intricacies of child care. They also shed light on the necessity of estate planning, financial readiness, and the nuances of filling out official paperwork as a single parent. Tune in to get practical advice and heartfelt insights, and don't forget to join our SMC community for ongoing support and connection!
00:00 Should I Move Closer to Family?
01:22 Assessing Your Village and Community
01:56 Leveraging Support During Emergencies
04:51 Finding and Trusting Childcare
07:28 Estate Planning for SMCs
10:04 Financial Readiness for SMCs
12:06 Filling Out Official Paperwork as an SMC
Join Aisha as she debrief's the challenges and experiences shared in last week's episode about SMCs (Single Mothers by Choice) and twin pregnancies. In this candid discussion, she revisits the medical complexities such as gestational diabetes and intrauterine growth restriction, personal stories of navigating these issues, and the emotional toll they take. Also covered are some practical strategies for balancing pregnancy with work, finances, and childcare. This episode offers invaluable insights and a support system for anyone going through similar experiences. Tune in, share with someone who could benefit, and be sure to join the conversation!
00:00 Introduction and Recap of the Twins Episode
00:52 Personal Pregnancy Experiences
01:08 Challenges of Gestational Diabetes
02:42 Inter Uterine Growth Restriction (IUGR)
04:51 Impact on Daily Life and Work
09:35 Financial Considerations of Twin Pregnancies
11:25 Decisions Around Embryo Transfer
13:27 Physical and Mental Impact of Pregnancy
14:20 Epidural and Labor Experiences
16:06 Conclusion and Debrief
Join Toja and Carla as they share their heartfelt and candid experiences of conceiving, carrying, and raising twins. From the trials of IVF and IUI treatments to the challenges of multigenerational living, both moms open up about the highs and lows of their unique journeys. They discuss the physical hardships, emotional struggles, and the surprising joys of twin motherhood. Their stories are filled with humor, honesty, and invaluable advice for anyone considering or navigating the path of raising multiples. Don't miss this incredible and eye-opening episode!
00:00 Meet Toja and Carla: Our Journey Begins
00:22 Family Dynamics and Living Situations
01:24 The Path to Pregnancy: IVF and IUI Stories
04:28 Discovering the Twin Surprise
06:45 Pregnancy Challenges and Health Complications
18:41 Life with Twins: The Early Months
20:33 Labor and Delivery Experiences
26:17 Financial and Emotional Struggles
29:23 Advice for Aspiring Twin Parents
31:50 Looking Back: Reflections and Encouragement
In this episode, Aisha delves into the world of travel with kids post-pandemic. A seasoned traveler, Aisha shares her experiences and practical tips for traveling domestically and internationally, whether you have an infant or a toddler. Get insights on packing strategies, handling in-flight challenges, leveraging local support from SMC friends, and making the most out of layovers. It's all about finding your family's travel groove and ensuring everyone, including mom, enjoys the vacation. If you found these tips useful, subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pages, and join our mailing list!
00:00 Introduction to Traveling with Kids
00:46 First Post-Pandemic Flight Experience
01:37 Tips for Traveling with Infants
02:39 Traveling with Toddlers: What to Expect
04:38 Navigating International Airports with Kids
06:06 The Benefits of Layovers and Road Trips
07:36 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
In this enlightening episode, we explore the journey of transitioning from a Single Mother by Choice (SMC) to finding love and building a romantic relationship. Join Aisha as she chats with our special guests, Kim and Erica, who share their personal stories of love, dating history, and how they introduced their partners to their children. They discuss the dynamics of co-parenting, the significance of having open conversations, and the importance of staying true to one's path. Whether you're an SMC or considering this journey, you'll find valuable insights and inspiration. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our mailing list for more great content!
00:00 Introduction to Today's Topic
00:14 Meet Our Guests: Kim and Erica
01:42 Dating Histories and Current Relationships
06:11 Introducing Kids to New Partners
11:53 Roles and Responsibilities in Blended Families
20:23 Advice for SMCs in Relationships
23:43 Conclusion: SMCs and Future Relationships
In this episode, Aisha delves into the empowering yet challenging journey of being a Solo Mother by Choice (SMC). Listen as she unpacks the complexities and everyday realities of choosing this unique parenting path. From societal perceptions to financial responsibilities and the pandemic's impact, we cover it all. This candid discussion sheds light on the joys and hurdles faced by SMCs and emphasizes the importance of community and intentionality in creating a nurturing home environment. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our mailing list for more inspiring content and support!
00:00 Introduction: The Challenges of Solo Parenting
00:55 Choosing Your Hard: Embracing Solo Motherhood
01:47 Breaking Away from Traditional Paths
03:03 Navigating Social Perceptions and Inclusivity
05:38 Financial and Logistical Realities of SMC Life
10:00 The Importance of Male Influence and Building a Village
12:00 Creating a Peaceful Home Environment
14:03 Balancing Personal and Parental Roles
Let's delve into a thoughtful and deeply personal discussion on the complexities of choosing a sperm donor while prioritizing the preservation of Black identity. Aisha shares her journey from choosing a donor to raising biracial children with a strong sense of Black heritage and cultural grounding. Her candid exploration of race, identity, and the importance of representation in family planning offers invaluable insights and heartfelt anecdotes. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our mailing list for more empowering content!
00:00 Introduction: Envisioning Black Parenthood
02:21 Choosing a Donor: Overcoming Challenges
05:02 Navigating Identity and Parenting
08:08 Addressing Racial Dynamics and Beauty Standards
11:28 Confronting Racial Realities and Responsibilities
15:20 Final Thoughts: The Importance of Racial Awareness
Join us in this heartfelt episode as we dive deep into the unique journey of being a Single Mother by Choice (SMC). We'll discuss the meticulous planning, the emotional hurdles, and the bravery it takes to walk this path daily. Whether you're contemplating becoming an SMC, or you're already in the midst of it, you'll find solidarity and insights here. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and don't forget to join our mailing list for more inspiring content and community support.
00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:07 The Journey to Becoming an SMC
00:47 Deciding the Path: Adoption, Pregnancy, or Surrogacy?
01:16 Family Reactions and Support
01:52 Financial and Emotional Preparedness
02:43 Plan A vs. Plan B SMCs
04:13 Bravery and Honest Conversations
05:47 Navigating Society and Conception Stories
07:56 Concerns and Decision-Making
10:11 Living Thoughtfully for the Future
10:59 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
In this engaging episode, we dive into the adventures of summer camps, the chaos of 2022 back-to-school preparations, and the daily hustle of school drop-offs and pick-ups. Join us as we share practical tips on managing summer schedules, embracing the school supply scavenger hunt, and the importance of selecting the right school for your child. Listen in for delightful anecdotes, helpful advice for school choice and preparation, and some humorous moments from the school carpool line. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our mailing list for more insightful content!
00:00 Finding My Stride as a Parent
00:26 Summer Camp Adventures
01:39 Back to School Preparation
03:21 Navigating School Drop-offs and Pick-ups
06:39 Back to School Shopping Hacks
08:53 Lunchbox Lessons and School Choice Advice
In this episode, the Mocha SMCs answer questions such as: should I move to be closer to my family, how do I start planning for a will, and what should I put on my child's birth certificate. They also get real about whether you can work and be home full time with your child.
In this final episode of season 3, Aisha discusses the overwhelming experiences many Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) face as their children transition into more demanding school environments. With a dive into the challenges of balancing different developmental stages with career planning, the impact of the pandemic on children's behavior, and the complexities of planning summer activities. Listen on as we share insights on making timely life decisions, from housing to career moves…, and how therapy and community support can help. Don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channels and Instagram pages at Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood.
00:00 Navigating Overwhelm as a Single Mother
02:27 Impact of the Pandemic on Children
05:11 Summer Camp Planning and Juggling Schedules
06:54 Making Major Life Decisions as a Single Mother
09:20 Financial Planning and Home Ownership
10:13 Career Moves and Family Planning
11:01 Closing Thoughts and Community Support
In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha and special guest Abby, founder of Peaceful Parent Sleep Coaching, explore the intricacies and emotional journey of embryo donation. Abby shares her personal experiences as an SMC, detailing the process and evolving relationships born from donation. This heartfelt conversation also covers practical aspects like financial and legal considerations. Don't miss out on these valuable insights! Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages. Join our mailing list and stay connected.
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Host
00:59 Season Overview and Special Guest Introduction
02:28 Understanding Embryo Donation
05:52 Navigating Costs and Legalities of Embryo Donation
11:17 Emotional Aspects of Embryo Donation
14:25 Building Relationships and Defining Roles
20:19 Peaceful Parent Sleep Coaching
22:16 Closing Remarks and Contact Information
This episode opens with a candid discussions on consent, dating, and communication. Join Aisha and a panel of insightful Black Single Mothers by Choice as they continue their conversation on parenting tween and delve into the intricacies of crucial topics such as teaching body autonomy, handling conversations about consent, and the evolving nature of dating as a single mother. With personal anecdotes and valuable advice shared, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of fostering open communication and building a supportive village. Don't miss this enriching discussion; subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, and follow Start to Finish Motherhood on YouTube and Instagram. Join our mailing list to stay updated!
00:00 Introduction to Black Single Mothers by Choice
01:00 Navigating Consent with Tweens
02:37 Empowering Children with Body Autonomy
03:07 Challenges of Raising Black Children
09:24 Dating as a Single Mother
13:54 Building a Supportive Community
17:24 Advice for Single Mothers of Younger Kids
21:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Navigating Tweenhood and Parenthood as a Black Single Mother by Choice In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha welcomes Jennifer, Joy, and Yana to discuss the unique challenges and joys of parenting tweens. From school dynamics and social pressures to the evolving understanding of familial structures and puberty, this episode dives deep into the real, unfiltered experiences of being a single mother by choice. Join us for candid conversations, sage advice, and heartfelt stories. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pages, and join our mailing list for the latest updates. Email us at mocha smc@gmail.com with your thoughts and questions!
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:56 Challenges of School-Aged Children
01:50 Meet the Guests: Jennifer, Joy, and Yana
02:59 Balancing Work and Parenting
09:06 Navigating Conception and Adoption Stories
13:30 Handling Technology and Independence
21:48 Dealing with Puberty
26:01 Conclusion and Farewell
Join Aisha in her conversation with Michelle, a 50-year-old single mother by choice and a Foreign Service professional, as she shares her heartfelt and candid journey of raising her son, Aiden, overseas. From choosing the right sperm donor to the logistical challenges of living abroad, Michelle's story touches on the unique experiences and challenges faced by Black Single Mothers by Choice. Her advice on building a supportive village and navigating international living is invaluable. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pages, and join our mailing list for more inspiring stories. Email mocha.smc@gmail.com to share your thoughts!
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:54 Meet Michelle: A Single Mother by Choice
01:18 Deciding to Become a Single Mother
03:06 The IVF Journey in Kenya
04:17 Challenges and Decisions in Fertility
06:47 Navigating Life in the Foreign Service
10:22 Raising a Child Abroad
13:46 Building a Support System Overseas
21:00 Advice for Single Mothers Moving Abroad
22:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
In this episode, Aisha dives into the importance of mask-wearing for her children, the logistical challenges of parenting solo, and the misconceptions about Black single mothers. Hear how she balances it all while advocating for greater representation and addressing the need for more Black sperm donors. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pages, and join our mailing list for more empowering stories and tips. For any thoughts or questions, email mocha.smc@gmail.com and consider supporting the podcast through donations.
00:00 Introduction to the Black Single Mothers by Choice Podcast
00:54 Navigating School and Mask Mandates
03:42 Challenges of Parenting Logistics
05:34 Dating as a Single Mother by Choice
08:17 Fertility and Representation in the Black Community
11:24 Concluding Thoughts and Call to Action
In this heartfelt episode, Dominique shares her candid journey of becoming a new mom, navigating postpartum depression, and balancing work responsibilities. She opens up about her egg donation experience at age 21 and the emotional complexities involved. Dominique and the host discuss the stigma around fertility treatments and the need for more representation and openness in these conversations. They also explore the significance of donor relationships and the importance of transparency with donor-conceived children. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on resilience, support, and the diverse paths to motherhood. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pages, and join the mailing list for more empowering stories and resources.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:29 Challenges of Early Motherhood
00:55 Returning to Work After Maternity Leave
01:44 Journey to Becoming an Egg Donor
03:48 The Egg Donation Process
06:09 Navigating the Emotional Aspects of Egg Donation
20:48 Becoming a Single Mother by Choice (SMC)
22:35 Choosing a Sperm Donor
25:12 Advice for Future Donors and Recipients
27:21 Final Thoughts and Gratitude
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