Blessed + Bossed Up

A listener wrote in after the Bible on Business series saying they’re inspired, but struggle to get the same revelation when reading the Bible on their own—and don’t know how to apply it to business. That honest question surfaced a real gap between hearing and doing, which Tatum will address with a brand-new, step-by-step practical series on building a business with God today (not 2017).Before the series starts next episode, we’re reposting this foundational teaching to set perspective: revelation isn’t just for revenue—it’s for building eternally sound work that will withstand God’s testing. Listen with fresh ears, take notes, and get ready for a practical “how” series starting next.Episode SummaryTatum frames business-building through 1 Corinthians 3:13–15: everything we build will be tried by fire, revealing whether it was constructed on Christ or on straw. She walks through the tension between earthly success and eternal reward, invites honest heart work (contentment, motives, obedience), and gives a practical inspection checklist to evaluate what you’re building—so it lasts.Anchor Scripture1 Corinthians 3:13–15 — God’s fire reveals the quality of our work; only what’s built on Christ endures.Also referenced: 1 Cor. 3:11, 2 Cor. 5:10, Matthew 6:19–20, Galatians 6:9, James 1:12, Mark 10:45, Hebrews 11:6, 2 Timothy 4:8, 1 Peter 5:4, 1 Thessalonians 2:19, Romans 6:23, John 3:16, Revelation 21:4, 1 Corinthians 15:42, 52.Key ThemesPerspective reset: We’re not only building for launches and KPIs—we’re building for Judgment Day.Foundation matters: Only Christ is a durable foundation (1 Cor. 3:11).Eternal rewards: Salvation is by grace; rewards relate to faithfulness and obedience.Heart inspection: Contentment, motives, service, perseverance, and faith over sight.From revelation to practice: The upcoming series will translate Scripture → systems, decisions, and daily leadership.Checklist (from the episode)Ask and answer honestly—by your actions, not lip service:Foundation: Is this truly built on Jesus—or on trends, ambition, and metrics?Faithfulness & Obedience: Are your policies, leadership, and operations aligned with Scripture (not just intuition)?Service vs. Sales: Are you serving the people you’re called to, or merely selling? (Mark 10:45)Fruit: Do your processes reflect God’s character (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control)?Perseverance: Do you endure God-assignments when it’s hard, or quit? (Gal. 6:9; James 1:12)Faith in Practice: Do you operate by faith, not sight—especially when results lag? (Heb. 11:6; 2 Cor. 5:7)Reflection PromptsIf God’s plan looked nothing like your vision board, would you still follow Him?Where is contentment still being formed in you?Which part of your business would burn under testing—and why?What one policy or practice can you realign to Scripture this week?Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum answers your submitted questions on (1) what to do when you feel like you’re not hearing from God, (2) discerning whether a pivot is Spirit-led, and (3) how to pursue higher education as a wife, mom, and entrepreneur—plus why she said “yes” to law school. Expect practical rhythms, biblical anchors, and real-life systems that protect your peace, family, and focus.Topics & Timestamps (from listener questions)[0:27] What do you do when you feel like you are not hearing from God?[15:18] How do you know when something is (or should be) a Spirit-led pivot?[21:11] What made you pursue law school?[31:52] Advice for a mom, wife, and entrepreneur pursuing higher educationKey TakeawaysWhen God feels “quiet,” first lower the noise: reduce information overload, step back from social feeds, and create space to hear His still, small voice. Watch for personal “warning lights” (anxiety, irritability, impatience) that signal it’s time to unplug and recentre.Sometimes silence is intentional—a season to apply what He already taught you. Keep communing with God, act in obedience, and recognize His hand even when He isn’t verbose.Discerning a Spirit-led pivot:Scripture check—God will not contradict His Word.History with God—does this align with recent themes in prayer, journaling, and conviction?Wise counsel + practical confirmations—agreement from trusted voices and doors God opens.Order matters—obedience first, clarity often follows.Pursuing school as a mompreneur: count the cost, build the team, design systems.Scale business responsibly, design childcare that gives peace of mind, and budget with realistic/committed revenue.Protect mind, body, and spirit: fuel with protein-forward meals, rest when your body says pause, and use tools that lower cognitive load.Tools Tatum loves for study & life design:Google Notebook to turn class notes into podcasts, videos, quizzes, flashcards, and mind maps.A custom “LifeOS” in ChatGPT trained on syllabi, calendars, and family logistics to auto-draft weekly plans.Scriptures & Biblical Themes MentionedGod speaking in a still small voice (1 Kings 19:11–13)Fruit of the Spirit as behavioural gauge (Galatians 5:22–23)Abraham’s move as a model for faith steps (Genesis 12)Counting the cost before building (Luke 14:28)Spirit-led redirection in Acts (e.g., Acts 16)Resources MentionedStudy Bible (with cross-references, concordance, index, maps) - https://amzn.to/4hgpEwwGoogle Notebook: https://notebooklm.google/Have a question for the show? Email: tatum@tatumtamia.comIf this blessed you, share the episode, rate/review the podcast, and tag @tatumtemia so Tatum can see your takeaways!Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum opens the episode reflecting on her recent midterm fatigue and decision to take a mental health day. She thanks listeners for their patience and reminds them that the podcast is a ministry, not a job. This space is about service — not clout, income, or obligation.“Part of taking what God entrusts to us seriously is knowing when we don’t have it to give — and honoring that.”[1:56] Listener Q&A IntroductionAfter receiving dozens of thoughtful questions from her audience, Tatum shares that she’ll be answering them over two upcoming episodes. She also hints at bringing back past guests whose lives and testimonies have evolved since their first appearance.[3:02] Question 1: Why Does It Feel Like Everyone Else Is Getting Blessed But Me?A listener in her 30s shares feelings of discouragement watching others get married, have children, and advance in their careers while she continues to wait on God.Scripture Focus: Philippians 4:10–13 (NLT)“I have learned how to be content with whatever I have… for I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”Highlights:[4:26] Paul’s contentment wasn’t rooted in circumstances, but in Christ.[6:02] The enemy often exploits waiting seasons to sow doubt and comparison.[7:29] Protect your vulnerabilities — unfollow triggers, set digital boundaries.[9:18] Learn to desire the Giver more than the gift.[10:11] Tatum shares how she met her husband in God’s timing, not her own.[13:18] Create “safeguards of contentment” through prayer, scripture, and boundaries.Key Takeaway:True peace in waiting comes when your fulfillment is anchored in God’s presence, not His performance.[15:23] Question 2: How Do I Set Boundaries as a Mom Starting a Business?A listener asks for guidance on balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship without losing focus on God’s purpose.Highlights:[16:30] The first boundary to establish is with yourself.[17:05] Balance is a myth — pursue harmony through alignment with God.[18:30] Tatum’s 3 personal boundaries:Stay connected to the Vine (John 15).Keep priorities in divine order.Do every assignment with excellence.[21:07] Boundaries are about stewardship, not restriction.Spiritual Insight:“Your ambition should never come at the expense of your assignment at home.”[22:22] Bonus Segment: God-Led Business StrategyTatum shifts into strategist mode, walking listeners through how to build a business from the ground up with divine order and practicality.Highlights:[23:28] Start with a clear business plan — use SBA.gov templates.[24:31] Validate your idea before marketing it.[25:47] Businesses fail when they don’t solve real problems.[26:30] Marketing is a byproduct of strategy, not the starting point.Takeaway:Build from the blueprint God gives you — not the algorithm’s trends.[27:00] Question 3: How Did You Stay Focused When People Doubted You?A listener who recently quit her 9–5 asks how to stay steadfast when others question her calling.Highlights:[28:01] Tatum recalls the doubtful reactions when she left her job to start Anchored Media.[28:48] How she turned fear into fuel by focusing on work, not validation.[29:58] The importance of a supportive community of faith-driven entrepreneurs.[31:09] Stay quiet about your progress — let the fruit speak.Key Takeaway:“When God gives you the vision, He’ll also give you the proof — but you have to build first.”[32:32] Question 4: Preparing for Motherhood as a Married EntrepreneurA listener asks how to spiritually and practically prepare for motherhood while running a business.Highlights:[33:48] Create a relationship bucket list — enjoy your marriage before kids.[36:02] Build rhythms of connection (weekly date nights, intentional check-ins).[36:41] Individual and joint therapy before kids is an act of preparation, not repair.[38:07] Men need emotional support too — they carry provision pressure.[39:29] Protect your marriage from being consumed by parenthood.[40:46] Create a “Happy List” for postpartum joy and mental health support.[42:59] Audit your business:Increase passive income streamsAutomate workflowsCut unnecessary costs[45:37] Make your business lean for freedom — not pressure.Key Takeaway:“Motherhood should multiply your grace, not your chaos. Prepare now so peace leads the transition.”---Have questions? Email tatum@tatumtemia.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this honest check-in, I share why I’m temporarily shifting from two episodes a week while juggling law school, newborn life, and midterms—and I re-air one of your most requested episodes: Rhythm over Routine. We close out the “How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions” mini-series with a practical framework for building a business in step with the Spirit, not driven by hustle or ego. If you’ve ever felt productive yet disconnected from God, this one will set you free.What You’ll LearnThe difference between routine (checkbox faith) and rhythm (daily dependence)Why “keeping in step with the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16–26) is a lifestyle, not a morning checklistThe 4-part framework: Abide → Align → Act → AssessHow digital distraction, time scarcity, and information overload sabotage intimacy with God—and what to do about itPractical ways to reduce noise (limits, notifications, sacred windows) and protect your secret placeHow to evaluate fruit and course-correct with grace (not performance)Key ScripturesGalatians 5:16–26 – Walk by the Spirit; fruit of the Spirit; keep in stepJohn 15:5 – Abiding in the Vine to bear fruitLuke 10:38–42 – Martha vs. Mary (routine vs. rhythm)Exodus 16 – Daily manna: dependence over hoardingMark 1:35; John 5:19 – Jesus’ pace and posture: presence over pressureThe Rhythm Framework (Quick Reference)Abide: Guard intimacy with God; create sacred windows; reduce digital noise.Align: Test ideas, opportunities, and pivots against Scripture, God’s character, and the peace of the Spirit.Act: Move with faith and flexibility—be interruptible and obedient.Assess: Measure fruit (Gal. 5:22–23), review outcomes with the Spirit, and course-correct as needed.Practical Tips MentionedPut time limits on social apps; silence non-essential notifications.Try an information fast (step back from extra voices/content).Schedule sacred windows (daily/weekly) for prayer, stillness, and listening.Run decisions through discernment filters: Scripture consistency, peace, timing, assignment fit.Series Recap (Parts 1–3)Part 1: Acts 8:26–40 — Strategic decisions led by the Holy SpiritPart 2: Acts 13:1–4 — Worship, fasting, submission → divine clarityPart 3: Acts 16:6–10 — Mobility and flexibility in Spirit-led pivotsQ&AI’m lining up Q&A episodes to pour out what God’s been teaching me during this season.Send your questions: tatum@tatumtemia.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this week’s episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we’re continuing our Bible on Business series by unpacking the power of holy boldness through the lens of Acts 4:13–22. As Christian entrepreneurs, we are called to do more than just add scripture to our captions—we are called to build businesses that reflect the character of Christ and disrupt worldly systems with Kingdom values.This episode digs deep into what it truly means to be bold, not in a self-glorifying or performative way, but with a courage that is empowered by the Holy Spirit. We define boldness biblically, exploring its Greek root (parrēsia) and how it shows up in the lives of Peter and John as they stand before the Sanhedrin with confidence and conviction.Tatum also brings in Numbers 30 to confront how many of us mask passiveness as patience or humility when it is actually disobedience. You’ll walk away from this episode with the clarity to recognize whether your hesitation is humility or hidden fear, and the spiritual tools to begin choosing obedience over comfort.Other key takeaways:The biblical definition of boldness and how to cultivate itThe difference between boldness, pride, and egoWhat happens when we confuse self-glorification with Spirit-led courageWhy passiveness is not humility—and how to confront it in yourselfExamples of modern-day Kingdom businesses that disrupt worldly systemsThe connection between time with Jesus and confidence in your callingHow boldness helps you become a witness, not just an entrepreneurThis is a must-listen episode for anyone who is tired of playing it safe and ready to boldly obey what God has already told them to do.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We pick the book club back up with Part II (“Looking Within”) of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. Tatum recaps the biblical foundation of the Holy Spirit’s indwelling (for all believers at salvation) versus His influencing (our moment-by-moment leading). Building on the recent Internal Harmony series, she explains that walking by the Spirit is not distant, rule-based “directions,” but a close, personal leading—a lifestyle of sensitivity, dependence, and cooperation. You’ll learn why the Spirit’s primary goal is to form Christ-likeness, how to fight the “battle before the battle” in your mind, and why Scripture is the Holy Spirit’s weapon of choice (the sword of the Spirit) for dismantling lies, speculations, and flesh-driven desires. Tatum shares practical examples from entrepreneurship and life, showing how obedience positions us to avoid unnecessary suffering and walk into God’s wise, timely provision. Grab your copy: https://amzn.to/4mSGGTNKey TakeawaysIndwelt & Led: All believers receive the Holy Spirit at salvation; the ongoing call is to be led by Him (Gal. 5:16, 18, 25).Rhythm > Routine: Don’t confine God to a devotional “director’s chair.” Cultivate a moment-by-moment rhythm with Him.Holiness is the Goal: The Spirit’s primary work is Christ-likeness, not quick answers about jobs, money, or moves.Battle Before the Battle: Win the mental war first—guard thoughts, take them captive, and preoccupy your mind with truth.Scripture = Sword: Use specific verses to confront specific lies; memorize and speak them out loud.Focus Forms Direction: “What we focus on, we drift toward.” Set your mind on the Spirit to avoid fulfilling the flesh.Scripture ReferencesGalatians 5:16, 18, 25 — Walk/keep in step with the SpiritEphesians 5:18 — Filled with the Spirit1 Corinthians 12:13 — One Spirit, one body1 John 4:13 — Assurance by His SpiritRomans 6:11–14 — Dead to sin, alive to GodRomans 12:2 — Renew your mindColossians 3:2 — Set your mind on things abovePhilippians 4:8 — Think on what is true2 Corinthians 10:5 — Take thoughts captive1 Peter 1:13; 3:9; 4:19 — Sober-minded, repay evil with blessing, entrust to a faithful CreatorEphesians 6:17 — The word as the sword of the SpiritPractical Homework List Your Speculations & Struggles: Recurring daydreams, fantasies, mental loops.Find Targeted Verses: Use a study Bible/concordance to match each area with Scripture.Memorize & Speak Aloud: Put verses on cards, phone lock screen, mirror, or desk. Say them out loud daily.Accountability: Share your list with a trusted friend and review weekly.Pray for Sensitivity: Ask the Holy Spirit to flag thoughts not in harmony with truth.Grab your copy: https://amzn.to/4mSGGTNOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this final episode of the Internal Harmony Series, we’re tackling the “big C word” — control. Control isn’t just a personality trait; it’s a spiritual stronghold that keeps us bound, quenches the Spirit, and robs us of God’s peace.In this episode, I share a recent testimony about what happened when I surrendered control, unpack why the Bible calls us to release it, and walk through case studies of the Rich Young Ruler and Paul to show the difference between clinging to control and living surrendered.You’ll learn:Why control is a stronghold and how it quenches the Spirit (1 Thessalonians 5:19)How control shows up as a cognitive distortionThe root issue of trust and how to rebuild itA practical Weekly Surrender Challenge to live this outThis episode will equip you to exchange control for surrender and experience the internal harmony God desires for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful conclusion to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum shares what it's looked like to live in true peace while managing law school, motherhood, business, and ministry. Through personal testimony and Spirit-led insight, she unpacks the third psychological barrier to inner peace: emotional suppression.Tatum explains how suppression—pushing down emotions like sadness, joy, fear, or anger—creates distance between us and the Holy Spirit, damages our bodies, and leads to emotional isolation. Drawing from biblical truth, she highlights how Jesus and David modeled emotional embodiment, reminding listeners that emotional honesty is not weakness—it’s worship.This episode is a call to stop striving and start surrendering. You’ll walk away with biblical study tools, a mantra (“We don’t suppress, we submit”), and simple, life-changing practices that foster rhythm, not routine. Inside this episode:The difference between disembodiment and suppressionHow suppression affects your business and leadershipReal-life strategies for walking in internal harmonyBiblical case studies from Psalms + the life of JesusEncouragement for Black women & high-achieving Christian entrepreneursScripture focus includes John 11:35, Luke 22:44, Psalm 6, Psalm 51, and more.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this special episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, I’m sharing an episode from one of my favorite shows — the Prescription for Purpose Podcast hosted by my friend, Dr. Sharla Walker. This message, Is It Ambition or Anxiety That’s Driving You?, fits perfectly with our Internal Harmony series and will challenge you to evaluate the true motivation behind your hustle.Dr. Sharla breaks down the difference between holy ambition — God-given zeal rooted in peace, identity, and purpose — versus anxious ambition fueled by pressure, fear, and the need to prove yourself. Using biblical examples like Saul, Martha, and Nehemiah, she unpacks how to discern your drive, pace yourself with God, and protect your assignment from distraction.Whether you’re in business, ministry, or simply navigating life, this episode will give you practical tools to align your ambition with God’s will — so you’re moving in purpose, not just in motion.Tune in now and make sure you subscribe to The Prescription for Purpose Podcast so you never miss an episode that will keep you rooted in faith, focused on purpose, and equipped to thrive in every area of life.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this week’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Internal Harmony Series with Part 2 — unpacking the psychological factor of disembodiment. This is when we operate from our heads while ignoring our body’s signals, emotions, and even the Holy Spirit’s nudges. It’s been one of my biggest personal battles, and I’m sharing both biblical truth and practical tools to help you recognize and overcome it.You’ll learn:Key TakeawaysWhy harmony is more sustainable than balance in life and businessThe difference between external harmony (systems, productivity) and internal harmony (peace, alignment, presence)How disembodiment looks in daily life: ignoring hunger, pushing through pain, numbing emotions, and being physically present but mentally absentHow it shows up in business: over-functioning, leading from performance instead of presence, disconnected identity, and neglecting Spirit-led decision makingRoot causes backed by research — including trauma, perfectionism, performance-based childhoods, church culture, and over-reliance on logicGenerational breakdown of how Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z experience disembodiment differentlyWhat the Bible shows us about embodiment through the life of Jesus: feeling emotions (John 11:35), resting even in storms (Mark 4:38), and being present enough to sense spiritual exchange (Luke 8:45–46) Practical Steps to Reconnect:Address the root cause — through therapy, prayer, fasting, and surrender to GodBody scans — regularly pause to check in with how you feel physically and emotionallySchedule pauses & stillness — add intentional breaks to slow down and be presentInvolve your support system — ask heart questions, not just head questions, and invite accountabilityReplace old habits — build patterns that align with your identity in Christ instead of survival modeIf you’ve ever felt productive on the outside but disconnected on the inside, this episode will help you:-Recognize the signs of disembodiment- Identify your personal root causes-Begin practical and spiritual steps toward true embodiment that honors God, fosters peace, and strengthens your leadership in life and businessOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Book Club series on The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, diving into Part 2: Looking Within. Tatum unpacks Chapter 6, "The Faith Factor," where the focus shifts from understanding the Holy Spirit to practically living a Spirit-filled life. Drawing from her own transitional season—navigating motherhood and preparing for law school—Tatum shares how she’s applying this book’s wisdom in real-time.This episode explores the difference between reacting and responding, how to stop intellectualizing your faith, and why focus is the bridge between anxiety and peace. Tatum breaks down three biblical truths that can become daily affirmations rooted in scripture:The Holy Spirit indwells you,He is the life of Christ in you,He is willing and able to produce Christ's character through you.She encourages listeners to shift their focus from self-help affirmations to Holy Spirit-led declarations and offers strategies like building God's track record, preemptive morning declarations, and journaling answered prayers. Using the story of David and Goliath, she outlines how to activate faith before willpower, reminding us that walking in the Spirit is about surrender, focus, and confidence in God's promises.Whether you're facing daily stressors, emotional overwhelm, or spiritual stagnation, this episode gives you the tools to live a Spirit-filled life—not just on Sundays, but every single day.Prayer to Start Your Day in Victory:Lord, I claim the victory right now over the giant of [insert your giant here]. I recognize that this giant is coming up against the Christ in me. Just as you defeated this giant when you walked on this earth, you can defeat it through me now—for you are my life. I trust you to produce peace and self-control through me. I cannot handle what is to come, but you can. Respond through me. When the pressure comes, remind me that the battle is yours. Amen.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful kickoff to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum invites high-achieving Christian women into a much-needed conversation about the hidden chaos beneath our productivity: cognitive overload. As a mom of three, business owner, and soon-to-be law student, Tatum shares vulnerably about the transition she's navigating and how God is leading her into a new understanding of internal harmony over external balance. This episode breaks down the psychological and spiritual toll of cognitive overload—what happens when our prefrontal cortex is overstimulated, and we lose our ability to hear the voice of God clearly, regulate our emotions, or even recognize how we feel.Tatum introduces the concept of internal vs. external harmony, showing that while routines and logistics matter, true peace comes from spiritual alignment, emotional presence, and abiding in Christ. She offers biblically-rooted, science-backed tools to help you slow down, re-engage your senses, and practice stillness so you can reconnect with God and yourself.Whether you're a woman juggling multiple roles or simply longing for more peace and clarity, this episode offers a holistic path forward. Expect to walk away with practical steps—like mindful breathing, meditating on scripture, nature walks, grounding exercises, sleep routines, journaling prompts, and fasting from information overload—to combat mental fatigue and restore harmony from the inside out.Plus, Tatum opens up about meditating on Galatians 2:20 and why high-performing women often turn to productivity over presence. Don’t miss this deep, transparent, and transformational conversation on the path to peace through God’s presence.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, we return to our book club pick, The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. Tatum shares how this book, one of her top three faith-based reads, is personally guiding her through a season of transition—navigating life with a new baby, two businesses, marriage, and preparing to return to school. She unpacks Chapter 3’s key revelations on surrender, highlighting Dr. Stanley’s honest reflections on secret sin, burnout in ministry, and the life-changing realization that fruitfulness doesn’t come from striving—but abiding.Tatum draws a striking parallel between Charles Stanley’s breakthrough and her own need to resist self-sufficiency and embrace the Holy Spirit’s power. Through practical takeaways—like meditating on Galatians 2:20, creating margin for God’s presence, and allowing grace to reset your internal pace—this episode offers a refreshing invitation to stop doing and start depending. Whether you’re in ministry, motherhood, business, or all three, this episode will help you reposition your heart, reclaim your peace, and surrender control so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.Resources Mentioned:Book: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – https://a.co/d/9kGb5fBKey Scripture: Galatians 2:20, John 15:1-5, Romans 8:9-10, Colossians 3:4Key Takeaways:The Christian life is not about producing fruit—it's about abiding so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.The dangers of spiritual compartmentalization—when the Spirit is active in ministry but absent in private life.Strategies for reconnecting with the Holy Spirit when life gets overwhelming.Why busyness and blessings can still be distractions from intimacy with God.How Charles Stanley’s surrender moment unlocked continuous victory and how you can apply the same posture of prayer.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum dives deep into Acts 17:22–31 and pulls out two key strategies every Kingdom entrepreneur needs: cultural intelligence (CQ) and contextualizing your message.Using Paul’s sermon to the intellectual elite in Athens as the foundation, this episode breaks down how Paul studied the culture, respected his audience, and delivered the Gospel in a way that resonated deeply—all without compromising the truth.Tatum explains how these same strategies apply to business today, from adjusting your brand messaging based on audience psychographics to adapting your offers and content for different platforms or markets. She also shares practical examples (from YouVersion to McDonald’s global menus) and offers 3 concrete ways to start applying these principles in your own brand—whether you’re already in business or preparing to launch.If you’re a faith-led entrepreneur looking to improve your marketing, messaging, or audience engagement while staying true to the Word, this episode is your blueprint.📖 Scripture:Acts 17:22–31 (NLT) Paul contextualizes the gospel for the Athenians at the Areopagus, modeling how to reach new audiences with truth and strategy.Key Takeaways:Cultural Intelligence (CQ) is the ability to understand the values, behaviors, and worldview of the people you're called to serve.Contextualization is delivering your message in a way that’s relevant, understandable, and compelling—without changing the truth.Paul didn’t compromise; he customized the way he shared truth to meet people where they were.Business owners must do the same with their brand messaging, sales strategies, and offers. 3 Ways to Apply This in Your Business:Use Your Audience’s Language – Mirror the words your audience uses to describe their problems and desires.Tailor Messaging for Each Platform – Adapt your content for Instagram vs. TikTok vs. LinkedIn vs. YouTube.Adapt Your Offers for Specific Audiences – Adjust your product packaging, pricing, or delivery to match the needs of different segments within your niche.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today’s deeply personal episode, Tatum steps away from her usual teaching to share a raw and unfiltered story from her recent postpartum journey. After believing she heard clearly from God that she would have a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean), Tatum walks us through the heartbreak, confusion, and emotional toll of experiencing an outcome that looked very different from what she believed God promised.This episode isn’t tied up in a bow. It’s a real-time reflection on what it means to be holy and human—to love God deeply, but also feel hurt, to trust Him fully, and still ask “Why?”If you've ever:Felt sure you heard from God but the result didn’t match,Struggled with disappointment while trying to remain faithful,Wrestled with postpartum emotions, trauma, or spiritual confusion,Needed language for navigating your feelings while staying close to God...This episode is for you.Tatum reminds us that even in our confusion, God is still near, and we can give Him our broken hearts to heal—even before the revelation comes.Key Takeaways:How to process disappointment with God without pulling away from HimWhy your feelings are valid and don’t disqualify your faithThe enemy’s strategy to use spiritual vulnerability for warfareHow to stay committed even when you don’t have clarityThe beauty of surrendering your heart before the “aha moment” comesScriptures Mentioned:Job 13:15 – “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.”Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted…”Isaiah 55:8–9 – “My thoughts are not your thoughts…”Proverbs 3:5 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…”John 11 (Martha & Lazarus – the tension of faith and grief) Share This Episode With:A woman navigating postpartum emotions or birth traumaAnyone who feels disappointed by God or let down by an outcomeA friend who needs a reminder that God can handle her questions and still be trustedOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Still on a Brief BreakTatum kicks off this episode by sharing a major life update—she is officially a mom of three, having welcomed her baby girl on June 10th. While she’s not taking a full maternity leave, she’ll be easing back into content with a mix of fresh and replayed episodes through the start of July. She invites listeners to lean into these timely throwbacks, trusting that the Holy Spirit is still speaking through them. Bible on Business Series Begins This episode officially launches the Bible on Business series—a comprehensive, in-depth look at how biblical principles apply to leadership and entrepreneurship. Tatum unpacks the first message in the series, focusing on what it means to be a shepherd in business and how entrepreneurs can adopt the characteristics of Christ in how they serve their audiences.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why God is calling Christian entrepreneurs to shepherd His people, not just serve customersThe surprising similarities between sheep and consumer behavior (brand loyalty, dependency, vulnerability, and more)How to lead with love, patience, and spiritual integrity—even when things go wrongBiblical examples of shepherding leadership: Matthew 18, John 21, Acts 20, and 1 Peter 2How to recover from mistakes in business with humility and restorationWhy consecration and devotion are essential for long-term leadership impactPractical Applications:How to re-engage inactive clients or community members like the parable of the lost sheepTips for sacrificial leadership in tough business seasonsCreating systems and rhythms to stay spiritually aligned while leading in the marketplaceFeatured Scriptures:Matthew 18:12–14John 21:15–17Acts 20:281 Peter 2:251 John 2:27Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I'm still on a quick podcast break as I adjust to life as a new mom of three—yes, I welcomed a beautiful baby girl on June 10th! During this short break, I’ll be sharing some previously released episodes that the Holy Spirit led me to revisit. Today’s replay is no accident—trust that it’s exactly what you need right now.Episode Summary:In this powerful episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares an unfiltered testimony of entrepreneurship, spiritual warfare, and God's faithfulness through seasons of pressure. Beginning with a prophetic insight about not being swayed by metrics in this current season, she unpacks the biblical story of Noah as a template for endurance in business.Tatum walks us through her real-life journey of purchasing Anchored Media Studios, facing unexpected financial pressure, laying off team members, and enduring what felt like a wilderness season—all while staying obedient to God's instructions. This episode is more than encouragement; it's a blueprint for those navigating long seasons of testing and waiting.Whether you're in a slow season, feeling discouraged, or questioning if your business will survive, this episode reminds you that endurance is part of the calling—and God rewards those who remain faithful under pressure.Key Takeaways:Endurance ≠ failure. It’s the strategy that qualifies you for promotion.Do not misread your season. Lack of results does not mean lack of favor.Remain under the weight. Some suffering is your portion, not your punishment.Obedience breeds provision. God gave Tatum specific instructions that led to breakthrough.Testimonies inspire transformation. Your perseverance encourages others to keep going.Scriptural References:Genesis 6–9 (Noah’s obedience during corrupt times)James 5:11 (Job and endurance)Romans 4:20–21 (Abraham’s faith)Hebrews 11:1 (Faith in the unseen)Practical Applications:Have faith in the unseen. Follow God’s instruction even if you see no results.Persevere through the challenges. Know that pressure is producing something.Endure delayed gratification. God’s timing is not your timing—but it’s perfect.Trust God’s timeline. Waiting is a sign of maturity, not a waste of time.Know your testimony matters. Someone else’s breakthrough depends on your endurance.📌 Announcements:New episodes will resume early July. Until then, enjoy these Spirit-led throwbacks.Please continue supporting our sponsors—they make this show possible!Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum is still on a quick break after welcoming her beautiful baby girl on June 10th! While she recovers and adjusts to life as a mom of three, we’re revisiting a few powerful past episodes that are still deeply relevant today. This one originally aired in 2019, but the message is timeless.⚠️ Heads up: Any products mentioned in this episode (such as signed books or tour leftovers) are no longer available—unless noted otherwise on Amazon.In This Episode:Whether you’re already planning for the new year or trying to catch your breath from the current one, this episode is a wake-up call. Tatum shares why now is the perfect time to take a digital detox—especially if you're constantly consuming content, hopping on trends, or feeling pressure to do more just because everyone else is.She breaks down the two types of entrepreneurs who often spiral in Q4 (“super consumers” and “super strategists”) and offers practical advice on how to unplug and hear from God clearly. You’ll walk away with clarity, strategy, and peace of mind.Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this heartfelt and strategy-packed episode, Tatum opens with a long-awaited announcement: she has officially welcomed her third child—a beautiful baby girl born on June 10th. After a deeply personal journey of prayer and faith, God has answered her desire to be a girl mom. While she’s taking two weeks to adjust to life as a mom of three, she’s also dropping one of her most transformative episodes yet.Tatum shares the full message she gave during the Christian Content Creator Town Hall—one that God originally gave her in private prayer. In it, she challenges believers to stop striving to be content creators and step fully into their call as thought leaders. She explains the difference between the two, gives a biblical foundation (including how Jesus, Paul, and other leaders demonstrated thought leadership), and offers actionable steps to make the shift.Whether you're a podcaster, coach, author, or creative—this episode will reframe your mindset, align your purpose with heaven’s agenda, and help you build something with eternal impact.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:The distinction between content creators and thought leadersWhy building solely on social platforms is a risky strategyHow Jesus and Paul modeled thought leadership in scriptureThe long-term benefits of creating original frameworks and IPPractical ways to build a thought leadership brand that glorifies GodWhy thought leadership is a form of consecrated creativityScripture References:Romans 12:2Matthew 7:28–29Matthew 13Matthew 5:21–221 Corinthians, Galatians, and other Pauline epistlesYour Homework: Study these biblical figures as thought leaders:MosesNehemiahDanielEstherSolomonJohn the BaptistPaulOur Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this special episode, Tatum shares a personal and long-awaited announcement—she has officially welcomed her third child, a beautiful baby girl, born on June 10th. After a deeply personal journey of faith, prayer, and waiting, God has answered her heart’s desire in a way only He could. With deep gratitude and joy, Tatum reflects on what it means to now be a mother of three and why she chose to keep this part of her story private until now.Though she won’t be taking an official maternity leave, she shares what listeners can expect in the coming weeks, including a few re-aired episodes handpicked by the Holy Spirit to speak to listeners in this season. This episode, recorded before baby girl's arrival, is part of the ongoing Bible on Business series and explores a message that’s been brewing in Tatum's heart: redefining success from a kingdom perspective.--Episode Summary:In this powerfully honest episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares the joyous news of becoming a mother of three and opens up about how this life transition has deeply influenced her perspective on success. As part of the ongoing Bible on Business series, Tatum dives into the book of Ecclesiastes, unpacking its sobering wisdom and how it challenges our modern pursuit of wealth, achievement, and recognition.This isn’t just another motivational message—this is a spiritual detox. Tatum dismantles the false doctrine of prosperity theology, exposes the hidden costs of hustle culture, and reveals how many Christian entrepreneurs are unknowingly caught in a counterfeit version of success. Through scripture, statistics, and heartfelt reflection, she encourages us to reevaluate what we’re building and why.If you’ve ever felt anxious about not being "far enough along," tired from trying to keep up with others, or confused about what God really wants for your life and business—this episode will set you free. It’s time to reset your vision with a biblically grounded point of view.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why Tatum kept her third pregnancy private and how her faith journey shaped the experienceHow Ecclesiastes brings clarity about purpose, mortality, and God’s sovereigntyWhy the world’s definition of success leads to burnout, anxiety, and discontentHow prosperity theology twists scripture and keeps believers boundThe truth about biblical success, contentment, and God’s provisionHow to reset your mindset before planning your next business move or setting 2025 goalsScripture References:Ecclesiastes (entire book)Philippians 4:19Malachi 3:10Matthew 6:24, 6:31–33Joshua 1:81 Timothy 6:17–19James 1:2–4Philippians 4:11–13Our Sponsors:* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/BLESSEDSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/blessed-bossed-up7264/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy