Blunt in the Bedroom

Join us for a compelling season finale of "Blunt in the Bedroom," featuring a special guest, Antonio from the My Brotha Podcast. In this eye-opening episode, Arely, Antonio, and I, Patti, dive into everyday behaviors and sayings unique to white people, as observed by people of color. As the only white person in the group, I take a seat at the learning table, exploring perceptions and realities that are often humorous yet highlight deep-seated issues of privilege and cultural awareness. We unpack lighthearted observations like why people of color joke that white babies never seem to get cold, alongside more serious discussions about the obliviousness of some white individuals to their privilege. This conversation sheds light on the nuances of racial dynamics in everyday life, offering both introspection and enlightenment. As we wrap up season 4, we reflect on the themes we've explored and the conversations that have challenged us and our listeners. We're taking a short break to recharge and plan an even more engaging season 5. Stay tuned, take care of each other, and keep pushing the boundaries of dialogue and understanding. Thank you for joining us this season on "Blunt in the Bedroom." Don't forget to follow us on YouTube and Spotify to get notified as soon as we're back with fresh episodes!

Join Arely and Patti in this rare, recorded in-person episode of "Blunt in the Bedroom," as they delve into the critical insights gained from the recent SAFE Conference in Portland. Patti shares her experiences and the valuable knowledge acquired from the conference, focusing on understanding cult control and manipulation tactics. Dive into the discussion on the Wheel of Power and Control, a vital model that provides a visual representation of the tactics used in abusive environments, which can be viewed here: [Wheel of Power and Control](https://www.empathyparadigmtherapy.com/powercontrol). This episode unpacks the dynamics of power and control within cults, exploring how these elements are manipulated to dominate and influence members. The SAFE Conference, detailed here: [SAFE Conference Information](https://www.safeportland.org/safe-conference), provided a platform for experts and survivors to discuss the mechanisms of cult behavior and recovery strategies, enriching our conversation with grounded, real-world applications. Arely and Patti dissect these complex topics with their usual candor, offering personal insights and connecting the broader implications to our everyday understanding of control and influence in various societal contexts. Whether you're interested in psychological safety, societal influence, or simply looking to understand the more profound mechanics of control within groups, this episode offers a compelling look at the subject. Tune in as we explore how these insights can empower individuals to recognize, resist, and recover from manipulative practices in any form. Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking discussions on "Blunt in the Bedroom."

Join Arely, Patti, and special guest Angelica in a fascinating episode of "Blunt in the Bedroom" as they delve into the intriguing world of language and its potential impact on human facial structures. In this special episode, our multi-racial trio of podcasters explores how the subtle nuances of language—from accents to pronunciation—might sculpt our facial features over generations. Tonight, we discuss how different linguistic backgrounds shape the way we look, questioning whether the languages we speak influence more than just our communication. We explore the language centers of the brain and consider how mastering multiple languages might affect these regions differently compared to monolingual speakers. Additionally, the conversation turns to a global perspective, examining why Americans often lag behind in multilingualism and what this means for cultural and cognitive development. We also tackle a provocative topic: the responsibilities of affluent individuals in using their resources to foster global understanding and cultural exchange. This episode is not just an exploration of how language influences our physical appearance; it's a call to action for greater linguistic and cultural awareness, especially among the privileged. Join us as we navigate the complex interplay of language, identity, and society, and share our thoughts on what it truly means to use wealth for good. Don't miss this enlightening discussion that connects the dots between language, looks, and legacy. Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more insightful episodes from "Blunt in the Bedroom."

Join Arely and Patti in this gripping episode of "Blunt in the Bedroom" as they dive deep into the chilling depths of a new Creepy Pasta story about a dystopian hero who claims to have "saved the world." This episode isn't just about unraveling the layers of a dark narrative; it's a journey into the broader implications of what it means to be a savior in a world that often seems beyond redemption. As the tale unfolds, the conversation takes a poignant turn, reflecting on the essence of life and the roles we play within it. Arely shares her unique experience visiting a Mormon church, opening up about the contrasts and revelations encountered in a place so steeped in its own profound narratives of salvation and community. This discussion isn't just about a story or a single church visit; it's about confronting our perceptions of heroism and spirituality in the modern world. How do tales of dystopian heroes relate to our daily struggles and spiritual journeys? What can a visit to a church tell us about the universal search for meaning and belonging? Tune in to explore these questions and more, as Arely and Patti navigate the complex interplay between fiction and reality, chaos and order, belief and skepticism. Whether you're a fan of spine-tingling tales or thoughtful explorations of life's big questions, this episode promises deep insights and lively discussions. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that challenge the mind and stir the soul. Share your thoughts on heroism, faith, and the personal journeys that shape us. We’re here to take the conversation further—one story, one episode at a time.

Welcome back to "Blunt in the Bedroom"! In this special 'Unknown Episode,' join Arely, Patti, and a whirlwind of spontaneous topics that touch on everything from the practical to the profound. Tonight, we kick things off with our latest adventures in eco-friendly transportation, and what would be missed about our old cars. But as always, our conversation takes its own turns, diving into more personal territories like circumcision, breastfeeding, and body image—topics that touch the core of personal choices and societal norms. We unpack how we feel about our bodies in a world that often seems obsessed with ideal forms and delve into the gritty details of practices that straddle the line between tradition and modern insights. And just when you think you've caught your breath, we steer into the existential lane, pondering the very essence of free will. Is our path pre-determined, or are we truly the masters of our fate? Join us as we navigate through these uncharted conversational waters, sharing laughs, insights, and maybe a few revelations along the way. Perfect for those who love a good meander through a mix of light-hearted banter and deep philosophical queries, this episode is as unpredictable as it is engaging. So tune in, get comfortable, and let's see where the conversation takes us!

In this eye-opening episode of "Blunt in the Bedroom," Arely and Patti dive deep into the tangled roots of Lyme disease, separating fact from fiction with a critical look at both mainstream scientific explanations and the swirling conspiracy theories surrounding its origins. But the conversation doesn't stop there; the duo then shifts focus to a familiar adversary: organized religion. With their trademark candor, they explore how religious institutions and beliefs continue to complicate societal issues, echoing the themes of misunderstanding and manipulation seen in the Lyme disease discourse. This episode is a journey through the complexities of scientific skepticism and the pervasive impact of religious dogma, inviting listeners to question, critique, and consider the world around them more deeply. Join us as we tackle ticks, myths, and the omnipresent influence of religion on everything.

In this riotous episode of "Blunt in the Bedroom," Arely and Patti prance into the swirling controversy surrounding the potential U.S. ban on TikTok. Amidst concerns over national security and data privacy, we explore TikTok's undeniable role in fostering global connection, showcasing the wondrous, the heartfelt, and the profoundly human aspects of life across the planet. But it's not all scrolls and smiles; we also discuss the platform's darker side, from data privacy issues to the visually overwhelming nature of constant content consumption. How do we balance the need for security with the desire for open, global communication? Can a platform be both a source of wonder and a potential threat? Join us as we navigate these complex waters, reflecting on the many faces of TikTok – from its ability to unite and inspire to the challenges and controversies it faces on the world stage. Whether you're a TikTok aficionado, a concerned citizen, or somewhere in between, this episode offers a balanced perspective on what the platform means for our interconnected world.

In this episode, we read: https://www.creepypasta.com/gateway-of-the-mind/ Step into the shadowy intersection of horror and the divine with this thought-provoking episode of "Blunt in the Bedroom." In a chilling journey, hosts Arely and Patti delve into a haunting Creepy Pasta story where pious scientists sever all sensory connections of a volunteer to unveil the divine. The experiment's harrowing outcome—seeing God and declaring His abandonment—sparks a deep dive into the essence of faith, existence, and humanity's quest for the unseen. This episode isn't just a reflection on a spine-tingling tale but an exploration into the profound questions it raises about our place in the universe and the nature of divinity itself. Join us as we dissect the eerie narrative and what it suggests about the pursuit of knowledge, the pain of isolation, and the concept of divine presence—or absence—in our lives. Whether you're a fan of horror, intrigued by the spiritual, or fascinated by the limits of human perception and science, this episode offers a unique blend of fear, fascination, and philosophical musing. Don't miss this deep dive into the dark, where we confront the unsettling notion that in our deepest exploration of the divine, we might find ourselves utterly alone. Subscribe to "Blunt in the Bedroom" for more episodes that blend whatever we're interested in that day with insightful commentary on society, spirituality, and the human condition.

Dive deep into the heart of religious propaganda, gender roles, and colonialism with "Blunt in the Bedroom," where hosts Arely and Patti don’t just scratch the surface—they obliterate it. This episode sheds light on the manipulative power of religious narratives, their role in shaping oppressive societal norms, and the justification of colonial conquests. We tackle head-on the controversial issues surrounding gender suppression within religious contexts and the historical implications of missionary work in colonized lands. Plus, a candid discussion on cultural appropriation and the ethics of adopting Black African hairstyles, such as dreadlocks, by non-Black individuals. If you're searching for a podcast that combines critical analysis of religion, insightful commentary on cultural dynamics, and a fearless approach to discussing social justice issues, you've found your match. Join us for a thought-provoking journey through the shadows of faith and its undeniable influence on history and modern society. Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations on religion, social justice, and the intersectionality of cultural identity.

Patti and Arely discuss the many ways in which our propaganda-heavy culture has harmed and oppressed marginalized voices. Predominantly women and BIPOC people are featured in this discussion. From what names Black people have, to their hairstyles, affecting their employability, to government officials complaining about losing the "good prisoners" - a new morph of American Slavery. Everyone suffers from the harms of American Propaganda, but it's time for white people to acknowledge where the propaganda has gotten us, and look to BIPOC leaders, and especially women of color, to lead us now.

Arely and Patti engage with Chat GPT and pretty much convince themselves to become Techno-Marxists, but treat the AI with all due respect. We might become their pets someday, after all. We decide that society and religion are really just behavioral conditioning when you get right down to it, and we remind ourselves that our fight is bottom versus top, not left versus right. We are all in this together, on a rock, flying through space. There may have been a bit more cannabis involved for this recording than usual, but we are not without clarity.

Join us on 'Blunt in the Bedroom' as Arely and Patti, from the comfort of their Oregon bedrooms, unravel the intricate web of American propaganda, exceptionalism, and capitalism. This episode delves deep into the roots of American identity and the persuasive power of propaganda throughout history. From the Revolutionary era's rallying cries to the modern complexities of the capitalist narrative, we dissect the layers that have shaped American thought. Expect a candid and enlightening discussion on topics like Manifest Destiny, the impact of World Wars, the Cold War's ideological battles, and the pervasive myths of the American Dream. Our exploration isn't just academic; it's a blunt look at how these forces affect our lives and societies. So, light up and join us for a journey through history, politics, and the smoke screens of societal narratives.

In this compelling sequel to our introduction on propaganda, "Blunt in the Bedroom" hosts Patti and Arely unravel the complex layers of psychological conditioning that underpin our society. This episode peels back the curtain on how advertising, standardized testing, and propaganda not only shape our perceptions but also engineer our desires to serve the powerful elite. Delving into the depths of how the human mind is subtly molded from a young age, our hosts explore the notion that "power is the only true currency" in our society. They dissect the intricate ways in which our thoughts and choices are influenced by those who control the narrative, revealing the subtle mechanics of control and compliance woven into our daily lives. Listeners are invited on a journey to uncover the hidden forces that guide public opinion and behavior. Patti and Arely challenge you to question the status quo, encouraging a critical examination of the societal structures that dictate the flow of power and information. Join us as we confront the uncomfortable truths about mental conditioning and its role in upholding systems of power. This episode is not just a conversation but a call to awaken and empower your own perception, challenging you to see beyond the veil of manipulation and to reclaim the narrative of your own life.

Curious about the mysteries surrounding the Bermuda Triangle? Join us as we have a blunt and embark on a journey through time and explore lesser-known explanations for the unexplained phenomena. Arely and Patti share their perspectives on how human society's fear and fascination have contributed to the mythos surrounding this notorious stretch of water. Prepare to challenge your beliefs and expand your understanding of the Bermuda Triangle in this thought-provoking episode!

We journey into tales and mythologies of Atlantis, and get sidetracked along the way. We share our edible oopsies and decide that every edible needs a backup plan. Belief, what ifs, fears expressed through fiction, hope found through Chat GPT, and even a teeny rant about ancient texts. Have a blunt. Let’s be blunt.

Where the limestone went and how it may have battery-powered an ancient civilization, the realization that each civilization is built with the rubble of the one that came before it, and how Egyptian Pharoah energy carries through today in the Billionaire class.

In this live look-up episode, we indulge our curiosities about Egypt and tease out the threads of white supremacy underpinning tales of ancient aliens. How the patriarchy turned snake oil salesmen into respected professionals, why Europeans ate long-dead Egyptians, and cannabis. Come hang out with us.

We hit the pause and reflect button after a TikTok drove up our post-pandemic paranoia about the state of the world. Rebellions of the past, modern cream cheese shortages, and unionizing in the air drives our discussion.

One of our favorite guests, Antonio, joins us again to share his political wisdom. All about ballot measures - how to get one and the people power they have. In fact, ballot measures are largely responsible for cannabis legalization across the U.S. As appropriate, we get off-topic into spicier territory where lies become history and we question the nature of reality. And have a blunt.

We tried to open our minds to the Flat Earth Theory and along the way we found ourselves delving into emotional intelligence, natural selection, how public school breeds blind obedience, and keeping balance in skepticism.