Aging can feel like a wild ride, right? There’s so much chatter about how to do it ‘well’—drink water, exercise, or give up all the fun stuff like chocolate and wine. But let’s be real, all the 'shoulds' can get overwhelming.In this episode of Boomer Banter, host Wendy Green invites Yvonne Marchese to chat about something way more fun: play and self-acceptance. They both agree that as we age, we need to toss aside the heavy ‘shoulds’ and embrace the lighter side of life. Yvonne, a vibrant spirit herself, believes that rediscovering our playful selves is not just a joy but a necessity for healthy aging. She shares her journey of moving from feeling overwhelmed by societal expectations to finding joy in simple pleasures. With laughter and a few heartfelt moments, they remind us all that aging doesn’t mean we stop playing. It’s about finding what brings us joy and embracing it, whether it’s roller skating or just enjoying a good, dark chocolate bar. This episode is a breath of fresh air, filled with relatable stories and practical tips on how to keep that spark alive as we age. Let’s play!Takeaways: Aging can feel overwhelming with all the advice we hear about living well, but it's important to take a break and have fun. Self-acceptance and playfulness are crucial in navigating the challenges of aging, so let’s embrace them! Yvonne Marchese shares that being playful is beneficial as we age, and it can help rediscover our spark. We should question ageist beliefs and stories we've told ourselves about getting older to allow for personal growth and reinvention. Links referenced in this episode:Find the Late Bloomer Living website here.Explore all that the Ageless Traveler has to offer. Check out the 'What's Keeping You Stuck' quiz. Find the National Institute of Play here.Greenwood Capital Learn more about Greenwood Capital or find resources at www.GreenwoodCapital.com. Boomer Banter is sponsored in part by Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC. Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC is an SEC Registered Investment Advisory firm with offices in Greenville and Greenwood, SC. As a fiduciary firm,Greenwood Capital is obligated to disclose any potential conflicts of interest with this arrangement. The host of “Boomer Banter”, Wendy Green, is a client of Greenwood Capital, and her show “Boomer Banter” has been compensated for her testimonial through Greenwood Capital’s sponsorship. Greenwood Capital is a Legacy sponsor at the stated rate of $2,600 for the 2025 calendar year.
In this episode of Boomer Banter, Wendy Green sits down with Merilyn Simonds as she shares her heartwarming and enlightening friendship with the incredible Beth, who just happens to be 105 years old! heir weekly walks over the past five years have blossomed into a treasure trove of stories, laughter, and life lessons that Merilyn lovingly chronicles in her book, "Walking With Beth: Conversations with my 100-year-old Friend." This isn't just a book about aging; it's a celebration of friendship, creativity, and the beautiful journey of living fully at any age. We explore how Beth, with her zest for life, continues to inspire Merilyn and everyone around her, proving that age is just a number when it comes to pursuing passions and staying engaged with the world.Merilyn recounts how their friendship blossomed during the pandemic, a time when connection felt more important than ever. Their conversations sparked deep reflections on life's challenges and joys, and we get to hear how Beth's perspective on life has shifted the way Merilyn views her own aging process. With humor and warmth, they discuss everything from the joy of art to the little things that keep us grounded in the present. Beth's approach to life—embracing creativity, staying active, and cultivating relationships—offers listeners a refreshing perspective on growing older. As they meander through memories and lessons learned, Merilyn emphasizes the importance of keeping a forward-looking mindset, something Beth embodies. They touch on topics like how to find purpose in retirement, the significance of passion, and the necessity of surrounding oneself with positivity. This episode is for anyone looking to inject a little joy and inspiration into their lives. Takeaways: Aging with intention means staying curious and engaged with life. Friendship can blossom at any age, as shown by Marilyn and Beth's inspiring walks. Living fully into your hundreds is about finding passion and nurturing it every day. It's essential to keep an eye on your health while also focusing on what brings you joy. We don't need to let age define us; instead, we can redefine how we view growing older. The stories and experiences we share with others can help us cope with life’s challenges. Links referenced in this episode:merilynsimonds.comamazon.ca (the book is not available in the US, yet.)Take the What's Keeping You Stuck quiz
So, here’s a thought: how do we navigate our relationship with all the stuff we’ve got lying around? Today I will share my thoughts about just that! The episode is packed with nostalgia as I reflect on cherished items that tell stories. I mean, who doesn’t have a favorite childhood book or a stuffed animal they can't forget? But as we get older, we find ourselves surrounded by more objects than we need. It can feel overwhelming, right? It’s like having a mini museum of our lives. We even ponder what our kids will want when we’re gone. It’s a delicate dance of holding on and letting go. Throughout this episode, I emphasize that it’s not about the things but about the connections they represent. Let’s face it, those memories and feelings are what really last. Join me as I navigate this sentimental landscape and give you some ideas about what’s worth keeping and what’s just taking up space!Takeaways: This episode dives into the important connections we have with our belongings, reflecting our past and memories. Aging well involves navigating our relationships with both people and the things we hold dear. The episode emphasizes that it’s not the objects that matter, but the memories and feelings attached to them. Let's chat with our kids about what they really want from our collections; you might be surprised! Letting go of items can be tough, but it can also make space for new memories and connections. Links referenced in this episode:“What’s Keeping You Stuck?” quiz Late Bloomer Living Podcast
Wendy Green, the delightful host of Boomer Banter, dives deep into the heart of familial connection in this episode with Tammy Cohen, a passionate author, entrepreneur and mother. Tammy shares her journey of writing text messages to her three sons during the pandemic, which began as a means to communicate amidst uncertainty. But these weren’t just ordinary texts; they evolved into a heartfelt collection that conveyed love, wisdom, and support. Through their chat, Wendy and Tammy explore the essence of these messages, reflecting on how they serve as a bridge between generations. A big theme here is that life is full of gifts, even in tough times, and Tammy’s story illustrates how we can transform challenges into opportunities for personal growth and connection. Tammy’s book, “Text Messages to My Sons: A Guide to Using Mobile Devices to Connect and Communicate with your Kids,” is not really about parenting; it’s about self-discovery and the importance of nurturing relationships with our loved ones. She emphasizes that these texts were a way for her to share what she learned about gratitude, resilience, and self-worth. The conversation highlights how Tammy’s introspective journey led her to a deeper understanding of herself, and how that in turn allowed her to foster a more profound connection with her sons. It’s a beautiful reminder that our vulnerabilities can become strengths, and that love is a language that transcends generations. Throughout their lively exchange, Wendy and Tammy sprinkle in humor and relatable anecdotes, making the conversation feel like a cozy chat between friends. They discuss the reality of parenting & grandparenting in the digital age, where reaching out via text is often more effective than traditional methods. The episode is both uplifting and informative, encouraging listeners to embrace their own journeys of connection and communication with their families, while also reminding us that it’s never too late to start sharing love and wisdom.Takeaways: During COVID, Tammy started sending her sons daily text messages filled with love and wisdom. The journey of self-discovery can lead to profound connections with loved ones through simple messages. Connecting with loved ones is something we all need. Aging well means always learning, staying connected with loved ones, and taking care of your health. Links referenced in this episode:What's Keeping you Stuck? tammyjcohen.com
We’re celebrating our 250th episode with a focus on travel and connection today! Our guest, Talek Nantes, is all about blending adventure with purpose, showing us how traveling can be an opportunity to build relationships and give back. She’s got this fantastic initiative called Bras for Babes, where she brings essentials to women in Cuba. We chat about how you can still travel and make an impact, no matter your age. So if you’ve ever thought about hitting the road with a purpose, grab a comfy seat and get ready to be inspired!Takeaways: Traveling is not just about seeing new places, it's also about connecting with people and communities, which enriches our lives and theirs. Aging well means having a sense of purpose, staying active, and forming meaningful relationships with others, especially as we grow older. Talek's Bras for Babes initiative highlights how simple donations can have a huge impact on people's lives, especially in places like Cuba. Travel can help us learn new things about ourselves and the world; we're never too old to explore and grow, no matter our age! Building relationships during travel is key; it makes experiences more memorable and fulfilling, creating bonds that last long after the trip ends. Finding purpose in travel, like giving back through donations, can transform our journeys into meaningful adventures that we cherish forever. Links referenced in this episode:travelswithtalek.com - Subscribe to her blog and download 101 Travel Tips ebookCheck out the Late Bloomer Living podcast.Wondering why you are stuck, feeling adrift, unsure about what to do next? Check out the What's Keeping You Stuck quiz, and find out your "Stuck Type."Learn more about Greenwood Capital or find resources at www.GreenwoodCapital.com. Boomer Banter is sponsored in part by Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC. Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC is an SEC Registered Investment Advisory firm with offices in Greenville and Greenwood, SC. As a fiduciary firm,Greenwood Capital is obligated to disclose any potential conflicts of interest with this arrangement. The host of “Boomer Banter”, Wendy Green, is a client of Greenwood Capital, and her show “Boomer Banter” has been compensated for her testimonial through Greenwood Capital’s sponsorship. Greenwood Capital is a Legacy sponsor at the stated rate of $2,600 for the 2025 calendar year.
Are you worried about whether your retirement money will last? You’re not alone! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the nitty-gritty of calculating a withdrawal rate from your retirement account. We’ll unpack the famous 4% rule and see if it’s still the best way to plan for our golden years, or if we need to rethink our strategies. Joining us is the insightful Bill Bengen, who’s got some fresh ideas on how to stretch that nest egg while keeping your peace of mind intact. This conversation is all about empowerment. Bill explains how he re-evaluated the 4% rule and introduced concepts like SAFEMAX, which helps tailor withdrawal rates to your personal situation. But it doesn’t stop there; we talk about the importance of understanding inflation and market conditions, and how they affect your retirement dollars. Bill's easy-to-follow advice means you don’t need to be a financial expert to make your money work for you. Takeaways: Retirement planning isn't just about the numbers; it's about quality of life too. The famous 4% rule is still a popular guideline, but newer strategies may be smarter today. Inflation is a sneaky enemy that can erode your retirement savings faster than you think. Be flexible with your spending and adjust your withdrawal rates to match market conditions. Links referenced in this episode:For more information about Bill Bengen, tables to use to calculate your retirement withdrawals and his book go to bengenFS.comWisdom at Work: Older Women, ElderWomen and Grandmothers is an inspiring podcast by Ilana Landsburg-Lewis. Access all the episodes here: wisdomatworkpodcast.comWhat to know your "Stuck" Type in retirement? Feeling bored, unfulfilled, like you have not purpose anymore? Check out my quiz, "What's Keeping You Stuck" to learn more and get resources to help you get unstuck.
Picture this: it’s a regular Monday morning, and I’m mentally prepping to talk about resilience when I get a curveball—a call from my mom’s care facility. She wasn’t feeling well and needed to go to the hospital. Just like that, my day took a dramatic turn! That’s life, right? We all experience storms, both the literal and the metaphorical, and today, I want to chat about how we can navigate those rough waters. We’ve faced countless challenges, and if you’re listening, you’ve already survived a ton. So, let’s explore how we can harness that resilience and come out on the other side, stronger than ever.Today, I’ll share some practical tools that can help you strengthen your resilience, whether you’re in a storm right now or just want to be ready for the next one. Takeaways: Resilience is about adapting well through life’s storms, both big and small. We’ve all been through tough times, and recognizing our strength helps us thrive. Aging teaches us valuable lessons about overcoming hardships and finding new perspectives. Stay connected with others; it helps us realize we’re not alone in struggles. Establishing routines can give us a sense of control when life feels chaotic. Practicing gratitude can shift our focus to the good even in tough times. Links referenced in this episode:Join me for a complimentary 30-minute Discovery Call. We can talk about where you are feeling challenged right now, and you will leave with at least one suggestion to help get you back on the right path. Email me and let me know your thoughts about this topic: wendyey@boomer.bizCheck out the WisdomAtWork: Older Women, Elder Women and Grandmothers podcast
This episode of Boomer Banter is a wake-up call for seniors and their families as it tackles the pressing issue of financial scams targeting Boomers and Beyond. Wendy Green, the ever-enthusiastic host, engages in a lively conversation with Steve Benton, an authority on elder financial safety. Together, they shine a light on the staggering statistics surrounding scams, revealing how seniors lost nearly $4.9 billion in 2024 alone—an increase from the previous year. They dissect various scams, including catfishing and the harrowing ‘pig butchering’ scheme, where victims are lured into investing money in fake opportunities. Steve's expertise shines as he shares practical advice for recognizing signs of scams and protecting oneself, stressing the importance of skepticism in today’s digital world. He suggests having a family password. This episode is not just a discussion; it’s a heartfelt appeal to the community to look out for one another and ensure that aging well includes being financially secure and aware of potential threats. Listeners will walk away not only informed but empowered, with useful strategies that can be applied in real life to fend off scammers. Wendy and Steve remind us all to stay vigilant and support one another as we navigate the complexities of aging in a world that can sometimes feel overwhelmingly unsafe. If you care about someone who might be vulnerable to scams, share this episode—it could make a world of difference!Takeaways: Seniors are increasingly vulnerable to scams, for many reasons. It's essential to have a family password to confirm identities during unexpected calls or messages. Trust your gut! If something feels off or too good to be true, take a step back and think. Don't go it alone; sharing experiences and advice with family can prevent falling for scams. Pause, Reflect, Get someone else involved.Links referenced in this episode:Schedule a complimentary 30-minute call with me. Email Steve Benton at The Senior Source Call the Senior Source contact line at 469-517-7523Check out Greenwood Capital for your Financial Planning needsLearn more about Greenwood Capital or find resources at www.GreenwoodCapital.com. Boomer Banter is sponsored in part by Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC. Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC is an SEC Registered Investment Advisory firm with offices in Greenville and Greenwood, SC. As a fiduciary firm, Greenwood Capital is obligated to disclose any potential conflicts of interest with this arrangement. The host of “Boomer Banter”, Wendy Green, is a client of Greenwood Capital, and her show “Boomer Banter” has been compensated for her testimonial through Greenwood Capital’s sponsorship. Greenwood Capital is a Legacy sponsor at the stated rate of $2,600 for the 2025 calendar year.
This episode takes a stroll down memory lane with Sally Dunbar, a gal who went from worrying about her health to strapping on her walking shoes to raise big bucks for breast cancer research. Sally’s journey is a testament to the power of saying 'yes' to new challenges, even when they scare you. It’s about finding strength in community and realizing you’re capable of way more than you think. So whether you're pondering your next move or just looking for a little inspiration, this conversation is packed with nuggets of wisdom that'll get you saying 'yes' to life!Retirement can feel like a wild ride, right? It’s not always the beachside hammock and umbrella drink scenario that everyone dreams about. Many folks are left feeling lost and bored, wondering what to do with all this newfound free time. But guess what? That’s totally normal! It’s just a part of transitioning into a new season of life. Instead of thinking there’s something wrong with you, how about we flip the script? It’s time to explore your next chapter! Takeaways: Sally's story shows us that taking one small step can lead to amazing transformations in our lives. Setting big goals is the first step; breaking them down makes them achievable, trust me! You are stronger than you think; don't let fear hold you back from saying yes to new adventures! Joining a supportive team can change your perspective and help you achieve the incredible, just like Sally! Links shared:Schedule a 30-minute complimentary discovery call with me hereSupport Sally Dunbar's team, "Hands up for Hooters." Susan G. Komen 3-day
Let’s get real about creativity and aging! This podcast episode is a goldmine of insights on how to keep your brain sharp and your heart happy as the years roll on. We brought in Jenny Leigh Hodgins, a Creative Empowerment Coach who’s here to show us how diving into creative activities can boost our brainpower and lift our spirits.Creativity isn’t about perfection; it's about expression and fun! We get into the nitty-gritty about how to navigate burnout and creative blocks, because let’s be real, we all hit those walls sometimes!We explore practical tips on how to incorporate little bits of creativity into your daily routine without it feeling like a chore. Plus, we dive into the importance of self-compassion and taking time for stillness amidst our busy lives. So, if you're ready to embrace your creative side, tune in and get inspired to play, create, and thrive in this beautiful journey of aging!Takeaways: Creativity enhances mental wellness, so don't shy away from trying something new. You don't have to be an artist to be creative; it's about expressing yourself authentically. Taking time for stillness and reflection can rejuvenate your spirit and spark creativity. Even small bursts of creative practice can lead to significant wellness benefits over time. Embrace the idea of an 'artist date' as a way to nourish your creative side and explore new interests. Links referenced in this episode:Find Jenny Leigh Hodgins here and get her free My Creative Empowerment Sampler: yourcreativechord.com/getinspiredhereSign up for your 30 minute free discover call with me here: https://calendly.com/boomer-banter/30minutesJulia Cameron's book, The Artist's Way
Traveling can be a real eye-opener, especially when it means stepping out of our comfort zones. This week, we dive into the adventure of exploring Costa Rica, where flexibility and curiosity were the names of the game. From unexpected bathroom protocols—yep, no toilet paper in the toilet—to the common breakfast fare of rice and beans, our journey was filled with quirks that kept us on our toes. We learned that being adaptable isn’t just about having a flexible itinerary; it’s about embracing the local culture and finding joy in the unfamiliar. And trust me, rainy hikes in the rainforest? Pure bliss! Throughout our trip, we made connections with locals, tasted new foods, and even learned some valuable lessons about self-care while traveling. It’s easy to forget about hydration and rest when you’re busy soaking up the sights, but we shared tips on how to maintain wellness on the go. By the end of our adventure, we found ourselves not just appreciating the beauty of Costa Rica, but also reflecting on the gratitude for the comforts of home. So grab your passport and a sense of humor because this episode is all about how travel can expand our horizons and enrich our lives, one quirky experience at a time!Links referenced in this episode:Click on Age Well With Us to subscribe to our newsletterSupport the Boomer Banter Walk to End Alzheimer team.
Today, we’re diving deep into the wild world of caregiving with our guest, Nicole Smith. She found herself juggling not just one, but three family members needing serious help—talk about a juggling act! Nicole wasn’t planning to become an elder care expert, but life threw her a curveball when her mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, and her dad and step-mother faced their own challenges. She ended up writing a book called "Diagnosis: Dementia - Your Guide to Elder Care Planning and Crisis Management," and trust me, it’s packed with wisdom you won’t want to miss. We’ll laugh, we’ll cry, and we’ll uncover why having a support network is crucial when the chaos of caregiving kicks in. So let’s get into it!Takeaways: Juggling multiple family members with health issues, can feel like a wild roller coaster ride. We explore the emotional toll of caregiving, with Nicole's personal anecdotes highlighting the struggles, frustrations, and humor found in tricky family dynamics. This episode encourages proactive conversations about aging and caregiving, stressing that it's vital to prepare in advance rather than waiting for a crisis to strike. We discuss the invaluable resources available for caregivers, like the Daughterhood community, which provides support and shared experiences for those navigating similar challenges. Links referenced in this episode:Age Well With Us: Subscribe at heyboomer.bizSupport the Boomer Banter Walk to End Alzheimer's teamFind support a daughterhood.orgLearn more about Greenwood Capital or find resources at www.GreenwoodCapital.com/holding-it-together. Boomer Banter is sponsored in part by Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC. Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC is an SEC Registered Investment Advisory firm with offices in Greenville and Greenwood, SC. As a fiduciary firm, Greenwood Capital is obligated to disclose any potential conflicts of interest with this arrangement. The host of “Boomer Banter”, Wendy Green, is a client of Greenwood Capital, and her show “Boomer Banter” has been compensated for her testimonial through Greenwood Capital’s sponsorship. Greenwood Capital is a Legacy sponsor at the stated rate of $2,600 for the 2025 calendar year.greenwoodcapital.com
In this episode of Boomer Banter, we meet Bill Sepe, a spirited 73-year-old whose zest for life inspires everyone around him. Bill's story is a heartfelt one, showcasing his transition from a full-time caregiver to starting 3-Wheel Therapy in Ohio, a non-profit organization dedicated to providing free three-wheel bike rides to those who can no longer ride on their own. These rides are not just about mobility; they are about connection, joy, and rekindling the spirit of adventure. Bill shares his personal journey, detailing how he found purpose after retirement and how his love for cycling has transformed into a beautiful mission. The conversation is filled with laughter, touching moments, and the realization that it’s never too late to make a positive impact. Bill’s infectious enthusiasm serves as a reminder that life is all about seizing opportunities and saying yes to crazy ideas that can lead to something extraordinary.Takeaways: Finding purpose after retirement often begins with saying yes to new adventures and ideas. Caregiving can be a transformative experience, opening doors to community and creativity. Volunteering not only helps others but can give you a sense of fulfillment as well. Companies mentioned in this episode:Subscribe to the Boomer Banter Newsletter. Click on Age Well With Us Support the work Boomer Banter is doing. Buy Me a Coffee.3-Wheel Therapy Reach out to Bill Check out Fading Memories Podcast
Smartphones are a double-edged sword, aren’t they? We can video chat with family, listen to our favorite tunes, or even navigate our way to the nearest coffee shop—all with a few taps. But let's keep it real: Tech can be daunting, especially for older folks who didn't grow up with it. But fear not! This episode is all about turning those tech frowns upside down.Today, I’m chatting with Ann Goldberg, a tech-savvy superstar who helps seniors embrace their smartphones and stay safe online. With a mix of humor and practical advice, she talks about overcoming the fear associated with technology and offers simple tips for using smartphones effectively. Plus, she dives into the importance of staying safe online amidst all the scams out there. Ann found her passion in teaching older adults how to use their devices with confidence. So, whether you’re a smartphone lover, a reluctant user, or just trying to figure out where all your apps disappeared after the last update, this episode is for you!Takeaways: Navigating tech can be tricky, but with practice, we can all learn to love our devices. Creating a family password can help protect against scams and keep communication safe. Tech is like learning to walk; practice makes us better and more confident. Staying engaged with technology can help reduce the risk of cognitive decline as we age. Links referenced in this episode:Subscribe to the Boomer Banter Newsletter, Thriving Through Time. Click on Age Well With Us.Check out Ann Goldberg's website, TakeThisPhoneandShoveIt.comCheck out the Fading Memories podcastLearn more about Greenwood Capital Boomer Banter is sponsored in part by Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC. Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC is an SEC Registered Investment Advisory firm with offices in Greenville and Greenwood, SC. As a fiduciary firm, Greenwood Capital is obligated to disclose any potential conflicts of interest with this arrangement. The host of “Boomer Banter”, Wendy Green, is a client of Greenwood Capital, and her show “Boomer Banter”
Have you ever thought about walking the same streets your ancestors did? This week, we're diving into the world of ancestry travel and how it's become a big deal for folks wanting to connect with their roots. I’m chatting with Jim Lenahan from AARP, and he's got the scoop on why older adults are flocking to these heritage trips. We’ll share some heartwarming stories of people who’ve met long-lost relatives and uncovered their family histories, and we’ll even dish out a few tips on how to plan your own adventure. Whether you're a seasoned genealogist or just curious about where you come from, this episode is gonna inspire you to dig into your past and maybe even book that flight!Welcome to the 240th episode of Boomer Banter! Takeaways:Ancestry travel is booming because older adults are eager to connect with their roots. Many travelers find deeper purpose by uncovering their ancestry, which can shape their identity. Planning an ancestry trip involves researching your family tree to uncover meaningful connections. Meeting distant relatives during these trips can create lasting bonds and enrich family ties. Expectations should be managed; sometimes you find places and history rather than relatives. Tour companies specializing in ancestry trips can help make the journey easier and more fulfilling. Links referenced in this episode:Join the Boomer Banter community. Check out all the information on the AARP Travel page.Do your ancestry research.Travel site specifically focused on African Heritage trips
Let's talk about grandmas! Seriously, in this episode, we’re shaking things up and recognizing that grandmothers are not just sweet faces in family photos but powerhouse change-makers in our communities. I’m thrilled to have Lindsay Farrell on the show, who founded the Grandmother Collective. She’s spent years working with young people, but over time, she noticed something was missing—a crucial element that was holding communities together: the wisdom of grandmothers. It’s like, duh, right? Grandmas have been the unsung heroes of our neighborhoods, quietly making a difference, and now it’s time for us to shine a light on them. We chat about how grandmothers are stepping into their power, leading storytelling circles, and advocating for social change. They’re not just sitting back; they’re in the trenches, building intergenerational trust and healing their communities. This episode is all about how you can tap into your own grandmotherly influence, no matter your age or experience. So, whether you’re a grandma or just someone who appreciates the magic they bring, this convo is packed with inspiration and real-life stories of women who are changing the world one step at a time. Don’t miss it!Takeaways: Grandmothers today are not just family figures; they're community leaders who inspire change. The Grandmother Collective highlights the power of older women in global movements for social justice. Empathy and compassion are key traits for effective leadership, especially in grandmotherly roles. Connecting across generations helps us all redefine aging and discover new opportunities.
Imagine sitting in a room filled with laughter and camaraderie, where women of all ages share their stories and support one another. That’s exactly what the Ethel Circles are doing, and this episode of Boomer Banter takes us right into the heart of this vibrant community. Host Wendy Green kicks things off with a personal story about a lonely birthday, leading into a discussion with Lisa Marcelino and Shelly Emling from AARP about the incredible impact of social connections on our lives as we age. The conversation highlights the importance of companionship, particularly for women facing life transitions such as divorce or losing loved ones. Listeners will learn how the Ethel Circle started and how it has blossomed into a nationwide movement that empowers women to find purpose, people, and play. The episode is filled with heartwarming anecdotes and practical advice on how to navigate the sometimes tricky waters of forming new friendships later in life, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking connection and community.Takeaways: Finding new friendships can spark unexpected joy, especially as we age and navigate life changes. The Ethel Circle helps women build supportive communities to combat loneliness and isolation. Celebrating birthdays and milestones together can create lasting bonds and cherished memories. Making the first move to join a group can lead to incredible friendships and new adventures. Links referenced in this episode:Sign up for the weekly Boomer Banter newsletter. Click on Age Well With Us.Join the closed Facebook group for the Ethel Circlecheck out Ethel On-The-Go closed FB to find a travel buddyTo locate an Ethel group in your area Interested in starting an Ethel group? Email aarpethel@aarp.orgCheck out our sponsor, Greenwood CapitalLearn more about Greenwood Capital or find resources at www.GreenwoodCapital.com. Boomer Banter is sponsored in part by Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC. Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC is an SEC Registered Investment Advisory firm with offices in Greenville and Greenwood, SC. As a fiduciary firm, Greenwood Capital is obligated to disclose any potential conflicts of interest with this arrangement. The host of “Boomer Banter”, Wendy Green, is a client of Greenwood Capital, and her show “Boomer Banter”has been compensated for her testimonial through Greenwood Capital’s sponsorship. Greenwood Capital is a Legacy sponsor at the stated rate of $2,600 for the 2025 calendar year.
Friendships don’t stop mattering as we get older — but they do change. And sometimes, building or maintaining those connections feels a little more complicated in this stage of life.In this honest conversation, Jane Leder (host of Older Women and Friends) and I talk honestly about what friendships look like now — when life has taken us down different paths, when old friends have moved away, or when we simply find ourselves craving meaningful connection again. We open up about our own experiences — the friendships we’ve grown, the ones we’ve let go of, and the surprising places we’ve found new friends (even a few much younger than us!).We also share some very real, practical ways to create and nurture friendships in your third act — even if your energy, mobility, or opportunities feel limited. From reaching out to someone new, to joining groups, to stretching just a bit outside your comfort zone, there are ways to build relationships that matter.If you’ve ever felt like making friends “at this age” is harder than it used to be, you aren't wrong. It is different and doesn't seem to happen as naturally as it once did — and it’s never too late to create new connections that bring joy, laughter, and support into your life.Takeaways:Friendship in later life will require intentional effort and adaptability.Cultivating new friendships necessitates stepping out of your comfort zone and being proactive.Intergenerational friendships can enrich our lives, providing fresh perspectives and shared experiences.We talked about the quality of friendships over the quantity of friendships in our later years.We shared many practical ideas for finding new friends, some of which may surprise you.Links referenced in this episode:Jane Leder is host of "Older Women and Friends," which can be found wherever you listen to podcasts.Join the Boomer Banter email list for inspirational content. Go to heyboomer.biz and click on Age Well With Us.Join the AARP Ethel newsletter and join us next week as we explore friendships with The Ethels.
This episode invites listeners to confront the realities of aging through a thoughtful lens, facilitated by the insights of Rabbi Richard Address. The dialogue, led by host Wendy Green, highlights the importance of acceptance in the face of life's inevitable changes. They pose a critical question that resonates deeply: 'What do I do with the time I have left, knowing I cannot control the time I have left?' This inquiry opens the door to meaningful reflection on how we choose to live our lives as we age.Rabbi Address expounds on the Jewish tradition of gratitude, advocating for a daily practice of recognizing the gift of life each morning. This foundation of appreciation is vital for fostering a sense of purpose and connection in our daily interactions. The discussion also emphasizes the significance of giving back, suggesting that those blessed with the capacity to reflect on their lives have a moral obligation to extend their blessings to others. Moreover, the episode addresses the emotional complexities of aging, including the challenges of caregiving and the evolving nature of relationships. As individuals navigate the process of growing older, the podcast underscores the necessity of maintaining connections that enrich our lives. Ultimately, it champions a proactive approach to aging, inviting listeners to embrace their journey with compassion, joy, and a commitment to making a positive impact on the world around them.Takeaways: The essence of aging well lies not in resisting time, but rather in accepting it and finding peace with the inevitable changes that come with it. The question we must ponder is: "What do we do with the time we have left, knowing we cannot control the time we have left?" In navigating the challenges of aging, it becomes paramount to share our blessings and give back to our communities, nurturing connections that enrich our existence. By cultivating gratitude each morning, we set a foundation for our day, prompting us to consider what actions we can take to contribute positively to the world. Links referenced in this episode:Find Rabbi Address on the JewishSacredAging website & the Seekers of Meaning podcast.Join the Boomer Banter community and receive our weekly newsletter.Find Jane Leder's writings and the Older Women & Friends podcast
Friendships are not static; they evolve, fade, and sometimes end. In this first episode of a two-part series, host, Wendy Green, delves into the transitions that impact our friendships throughout various life stages, starting with childhood and extending into young adulthood. She explores the fundamental lessons learned by early friendships regarding trust, belonging, and self-worth, and questions why certain connections fade away while others endure. Through reflection on these experiences, we can cultivate compassion for friendships that have reached their conclusion, recognizing their significance in shaping our identities. This episode serves as a poignant reminder that the arc of friendship can be both a source of profound insight and healing.The episode begins with a heartfelt recounting of a friendship that has endured for three decades, only to dissolve due to unforeseen changes and misunderstandings. This personal anecdote serves as a catalyst for a broader discussion on the nature of friendships—how they evolve, shift, and sometimes, sadly, end. Green posits that the understanding of these transitions is not merely an academic exercise; it is a pathway to healing. By reflecting on our past connections, we are invited to uncover the lessons embedded within them, fostering a sense of gratitude for the experiences shared, irrespective of their duration. The episode weaves together personal reflection and universal truths about the impermanence of relationships, ultimately guiding us towards self-compassion and acceptance of the transient yet impactful nature of friendships.Takeaways: Friendships experience transitions that can profoundly impact our sense of self-worth and belonging. Understanding the evolution of friendships from childhood through adulthood can be both enlightening and healing. It is imperative to recognize that not all friendships are meant to endure indefinitely; some serve a specific purpose in our lives. Reflecting on past friendships allows us to appreciate their significance while also releasing guilt over their endings. The lessons learned from early friendships influence our future relationships and how we navigate emotional connections. Gratitude for past friendships can help us reframe our experiences and honor their impact on our lives. Links referenced in this episode:Learn more about Greenwood Capital or find resources at www.GreenwoodCapital.com. Boomer Banter is sponsored in part by Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC. Greenwood Capital Associates, LLC is an SEC Registered Investment Advisory firm with offices in Greenville and Greenwood, SC. As a fiduciary firm, Greenwood Capital is obligated to disclose any potential conflicts of interest with this arrangement. The host of “Boomer Banter”, Wendy Green, is a client of Greenwood Capital, and her show “Boomer Banter”has been compensated for her testimonial through Greenwood Capital’s sponsorship. Greenwood Capital is a Legacy sponsor at the stated rate of $2,600 for the 2025 calendar year.Stay connected! Visit heyboomer.biz and click on Age Well With Us!