Brandon The Dom

Explore the world of BDSM and discover how subtle acts can be incredibly fulfilling. This video delves into the concept of cockwarming, emphasizing that not every act needs to be high dominance or aggressive. Learn how to incorporate this simple act into your dynamic.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What is cockwarming? (01:10) - Why do people enjoy cockwarming? (03:03) - How to engage in cockwarming (04:19) - Tips & techniques for cockwarming ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Cockwarming Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/cockwarming▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex▶️ Face f*cking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking

Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including  @Andy_Wells, Mario, and myself, for submissives focusing on the search for a compatible Dom. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:41) - Green flags in Doms (04:21) - Starting slow (08:03) - Discussing play beforehand (16:14) - Meeting the submissive at their level (22:19) - Having humility as a Dom (33:03) - Understanding the intention behind desires (43:20) - Feeling safe with the Dom (47:58) - Asserting yourself as a submissive (52:30) - Handling trauma triggers (56:22) - Separating kink and sex (01:05:38) - Aftercare (01:10:07) - The Overconfident Dom ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8

This video features an interview with  @domme_claire , a professional dominatrix, and  @Andy_Wells , discussing dominance and how it can be used to help others.  The conversation highlights a philosophy of kindness, care, and building up submissives through positive leadership. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw

These two deceptively simple questions will change your sex life and drastically improve your chances of finding fulfillment in your pleasure.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (01:36) - Question 1: Who is in control? (04:56) - Question 2: For whom is this intended for? (12:28) - Challenges in answering these questions ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Question Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/two-must-ask-questions-for-better-sex📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Sex Menu: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

For those who enjoy rough sex or BDSM power play, traditional oral sex can be turned up a few notches to become face f**king. This article will take you through how to (safely) have sex with your partner’s face and make it pleasurable for the both of you.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What is Aggressive Oral Sex? (01:59) - Why do people enjoy Aggressive Oral Sex? (03:12) - Risks of Aggressive Oral Sex (04:26) - Positions for Aggressive Oral Sex (08:44) - Tips & Techniques for Aggressive Oral Sex (13:38) - Tips for the submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Oral Sex Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 Biting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping

Curious about ethical non monogamy? Learn what ethical non monogamy (ENM) is, why someone would want to share or have multiple partners, and how to practice ENM for multiple happy relationships.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:14) - What is Ethical Non Monogamy (02:05) - Myths about ENM (04:57) - Spectrum of ENM (06:45) - Popular types of ENM (09:49) - My journey into ENM (17:09) - Common reasons why people choose ENM (20:38) - How to Practice Ethical Non Monogamy (21:30) - Desires (22:40) - Boundaries (24:41) - Capacity (31:10) - Communication ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Ethical Non Monogamy Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy▶️ How to Stop Having Unfulfilling Situationships: https://youtu.be/tTXShBAz4yE▶️ Sexual Incompatibility: https://youtu.be/yo4uXe5Gt00📖 Investigation of Consensually Nonmonogamous Relationships: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28346120/📖 How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations

Want to craft a great BDSM scene? These 3 foundational pillars will equip you with an easy to use formula for you to create scenes that will help Doms and subs reach the heights of pleasure and depths of subspace.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:15) - Secret to great scenes (01:24) - Planning a scene vs winging it (02:51) - Pillar 1: Goal (08:08) - Pillar 2: Sequencing (11:45) - Pillar 3: Perfect Moments (12:37) - Perfect Moments: Intention (18:03) - Perfect Moments: Energy (22:22) - Perfect Moments: Action ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Scene Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-scene📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 Sex Menu: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu📖 Bootstrapping a D/s Dynamic: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-dynamic📖 BDSM Punishments for Submissives: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖 Dom Sub Contract: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-contract▶️ Subspace: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE▶️ Sexual performance anxiety: https://youtu.be/iOllLdevh30

Today's episode is a guide on biting during sex, focusing on safety and technique. Learn how to ensure a positive experience with these sex education tips for achieving mutual pleasure. This step-by-step guide provides crucial safety tips for those interested in exploring BDSM.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (01:14) - Why do people enjoy biting during sex? (03:37) - Risks with biting (04:52) - Where to bite (06:19) - Techniques for biting (10:49) - Goal of biting (11:25) - Start low and slow (12:58) - Timing your bites (14:15) - Hickeys from biting (14:59) - Tips for the submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Biting Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping

Tired of unfulfilling situationships? Learn the simple (but sometimes hard to do) practice to build a more fulfilling relationship.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:19) - What is a situationship? (01:41) - Why you have anxiety in the relationship (02:29) - Breaking down relationship needs (04:05) - The need for monogamy (05:45) - The need to feel special (06:21) - How to build a fulfilling relationship ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Situationship Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship▶️ 3 Ways to Fix a Sexually Incompatible Relationship: https://youtu.be/yo4uXe5Gt00▶️ Attachment Styles Explained: https://youtu.be/hri5rLcckao

Today's video offers guidance on incorporating face slapping into rough play, focusing on safety and technique. Learn how to ensure a positive experience with these sex education tips. This step-by-step guide to face slapping provides crucial safety tips.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:54) - Why do people enjoy face slapping? (02:33) - Risks with face slapping (05:28) - Face Slapping Technique (08:42) - Goal of face slapping (09:52) - Practice with spanking first (10:26) - Remove jewlery (11:07) - Start close to their face (12:39) - Place your hand on the other cheek (13:54) - Tips for the submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Face Slapping Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex 📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling▶️ Hair Pulling: https://youtu.be/O3i5mQ8UPFo▶️ Choking: https://youtu.be/mnfS7X2HjXQ📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking

Cumming to quickly? Want to increase the amount of time you have intercourse? This video will breakdown everything you need to know about lasting longer during in the bedroom including the one must know concept of PNR and 7 techniques that will take from ejaculating in mere minutes to lasting as long as you'd like.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 7 Techniques Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/how-to-last-longer-during-sex▶️ Sexual Performance Anxiety video: https://youtu.be/iOllLdevh30▶️ Manhandling video: https://youtu.be/1clm-HrogxI▶️ Erotic Choking video: https://youtu.be/mnfS7X2HjXQ📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex

Can BDSM be healing for those who have experienced their consent being abused?   @Andy_Wells and I discuss navigating consent, helping women through bad past experiences, speaking up for needs, and how men can be judged and shamed in the bedroom too.---👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:41) - Using BDSM to regain power from trauma (06:28) - Exploring new boundaries (18:20) - Learning to say no game (21:43) - Past experiences of saying no (26:15) - Speaking up for your needs (28:31) - When acts are traumatic vs not (36:50) - Doms can't read minds (47:03) - Creating safety (50:13) - Being judged as a man in the bedroom (01:03:15) - Standing up for your values (01:09:15) - Introducing your partner to new sex acts ---MORE RESOURCES:▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc

Today we're diving into the world of hair pulling and sex, but we're focusing on proper techniques. Learn how to make hair pulling a pleasurable experience, not a painful one. Explore the best way to achieve mutual pleasure with these sex education tips.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:38) - Why do people enjoy hair pulling during sex? (02:00) - Risks of hair pulling during sex (03:05) - Where to pull hair to avoid damage (03:44) - Hair pulling techniques (24:26) - Tips for using hair pulling during sex ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Hair Pulling Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling▶️ Manhandling video: https://youtu.be/1clm-HrogxI▶️ Erotic Choking video: https://youtu.be/mnfS7X2HjXQ

Feeling down after a scene? You might be experiencing sub drop, a common occurrence in the BDSM world. This video helps you understand the feelings associated with sub drop and offers simple tips on how to navigate it with your dominant and submissive partner. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:13) - What is sub drop? (01:41) - What does sub drop feel like? (03:12) - How to deal with sub drop (03:40) - Physical remedies for sub drop (08:47) - Mental remedies for sub drop (13:05) - Emotional remedies for sub drop ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Sub Drop Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop▶️ Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State: https://youtu.be/rt1-B_m-6yE▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors for a Good Submissive in BDSM: https://youtu.be/c7OY-RzF0RM

Learn how to manhandle your submissive in the bedroom so she can feel your Dominance and intensify her pleasure in sex and BDSM play.---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching📖 Enter the Dom Book: https://enterthedom.com/---TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:(00:00) - Intro (00:08) - What is manhandling? (02:45) - Why do submissives enjoy being manhandled? (04:21) - One key mindset for manhandling (05:55) - Best techniques for manhandling (20:45) - Tips for putting manhandling into practice (24:26) - Tips for the submissive being manhandled ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Manhandling Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex📖 A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-dirty-talk