Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak

Breakup Boost is your golden ticket to healing heartbreak, raising your standards, and dating smarter. Hosted by Trina Leckie (breakup coach & author), this podcast dishes out honest talk, sharp insights, and no-nonsense advice to help you reclaim your power and turn the page with purpose. Your bounce-back era starts here. Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you’ll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" For breakup & relationship coaching, visit breakupboost.com. Follow on TikTok @breakupboost. Subscribe on YouTube "breakup boost"

#396: Self-Respect Pep Talk: You’re Not a Bargain Bin Deal (dating advice & self-worth motivation)

This one’s your wake-up call. If you keep discounting yourself for people who don’t even pay full attention, that’s on you. Self-respect isn’t arrogance - it’s knowing you’re not a clearance-rack find. The moment you start acting like you’re the prize, your whole energy changes. Stop begging to be chosen and start choosing better. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

10-10
12:16

#395: Betrayal in Relationships Isn’t a Sliding Scale: CHEATING IS CHEATING!

Sure, you can try to convince yourself (or someone else) it was just a “mistake,” a “drunken slip,” or “not really cheating,” but for anyone with integrity... betrayal is betrayal. Period. If you’ve been downplaying what happened to you - or what you did - this episode is here to show you why you need to cut through the excuses and keep it real. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

09-29
10:00

#394: 7 Social Media Moves That Look a Lil Unhinged (online drama post breakup & in relationships)

Whether you’re reeling from a breakup or tangled in relationship drama, your social media can speak louder than you realize. This episode is your reminder to pump the brakes so you don’t end up looking back, wishing you had. Think of this episode as a friendly wake-up call to stay classy, stay mysterious, and keep moving forward - on and off screen. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

09-23
11:09

#393: 6 Reasons You Ignore Red Flags (and Pretend They Magically Appear AFTER the Breakup)

Red flags aren’t just cute little quirks you should “wait and see” about - they’re WARNINGS. And ignoring them? That’s how you end up in relationship quicksand. Not fun. If you’ve ever second-guessed your gut or brushed off a behavior because you didn’t want to “make a big deal out of it,” this one’s for you.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

09-10
07:15

BIG NEWS: Trina Created a Spin-Off Podcast ... FOR MEN!!!

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09-01
01:09

#392: Weekend Loneliness After a Breakup - Don’t Text Your Ex!!! xo

Weekends are supposed to feel exciting. But when you’re fresh out of a breakup, they can feel like extra days of torture. Everyone else seems busy, happy, and coupled up - and you’re stuck fighting the urge to reach out to your ex. This episode is your reminder of why that’s the worst idea you could have right now… and what to do instead.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

08-31
09:06

#391: “Maybe One Day We Can Get Back Together…” (breakup help for the DUMPED)

Have you ever been dumped and hit with the classic, "Maybe one day we can get back together..."? In this episode, I’m breaking down why that line is more insulting than comforting... and what it REALLY means. If you’ve been holding onto a "maybe," after a breakup situation, this is your wake-up call to change course, remember your worth, and get your life back on track. You're welcome ;) LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

08-22
07:34

#390: 6 Types of People Who Say, “The Cheating Made Us So Much Stronger" (Dealing with Infidelity)

You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve even said it. But today I'm ripping that phrase apart and exposing the truth behind it. I’m breaking down the 6 types of people who claim cheating somehow helped their relationship - and trust me, it’s not the "flex" they think it is. If you’ve ever tried to justify staying with someone who betrayed you - or if someone you know is deep in denial - this one’s probably gonna hit hard. Are you ready to hear what’s really going on behind the scenes of these “stronger than ever” love stories? LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

08-08
14:14

#389: DATING DECODED: He Says He's NOT READY for a Relationship (Dating Advice for Women)

It's once again time to KEEP IT REAL. When a man says he’s "not ready for a relationship," what does he really mean? In this episode, I break down the truth behind this all-too-common phrase, why women keep holding onto it as though it signifies "hope" ... and what’s actually going on beneath the surface. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

07-24
11:36

#388: 10 Brutal Truths Re: Cheating - COLDPLAY COUPLE KISS CAM (Andy Byron & Kristin Cabot)

Introducing the very first Peeling Back the Layers Special Edition of breakup BOOST - where I spotlight breakup, dating, and relationship headlines... pulling out the real-life lessons for YOU. Unless you’ve been living under a rock (or a concert speaker), you’ve probably seen the Coldplay Couple caught mid-affair on a kiss cam. I’m not here to rehash the play-by-play - I’m here to deliver 10 brutal truths about cheating inspired by the mess. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

07-22
16:25

#387: If You Use AI to Communicate in Dating & Relationships, Please Stay Single :)

Let’s be real: if you’re using AI to write love notes, apologies, or breakup texts… this episode is about YOU. And yeah, it might sting a little - - - because it should. I'm diving into the sad, weird, and honestly CORNY new trend of people outsourcing their emotional communication to chatbots. You say you want real love and authenticity, but you can’t even send a text without help from a robot?!?! Make it make sense!!! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

07-15
16:04

#386: “Why Is My Narcissist Ex Doing This or That?!” (breakup advice that cuts the BS & provides clarity)

Tired of analyzing your narcissist ex? So many questions, so much confusion. You think you want answers - but trust me, you need to hear THIS before you ask again. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

06-24
16:31

#385: 5 Mistakes That Make You Look Like a CLOWN in Dating and Relationships

So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe. You know the ones - where you ask yourself, “What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

06-06
10:33

#384: The 1 Thing You ACTUALLY Want When You Say You Want “Closure” ... Post-Breakup REAL TALK Advice

You say you want closure - but is that really what you’re after??? Hmmmm.... In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really behind that phrase. It’s not about a neat ending or a final conversation. There’s something else going on - and understanding it is the first step to FINALLY moving on. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

06-04
07:18

#383: Groveling After a Breakup Is the Death of Your Dignity (The "please just talk to me" texts gotta go!)

Let’s be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every “please just talk to me” moment? It’s not helping. It’s eating away at your dignity. In this episode, I’m giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn’t chasing you. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

05-24
06:21

#382: 6 Truth Bombs For Cheaters That’ll Make Them Squirm (And Validation For Those Who Were Cheated On)

Dear Cheaters: Don’t get too cozy. This episode’s got your name written all over it! And to everyone who’s ever been cheated on, gaslit, or made to feel crazy... you’re about to get the validation you deserve. I’m dropping 6 truth bombs cheaters desperately try to avoid. No sugar. No spin. Just the raw, uncomfortable truth about what cheating says about you. And as for the person you hurt? They won’t stay broken... but YOU'LL carry the stain of that choice for a long a$$ time. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

05-21
18:29

#381: How to Cope When It Feels Like Your Ex Doesn’t Miss You After Your Breakup (Advice for Heartbreak)

Breakups mess with your head - and one of the most painful thoughts you can spiral into is: “Do they even miss me?!” If you’ve been obsessing over their silence, stalking their social media, or searching for any sign that they still care… this episode is for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

05-14
10:05

#380: The "Block-Unblock Your Ex" Olympics Will Win You a Gold Medal in Desperation (No contact rule is key)

Let’s get real - blocking and unblocking your ex or situationship isn’t a power move - it’s a hot mess. A cycle that hurts you WAY more than it helps. It’s time to stop giving away your power and start standing by your decisions. If you’re ready to ditch the drama and step into your confident era, this one’s for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

05-08
10:32

#379: Dear Men Who Date Women Young Enough to Be Their Daughter:

In this episode, I unpack the real story behind those “age is just a number” relationships. Whether you’ve dated significantly older, younger, or just sat back watching this type of slow-motion trainwreck... you don't want to miss this! Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

04-24
07:51

#378: 10 Types of Men to NEVER Have a Baby With - Because Parenthood Is PERMANENT (life advice for women)

Let’s get real: too many women end up tied to the wrong man for life because of pressure, fear, or straight-up wishful thinking. In this episode, I’m breaking down the types of men you should never have a baby with (let alone date lol)... The men who’ll charm you into chaos and leave you holding the bag - diaper bag included! Girl... it doesn't matter if he looks good in a selfie if he can't even grasp the word "responsibility," ok??!! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

04-11
24:24

morfooo

Awareness is the key!

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morfooo

Unfortunately such tragic stories are becoming a common thing in today's society. If you wish take some time and listen to this podcast which contains lots of educational messages.

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morfooo

Anybody needs to listen to this brilliant episode.

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NT92

Trinaaaaa Honestly absolutely amazing podcasts, I have listened to almost all of them your voice is therapeutic and every topic is mind blowing & inspiring.. Thank you for simply saying your truth 🙌🙌 it has gotten me through my toughest breakup l. I will continue to listen to your pods keep them coming ❤

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Linda Marie Slattery

I love this podcast, and so glad I found it. Listened to pretty much all the episodes, and even though life and love is great right now, I've had my share of terrible relationships. Each episode gives perspective and helps me figure out where mistakes were made, to hopefully do better this time around. Well done Trina.. Linda 🇮🇪

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