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CONSISTENT by Primal Potential
Author: Elizabeth Benton
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Why are we so stressed & overwhelmed? Why do we have clear & compelling goals but fail to reach them? How can we want to change so desperately yet make choices that keep us from that change? Because we keep focusing on the habits we want instead of building the skill of consistency that allows us to achieve them. Consistency is a skill. It's a superpower. It isn't one-size-fits all. It unlocks any door and makes every goal achievable. A more effective, realistic approach starts here.
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You're not lazy. You're not undisciplined. You're not broken. You're just fighting against your environment—and it's a losing battle. In this episode, Elizabeth gets real about the truth we all feel but rarely talk about: Your willpower will never beat your environment. From overflowing mudrooms to cluttered kitchen counters, chaotic homes create chaotic minds—and chaotic minds make impulsive decisions. Sound familiar? This episode dives into: Why your space might be silently sabotaging your progress How clutter triggers stress, reactivity, and that "I need a break" urge The common household patterns that wear down your willpower And most importantly—6 simple things you can do to make your environment support your goals, not destroy them You don't need a Pinterest-worthy house. You need a space that lets you breathe. You'll hear real-life, messy, relatable examples—like: Why there are 77 shoes in the mudroom (with only 5 people in the house) The Ninja Creamy that hasn't moved in months How to stop "moving" things and start putting them away If you've ever thought, "I know what to do, I'm just not doing it"—this episode will hit home. HARD. 🔑 In This Episode You'll Learn: The overlooked link between clutter and cravings The sneaky ways your space increases stress and sabotages progress 6 actionable, doable, non-overwhelming ways to reclaim peace in your environment
It's easy to get caught up in all the health trends—saunas, red light therapy, cold plunges, expensive supplements—but at the end of the day, nothing will trump the basics. In this episode, I'm walking you through two lifestyle changes I've made recently that are supporting my health in a big way. One is a little "crunchy," and one is super accessible. Neither replaces the big rocks of health (like reducing processed foods, stabilizing blood sugar, managing stress, and getting good sleep), but both have helped me reinforce the foundation. Here's what we dive into: Why I started milling our own flour (and what you're really getting in store-bought flour) What "bleached" flour actually means—and what that's doing to your body What's really in dough conditioners (and why you want to avoid them) How fresh-milled flour tastes better, saves money, and massively improves nutrient density The simple morning fiber drink I take with psyllium husk and citrus How fiber helps you detox and reduce inflammation Why detox pathways matter for fat loss, hormones, and inflammation And most importantly, how to stop chasing trends and come back to the daily practices that actually move the needle. ✨ Want to pursue weight loss by reducing inflammation in January? Join me for my 4-week Impact Inflammation Group kicking off in January! We'll focus on: Simple changes that lower inflammation Meal ideas & recipes Supplement recommendations Education around detox, gut health, blood sugar & more 👉 Join the 4-Week Impact Inflammation Group – Click here 🛒 Mentioned in this episode: 🌾 Organic Wheat Berries I Use ⚙️ Grain Mill I Bought 🧃 Psyllium Husk Fiber I Use 💡 My Favorite Red Light Therapy Device If you found this episode helpful, please share it with a friend, post it to your stories, or send me a DM! Your shares mean the world. Let's get back to what actually works—small shifts with powerful results.
Episode Summary: I recently decided to go back into a weight loss phase, and in this episode, I'm telling you exactly why. Spoiler alert: it's not because I hate my body or feel like a failure—it's because of what I learned about how excess body fat impacts your brain, your long-term health, and your everyday clarity, energy, and decision-making. We'll talk about: Why "feeling fine" can actually be a red flag if it keeps you stuck in complacency What I'm changing—even though I was already eating well and exercising How excess fat reduces brain volume, blood flow, and function (even if you feel healthy) Why your brain is absolutely capable of healing and what it needs to do that The real meaning of anti-inflammatory weight loss (and it's not just about food) I'm also answering some of the biggest questions that come up around inflammation and weight, including: Can you heal your brain if damage has already been done? What if you know you need to lose weight but you're just not ready? What if you're overwhelmed and don't know where to start? How do you even know if inflammation is a problem for you? 💥 Ready to take action in January? Join me for IMPACT: Inflammation, starting January 5th. This 4-week experience is designed to help you: Lower inflammation and support brain health Learn the why behind fat loss and metabolic function Implement anti-inflammatory changes that actually work for real life Access done-for-you meal plans, supplement guides, grocery lists, and more You'll get: ✔️ Weekly education ✔️ Real tools & structure ✔️ No extremes, no guilt ✔️ Massive support 👉 Click here to join IMPACT: Inflammation now We start Monday, January 5th — don't wait.
In this powerful episode, I'm opening up about a recent decision to return to weight loss mode—not from a place of shame or desperation, but from clarity, alignment, and a deep understanding of how excess body fat impacts more than just how we look or feel. It impacts our brain health, our energy, our clarity, our future. Join me in January - IMPACT: Inflammation A full month of education, meal ideas, supplement recommendations, lab recommendations and details around my current weight loss journey. Secure Your Spot Now In this episode I'm sharing: What really prompted this shift for me The danger of getting stuck in "better than I was" complacency The shocking science around how excess weight affects brain volume and function Why inflammation is not just a buzzword—it's a foundational factor in aging, disease, and cognitive decline And what I'm doing about it now—right through the holidays If you've been feeling like something's "off," or you're functioning fine but not fully thriving, this episode is your invitation to reevaluate. It's not too late. And you're not too far gone. 🎯 Ready to take action with me? Join me in January for IMPACT: Inflammation—a full month dedicated to healing your body and brain with an anti-inflammatory approach. You'll get: Anti-inflammatory meal plans & grocery guides Weekly education on weight, inflammation, hormones & brain health Supplement & lab recommendations Tools for real-life, sustainable change Secure Your Spot Now
You're not avoiding the scale. You're not avoiding the bank statement. You're not avoiding the hard conversation or the overflowing inbox. You're avoiding how you think you'll feel when you see it. But here's the truth: You already feel that way. You already feel heavy. You already feel ashamed. You already feel anxious and behind and overwhelmed. Avoidance doesn't protect you — it prolongs your suffering. It doesn't delay the pain — it drains you slowly while convincing you that you're safe. In this episode, we're unpacking: Why avoidance feels like safety but functions like a trap What you're really running from (hint: it's not the number) Why facing it now is easier than carrying it another day And how to start moving forward — even if you're scared This is the wake-up call for anyone avoiding the thing they know they need to face. The number. The truth. The next step. If you're ready to stop circling the truth and start standing in it — this one's for you.
If you're routinely feeling overwhelmed, you can't skip this episode. In fact, you probably ought to share it with all your friends who relate to routine overwhelm? What if it's not so much that you're overwhelmed, but that you're being undisciplined, either with your focus, your time, your choices or your energy? I'm telling you - this is one to save and share because boy, does it change the game!
Don't wait. Join me. This is a life-changing opportunity, and I say that with every ounce of seriousness that your life and your goals deserve! Secure Your Spot
We treat the holidays like they're a 10-week freefall — but the truth is, most of your meals, your moments, and your mindset are still in your control. In this episode, I'll show you how to stay in your power without swinging to extremes. You'll learn: The surprising "Holiday Math" that changes everything Why your inner narrative matters more than your plan How to use science-backed micro-moves to stay grounded Why movement, sleep, and sunlight aren't about discipline — they're about physiology The real reason people fall off during this season (hint: it's not willpower) Whether you're feeling chaotic, discouraged, or like you always lose ground at this time of year — this episode gives you a new way to stay engaged, without guilt or rigidity. 🎁 BLACK FRIDAY OFFER — JUST FOR 10 PEOPLE For the first time ever, I'm giving you the opportunity to: ✅ Reserve your spot in the January–February cohort of DEFENSE (my 8-week coaching experience where we co-create your personalized defensive playbook), AND ✅ Get an entire month of 1:1 coaching with me via Voxer — completely free. That's right: 🎁 $5,000 worth of private coaching — totally free when you claim one of the 10 available spots. Here's what that means: For the entire month of December (excluding Christmas Eve & Day), you'll have Monday–Friday access to me via voice messaging. You'll be able to reach out, talk through challenges, get feedback, and build momentum with me in your back pocket — before the group coaching even begins in January. And no, this isn't a scaled-down version. This is daily, direct access to me — real coaching, real-time. 🔥 Ready to grab one of the 10 spots? 👉 Click here to claim yours now. Spots are limited and will go fast. There are no applications required for this Black Friday offer — just first come, first served.
This is the time of year when most people hit pause on their goals. They drift. They defer. They tell themselves, "I'll get serious again in January." But what if this season — the one most people treat like an exception — could actually be your turning point? In this episode, I'm talking about what I call Separation Season — the window of time between now and the New Year when small daily choices stack up and create the gap between stuck and unstoppable. And spoiler alert: it's not about being perfect. It's about recommitting, over and over again, in small ways that move the needle. But that's not all… 🚨 I'm Also Announcing My Biggest Coaching Offer Ever For the first time ever, I'm giving you the opportunity to: ✅ Reserve your spot in the January–February cohort of DEFENSE (my 8-week coaching experience where we co-create your personalized defensive playbook), AND ✅ Get an entire month of 1:1 coaching with me via Voxer — completely free. That's right: 🎁 $5,000 worth of private coaching — totally free when you claim one of the 10 available spots. Here's what that means: For the entire month of December (excluding Christmas Eve & Day), you'll have Monday–Friday access to me via voice messaging. You'll be able to reach out, talk through challenges, get feedback, and build momentum with me in your back pocket — before the group coaching even begins in January. And no, this isn't a scaled-down version. This is daily, direct access to me — real coaching, real-time. 🔥 Ready to grab one of the 10 spots? 👉 Click here to claim yours now. Spots are limited and will go fast. There are no applications required for this Black Friday offer — just first come, first served.
What do you do when you're doing "everything right" but still feel like you're not getting traction? In today's episode, we're unpacking a powerful shift that can help you get out of your own way—whether you're trying to eat better, move more, stay consistent, or simply feel more in control. You'll learn a mental framework that can instantly create clarity, momentum, and sustainable progress (hint: it's not about trying harder). ✨ This conversation will challenge the way you think about change—especially if you're someone who tends to go all in and burn out fast. If you've ever felt like you're starting strong and fizzling out… this is your episode. But here's the deal: change is a lot easier when you're not doing it alone. If you want to go deeper with this and have coaching, accountability, and real-time strategy support: 🚨 Get on the DEFENSE Waitlist Now → Click Here Our Black Friday special is coming, and it includes exclusive early access to coaching in December, major bonuses, and next-level support for the full January–February cohort. If you're even thinking about joining us… do not wait. 🛑 There will be limited spots and no general public invite until after the waitlist gets first dibs. 🔗 Join the waitlist today and get ready to end the year strong and start 2025 with a plan, a coach, and a team in your corner.
Have you ever felt like you're doing all the things, but something still feels off? Like you're trying to move forward, but something under the surface keeps pulling you back? What you're tuned to — what you're mentally calibrating to — matters more than anything else. In this episode, I'm sharing the mindset shift that's anchoring me right now, and why it's been a total game-changer for my clients. This isn't about motivation. It's about alignment. It's about tuning into the frequency that keeps you grounded, honest, and moving toward what really matters. If you feel like you're constantly drifting, starting over, or losing steam, this episode is for you. 💥 Now Listen Closely: We are opening enrollment soon for the January Defense cohort and it's going to be our most epic one yet. ✅ Only 20 spots ✅ Starts January but with exclusive, personalized support in December ✅ Our Black Friday offer for this round is bananas… but it's only for people on the waitlist This isn't just another program. It's small, personal, and powerful. You'll walk away with your own custom-built Defensive Playbook: tools you'll use every single day to stop spiraling, shift your choices in real time, and stay in the game. 🚨 Don't wait. Spots go FAST and the Black Friday offer won't be shared anywhere else. 👉 Click here to get on the waitlist now
"Everybody wants to heal… until the medicine shows up in the form of discipline." – Hippocrates (400 B.C.) Why is it so hard to do the things we say we want to do? In today's episode, we're digging into one of the biggest struggles so many of us face: discipline. Not just why it's hard—but why it can feel almost impossible in today's world. We're not lazy. We're not broken. We're living in a world designed to hijack our brains through overstimulation and constant dopamine hits—from social media, processed food, streaming content, even the kind of books we read. In this episode, I'll walk you through: Why discipline feels harder than ever (hint: it's not your fault) How dopamine and your brain's salience network make high-stimulation things feel more important than your goals What makes your brain highlight some things (and ignore others) Why real connection, presence, and long-term goals feel boring when you're overstimulated How to retrain your brain so discipline feels easier, not harder This isn't about going off the grid or giving up your phone. It's about making discipline feel possible again—by making life just a little bit quieter. 🔑 Key Takeaways: Your brain highlights what gives you the most dopamine (this is called salience) Overstimulation rewires your motivation—it prioritizes scrolling over sleep, Netflix over goals The solution isn't "more willpower"—it's less noise You can rewire your salience network with small, doable changes: Less screen time More walks and movement (without your phone) More whole foods, less ultra-processed stuff Reducing high-dopamine distractions (yes, even the "harmless" ones) 🛠️ Challenge for Today: Ask yourself: What got my attention today? What felt most important? Did it reflect the life I'm trying to build? If not—good news. You can change what your brain highlights, one small shift at a time.
We all know what all looks like — strict rules, clean eating, heavy discipline. And we definitely know what nothing looks like — throwing in the towel and saying, "Whatever, I'll start over Monday." But what about the middle? Why does it feel so hard to define… let alone stay in? In today's episode, I'm unpacking a powerful conversation I had with a client who said something so many of us feel: "Navigating the middle feels lost — like no direction. It feels like too much freedom and an impossible place to navigate." Especially this time of year — when schedules are packed, events are frequent, and temptations are everywhere — the middle can feel impossible. We're talking about: Why "the middle" feels so elusive What to do when you don't hold the line How to adjust your goals without abandoning them Why re-engagement matters more than perfection And how to stay in the game — even when you miss the mark This is not about following a perfect plan. It's about building the resilience to keep going when life gets loud. 💥 Episodes on All or Nothing Episode 1257 Episode 1250 Episode 1057 Episode 495 Episode 034 🎧 Listen If You're Struggling With: The all-or-nothing mindset Staying on track during the holidays Feeling like "you know what to do" but still not doing it Letting one indulgence spiral into a week of disengagement 💬 Let's Keep the Conversation Going: What does "the middle" look like for you right now? DM me on Instagram or tag me in your stories @elizabethbenton — I'd love to hear what this episode brought up for you.
A client recently said something that completely stopped me in my tracks: "My mindset determines the choices I'm going to make. Don't decide from a shitty mindset — otherwise, I've rigged the game against myself." Mic. Drop. It immediately made me reflect — how often do we do this? How often do we unconsciously (or consciously) make it harder to follow through, succeed, or feel good? In this episode, I'm sharing: What it actually means to rig the game against yourself How to recognize when you're doing it (with real client stories + examples) What it looks like to rig it in your favor instead The mindset shift from "positive" to helpful that changes everything A journaling prompt to help you create your own breakthrough today
You might feel fine. But chronic inflammation could still be running the show — silently disrupting your hormones, energy, digestion, mood, and metabolism. This episode pulls back the curtain on: Why chronic inflammation is the hidden driver behind so many frustrating symptoms (and major diseases) What you can measure — from blood to stool — to actually track it The difference between CRP and hs-CRP (and why it matters way more than you think) What your body fat, cortisol, gut health, and mitochondria have to do with inflammation And most importantly: what you can do this week to lower inflammation and feel better fast If you're tired of chasing symptoms — and ready to get to the root — this is for you. 🧬 Download the Free Inflammation Cheat Sheet → Click here to get your free guide Includes lab tests, symptoms to watch for, and practical action steps to reduce inflammation fast. 🔗 Resources Mentioned: 🔍 GI MAP Comprehensive Stool Test use code ELIZABETH to save 10% 🔴 Lumebox Red Light Therapy Device code ELIZABETHBENTON to save $250+ 🧠 Magnesium I Recommend 🐟 Omega-3 Supplement I Use & Love 🧪 Function Health for Comprehensive Blood Testing 🧠 What You'll Learn: Why chronic inflammation often has no symptoms — until a diagnosis shows up How inflammation fuels disease (heart, gut, brain, autoimmune, cancer, hormones) What calprotectin in your stool can reveal about your gut health Why CRP vs. hs-CRP isn't just a nerdy detail — it could change your course of action The role of excess body fat in triggering inflammation — and how to reverse it Red light therapy, stress, blood sugar, sleep, and more → 8 powerful inflammation-lowering levers 🎧 Listen now, then share it with someone who needs this info — especially if they've been feeling "off" and can't figure out why. 📝 Don't forget to grab your cheat sheet: 👉 Download the Inflammation Overview & Action Plan
If you've ever told yourself "I don't have time to take care of myself" because you're too busy taking care of everyone else — this one's for you. Whether it's your kids, your job, your partner, aging parents, or your community — a lot of us are constantly pouring out… while running on empty. In this episode, I'm sharing a concept from CrossFit — "core to extremity" — and how it changed the way I think about showing up for others. We're talking about where real strength comes from, what happens when we don't start at the center, and how taking care of yourself first is not selfish — it's strategic. If you feel stretched thin or burned out, this might be the reframe you didn't know you needed. 🧠 What You'll Learn in This Episode: What CrossFit taught me about power and strength — and how it applies to your life The lie behind "I don't have time for myself" What happens when you serve from depletion vs. strength A new way to think about self-care (that's not bubble baths and yoga pants) What I learned during one of the hardest seasons of my life — and how I show up differently now
🔗 Apply Now for DEFENSE: 👉 Click here to apply Spots are extremely limited and filling fast. 💬 Episode Overview: After years away from hosting in-person events, I finally gathered with an intimate group of women from The Consistency Course — and what unfolded was deeper, more transformational, and more real than I could've imagined. In this episode, I'm walking you through the most powerful workshop exercise we did — the one that opened eyes, hearts, and sparked real change. It was the moment everything clicked for so many of us. And the best part? You don't need to have been in the room to experience its impact. 🔑 In This Episode: The card exercise that revealed the cost of our excuses Why "good enough" is sometimes just a comfortable cage The difference between working in your life vs. on your life Why you might be clinging to your "red shovel" without realizing it How vulnerability + community = acceleration 💥 Want to build real momentum — and finally stop starting over? Most people focus on offense — plans, goals, strategies. Defense is what keeps it all from collapsing. It's how you show up when it's hard, inconvenient, or not working, and it's the reason real change lasts. 🔗 Apply now at this link
You're not broken. You're not lazy. But you might be stuck in a loop of trying the same things over and over — even when they've never worked. In this episode, I'm diving deep into learned helplessness: why you feel like nothing works, how your brain tricks you into repeating the past, and what you can do to finally break free. We'll unpack: Why recycling effort isn't the same as solving the problem How you've been overemphasizing options and underemphasizing choice The trap of only considering what you've already tried The epidemic of passive consumption (and why it's costing you your ability to think) This is a wake-up call and a relief — because once you see the loop, you can step out of it. 💥 Ready to break the cycle and rebuild from a place of strength? The 8-week DEFENSE program is where we change your operating system — so you stop defaulting to what's familiar and start acting from clarity, strength, and self-trust. 🛡️ Apply now for DEFENSE at this link. There are only 20 spots and we start the first Monday in November. Don't wait!
What if procrastination isn't the real problem? What if what you see — the delay, the excuses, the inconsistency — is just smoke… and the real fire is underneath? In today's episode, I'm walking you through a real conversation I had with a client in DEFENSE, where we uncovered the truth behind her procrastination — and it wasn't time management. It wasn't planning. It was belief. Identity. A narrow picture of what change had to look like… that she didn't even want to live. We talk about: Why solving surface problems doesn't lead to lasting change How "diet food" and "I don't like exercise" become unconscious blocks What to do when you tell yourself "I'm just not worthy" Why you don't need to be addicted to your comfort zone anymore 👉🏼 This is exactly the kind of work we do in DEFENSE. Applications just opened to the waitlist. Spots are extremely limited - only 20 are available. We spend 8 weeks together, and you'll leave with a 50+ page custom strategy guide tailored to you. No templates. No one-size-fits-all. Just transformation, built around your life. Apply at this link
I've been asked about this multiple times, so here we go. Today's episode is a little different. It's personal. It's about my faith. You don't have to agree with me, in fact, I think it might be most valuable to listen if you don't. Because this isn't about convincing anyone. It's about sharing how my faith impacts the way I experience fear, anxiety, the world around me, and how I lead my family. I'm not a theologian. I'm not here to debate doctrine. I'm just here to tell the truth about what's changed for me and how that plays out in real life. Whether you've been curious about my faith journey or you're just struggling to stay grounded in a chaotic world, I hope this meets you right where you are.





welcome Kate!! ... question to EB , I'm very interested in the Upgrade, however I am enrolled in the Consistency Circle and pay monthly. wondering when does my commitment to the CC payments end. honestly I am not really benefiting from it.
unbelievable MIRACULOUS Amazing that God brought all these angels in this journey in bringing Piper and Charlie into this world. Blessings every day!! thank you for sharing your family with us. we also are blessed they you!
sorry for your loss of your goat how did the kiddies deal with the loss ( 😞
yeah! been Awhile since Chris put in his 2 cents 😜
Listening to Elizabeth Benton has changed my life in so many ways! I'm now in her strength training program as well and it's unlike any program I have tried before. Having her support, guidance and tips has been a wonderful experience for me.
listening to you talk about decision making should I or shouldn't I , it got to me the energy I'm wasting with the Negotiating with myself ! ah hah!! listening to this gives me the answer I need! BTW the vertical gardening is The Tower. it's great ! I bought my hubby one , love the lettuce and he's working on other things. I also purchased one for each of my sons in California . they have better weather than us in Phoenix ,but we also can grow in winter , perfect now !!
I'm right there with you about the pancakes! AND donuts... a good lesson for me coz I KNOW it will do me no good the rest of the day! Love love love your posts with the 3 some 🥰
needed this one ! going thru issues with a friend, catches me off guard and I don't want to be nasty in front of others. now I will play in my head how to respond diplomatically for when the circumstances arise again!!
this was an eye opener. my question to myself was, as many others have asked.. why do I eat/ snack late at night, forgetting my goal, OR like others " this won't hurt, I'll be better tomorrow". after I listened to this I GOT IT! rephrased the question to " how can I/ what can I do to CHANGE the behavior. ah hah moment! this may help others.. I put an alarm on my phone for 10:00 pm ( I start up till 12-1am playing a game on my phone).. with a heading. " if you are still hungry, go to bed" . one nite down! not only will I not eat after 10, but I'll get in better sleep routine.
I keep coming back to this podcast and I think it's because I need to comment ! asking for help .. it also shows you trust those you are asking ! people do want to help but don't know how . ALSO Relief + .. I started back on it . my lower back was really hurting , within 1 ..ONE day of getting it back in my body, I have relief!! much less pain. wonderful .
GREAT GREAT words to repeat daily... " give what you want what it needs" . 👍
so many good tips for what and what NOT to say ! working in hospice I would hear so much of what you mentioned about the what what Not . coming also from fellow employees . and then making it about their own personal issues , 😕! a GREAT episode. BTW, we will be walking for Dagney foundation in Redondo Beach CA . last year in Phoenix. Anyway to purchase a Tshirt ?
participating in that month of reducing / eliminating "10things a day" with you has contributed to making my life easier!
I personally like the numbering of your episodes, because I appreciate when you refer us to certain episodes that addresses certain topics. and if it makes it easier for YOU to do then we benefit! you are helping us, so we need to help you by making it easier. thank you!!!
again!! great reinforcement.. I practice how I am going to respond to someone asking WHY are you still doing that weight loss program , or what to do at social events..
Love this Consistency Series!
love this episode! I'm a nerd when it comes to this stuff and I love learning about the body and the science behind it
I loved your idea of removing 20 items a day. however I thought it was 10, so have been doing that, sometimes it adds up to 20 + . I am continuing thru January. it is so less overwhelming! But the sentimental ,collectors items are difficult, but I know my adult children don't want them.. I asked them when they came in for Christmas. but I figured they are doing me no service sitting in a box in a closet. Those coffee mugs/cups . !! do you keep the set of 12 that goes with the set of dishes??? thank you for YOU!! a great motivator and an inspiration in many areas of my life!
I loved this episode!! I'm super consistent with my health on the weekdays but need to work on it on the weekends. I love all the tips she gave and I will be using them for sure! ❤️
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