Calls with your Kinky Bestie

Hey Besties! As we kick off 2025, it's a weird and dystopian vibe here with recent events in the states, and I get it—it's uncomfortable and chaotic. But here's what I'm here to remind you: you are in control of your own life. Despite the distractions and chaos, you have the power to create the life you want. In this episode, I'm sharing some clips from my workshop "Your Kinkiest Year Ever," which is all about aligning with your values and making those big shifts happen. I'll guide you through practical steps to plan your ideal kinky lifestyle, just like I've done for myself. Whether it's embracing a child-free, dual-income, no-kids lifestyle or diving deep into hedonistic pleasures, it's all about living life on your terms. So, let's tune out the noise, focus on what truly matters, and empower ourselves to live authentically. Enjoy these clips and start planning your most aligned year yet! ✨ Ready to dive deeper? The full workshop is available for January here, and it comes with a digital workbook and journaling process to create your action plan. If you're listening after January, join the waitlist to be notified next time it's available. https://kinkybestie.com/your-kinkiest-year-ever-planning-process/ 🏷️ Political Climate, Personal Empowerment, Kinky Lifestyle, Value Alignment, Life Planning, Hedonism, Self-Development, Community Involvement, Personal Growth, Action Plans, Ideal Life, Kinky Workshop, Living Authentically

In this episode (the first of 2025 🥳) I'm sharing 3 practical ways to call in support and make creating your kinky dream life SO much easier. 📢📅 Grab your invite to "Your Kinkiest Year Ever" here: ⁠⁠https://kinkybestie.com/your-kinkiest-year-ever/⁠⁠ 🏷️ Goal Setting, Supportive Systems, Kinky Community, Personal Development, New Year, Vision, Self-Improvement, Live Planning Event, Action Plans, Goal Achievement, Community Building

Hey Besties! Welcome to the final 2024 episode of Calls with Your Kinky Bestie. Despite my sniffly voice, I'm here to guide you through a year-end reflection process that's perfect for the neurodivergent mind. We'll explore how to recognize personal growth, embrace lessons, and celebrate milestones from the past year. Whether you're using your camera roll, journals, or even text messages, I'll share my favorite tools for looking back and appreciating how far you've come. ✨ Exciting News! To kick off 2025, I'm hosting a live New Year's planning party for kinksters on January 8th. This event is all about setting your kinky goals for the year and breaking them into actionable steps. Can't join live? No worries, you'll receive a recording if you're a ticket holder. 📅 Grab a ticket here: https://kinkybestie.com/your-kinkiest-year-ever/ (There's special early bird pricing ending on 1/1, so move fast!) Thank you for being part of my world this year. Your support means everything, and I can't wait to continue this journey with you in 2025. Let's make it your kinkiest year ever! 🏷️ Year-End Reflection, Personal Growth, Neurodivergent Friendly, Kinky Goals, Gratitude, Life Lessons, Kinky Planning Party, Community Building, Self-Development, Goal Setting, Kinky Lifestyle, New Year, Personal Development, Mindset Shift

Hey Besties! I'm back, and I've missed you so much! Life's been a whirlwind with moving, adjusting to new schedules, and sharing my space with my Dom. But I'm here, and diving deep into the uncomfortable but critical: rejection in the kink journey. This episode is all about understanding and overcoming the fear of rejection, whether it's internally, from the vanilla world, and even within the kink community itself. I'll guide you through the three major layers of rejection and how to navigate them, so you can get the fuck over it and start living your kinky dream life!! Been waiting to work with me? I'm temporarily closing my books to new 1:1 mentees, but there's still time to get in before the break. Visit kinkybestie.com/mentorship to secure your spot at current rates, when they reopen they are going up! 🏷️ Rejection, Kink Journey, Personal Growth, Self-Acceptance, Kinky Community, Emotional Hurdles, Overcoming Fear, Mentorship, Personal Development, Embracing Change, Community Dynamics, Finding Your Tribe

Hey Besties! I have some exciting news to share and we're doing a collective vision check-in. Let's get real about our goals and what we truly want because that's how we make it happen! ✨ Want some personalized support? Get Vetted for 1:1 Kink Mentorship And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! 🏷️ Vision, Goal Setting, Life Updates, Moving In With Dom, Self-Development, ADHD Diagnosis, Autism Testing, Living Alone, Personal Growth, Relationship Dynamics, House Hunting, Manifestation, Business Growth, Kink Mentorship, Community Building, Private Space, Partnership, Transition, Change

Hey Besties! Today we're diving into a phenomenon that almost every sub experiences—attracting other subs instead of doms. Why does this happen? How can you change it? Or even make it work for you? Whether you're just starting out or have been at it for years, I'm breaking it all down for you. ✨ Want to break the sub-to-sub cycle? Learn how to flex your subby muscles and maintain your subspace with my Kinky Dating Kickoff course, now part of the Kink Bundle This bundle is packed with courses from top kinky educators, available for a limited time at a steal of a price. Don't miss out! Offer disappears Wednesday night 9/18. And if you're listening after the bundle is gone, no worries! Sign up for the email list to get notified when other offers like this are available. Let's get you attracting the Doms you desire! (you can also get the Kinky Dating Kickoff a la carte here) 🏷️ BDSM, Kink Mentor, Subbing, Dominant Energy, Kink Bundle, Subspace Intensive, Bdsm Movie, Service Submission, Dom Energy, Dom Sub Living, Kinky Dating Kickoff, BDSM Community, Submissive, Sub Role, Dom Role, Switch Dynamics, BDSM Skills, Kink Courses, Subby Energy, Mentorship

This episode is a must-listen if you're single and ready to attract a kinky partnership. Emma dives deep into a surprising yet effective strategy: befriending couples. Discover how integrating couples into your social circle can shift your mindset and help you attract the relationship you desire. Emma also explores the pitfalls of only hanging out with single friends and how it might be holding you back. Get ready for some eye-opening insights and practical tips to elevate your dating game! Resources from the episode: Emotional Guidance Scale> read more Be notified when the Kink Bundle goes live> signup here Chapters: 00:00:38 " Why befriending couples can help you attract potential partners faster 00:09:45 " Why befriending couples can be supportive of your dating journey 00:19:09 " Jealousy blocks you from thinking positively about a coupled relationship Want more? 💖 Check out Emma's Kinky Dating Kickoff Course for step-by-step guidance. ✨ Stay updated on upcoming resources by joining the Bestie Squad! ☎️ Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call 🏷️ Kinky Dating, Submissive Mentorship, Relationship Dynamics, Couples, Single Friends, Emotional Guidance Scale, Jealousy, Mindset Shift, Dating Struggles, Relationship Goals, Finding A Partner, Community, Shifting Negative Beliefs, Singles Support Groups, Relationship Visualization, Dating Journey, Positive Expectations, Kink Community

In this video episode, we're diving deep into how participating in kink can dramatically improve your quality of life. We'll chat about how your ancient lizard brain might actually be keeping you from your people. Plus the benefits of embracing your kink, including boosting your self-esteem, self-image, and overall happiness. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, this episode is packed with insights on how to find your community and live authentically. I'll share my personal journey and how accepting my kinky side has positively impacted my life. Plus, we'll touch on the importance of finding like-minded individuals and the psychological safety that comes from being true to yourself. ✨ Want some personalized support? Get Vetted for 1:1 Kink Mentorship And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! 🏷️ Kink Lifestyle, Self Improvement, Neurodivergent Community, Submissive Mentorship, Community, Acceptance, Conservative Upbringing, Taboo, Sexuality, Psychological Safety, Finding Your Tribe, Fetishes, Kinks, Self-Worth, Masking, Kinky Relationships, Social Rejection, Personal Growth, Authentic Self, Kink Community

Hey, besties! In this episode, we're diving into the world of swinging and swing clubs. My Dom and I are about to renew our membership at our local swing club, so it's the perfect time to discuss this unique community. We'll explore the differences between swing clubs and BDSM spaces, what to expect, and how to decide if this is the right scene for you. Whether you're into exhibitionism, voyeurism, or just looking for a a less intimidating scene, this episode has got you covered. We'll also chat about my own positive experiences at our local swing club, how to find these spaces, and some red flags to watch out for. From the focus on sex in swing clubs to the differing rules on substances and consent, we'll break it all down. Plus, I'll share tips on navigating these spaces and creating the experience you want. ✨ Want personalized support? Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad to never miss out on new resources and episodes! 🏷️ Kinkster, BDSM, Swing Clubs, Lifestyle Clubs, Consent, Exhibitionism, Voyeurism, Dom/Sub Dynamics, Sex-Focused Spaces, Dungeon Masters, Kink Community, Kink Mentorship, Swinging Vs BDSM, Red Flags In Clubs, STI Testing, Gendered Pricing, BDSM Events, Kink Nights, Finding Local Clubs

This episode dives deep into the world of taboo kinks and survivorship guilt within the kink community. We explore the misunderstandings, guilt, and shame that can arise from participating in kinks like age play, race play, and more. I share my personal experiences and offer guidance on how to navigate these challenges, heal yourself, and find supportive spaces. Whether you're dealing with judgment from others or your own internal conflicts, this episode is here to help you embrace your kinks confidently and safely. ✨ Ready for personalized support? Book a Vetting Call with me to get started! And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes!

Welcome back, besties! In this episode, I spill all the tea on my own BDSM dynamic with my Daddy Dom. A real-life look at how we manage vanilla life, our power exchange details, different sleep schedules, and boundaries with friends and family. This episode is packed with insights, personal stories, and a whole lot of tea on BDSM dynamics! ✨ Want some personalized support? Get Vetted for 1:1 Kink Mentorship And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes!

It's time we went there. What it is (if you have no clue what I'm talking about), how to strengthen your vetting muscles, and take some friggin pressure off yourself! ✨ Want some personal mentorship? Get Vetted to get started! Https://KinkyBestie.com/vetting

If manifesting hasn't "clicked" for you yet, or you're just more of a literal thinker, this is the episode for you! Because OMG there is so much we can learn from social media about creating the life we want, and hacking this algorithm isn't nearly as hard as you'd think. ✨ Latest free resource> ⁠Reviewing my entire Toybox⁠ And if you're not already, ⁠join the Bestie Squad⁠ so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! ☎️ ⁠Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call

Here's even more permission to make your dynamic (and lifestyle) your own! I share tons of ways myself and my partner accommodate for my brain within our dynamic and playtime and how to start creating your own. ✨ New free resource> Reviewing my entire Toybox And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! ☎️ Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call

If you're all too familiar with the disappearing act, this is the episode for you. The sooner you understand it you can avoid getting into these situations, and find some lovely kinky matches who are in it for the long haul. Relevant Episode Mentioned: Episode 8: "4 Ways to Meet Kinksters IRL" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Some reasons why kink events might be right for you, a simple way to gauge whether or not you should go to an event, and why I haven't been attending kink events lately as a mentor in the community 😲 Relevant Episode Mentioned: Ep 22 "Finding Community in Kink: Overcoming Fears & Embracing the Kink Community" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Let's talk about what happens when serving and sacrificing within a BDSM dynamic can tip-toe into sabotage. How to identify it, what to do about it, and how to find these boundaries for yourself to be the best hecking sub you can be (by taking care of yourself first and foremost). 🔮 Grab your limited time kinky oracle reading Free resources mentioned: 💖 Kink Shame Healing oracle reading 🧰 Tech Toolbox for Kinky Entrepreneurs

SOOO let's talk about the less obvious ways that kink-shaming is 100% affecting your life as a kinkster and what we can actually do about it. I'll also share with you how to flip the script to own and accept your desires + an AMAZING free resource I've made for you to continue your healing journey. ✨ Free Kink Shame Healing Oracle Reading Work with Emma: Private Kinky Oracle Reading 1:1 Kink Mentorship Kinky Dating Course Connect on Instagram @kinkybestie

From the practicality of protecting your identity to the powerful manifestation tool they can become, I share my personal journey of choosing my scene name and how it has impacted my kink journey and beyond. Whether you're considering adopting a scene name or curious about their significance within the community, my insights and tips will leave you inspired and empowered to explore your own kinky identity

Time to dive into the world of dating through the lens of neurodivergence kink mentor. As someone with ADHD and a unique perspective on social interactions, I share my personal experiences and insights on navigating the dating scene when processing things takes a little longer. Whether you're neurodivergent yourself or simply curious about different approaches to dating, join me as I offer tips, anecdotes, and mindset shifts to help you feel more confident in your connections.