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10 Back-to-School Tips for Kids Ages 3-17 Worried about anxiety, social skills, motivating teens, behavior issues, transitioning after online learning, homework battles, and proper expectations? Of course. Kirk covers each of these topics in rapid fire format for kids of all ages. Want personal mentoring with Kirk via Phone? Click here to learn about mentoring packages. Take advantage of our Back-To-School Sale. Set your kids up for success this year: https://celebratecalm.com/products/  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Society and social media puts too much pressure on families (okay, Moms!) to have perfect families. If you have a strong-willed child, it’s going to be ugly at times. So what are proper expectations for kids of all ages? I hope you find this helpful and liberating. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you have a child that reflexively says, “No!” or “Why?” and rejects even your best, most well-intentioned suggestions? Of course you do! It’s frustrating, but Kirk shares a killer idea for getting your child to actually do what you know is best for them. Want personal mentoring with Kirk via Phone? Click here to learn about mentoring packages. We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with all mentoring purchases OR you can get it here for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You have a child who procrastinates, isn’t motivated, doesn’t follow directions, or has shut down or won’t talk to you. How can we get this child to do school work, listen, and be a pleasant part of family life? Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer. Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We have extended our Christmas in July Sale for ONE more week! Final Sale Ends 8/1/22. Get our lowest prices on the Get Everything Package and the Calm Parenting Package. New! 3 Parent BootCamps With Kirk.  Want to avoid another school year filled with stress? BootCamp gives me 6 hours to apply every ounce of my insight to your specific, challenging situations, in a small group setting, so you walk away with a detailed game plan. It also allows me to bridge the gap between husbands and wives who disagree or want to get on the same page. We have filled half the spaces already. Click here to learn more and save with early registration. Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer. Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This is the FINAL week of our Christmas in July Sale! Get our lowest prices on the Get Everything Package and the Calm Parenting Package. New! 3 Parent BootCamps With Kirk. Want to avoid another school year filled with stress? BootCamp gives me 6 hours to apply every ounce of my insight to your specific, challenging situations, in a small group setting, so you walk away with a detailed game plan. It also allows me to bridge the gap between husbands and wives who disagree or want to get on the same page. We have filled half the spaces already. Click here to learn more and save with early registration. Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!ABBREVIATED TRANSCRIPTSo your child is upset and lashing out. You don’t have to give in. You don’t have to “fix it.” In other podcasts and newsletters, we have provided a dozen different responses/actions to calm your child like giving positive intensity and using the “motion changes emotion” principle.But here’s a really cool tool to try the next few times your kids are emotionally on fire. Your tone is even and flat, almost disinterested in the drama. “I could really use your help doing x. Could you show me how to…?” “I was thinking about how much you enjoying playing/building/tinkering with x, and yet I don’t know anything about it. When you’re ready, could you teach me or show me how...?” It can be anything that they are good at doing or interested in. Anything. I did this with hundreds of kids in our home and here’s why it often works. When your kids are emotionally upset, their world feels out of control.  “I don’t feel like I have any control or power over this situation or myself. So I lash out in frustration. I’ll regret it later, especially since I know I’ll get in trouble for this. But it’s all I know to do.” When you ask your child to teach or show you something, you’re no longer fixing them or trying to stop/control their behavior. Because that often causes your kids to resist more. You are giving them a feeling of control and ownership. And that’s very settling. What they think and feel inside is: “I may not be able to control my emotions right now, BUT I DO feel in control of myself when I am doing x…” It’s also a powerful step in the No B.S. Program for parents (especially Dads of a strong-willed child) to bond instead of fight. It changes the dynamic. Typically, we react too quickly, try to fix the situation, it gets inflamed, and then we send the child to his room or take away privileges. That only serves to deepen the emotional divide between you AND reinforce the child’s shame as “the bad child.”  Instead, you have given your child a new tool that helps him:      - Calm down before losing privileges.      - Achieve mastery over his emotions (which builds confidence).       - Problem solve so he knows how to calm down next time.       - Focus on something he’s good at doing instead of reinforcing his failure.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Christmas in July Sale Continues This Week! Get our lowest prices on the Get Everything Package and the Calm Parenting Package. New! 3 Parent BootCamps With Kirk.  Want to avoid another school year filled with stress? BootCamp gives me 6 hours to apply every ounce of my insight to your specific, challenging situations, in a small group setting, so you walk away with a detailed game plan. It also allows me to bridge the gap between husbands and wives who disagree or want to get on the same page. We have filled half the spaces already. Click here to learn more and save with early registration. Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer. Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Christmas in July Sale Begins NOW! Lowest Prices Ever on the Get Everything Package and the Calm Parenting Package. Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with mentoring OR you can get it here this week for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Summer Sale Begins Today! You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/calm-2022/ Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with mentoring OR you can get it here this week for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Father's Day / Summer Sale Ends This Weekend You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/calm-2022/ Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with mentoring OR you can get it here this week for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Summer Sale Begins Today! You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/calm-2022/ Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with mentoring OR you can get it here this week for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Summer Sale Begins Today! You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/calm-2022/ Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with mentoring OR you can get it here this week for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY! PS: Live in California, Oregon, Washington, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, or Colorado? We have DISCOUNTED dates available. Contact Casey@CelebrateCalm.com to learn more. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with mentoring OR you can get it here this week for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Get Everything Package: You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/calm-2022/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SPECIAL PODCAST: Widows and Single Parents: Dealing With Guilt & Anger/Defiance The challenges you face through this trauma are unimaginable. So Kirk gives you some encouraging and practical ways to deal with the guilt (and temptation to buy your kids stuff) and the anger/defiance your kids often express toward you. If you need help, please email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and we will help you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  We are including the No B.S. Program FREE with mentoring OR you can get it here this week for $99: https://celebratecalm.com/nobs/ Get Everything Package: You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/calm-2022/ Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022/2023?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We Are Extending Our Mother's Day Sale ONE More Week! You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/mothers-day/  Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! Abbreviated Transcript  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Mother's Day Sale Ends This Weekend! Admit it, Moms. Even your Birthday is more about your kids having a good time! But Mother's Day should be one of 365 days you feel respected and helped. So we created a special sale just for you. You deserve peace and calm. You're worth it.  You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/mothers-day/  Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer. Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Our Mother's Day Sale Begins TODAY! Admit it, Moms. Even your Birthday is more about your kids having a good time! But Mother's Day should be one of 365 days you feel respected and helped. So we created a special sale just for you. You deserve peace and calm. You're worth it.  You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/mothers-day/  Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer. Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Get Everything Spring Sale: You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You receive 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Click here to learn more: https://celebratecalm.com/calm-2022/ Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer.  Click here to learn about mentoring packages.  Want to book a LIVE EVENT in 2022?! We are now booking IN PERSON and Zoom events for schools, PTAs, churches, synagogues, corporations, and agencies! Simply email Casey@CelebrateCalm with LIVE in the subject line and he'll share a one-page proposal within hours. It's EASY!  Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email Casey@CelebrateCalm.com and Casey will help you personally! ABBREVIATED TRANSCRIPT    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Wendy Pledger

I wish I'd come across this podcast 20 years ago! As a coparent of 20 and 18 year olds, I can see my lack of self control reflected in their behavior. Do you have any episodes thst relate to older teens/young adults living at home? LOVE your work

May 11th
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Stieven Lootens

oo my god ... im sooo guilty at this.... this was so helpfull and confronting... thank you for this... i will implement this front NOW on ! thank you

Apr 2nd
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natalie womble

You're not the only one saying it! https://youtu.be/mU5WO93Kw4E

Sep 12th
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Amy Kuebler

I cried through most of this podcast. Breaks my heart to know my child doesn't feel safe. Thanks for helping me not feel alone.

Jul 13th
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