Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

Witty, gritty and uncensored, Can't Keep My Mouth Shut by award-winning content creator Nixalina explores all the stuff nobody wants to talk about, focusing on sex, dating & love.

The Madonna-Whore Dichotomy: Polarized Perception of Women

The concept originated in Freudian psychoanalytic theory, where Sigmund Freud coined the term "Madonna-Whore complex" (or "psychic impotence") to describe men who are unable to feel sexual desire for a woman they love and respect - the Madonna - but can only be aroused by women they devalue or disrespect  the Whore. Let's discuss, shall we? With love, Nixalina.  For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

11-24
20:10

Meaningless Sex??? Could Think of Nothing Worse Bro

Nahhhhh mate, move along.  For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

11-17
19:57

Can't do it, Won't do it: Men vs Eating Pussy

I just...I cannot deal with this attitude towards oral sex on women. Sigh. JUST SIGH. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

11-10
28:20

10 Signs You've Met Your Soulmate

We throw the word soulmate around a lot — in movies, in songs, and in the quiet corners of late-night conversations. But when it really happens, when you meet someone who feels like home, you know there's something different about it. It's not just attraction or timing or luck. It's an unexplainable pull — a sense that your souls already knew each other long before your first tryst. With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

11-03
19:18

5 Things That ALWAYS Happen After a Man Fucks Me Over

Spoiler alert - here are the 5 things I explain in this episode about what happens to me after I leave a toxic mofo: Denial & Derail Rumination & Revenge Bod IDGAF Peace & Penis Locked IN For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

10-27
25:57

Should You Ever Get Back with Your Ex? Let's Discuss

Is it a good idea...ever? Can it ever work out again, long term? Let's discuss, shall we! With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

10-20
16:59

I was Beaten by my Boyfriend for 2 Years, at just 16. Here's My Story

To anyone living through this as we speak - I hear you, I see you, I understand you and I am here for you. With love, Nixalina.  

10-13
37:52

10 Signs That You're a RARE Sigma Female

In modern slang, a "sigma female" refers to an independent, self-sufficient woman who operates outside of traditional social hierarchies, values her autonomy, and doesn't feel the need to conform or seek external validation. Let's discuss this bad-ass b*tch in depth, shall we? With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

09-29
24:17

He Programmed his Chat GPT Voice to SOUND LIKE ME!!!

I have no words. But apparently I don't even need words anymore - because his Chat GPT is now my voice anway. WTAF THOUGH!? With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

09-22
24:42

The Mental Fuckery that is Post-Breakup 'Euphoric Recall'

This mofo has a lot to answer for, let me tell you that. Let's discuss, shall we? With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

07-20
23:45

Don't Blame a Clown for Acting Like a Clown...

...instead ask yourself why you keep going to the f**king CIRCUS?!   With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

07-16
25:48

My Dearest Trolls - Does the Internet want 'Nixalina' to Resign?

Listen up mofos, it's a rant, is what it is. With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

07-07
17:35

The Nixalina x Nicola Dichotomy (I did it on Purpose)

Allow me to finally break down all the 'Nixalina' reputation taboos.  With love, Nixalina. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

06-23
21:54

Here's Why Men LOVE Being Called "Daddy"

"In a sexual context, "Daddy" can be associated with power dynamics, where one partner takes on a more dominant role and the other a more submissive one." Ohhhh let's discuss, shall we? With love, Nixalina. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

06-16
22:22

A Relationship with a Narcissist: The Narc Playbook

Just. URGH. With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

06-09
58:45

Here's Why it Takes Victims Up To SEVEN Times to Leave Their Abuser

I'm here to tell you, it's not your fault. I'm also here to tell you, that as long as you keep trying to leave, and you eventually do leave - it doesn't actually matter how many times it takes you.  With love, Nixalina. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

05-26
14:02

"You're a 10 - Start Acting Like One."

​Energy over looks sis, always. With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

05-19
11:33

Will I Ever Post My Partner to Instagram Again???

I'll save you all the time - NOPE. THE. END. ​For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my  Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.  

05-05
14:15

Navigating the FWB 'Friends with Benefits' Relationship

​Ohhh the tricky terrain of the FWB. Let's nagivate this together, shall we? With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

04-21
18:31

The Expat Struggle: Too Foreign For the Home You Left, Too Foreign For the Home You Found

​Only once you've lived it can you truly understand how bizarre this feeling is. Let's discuss the struggle of expat life, shall we? With love, Nixalina.  For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.

04-14
13:11

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