Carlene + Jaime

We're back with Part 2, and this time we're diving into our move FROM Texas TO Atlanta—and why this move changed everything for us! 🏡💕Carlene and Jaime get vulnerable about what it means to make a move as a true partnership, starting completely over with jobs and salaries, and how asking for help and building community saved our marriage during the transition.In This Episode We Talk About:Why this Atlanta move was different—it was OUR move, not just Jaime'sStarting over from scratch with new jobs and taking salary hitsThe financial pressure of rebuilding our careers in a new cityHow we stayed committed to each other when everything felt uncertainThe power of asking for help (and why pride almost stopped us)How our community and friends in Atlanta showed up for usWhy surrounding yourself with like-minded people is NON-NEGOTIABLEBuilding a support system that actually supports your marriageWhat "being a team" really looks like during major transitionsIf you're in a season of starting over, navigating career changes as a couple, or learning to receive help—this episode is for you.CONNECT WITH US:Instagram: CarlenePlusJaimeTikTok: CarlenePlusJaimeYoutube: ‪@CarleneplusJaime‬ Email: CarleneplusJaime‪@gmail.com‬ #MovingToAtlanta #MarriageAdvice #YoungCouples #RelocationTips #StartingOver #CareerChange #MarriagePodcast #AtlantaLife #CoupleGoals #AskingForHelp #CommunityMatters #ParentingPodcast #Part2

In this episode, we're getting real about our big move to Texas with two toddlers and how it completely transformed our marriage! 🏡✨Carlene and Jaime open up about the challenges, unexpected blessings, and hard-won lessons from relocating our family to the Lone Star State. If you're a young couple considering a major move—especially with little ones—this episode is for you!In This Episode We Talk About:Why we decided to move to Texas with our two toddlersThe biggest challenges we faced in our marriage during the transitionHow the move brought us closer (and the moments it tested us!)Practical advice for couples planning a big relocation with kidsWhat we wish we'd known before making the moveTips for maintaining connection during major life changesWhether you're thinking about moving to Texas, relocating to a new state with young children, or just navigating big life changes as a couple, we hope our story encourages and equips you!#MovingToTexas #MarriageAdvice #YoungCouples #ParentingToddlers #RelocationTips #TexasLife #MarriagePodcast #FamilyMove #CoupleGoals #parentingpodcast

In this raw and honest episode of Carlene plus Jaime, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked topics in relationships: what happens when HE’s the one saying no to intimacy.💔 What We Cover:• The emotional impact when traditional gender roles flip• Breaking down the myths around male desire and consent• How rejection affects women in ways we rarely discuss• Communication strategies for navigating sexual mismatches• Building understanding and empathy in intimate partnershipsThis vulnerable conversation challenges assumptions about desire, rejection, and gender dynamics in modern relationships. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this episode offers insights that could transform how you think about intimacy and communication.

When she says "I'm too tired" - it's probably not what you think. In this raw and honest conversation, Carlene and Jaime dive deep into one of the most misunderstood dynamics in marriage. What's really happening when your wife says she's too tired for intimacy? Spoiler alert: it's rarely about physical exhaustion.This episode pulls back the curtain on the emotional, mental, and relational factors that impact a woman's desire for connection. From invisible mental loads to feeling unseen in the relationship, Carlene and Jaime explore the deeper truths behind "I'm too tired" - and more importantly, how couples can bridge this gap with understanding and compassion.Whether you're the spouse saying "I'm too tired" or the one hearing it, this episode offers practical insights and real solutions for creating the kind of intimacy that goes beyond the bedroom. Because when couples understand each other's perspectives, everything changes.We are the marriage mentors for the messy middle - where real relationships get real solutions.Perfect for couples ready to move past surface-level conversations and dive into what really matters.

🔥 The shocking truth about what's actually breaking relationships apart...Most couples think they need grand gestures, expensive therapy, or perfect communication to save their relationship. But the real relationship killer?Leaving connection to chance.In this episode, we reveal the ONE thing that 90% of couples completely skip - and it's costing them their relationship. We're talking about intentional couple care planning, and why creating a "couple care menu" might be the most important thing you do for your relationship this year.🎯 What You'll Learn:The #1 reason couples drift apart (it's not what you think)How to create your own couple care menu in under 10 minutesWhy spontaneity is actually killing your connection25+ couple care ideas for any budget, time, or energy levelThe difference between couples who thrive vs. couples who surviveABOUT US:We're Carlene and Jaime, and we've been married for 17 years. After nearly losing our own relationship to the "roommate trap," we discovered the power of intentional couple care. Now we help couples reconnect and build relationships that actually last.💬 LET'S CONNECT:What's one thing from your couple care menu that you want to try this week? Drop it in the comments below! We read every single one and often feature your stories in future videos.

Is your relationship running on autopilot?In this episode, we’re breaking down what Couple Care really means — and why it’s the secret ingredient most couples are missing.We’re sharing:🌿 What “Couple Care” actually is (it’s more than just date night)🙏🏾 How to invite God into the daily rhythm of your relationship💛 3 easy practices that build connection, trust, and joy🎉 Plus: How to start your own “Couple Care Menu” todayWhether your marriage feels disconnected or just in need of a tune-up, this episode is your reminder that love needs tending.🔔 Subscribe for more faith-based encouragement, practical tools, and real talk to help you build a marriage that lasts.

💬 In this episode, we dive deep into why waiting to have kids was the best decision for our marriage. From building a stronger emotional connection to exploring personal goals, delaying parenthood gave us the space to grow—individually and together.🎧 What you’ll hear in this episode: • Why we chose to delay starting a family • The surprising benefits for our communication and intimacy • How career growth and travel shaped our bond • Advice for couples considering waiting to have kids • Honest reflections on societal pressure, family expectations, and what we’d do differentlyWhether you’re married, engaged, or simply curious about how timing affects relationships, this conversation is for you.🔔 Subscribe for more real, raw conversations about love, marriage, and intentional living.👍 If this resonated with you, give it a like and share with someone navigating the same decision.💬 Tell us in the comments: Have you considered delaying parenthood? Why or why not?#MarriagePodcast #DelayingParenthood #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageGoals #CouplesTalk #MillennialMarriage #IntentionalLiving #ParentingDecisions #LoveAndMarriage #StrongRelationships

Are you and your partner living like roommates instead of lovers? In this raw and honest conversation, we dive deep into what happens when life gets so busy that you forget how to connect with the person you love most.What We Cover:The warning signs that busyness is killing your relationshipWhy "quality time" isn't enough (and what actually works)How to reconnect when you're both exhausted and overwhelmedThe 15-minute daily habit that saved our marriageSetting boundaries with work, kids, and life to protect your relationshipWhy scheduling romance isn't unromantic—it's essentialPerfect for couples who:✓ Feel like they're just going through the motions✓ Can't remember the last time they had a real conversation✓ Want to reconnect but don't know where to start✓ Are tired of putting their relationship on the back burnerDon't let busyness be the reason your love story ends. Sometimes the best thing you can do for your relationship is hit the reset button.What's your biggest relationship challenge right now? Let us know in the comments below! 👇Follow us on instagram:  @CarleneplusJaime  #MarriageAdvice #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipGoals #MarriageReset #BusyCouples #RelationshipTips #MarriageTips #CouplesCommunication #LoveAndMarriage #HealthyRelationships

Are you and your spouse going through a rough patch? Learn how to handle difficult marriage problems privately without involving the whole world. In this episode of Carlene + Jaime explore why privacy in marriage matters and how to work through challenges as a team - just the two of you.🎯 What You'll Learn:Why keeping marriage problems private actually strengthens your relationshipHow to resist the urge to vent to friends, family, and social mediaEffective ways to communicate and solve problems between yourselvesWhen it's appropriate to seek outside help (and when it's not)How to create a safe space for honest conversations at home🤐 Signs you might be oversharing your marriage problems:Complaining about your spouse to friends or familyPosting cryptic messages on social media about your relationshipSeeking validation from others instead of your partnerFeeling like everyone knows your businessThis episode focuses on building a stronger, more private bond with your spouse. Learn how successful couples handle difficulties internally while maintaining respect, dignity, and ultimately solving problems together.🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more practical marriage advice that keeps your relationship strong and private!

In this episode, we break down the toxic relationship between Chrisean Rock and Blueface to reveal the 3 essential things every couple MUST do before getting married. Their drama-filled relationship teaches us valuable lessons about red flags, communication, and relationship foundations.

🚨 BREAKING: Will Smith just admitted he made a "very very very terrible mistake" with his parenting approach - and we're breaking down exactly why his "radical honesty" method backfired!In this explosive episode, parenting experts Carlene and Jaime react to Will Smith's shocking confession from his recent Heart Breakfast interview where he revealed how his parenting philosophy damaged his relationship with Jaden and Willow.⚡ WHAT WE UNCOVER:✅ Will Smith's exact words about his parenting "mistake"❌ Why "radical honesty" can be harmful to children's development🧠 The psychology behind why this approach backfires💡 What parents should do INSTEAD (evidence-based alternatives)🎯 Red flags every parent needs to watch for💭 DISCUSSION POINTS:Evidence-based parenting strategies that actually workSetting healthy boundaries vs. radical transparency

In this powerful discussion, we explore the unique challenges and opportunities facing Black girls and young women in today's political climate. As parents, educators, and community members, how do we nurture strength, confidence, and resilience in the next generation of Black leaders?This video covers:Building unshakeable self-worth in environments that may not always affirm their valueTeaching critical thinking skills to navigate media, politics, and social pressuresCelebrating Black excellence while acknowledging real challengesPractical strategies for parents and caregiversWhether you're a parent, teacher, mentor, or ally, this conversation offers insights into empowering young Black women to thrive despite obstacles. We discuss how to balance protecting their innocence while preparing them for reality, and how to instill both pride in their heritage and tools for success in any environment.Join the conversation in the comments about your own experiences and strategies for raising confident, resilient young women who know their worth and power.

Raising resilient Black queens begins with affirming identity, embracing joy, and equipping our daughters with the tools to navigate a world that often challenges their worth. In this heartfelt episode, we delve into empowering practices like daily affirmations, celebrating Blackness, and recognizing the importance of teaching our children to confront microaggressions with confidence and grace. This conversation is about building strength, cultivating emotional wellness, and fostering genuine connections in a society that doesn't always value our stories. Discover how creating a village of support—through home, school, and community—helps instill pride and resilience in the next generation of Black leaders. We share insights on affirming individuality, the beauty of our heritage, and the significance of teaching real history to ensure our children grow up self-assured and empowered. Join us as we reflect on the emotional weight of parenting, the mutual commitment to lifting up Black excellence, and the journey of recognizing your worth and standing tall in every space.

What happens when we let go of our carefully laid plans and step boldly into the unknown? In this powerful conversation, we explore the beautiful tension between human planning and divine purpose—and why God's greatest work often happens in the spaces we never saw coming.From Abraham's call to leave everything familiar behind, to the disciples dropping their nets to follow Jesus, scripture is filled with ordinary people who said "yes" to extraordinary invitations. But what does this look like in our modern lives? How do we distinguish between reckless abandon and faithful obedience?Whether you're facing a major life transition, feeling stuck in routine, or sensing a stirring to pursue something that seems impossible, this conversation will challenge you to see uncertainty not as an enemy, but as the very place where miracles are born.Sometimes the most profound question isn't "What's my five-year plan?" but rather "God, what are you inviting me into today?"Perfect for: Anyone wrestling with big decisions, feeling called to something new, or simply wanting to live with greater faith and expectancy.Connect with us:Subscribe for weekly episodes on faith, purpose, and living boldlyShare your own "stepping out" story in the commentsJoin our community discussion using #IntoTheUnknownRemember: The God who parted seas and moved mountains is the same God writing your story today. What if the unknown isn't something to fear, but somewhere to flourish?

We dive into the emotional weight of personal style and how it shapes mutual commitment, connection, and perceptions in a relationship. From experimenting with unique clothing choices to navigating differences in taste, we reflect on how honoring your individuality while supporting your partner's expressions creates a balanced partnership. Recognizing your worth and embracing each other’s authenticity can truly strengthen the bond you share. Discover how understanding and communication about style can foster emotional wellness, build genuine connections, and even help you grow together as a couple. Whether it’s styling choices that spark joy or budget-conscious shopping habits, this conversation empowers you to embrace personal growth while nurturing your relationship. Join us for insights that go beyond fashion to touch on love, respect, and the complexities of marriage. What role does your style play in your relationship? Share your thoughts in the comments below and let’s connect over this shared journey.

In today's fast-paced world, relationships often need more than just love to thrive. This video explores how the dynamic duo of personal style and deep soul connection creates lasting bonds that withstand life's challenges.We'll dive into how shared aesthetic values create visual harmony in our lives, while soul connections provide the emotional foundation that keeps us grounded. Whether it's the way you decorate your shared space, your complementary fashion choices, or those profound late-night conversations—style and soul are the twin forces that keep relationships vibrant and enduring.Join us as we share personal stories, practical tips, and psychological insights on nurturing both the stylistic compatibility and soulful understanding that make relationships not just work, but flourish.

Navigating the teen years can feel like a whirlwind, especially when it comes to finding common ground in personal expression and style. In this heartfelt episode, we dive into “Teen Style Battles” and the invaluable “Lessons We Learned as Parents” while sharing the couch with our 14-year-old daughter, Caitlyn. From generational shifts in fashion to empowering your child’s individuality, we unpack the emotional weight of balancing parental guidance with their growing independence. We reflect on fostering mutual commitment to understanding each other, recognizing your worth as both parents and kids, and building genuine connections within the family. Whether you're a parent trying to embrace your teen's evolving style or a teen seeking a balanced partnership with your parents, this episode offers insights that resonate across generations. Discover how to navigate these complex dynamics with empathy, humor, and a touch of nostalgia as we explore the importance of confidence, self-expression, and timeless values in the journey of self-discovery. Join us for this empowering conversation filled with laughter, lessons, and love. What are the lessons you've learned in your family about individuality and compromise? Share your thoughts in the comments below, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join us for more episodes on personal growth and emotional wellness.

Timeless fashion doesn’t just transform your wardrobe—it transforms your mindset and self-expression. In this episode, we dive into the emotional weight of style as a reflection of personal growth, mental liberation, and individuality. From balanced partnerships in fashion choices to recognizing your worth through what you wear, we explore how your style communicates who you are and where you’ve been.Discover how timeless fashion tips can help you build genuine connections, embrace your culture, and redefine your confidence. Whether it’s finding joy in quality pieces, balancing trends with timeless investments, or honoring your individuality, your style is a celebration of your journey. Join us as we share insights on navigating professional environments, creating a wardrobe that evolves with you, and using fashion as a form of resistance and affirmation. How does your style reflect your voice? Let’s talk about it.

"Black Love Heals: Finding Strength in Each Other ❤️" is more than a phrase—it's a testament to the resilience, connection, and sacred bond that black love represents. In this heartfelt conversation, we explore the emotional weight of societal pressures, the power of mutual commitment, and the importance of recognizing your worth in a world that often seeks to diminish it. Together, we reflect on how black love creates a space of healing, a balanced partnership, and the foundation for building genuine connections that transcend challenges.Discover how black love fosters emotional wellness, self-discovery, and personal growth by embracing both its sacredness and visibility. Through shared stories, we unpack the complexities of relationships and highlight the importance of affirming, protecting, and celebrating this extraordinary love in both public and private spaces.What does black love mean to you? Share your thoughts in the comments and let’s continue this empowering conversation. Remember, black love is powerful, bold, and transformative. Keep choosing each other, keep rewriting the narrative, and keep letting your love shine.

In this episode, we dive into the complex and multifaceted concept of intimacy. From emotional vulnerability to physical closeness, we explore the various forms of intimacy and how they can enhance our relationships. We also discuss the importance of creating a safe space for intimacy to flourish and how communication and trust play a crucial role in fostering deep connections. Join us as we navigate the depths of intimacy and uncover its power to enrich our lives.