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Want to work with Charisma on Command? (Writing position) https://bit.ly/30KNvvV Check out our new podcast! https://bit.ly/2JDS2Lz If you’ve been watching this channel for a while you might have realized that the most interesting and useful psychological tricks that we talk about are not taught in school. Good news is, that’s where we come in! In this video, we’re going to cover 5 psychological tricks that can get you more of what you want from life, more easily. These are very useful in scenarios where you’re trying to persuade someone. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:20 - Trick #1: The word “but”. 1:28 - Trick #2: A double bind. 2:52 - Trick #3: Visualization. 4:53 - Trick #4: Framing. 6:28 - Trick #5: Scarcity. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #5 Psychological Tricks -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: http://simplehabit.com/charlie Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Very few people can control a conversation better than a comedian. They have arsenals of jokes that put rude people in their place and redirect the flow of conversation. Even when there isn’t a conflict, when a joke lands and everybody laughs - there is a period of space where you can redirect the conversation wherever you like. In this video we are going to look at 3 specific types of jokes that Russell Brand uses to masterfully control a confrontation on MSNBC. We’re also going to see how you can use these same jokes to confidently steer conversation in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:41 - Joke #1: Unpointed wit. 2:38 - Joke #2: Purposeful misinterpretation. 4:20 - Joke #3: Sarcasm. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2XcFYEf Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Like it or not we have all been awkward at different points in our lives. Sometimes that awkwardness gets in the way of connecting with other people or even feeling confident in ourselves. Awkwardness doesn’t need to be the end of the line. In fact, if you handle yourself well you can turn awkwardness (whether it’s just a moment or a way of being) into confidence. Which is what we are covering in this video featuring Tom Holland. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - Point #1: Adjust your body language. 4:05 - Point #2: Handle friendly teasing. 6:39 - Point #3: Tell your own embarrassing stories. 9:37 - Point #4: Let go of managing people’s opinion of you. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHolland #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Click Here To Donate: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature. So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others. 2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence. 3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures. 5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type. 7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #KeanuReeves #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! Get your first audiobook and 2 Audible Originals free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500500 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations. On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening 4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring 6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea 6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SophieTurner #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2W5G000 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe A recent Ben Shapiro interview has gotten a lot of attention. In case you haven’t seen it, Ben Shapiro got into a heated argument with BBC’s Andrew Neil, and eventually walked out of the interview. Now, Ben is no stranger to these kinds of arguments, so it was surprising to see how many people thought that he lost, or was even quote unquote “destroyed.” So in this video, we’re going to break down what went wrong for Ben and talk about four things you can do to avoid any embarrassment in an argument. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:39 - #1: Body language & speech patterns 3:03 - #2: The way that you answer questions 7:32 - #3: Your mindset going into it 11:06 - #4: What matters is who acts like they are winning -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BenShapiro #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Watch more: Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LyBIT0Q7fOc 5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBCcDrG2NjM 7 Reasons Ben Shapiro Is So Dominant In Debates https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JY5t6iUzajk Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast channel: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are making a tier list of Game of Thrones characters ranked by their charisma. Keep in mind that we are not judging charisma in modern day times, like who you would sit down and get a beer with. It's Game of Thrones charisma, which means: Are you persuasive? Do your plans work out? This might make you a wrong person, but you can still be highly charismatic. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:29 - F Tier 3:09 - D Tier 5:48 - C Tier 7:44 - B Tier 10:48 - A Tier 15:15 - S Tier -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #GameofThrones #CharismaOnCommand #TierList -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are talking about self-doubt. The particular self-doubt that gets in your head, maybe when you’ve gotten a promotion, or you just started dating someone that is a bit out of your league. It says: “You don’t deserve this, you shouldn't be here”. This is called imposter syndrome, and unfortunately, it can make you self sabotage the thing that you just got so you fall back to where you feel comfortable, even though you were deserving of what you had. Which is why in this video, I will talk about three behavioral changes to CRUSH imposter syndrome. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:55 - Change #1: You will not overstate what you can do going forwards 3:32 - Change #2: Take honest stock of your past, then see if you can help 4:50 - Change #3: Focus on creating results for the people around you -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SelfDevelopment #CharismaOnCommand #ImposterSyndrome -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n How To Make An Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2VPE2po Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We all handle relationships in different ways. One powerful way to understand these differences is through the lens of Attachment Theory. According to psychologists, there are four main “attachment styles” which have a profound effect on our relationships. In this video, we’ll break down these different styles using some iconic characters, and show how you can use this knowledge to improve your relationships with everyone around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:20 - Style #1: Avoidant 3:01 - Style #2: Anxious 6:03 - Style #3: Fearful 9:27 - Style #4: Secure -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SelfDevelopment #CharismaOnCommand #AttachmentTheory -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: www.bensound.com

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2VdwLiT Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing. Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation. 1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell” 4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself. 7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter. 9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BrieLarson #CharismaOnCommand #MCU -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Learn How To Make An Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2UJ56RN Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Iron Man has some of the most savage moments in the entire Marvel Cinematic Universe. There is actually a consistent pattern between these moments that makes them so satisfying to watch, and so useful if you apply the lessons to your own life. In this video we are going to be breaking down Iron Man’s most savage moments, so that you can learn to command respect in any situation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:18 - Pattern #1: Iron Man is an expert at using humor 2:45 - Pattern #2: Iron Man is incredibly decisive 6:09 - Pattern #3: Robert Downey JR’s powerful body language -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #IronMan #CharismaOnCommand #RobertDowneyJR -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2G8HbFM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe While watching clips from the previous Game of Thrones breakdown, I came across some cast interview clips, and I could not help but notice how effortlessly charming Emilia Clarke was. Emilia displays a number of charismatic habits, though, while seemingly simple, are extremely powerful. In this video, we are going to break down 4 of Emilia’s habits that make her so charming. These might seem very simple at first, but there are nuances that take them from ordinary basic advice to habits that can make you extremely charismatic if you hit the nuance. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:38 - Habit #1: ”Smile frequently (and genuinely)” 2:59 - Habit #2: “Build other people up” 5:29 - Habit #3: “Raise the energy in your interactions” 7:21 - Habit #4: “Be an active listener” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #EmiliaClarke #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/confidence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Todays video is a fun one. I will be reacting to some cringe videos, and potentially see what we can learn from them! Let me know what you think of this new style of video by leaving a comment down below! ​ ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:18 - Video #1: “Guy Awkwardly Trying To Pick Up Girls” 1:30 - Video #2: “Awkward Dating Show Moment” 3:19 - Video #3: “Girl Rejects Kiss” 4:45 - Video #4: “PewDiePie Handshake Fail on Conan O’ Brien” 5:40 - Video #5: “Leafs Bernier Calls Nelson Mandela One Of The Most Known Athletes” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CringeCompilation #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: "Willing To Try" by Jay Man - OurMusicBox http://www.ourmusicbox.com/willingtotry

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/confidence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There are no classes in school that teach you how to flirt, and unfortunately what that means is that when you go out into the world to do it, sometimes some weird things can escape your mouth. Which is why in this video, I will be giving you five things that you should NEVER say when flirting, as well as some things that you can say instead. ​ ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:16 - Phrase #1: “That person is…” 1:19 - Phrase #2: “That’s amazing!” 2:41 - Phrase #3: “Do you want to go out sometime?” 3:37 - Phrase #4: “Can I get your number?” 4:34 - Phrase #5: “You would look better if you…” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HowToFlirt #CharismaOnCommand #Dating -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: "Willing To Try" by Jay Man - OurMusicBox http://www.ourmusicbox.com/willingtotry

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! Get your first audiobook for free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500500. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Game of Thrones has kept its fans hooked for over 20 years. The excitement that I and millions of other people feel as season 8 approaches is a testament to the power of its storytelling. In this video, I want to talk about 3 reasons its story is so genius, and show how those reasons predict how it all ends, based on the structure of the story. ​ ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - Reason #1: Fiction often treats good & evil as uncrossing opposites 2:43 - Reason #2: Drama is built on the reversal of fortune 5:24 - Reason #3: Game of Thrones is a hidden Hero's Journey -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #GameOfThrones #CharismaOnCommand #GoTSeason8 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Become A Member Of Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2CB5pHT Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The first impressions that you make often hinge on the smallest of things. It can be a gesticulation or a choice of words. Your first impressions snap into place in just seven seconds. These judgments are influenced by a number of factors. Choosing the right things to say and do will affect your relationship with the person you are meeting with in a big way. In this video, I want to share 5 phrases I hear all the time that can destroy your charisma. I will also give you some things that you can say instead, so that you can continue to make amazing first impressions, and become your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter the most! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:23 - Phrase #1: ”Sorry for taking your time” 1:45 - Phrase #2: “Fine” 3:03 - Phrase #3: “Hey…” 4:06 - Phrase #4: “Nice to see you” 5:07 - Phrase #5: “Can I buy you a drink/coffee?” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #FirstImpression #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

How To Make an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2HCHuLC Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sam Harris has been one of the world's most formidable debaters for nearly 20 years. Sam has gone toe to toe with other people we've covered on the channel, like Ben Shapiro & Jordan Peterson, and he has held his own. In this video, we will break down 5 reasons Sam Harris is so excellent in his debates, and how you too can use these tactics to your advantage. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:50 Tip #1: Identify the premise 1:14 Tip #2: Apply your opponents logic to extreme situations 3:41 Tip #3: Use conciliatory statements 5:08 Tip #4: Frequently crack jokes 6:22 Tip #5: Use vivid, specific imagery Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2Upsu7k 5 Habits That Guarantee You Become Charismatic: https://youtu.be/Takobi8jsEI Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe This video seems quite hypocritical, especially on this channel. Mainly because we talk a lot about impressing others, how to seem cool, confident and general tips to increase your charisma. However, there is a fine line between genuine charisma and people pleasing, and the latter is exactly what we DON’T want. So today, let’s dive into the subtle signs of people pleasing that you are likely doing so we can solve them and crush them for good! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:34 - Sign #1: Mismatch Between What You’re Saying And What You’re Thinking 1:43 - Sign #2: Setting Up “Covert Contracts” 2:53 - Sign #3: Difference In Behaviour Between Groups 4:18 - Solution #1: Listen To Your Internal Voice 5:12 - Solution #2: Be Creative In Expressing Your Real Self 6:05 - Solution #3: Pay Attention To Consistent Personality Traits 7:25 - How To Make An Amazing First Impression -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeoplePleasing #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2H01c4h Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown https://youtu.be/dVLERJ5IdrA Elon Musk: How To Achieve 10x More Than Your Peers: https://youtu.be/liJbB_0eCTo Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Mr. Beast has been blowing up the past year. He’s all over my suggested feeds. He’s commonly known for ridiculous stunts like saying Logan Paul thousands of times or donating yearly incomes worth of money to streamers and strangers. Today I want to show you Mr. Beast’s climb to success so you can get a better understanding of what it takes to get millions of views and subscribers. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:45 - Step #1: Put In The Work 1:38 - Step #2: Stop Trying To Find Shortcuts 3:21 - Step #3: Choose The Path That Interests You 4:00 - Step #4: He Makes His Content About Other People 5:50 - Step #5: He Invests In Growth -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #MrBeast #CharismaOnCommand #Success -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Become a Charisma University member: https://bit.ly/2XiegXX How To Spot A Liar: https://youtu.be/KLvTSMLIPpM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There are people in this world that are looking to take advantage of you. Many of these signs are subtle and take a trained eye to catch them. Today we will dive into the mind of a narcissist so you can learn what signs to look out for when meeting someone. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:23 - Sign #1: Obsessed With Their Image 1:56 - Sign #2: Lie About Ridiculous Things 3:27 - Sign #3: Different Relationship With Lying 7:03 - Sign #4: They Don’t Give Up On Their Lies 8:32 - Sign #5: They Will Dismiss You -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Narcissist #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music by: CO.AG Music "Peaceful Ambient Background Music - Heroes" ​