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Matthew Hussey is a relationship and confidence coach. Today we chat about what a decade of coaching almost exclusively women has taught him about modern dating, the key components of attraction and his upcoming book Love Life.Thanks for listening! Follow Matthew Hussey:https://youtube.com/@thematthewhussey https://matthewhussey.comIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:40 Universal Content02:32 The Bliss Point06:56 Unhappy and Hurt11:13 Dating the Same 5% 15:04 Initiating Conversations17:54 Expectation Pressures21:26 Take Away the Hidden Agenda26:04 Flirt with the World28:18 Internal Workaround for Introverts33:21 The Two-Hit Theory37:45 Certainty is a Valuable Trait43:43 Trust Issues and Setting Boundaries50:55 Success Coming From Insecurities54:48 Why Should You Love Yourself?01:01:44 Parental Love and Responsibilities01:06:16 Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards01:12:22 What is Hurting You?01:16:47 The Greatest Life Lesson01:18:13 Why We Choose PainAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Teal Swan is a Youtuber and spiritual teacher. We chat about what childhood traumas lead to narcissism, what a soul retrieval is and how you can do and if claims of remote viewing, ESP and seeing auras are legitimateThanks for listening! Follow Teal Swan:https://www.youtube.com/@UC1KIUp4PNCyIwCPTq1hYzWQ https://www.tealswan.net/If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro01:09 - Reaction to Theo Von and Tony Robbins Interview04:16 - How Narcissism Starts08:59 - Developing the Chronic Manipulation Skill11:33 - Dysfunctional Family 13:23 - What is Emotional Incest16:39 - Is It Love or Just an Energy Exchange?19:42 - The Rigid Idea of a Healthy Relationship22:26 - This is What Abusive Relationships Do to You26:41 - Sexual Compatibility Impacts Relationship Compatibility30:15 - The Difference in Personality Preference34:45 - Healing Inside a New Relationship39:18 - What is Soul Retrieval?44:33 - Little Moments, Huge Impact50:10 - An Template for Success55:30 - Diversity and Wokeism 59:57 - Dichotomy Versus Discrepancy01:03:38 - Human Beings are Overly Identified01:07:27 - How Can You Inspire Trust?01:10:17 - Technology is Our Slave01:11:23 - Is AI Developing Consciousness?01:13:08 - Ancestral Trauma01:17:08 - Being Aware of Your Own Gifts01:23:06 - Where to Find Teal?Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Men today have a strange problem. Many of them are just too nice for their own good.Doctor Robert Glover helps them fix that. Not so that they can become sociopaths or jerks. But so that they can become confident, assertive grown ups who don’t have to resort to manipulation or people pleasing to get their needs met.We discuss what childhood experiences create nice guy syndrome, why nice guys are on the rise in the last 50 years and how to shift into men that women are actually deeply attracted to and more importantly that respect themselvesThanks for listening! Follow Dr. Robert Glover:https://integrationnation.net/landing-page If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:43 Nice Guy No More?04:30 The Nice Guy Persona09:15 How Childhood Uncomfortable Feelings Affect Adulthood15:19 How Your Relationship Shapes Your Partner17:47 Don’t Trade Your Purpose for Romance22:43 Positive Emotional Tension26:36 The Masculine and Feminine Polarity30:12 We All Have Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Us40:43 The Guilt of Returning the Favor Received45:44 Hidden and Repressed Pleasure of Sexuality55:22 How Do We Unwire Sexual Shame?01:01:02 The Share-Test Method01:05:52 You Control Your Own Sexuality01:10:15 Take the Shame Away01:18:50 Learn How to Defend Your Needs01:22:40 The Concept of Differentiation01:27:13 Staying Monogamous Without Sacrificing Sexual Freedom01:32:06 Tension Between Being You and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs01:34:39 Why Do Men Grow Up Pleasing Women?Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dr. Richard Schwartz is world leading psychotherapist who in the 1980s develop a revolutionary branch of therapy called Internal Family Systems (IFS).We chat about how people have split personality or "parts", why past traumas are unconsciously keeping you stuck and how 16 IFS sessions can cure anxiety, stress and even PTSD.Thanks for listening!Follow Dr. Schwartz:https://ifs-institute.com/https://www.youtube.com/@UCW3_oqt84pU4Hajx5dsKU-AIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro01:32 What is IFS?04:17 How IFS Can Help with Anxiety06:20 Unlocking a Part of You08:09 The Other Side of Having Multiple Personalities11:03 The 8 C’s We All Have13:24 No Bad Parts, Just Extreme Experiences15:56 The Negative Effects of Childhood Abuse19:56 One of the Goals of IFS20:46 Men’s Mental Health24:23 Constraining Masculinity30:17 The Story of an Activist with a Traumatic Past33:57 Defining Your True Self35:45 Spirituality and Meditation39:48 Here’s How to Get to Know Your Inner Self Better54:02 Other Options to Help with IFS55:09 Taking in the Energy of the Abuser59:22 How to Get Yourself Out of Negative Thoughts01:00:53 Punishment Versus Discipline01:01:34 Where to Find Dick SchwartzAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the source of creativity, why he started eating meat again and his reaction to the Hasan Minaj apology. Thanks for listening! If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Andrew Herr is an expert in human performance who developed biotech strategy for the US military including the Navy Seals.We chat about the terrible health advice from the US government including the "food pyramid", how Public Health lies have left the average American unsure how to improve their lives and how to use your personal health data to optimize your focus and mood...Thanks for listening!Follow Andrew Herr:https://twitter.com/andrewherrbio https://www.fount.bio/If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro01:08 You Can’t Trust the Government03:48 Debunking Health Fads06:52 Customized Approach to Staying Healthy10:38 10 Things People Care Most About13:08 Anxiety's Impact on the Immune System14:22 How Food and Lifestyle are Poisoning Us21:00 The Dangers of Ultra Processed Food24:49 Why Do We Crave Sugar?26:27 How to Fix Your Immune System29:46 Burnout and Stress33:46 Drug Addiction35:00 Was COVID Lockdown Ineffective?38:08 Obesity Drugs Don’t Work43:28 Figure Out What Works For You51:19 Testosterone Boost52:57 Performance Enhancers1:00:26 Food Allergy Tests1:01:48 The Elimination Diet1:04:00 Ways to Get Better Sleep1:06:08 Service Fount Offers1:10:30 Where to Find FountFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Rian Doris  @riandoris  is the co-founder of the Flow Research Collective where he teaches people to reliably enter the flow state for higher performance in life's most high pressure situations. He also owns several other businesses including sam ovens's Consulting.com which he purchased from him earlier this year. We chat about developing rock solid intuition, the most important leadership lessons for 8-figure businesses and Rian's incredible story of overcoming a traumatic brain injury as a teenager. Rian is so sharp and I really love this conversation so I hope you do too!Thanks for listening!Follow Rian Doris:https://www.youtube.com/@riandorishttps://www.flowresearchcollective.com/If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:57 Early Start in Business02:08 Becoming Steven Cotler’s Intern04:07 What is Intuition?07:03 How Sports Give Rise to Flow State09:35 Brand Growth11:40 Life After a Severe Head Injury17:01 How to Maximize Optionality and Opportunity20:11 Decreased Sense of Self Consciousness22:44 The Future of Humans and AI25:11 Limitless Material Abundance?27:21 Memes Versus Genes30:50 The Fundamental Unit of Any Business35:11 How to Recruit the Best Talents42:47 Intuition Made Practical47:00 The Ultimate Success Killer52:43 Two Productivity Networks of the Brain55:12 Single Focus Versus Strategic Neglect57:48 Top Two Sources of Happiness1:00:10 Investing in Your Happy Space1:03:53 Intersection Between Goals and Belonging1:05:39 Digital Nomad is Overrated1:07:57 Practicing the Flow Teaching1:10:53 The Truth About Strategic Neglect1:14:58 Learn More About RianFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Adi Shankar  @bootleguniverse123  is a Hollywood producer who is the go to guy for adaptions of video game series.Including Netflix shows like CastleVania, Captain LaserHawk and the upcoming Devil May Cry show.We chat about how he created his dream job in 20's, how he convinced HollyWood gatekeepers to let me pursue his vision without their interference and the steps to invent your own job that is both creatively fulfilling and commercially successful.Thanks for listening!Follow The Adi Shankar:https://www.youtube.com/@bootleguniverse123https://www.instagram.com/bootleguniverseIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:22 Creative Process for Captain Laserhawk04:47 George R. R. Martin’s Creative Mind07:03 When the Character Feels Soulless08:23 Conversation with George R. R. Martin12:59 Wrong Assumptions15:34 Dark Take on Richie Rich23:58 Fan Fiction Short Films27:30 Securing Resources and Funds35:29 Strategy to Get Recognized41:09 Deconstructing the Core Elements43:17 Do You Need Social Media?48:44 The Value You Put Out as a Creator52:36 The Creator Economy58:58 It Mainly Starts with Emulation1:04:36 Reservoir of Knowledge1:08:19 Resonating with the Audience1:13:49 Existing in the Extremes1:17:53 Follow Adi’s WorkFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Josh and T.K. are two thirds of The Minimalists. They teach their followers how to get more from their lives by rejecting consumerism and pursuing what brings the most joy.We chat about the subtle ways that consumerism creeps into our lives, how to reconnect to the dreams that we lost in the pursuit of traditional success and how to generate permission-less abundance.Thanks for listening!TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Intro00:20 Minimalism's Purpose06:29 Deceptive Corporate Dynamics07:57 The Path To Genuine Happiness09:47 Validating The Desire For Validation15:03 Unlocking Creativity18:51 Defying Society’s Expectations23:48 Be The Friend Yourself Needs30:06 Living A Life That’s Not Yours34:47 Adding Value To People’s Lives39:24 The Art Of Deep Listening44:00 Natural Curiosity50:20 Metrics That Quantify Our Quality Of Life57:50 The Minimalist Life01:04:34 Leveraging Simplicity01:08:43 What Makes You Feel Alive?01:10:31 Foundation for Economic Education01:14:03 The Permissionless Mindset01:22:56 What We Admire Versus What We Advice01:25:29 Why Observations Are Better Than Advice01:29:52 The Real Business Is People01:33:26 How To Effectively Sell Your Product01:41:56 Finding Your Healthy SpaceFollow The Minimalists:https://www.theminimalists.com/If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰For business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Justin Mares is the founder of multiple health companies including Kettle and Fire, Perfect Keto, and TrueMed as well as a friend for many years.We chat about how his networking helped made him 8 figures, why he thinks the FDA has killed more Americans and any other governmental agency, and catch up on our beliefs about god, happiness, and life.Thanks for listening!Follow Justin:https://justinmares.substack.com/If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:27 Am I An Atheist?04:43 The Story Of Jesus08:20 Is Parenthood For You?10:18 The Importance of Mentors in Success14:18 Community Effect on Mindset16:03 Consistent Outreach for Strong Bonds20:09 People Are Ready to Help22:09 Passion For Wellness27:17 Food Regulation28:24 How Food Can Be Deadly31:13 Capitalism Concept34:45 Conscience Check36:40 Why We Get Sick41:06 Outdated Treatment Model?43:19 The Unbeneficial Societal Trade46:53 Living Healthy Is Expensive51:09 Cold Plunge Demand53:14 Major Effect Of Environmental Toxins54:30 What Is Metabolic PsychiatryFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tucker Max is a multiple time New York Times Best-Selling author. He's undergone a radical personal transformation from selfish playboy to dedicated father, business leader and now rancher as a result of therapy and psychedelicsWe chat about how someone can know what healing mode is best from them and the biggest lessons he's taken from his transformationThanks for listening!Subscribe to Tucker Max:https://www.youtube.com/@RudiusMediaIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro02:09 Psychedelics 05:06 How To Deal With Negative Emotion08:04 Flawed People, Horrible Parents17:13 The Pain Of Rejection18:36 Mid Life Crisis22:42 Life Out of Balance24:40 Talk Therapy31:09 Psychedelic Therapy40:22 Finding Inner Peace45:33 Dysfunctional City Life48:17 Not Doing What You Preach52:00 The 2-Session Trap58:01 Trust Your Own Experience01:03:37 Healing From Parental Neglect01:09:45 Work On Yourself First01:12:48 Find Your Healthy Place01:20:48 A Mirror Of Your Own Life01:26:04 Relationship With God01:31:20 Oneness With The Universe01:35:00 Divine Connection01:39:41 Feelings I Didn’t Want To Feel01:44:10 Pay Attention To The SignsFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Matt Kahn is a speaker, author and spiritual teacher.We chat about the hidden limitations of self improvement, how to love and transform negative emotions, and the nuances of being led by your intuition rather than ego.Thanks for listening!Subscribe to Matt Kahn:https://www.youtube.com/@MattKahnAllforLoveIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:13 Ego Versus Personal Growth04:38 The Ties Between Ego And Imagination09:37 How Do You Work On Yourself?11:40 Letting Go of Resistance17:43 The Positive Side Of Skepticism19:14 Leading With Self-Understanding23:15 Trust In The Unknown28:28 Mindful Decisions And Self Care30:27 The Freedom To Choose Our Diet35:44 Becoming A Healing Presence39:39 What Is Reputation?43:09 Holding Space For Others47:37 Supportive Boundaries: When Help Meets Consent53:21 Integrating Masculinity Into Femininity59:38 Environmental And Situational Awareness1:05:15 The Baggage Of Unprocessed Pain1:07:05 Our Expanding Consciousness1:12:04 Checkout Matt’s WorkFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the Russell Brand Allegations, Dave Portnoy vs. Washington Post and the Andrew Tate BBC and Vice interviewThanks for listening!If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Intro00:04 Russell Brand Accusations06:25 How Close Was Peace: The Ukraine-Russia War08:42 David Portnoy, Connor Murphy10:59 Russell Brand Victim Speaks Up12:49 Demonetized By YouTube14:01 Andrew Tate Commits Tax Fraud?15:46 Real World App: A Pyramid Scheme?19:10 Character Assassination21:26 David Portnoy vs. Washington Post25:09 Power Dynamic In The Workplace28:02 Victimhood Holds A Special Power33:01 Age of Maturity36:18 What Is Superego?39:08 Consent44:38 We All Want The Truth48:22 Moral Age of Consent50:43 Superego CultureFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about Elon Musk's traumatic childhood, how to stop being a people pleaser and the shady origins of Internet Marketing Thanks for listening!⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:00 Surviving Abuse: Understanding Dissociative Reactions04:28 Is Elden Ring A War And Empire Building Game?07:06 The Physics And Material Science Genius08:25 Elon Musk's Business Decluttering Strategies12:16 Geniuses With Troubled Childhood12:46 John Harris’ The Downing Street Memo14:43 Who’s The Worst President?18:05 Internet Marketing Lies You Need to Know25:33 Our People Pleasing Tendencies30:17 Embracing The Power Of Breathwork35:15 How To Nurture Healthy Self-Ownership41:23 Firm Sense Of Ownership47:02 The Burden Of Carrying Stress AroundFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command interviews Professional Game Master Timm Woods. Timm is an educator and storyteller who specializes in game-based education. He uses Tabletop Role-Playing Games, like the popular Dungeons & Dragons, to educate students and adults in social skills and critical thinking.Find Timm Online:https://www.timmwoods.com/https://www.instagram.com/timm.woodsThanks for listening!If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand If you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 Crazy Intro01:34 What is D&D? (Dungeons & Dragons)04:06 How Timm Makes $100+ Per Hour Playing D&D05:41 The Subtle Art of the Game Master08:46 How Timm Designed His Own Dream Job13:59 Timm’s Life Changing Psychedelic Experience15:43 Timm’s Biggest Fear While Pursuing His Dreams17:12 Does Making Money Ruin the Integrity of Art?21:06 Following Your Dreams When No One Believes in You26:26 What Will the Audience of D&D Look Like in the Future?29:22 The Difference Between Male and Female D&D Players32:28 Making D&D Accessible to a Wider Audience36:40 The Ultimate Flexibility of D&D42:13 Timm’s Dissertation on D&D: The Value of Play51:34 The Danger of Losing a Sense of Play in Life54:06 What Makes a Perfect D&D Game?55:41 The Secret World of LARPing1:01:03 What Makes Games More Fun Than Life1:05:50 Why D&D Is More Exciting Than Video Games1:07:55 How to Create a Compelling Story1:10:40 Timm’s Worst D&D Experience1:15:40 How to Book Timm1:16:24 The Best D&D Show in the GameAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dr. Nicole LePera is a clinical psychologist and owner of the Holistic Psychologist.We chat about the three core human needs, the subtle ways people compensate for not having those needs met and the steps that anyone can take to feel more authentically confident and connected to their true self.Thanks for listening!TIMESTAMPS00:00 Intro00:17 3 Core Emotional Needs05:27 Becoming Self-Aware11:07 Generational Empathy14:14 The Struggle OF Well-Meaning Parents18:59 Breaking Free From Repetitive Patterns23:02 Listen To Your Body28:33 Noticing Stress And Its Needs32:51 Rooted in Familiarity34:53 Craving Authenticity38:57 What Alone Time Signifies45:32 Trigger Points: What Do You Respond To?48:19 In Self-Preservation Mode52:42 Trapped in Outdated Notions59:05 Respectful Expression Of Your Perspective1:02:40 Embracing Flexible Boundaries1:09:34 Childlike Tendency To Personalize1:15:20 Grounds for Seeking Personal Space1:20:59 Emotional Gaps In Adults1:28:13 The Dynamics Of Secure Relationships1:32:06 The First Step To Ultimate Healing1:36:02 Our Ties to Everything1:41:32 Learn More About SelfHealers CircleFor business inquiries: TheDroppingInPodcast@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

James Sexton is a divorce lawyer in high-conflict cases. He wrote the book How To Stay In Love based on his nearly 3 decades of inside access to the explosive end of relationships We chat about why people grow to hate the ones they love, why marriage is a broken technology, how to craft the perfect prenup to avoid financial ruin, and the most important rule for not having your relationship end in a divorce.Thanks for listening!Subscribe to James Sexton:https://www.instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer/http://www.nycdivorces.com/If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 - Intro00:24 Divorce And Death06:28 The Inevitability of Mortality08:12 The Significance of Your Choice10:22 The Role of Marriage17:00 What's Worth Holding On To?22:54 The Anti-Cheating Factor28:20 How Sex Drives Successful Relationships30:40 The Perfect Prenup: Yours, Mine, Ours39:16 Men and Marriage48:38 Winning an Unjust Court Case58:20 Wealth's Influence on Justice1:00:04 Child Support: Legal Obligations Explained1:04:01 Making the Uncomfortable Your Ally1:07:52 Relationship Advice: Disappoint Your Partner1:11:43 The Threat of Inner Insecurities1:13:48 Core Needs1:18:00 Where James Learned Charisma1:25:01 How Conflict is Good For Couples1:27:21 Arguments1:34:37 Learn More About James SextonAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks Jordan Peterson’s Mental Model of Betrayal and the “Blind Side” LawsuitThanks for listening!If You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast:http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰00:00 What Are Mental Models?04:41 Processing Hurt From Others09:59 Tears: Manipulation Tool Or Genuine Emotion?12:12 Regrets Of An Elderly Man17:04 Finding Peace in Non-Achievement20:01 When Doing Nothing Speaks Volumes21:41 Transcending Fear of Death24:47 Michael Oher Speaks Up About Adoption Lie29:36 Exploiting Opportunities for Personal Gain31:27 Developing Better Instincts in Tough Choices33:46 Logan and Jake Paul’s Clash of Perspectives37:39 Kevin Spacey Got Hard Canceled38:33 Innocent Fearlessness in KidsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Doctor Orion Taraban is a clinical psychologist and owner of the PsycHacks Youtube channel. @psychacks    In this episode we discuss the psychology of dating, the behavioral economics of dating and how those two things make men and women have very different incentives and approachesThank you for listening!Subscribe to PsycHacks:https://www.youtube.com/@psychacksIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell :bell: TIMESTAMPS00:00 INTRO00:14 Why Women Go to Therapy 3 Times More Than Men03:27 Is Therapy Better Fit for Women?05:58 Men Find External Solutions to Internal Problems10:55 Why Modern Men Are Struggling in Dating13:30 Learning to Deal With Rejection15:50 The Romantic Ideal: Men Have Been Lied To20:53 Society’s Definition of Love Is Toxic23:22 Jesus: How Much Sacrifice Does Love Require?27:59 Loving Without Expecting Anything in Return30:23 "Love People Like Cats"32:29 Wounded People Recreate Their Traumatic Relationships35:05 The Crossroads: Where Decisions Really Matter37:14 How to Avoid Being Blinded by Emotions39:27 Stopping Negative Thought Cycles44:23 The Core of Mental Disorders: “Self-Focused Attention”45:34 The Surprising Power of Stepping Away From Alcohol47:22 The Black Pill: Young Men Giving Up on Life51:46 The Antidote to Hopelessness53:10 Being a Young Man Is Tough54:49 Should You “Grind Out” Your 20s?57:11 What It Means to Be a Man in 20231:01:19 The Changing Definitions of Masculinity and Femininity1:05:05 Masculinity: “To Have a Spine and to Have a Pair”1:07:40 Covid and Conformity1:09:56 Having a Healthy Level of Self-Doubt1:11:21 When Should You Stand Up Against the Crowd?1:13:54 Is “Masculinity/Femininity” a Productive Framework?1:17:30 Why Women Are Frustrated With Modern Dating1:20:26 “Women Are Still Waiting for the Offer”1:22:12 Why 99% of Women Will Be Disappointed1:26:23 Can Evolutionary Psychology Explain Dating?1:28:15 Forming Relationships: Can Compatibility Beat Status?1:30:24 Beauty Doesn’t Make a Happy Relationship1:32:04 “Find Your Ugly Duckling”1:33:26 The Dark Horse Strategy1:35:41 Debate: Do Looks/Finances Really Matter That Much?1:39:16 Personality Disorders = Childhood Coping Mechanisms1:41:39 Uncovering Internal Wounds Without Becoming a Victim1:47:33 Can You Take on Too Much Responsibility?1:48:59 You’re Not Always the Problem1:51:16 The Pros and Cons of Spirituality1:54:22 The Point of Religion: “A Felt Connection With the Divine”1:57:37 People Never Love Each Other Exactly the Same Amount2:00:05 Check Out PsycHacks on YouTube and oriontarabanpsyd.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Dr. Rob Henderson.Rob made it out of the chaos of poverty and foster care system to eventually receive his PHD from Yale We talk about the psychology of poverty, status games of the elites and class warfare. Thank you for listening!Subscribe to Rob Henderson's Newsletter:https://www.robkhenderson.com/Or check out his Twitter:https://twitter.com/robkhendersonIf You’d Like To Help Support The Podcast: http://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommandIf you enjoy the podcast please SUBSCRIBE and Click the Notification bell 🔔 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰0:00 INTRO0:12 Every Name Has a Story to Tell02:48 Becoming Successful Against All Odds07:39 Poverty Comes in Many Forms11:06 Why Young People Like Jordan Peterson15:00 Finding Meaning in Serving Others17:59 The Nuclear Family vs Community Parenting21:03 The West Has Lost Community25:30 Individualism and the Pursuit of “Happiness”28:41 The 1% Rule: People Who Post Online Are Weird36:06 Being “High Class” Is More Than Being Wealthy39:33 Why Should You Care About Your Social Class?41:48 “Status Is at Least as Important as Money”44:37 Should You Pursue Status?49:20 How the Classes Think About Wealth Differently55:05 Luxury Beliefs: The New Way to Show Status59:56 The Real Consequences of “Defund the Police”1:05:47 The Hypocrisy of the Covid Lockdowns1:09:08 The Dark Side of Promoting Promiscuity1:15:34 The Elites Are Setting a Bad Example for Society1:21:04 The Truth About “Class Warfare”1:25:40 What Can We Do to Bring People Together?1:27:57 Is It Worth It to Work in Politics?1:30:26 Check Out Rob on SubstackAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy