Cheap Chat

Join Rume Ugen, Nush Cope and Carlotta Constant for humourous and unfiltered dating and relationship advice which sees them dive into the DMs of listeners in a bid to solve their ‘situationships’. Every Wednesday the Cheap Chat gang discuss real-life dilemmas based on text messages to help listeners cut the fat, and figure out what he says versus what he really means. This straight-talking group of girlfriends are here to make sure women everywhere know how to navigate dating in an online world. Follow them on Instagram at @CheapChatPodcast

End of the road? 'My BF doesn't understand my mental health issues'

How do you know when the right time is to take a break from your relationship? The Cheap Chat gang are back for the season finale as they say farewell to another series. Carlotta and Nush reflect on their new life transitions and Rume is hopeful for the future as they discuss their first relationships and what they want out of life moving forward. Elsewhere, the gang help one girl decide if she should take a break from her relationship to deal with her own personal mental health struggles. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. To have your dilemma answered make sure you message us on Instagram! Follow us: @cheapchatpodcast (Private message us your dilemmas, they all remain anonymous!) @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

06-16
29:38

‘How to fix a broken heart’ ft Guy Winch

Should breakups be treated like an illness? The Cheap Chat gang are joined by psychologist and author of ‘How to Fix A Broken Heart’, Guy Winch, who breaks down the science as to why you’re still addicted to your ex and how to kick the habit. Guy also explains why breakups should be regarded as as mental health issue and why your employer should give you sick leave if you’re suffering from distress. Elsewhere, the Cheap Chat gang put your questions to the expert from ‘how to deal with an ex that’s moved on too quickly?’ to ‘When is too early to start dating?’ and more. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. Follow us on Instagram: @cheapchatpodcast (Private message us your dilemmas, they all remain anonymous!) @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

06-10
37:56

I Have Never: 'My boyfriend overshares about sex with his ex'

How much do you need to know about your partner's sexual past? Rume, Nush and Carlotta help one girl whose boyfriend has taken the drinking game Never Have I Ever, too far by revealing his adventurous sex life with his ex girlfriends. Elsewhere, the Cheap Chat gang discuss 'settling' in relationships. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. Follow us on Instagram: @cheapchatpodcast (Private message us your dilemmas, they all remain anonymous!) @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

06-02
28:18

What next? 'I hooked up with my BFF and now he's ghosting me

What's the craziest thing you've done for love? Rume, Nush and Carlotta discuss the funniest things love has made them do following a viral Tik Tok craze, before asking the Cheap Chat listeners with revelations including using their overdraft to pay an ex's rent to catfishing their own partner. Elsewhere, the gang help one girl who has ben left confused by her situationship with her best guy mate. Is she wasting her time? Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. Follow us @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

05-26
37:45

Heartbreak Hotel: 'Love is not a fairytale, it's hard work'

The Cheap Chat gang discuss how their views on relationships and love has changed over the years, as one member of the gang shares an important life update. Meanwhile, Rume, Nush and Carlotta discuss a reality star help one girl is left wondering if she's been ghosted, after realising the guy she'd been seeing has updated his Bumble profile. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

05-19
34:21

Trigger warning: Is it normal for men to cheat on holiday?

Is there such thing as cheating 'respectfully'? The Cheap Chat gang are left triggered after discussing a Tik Tok video which claims to reveal what men allegedly get up to on lad's holidays. Meanwhile, Rume, Nush and Carlotta discuss a reality star who claims she wouldn't have a problem with her partner cheating, so long as he was 'respectful' enough to cover his tracks. Do you agree? Elsewhere, one listener has found themselves in a sticky situation with they partner who has been talking to other girls online. Join Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

05-12
30:10

Death wish: ‘He took his new girl to my family memorial’

Have you ever been betrayed by an ex? The Cheap Chat gang help one girl who was shocked to find her ex boyfriend taking his date to her family’s ‘secret place’ used to remember lost loved ones. Elsewhere, Rume, Nush and Carlotta discuss time wasters, after it was revealed the average dater spends over £200 a year on failed dates. So, should you be able to charge for your time? Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. Send your dilemmas to @cheapchatpodcast on instagram. Follow us at: @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

05-05
36:14

#NotYourPorn: ‘My mates videos were stolen and put online’

Have you ever had sexual imagery shared without your consent? Kate Isaacs explains why consent is mandatory and why the term ‘revenge porn’ should be described as sexual abuse. She’s calling for tighter regulation of the porn industry after her best friend’s intimate videos were uploaded to an adult website without her knowledge following an iCloud hack. After setting up her campaign #NotYourPorn, Kate is now dedicated to helping young women get justice for intimate image abuse, and is here to tell you exactly what to do if it’s happened to you. This episode also includes contribution from a real cheap chat listener who shares her story, which you may find triggering. If you have been affected by any of the topics spoken about in this episode please reach out to the following for advice and support: help@revengepornhelpline.org.uk Kate Isaacs, Founder kate@notyourporn.com @notyourpxrn - Instagram Please send your dilemmas to @cheapchatpodcast on Instagram and give us a follow! @nushcope @Carlotta Constant @keepitfrank

04-28
33:17

Bad vibes: Have you been manifesting bad relationships?

Have you been attracting one f***boy after the other? Tik Tok star Lucie joins the Cheap Chat gang to discuss why negative thought processes could be blocking positive relationships from entering your life before sharing some practical affirmations to help you re-think past dating experiences and manifest your perfect relationship. Elsewhere, Rume, Nush and Carlotta help one girl decide whether to ditch a male friend who has nothing but negative vibes towards the men she dates. Is he just looking out for her best interests or blocking her blessings? Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

04-14
36:19

The Commandments: 7 types of men to avoid

Have you ever encountered one of Mr self righteous or Mr Potential? The Cheap Chat gang discuss Stephan Labossiere’s list of the men women should avoid when dating, and unsurprisingly Rume, Nush and Carlotta have all dated more than one. Elsewhere, the gang help one listener who is at wits end with her best mate’s rollercoaster relationship with a guy who won’t commit. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

04-07
36:41

Am I a side chick? Guy with girlfriend says he’s ‘fallen for me’

How do you prevent feelings for someone who is in a relationship? This week Rume, Nush and Carlotta discuss whether it’s ever OK to say ‘I love you’ to a friend who is in a relationship, before calling ‘cheap chat’ on a guy who appears to be stringing a girl along while in a relationship with someone else. Join your dating watchdogs, Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they tell you how to spot relationship red flags and solve your dilemmas. Send us your dilemmas @cheapchatpodcast Follow us: @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

03-31
32:49

Karma calls: ‘Should I confess that I cheated on my BF years ago?

Have you ever thought you got away with something only to find out you didn’t? The Cheap Chat gang are back for a brand new season after long time away from their mics. Rume, Nush and Carlotta reveal what they’ve been up to while they’ve been away before helping one girl decide whether she should come clean about her infidelities in the early stages of her relationship, when her past comes back to haunt her. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

03-24
29:39

New Year's special: 'Situationships need to stay in 2020'

What bad relationship traits need to be left behind in 2020? The Cheap Chat gang dive into your messages as you tell us what you will no longer be tolerating in 2021, for ghosting to situationships. Elsewhere, Rume, Nush and Carlotta predict the dating trends we’ll be seeing more of the in the New Year, as the pandemic shifts the culture of dating but will it be for the better or for the worst? Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

12-30
39:27

Leftovers: ’Why is my ex flirting with my best friend?’

Should you ever date a friends leftovers? The Cheap Chat Gang help one girl who has found herself in a sticky situation after deciding to date her friends ‘leftovers’. Now, after breaking up, he’s now flirting with her best friend again and she’s not sure how to feel about it. Elsewhere, It’s Christmas week and Rume, Nush and Carlotta dive into some of your worst date nightmares after a thread about stingy daters sweeps the internet from splitting the bill at McDonald’s and more. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

12-23
41:32

Past Trauma: 'Why is my ex ruining my new relationships?

How long does it take to grieve a relationship? Influencer, Jada Sezer joins the Cheap Chat gang to discuss why the best relationships are based on friendship as she discusses falling in love with her best mate, and the risk that came with turning a friendship into a long lasting relationship. Elsewhere, Jada helps Rume, Nush and Carlotta with the latest dilemma from a girl who is finding herself unable to move on with new relationships despite being 'over' her toxic ex. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. Send your dilemmas our DM's @cheapchatpodcast on Instagram! We answer every message! Follow us: @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope @Jadasezer

12-16
41:21

Double Tap: 'Why is he following hot girls on Instagram?'

Should you unfollow 'thirst trap' instagram accounts when in a relationship? The Cheap Chat gang discuss the politics of liking and commenting on sexy Instagram pictures before helping one girl decide whether her relationship with the guy she's seeing is displaying red flags after he began following hot girls on social media. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

12-09
35:00

'My ex gave his new girlfriend the gift he bought me'

'Is it ever OK to regift a gift from an ex? Cheap Chat podcast are switching Christmas on early by spreading some festive cheer with Vistaprint. Rume Ugen, Carlotta Constant and Nush Cope share some of your Christmas confessions such as your guilty regifted admissions and your most embarrassing party blunders. Elsewhere, the gang help one girl figure out how to communicate to her new boyfriend that his gaming habit is affecting their relationship. Vistaprint offer personalized and unique products that are perfect for Christmas gifting. Send un-regiftable and memorable photo gifts for your friends, family, or loved ones to make this one a year to remember! Order yours at: http://www.vistaprint.co.uk/cheapchats #MyChristmasConfessions #Ad. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

12-02
36:03

Lovefool: 'Why won't he say I love you?'

When is the right time to say I love you, and would you be offended if you partner hadn't said it back yet? The Cheap Chat gang discuss 'ego love' and how it can affect relationships, before helping one girl decide whether her boyfriend's reluctance to say 'I love you' after nine months is a red flag and whether an ultimatum will make things worse. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

11-25
40:07

Warning signs: I have alarm bells about my new guy

Have you ever felt like you’re dating two personalities? The Cheap Chat gang help one girl figure out whether she should cut ties with her new boyfriend who is nice as pie one day, and a demon the next and whether his rollercoaster emotions are a clear warning sign. Elsewhere, the gang discuss first dates and whether it’s offensive to pick up the bill using a discount voucher. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

11-18
38:03

Past mistakes: ’My ex got a tattoo of my lady garden’

What happens when your past comes back to haunt you? The Cheap Chat gang continue to debate the aftermath of sending nudes before talk turns to sex tapes. After a listener shares a hilarious story about her ex’s tattoo, one host reveals her boyfriend also has an awkward reminder of their ex. Elsewhere, Rume Ugen, Nush Cope and Carlotta Constant try to help a girl decide whether the guy she fell for is worth holding onto now that he’s moved abroad and is seemingly loosing interest. Join the Rume, Nush and Carlotta every Wednesday as they dive into more text messages based on real dilemmas. @cheapchatpodcast @keepitfrank @carlottaconstant @nushcope

11-11
38:13

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