Ghosting In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi discusses the ever elusive dating game - ghosting. Have you ever ghosted someone or been ghosted? After her recent webinar including the topic of ghosting she examines why people ghost, the feeling of rejection after being ghosted and how to treat people how you want to be treated. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
S*xual Body Count In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi discusses peoples opinions on s*xual body count and how you may be perceived by a potential partner if your count is high or low and how this differs between men and women. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Let's Talk About S*x In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi discusses why s*x is still a taboo subject within the British Asian community. She has just started to speak openly about s*x with her friends at 27 years old and she is now realising this is something we should be discussing from a much younger age; especially when it comes to revealing photos, consent and intimacy. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Being Called A "Coconut" In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi shares her own experiences of dating as a British Asian woman and being called a "coconut". Why her experiences differed from her British Asian friends when it came to speaking openly to her parents about where she was going, what she is doing and who she is dating. She also speaks about why she sometimes feels out of the box and confused. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Men Are Trash In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi shares her thoughts on the common notion that she hears all too often; "men are trash". Kimmi explains why you might be one of the many people who paint an entire gender with the same brush. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Who pays on the first date? In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi discusses how 21st century dating, equality and expectations all play a part in who should pay on the first date. The change in roles for males and females over time and how this has effected money and dating. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Partners and race In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi explains why she initially felt she wanted to be with someone from the same culture and why this has changed. Diving in deeper to the topic she questions whether this is something based on evolution, fear or expectation. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
How important are values when you meet someone? In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi discusses the difference between opinions and values. Why our values aligning with our partners will lead to a more successful long term relationship. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Can men & women just be friends? In this episode Kimmi shares her views on the heavily debated topic of whether men and women can just be friends and her thoughts on why boundaries and trust play a big part in mixed gender friendships. Is this something you have struggled with in a relationship? ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
When will you meet the one? In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi explains why that question is more difficult to answer than expected. Why the phrase "Mr right now" is something that she didn't agree with when she was younger, but as she has grown her perception of this has completely changed! ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
How important is attraction? Part 2 In this episode Kimmi gives your feedback on the infamous "spark" and whether males and females think the "spark" occurs at different stages of dating. The link to physical attraction and long term relationships for males and females. Can attraction grow in a relationship? ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Dating Multiple People In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi explains the different factors that play a role in dating multiple people at once and how trust and integrity comes into play. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
Top Tips for Dating Kimmi gives her top tips in dating with a personal experience of a bad first date and learning from these experiences. How a first impression can make or break the first date and a just how important it is to dress you best! To hear the full episode search ‘Chips & Chapati’ on iTunes or Spotify.
Dating outside your race! An oddly controversial topic. From the stigmas around dating outside your race to personal key values, Kimmi talks about her views and experiences dating outside of her race.
Online dating – what do you do if you find it a bit weird talking to someone you’ve never met before? In this episode of Chips & Chapati, Kimmi goes into online dating and why right now is literally the perfect time to online date. To hear the full episode search ‘Chips & Chapati’ on iTunes or Spotify.
Is your 'type' really working for you? Ever meet someone (in Kimmi's words) 'super gorgeous' - and after hearing them speak or a few hours/days (or years *eek*) the attraction kinda just... goes? In this episode, Kimmi dives into attraction. From the different types of attraction to the sheer level of self-sabotage that we're guilty of when dating. Find practical tips on looking beyond the physical when dating. The important things that work when approaching attraction and find people 'outside of your type'. Human attraction would be much more simple if we were all magnets.
In this episode, Kimmi shares her experience with heartbreak. She goes through tips she has on getting through heartbreak, crying, screaming, watching Bollywood films and seasoning potatoes with tears. Hear how Kimmi reminded herself that she 'is the sh*t' stop feeling like sh*t. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.
In our first ever episode, we talk about sex and dating. Covering everything from our controversial 'no sex for 3 months' rule to serial daters and the impact that it has on a long term, serious relationships. ---- Pam & Kimmi are both experienced matchmakers at Grandeur & Love. They build connections based on human interaction and set out to personally understand the deeper psyche of each of our clients.