CockTales: Dirty Discussions

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, the girls are catching up post-Fourth of July with everything from real estate mommas and mansion parties to gun safety and self-care orgasms. Medinah’s planning a Lover Girls Only trip for the girls who are heartbroken but healing, while Kiki recaps her Houston weekend full of crawfish, concerts, and chaos. From vibrator confessions to gun safety courses, the girls reflect on growth, outside energy, and why healing is horny work.Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & VibeLovergirl Trip SurveyCancer WalkVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% offLifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it.CockTales Channel on YouTube📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com todayBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week we’re joined by the gorgeous and hilarious Kelsey Taylor — nurse practitioner, beauty expert, and injector of all things smooth and snatched. We’re talking cheating (yes, emotional cheating counts), dating disasters, and the wild line between insecurity and self-care. Kelsey spills about a man who went full stalker mode, how she got into the beauty industry, and why you absolutely need a licensed pro before letting anyone touch your face. We’re getting into:The difference between Botox and filler (because no, they’re not the same!)Why maintenance is everything — in beauty and relationshipsVaginal health, weird sex stories, and when your man moves in... uninvitedAnd yes, we said it: men are a luxury, not a necessity 💅🏾This is one for the girls, the glam, and the group chat. Hit play and pour up!Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 XO Man Podcast has launched! Watch episodes on @xoneoletv YouTube🎤 Listen anywhere you get your podcasts!🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe🫧 Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off👥  Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/COCKTALES🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:🫧 Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off👥  Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/COCKTALES🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it.CockTales Channel on YouTube📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanGuest: @theinkednp🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com todayBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it’s like to feel truly lonely again. There’s real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there’s a surprise golden shower story. Yes, you read that right. Whether you’re in your healed girl era or still making mistakes for the plot, this one’s for you. Topics Covered:Medinah’s celibacy update & unexpected lonelinessVolunteering with Meals on Wheels & giving backKiki’s XO Man Podcast announcement + favorite upcoming guestsReflections on forever love and generational relationshipsModern dating frustrations and “princess treatment” for men?!When your dress rips during an interview with David BannerTips for summer reading, affordable audiobook apps & library perksWeird Sex Story: A thunderclap headache and an unintentional golden showerCocktail of the Week:🍸 Thirst Trappin’2 oz lime juice1 oz grapefruit juice0.5 oz elderflower liqueur or triple secDash of agaveTajín rim + lime wheel garnishShake with ice, strain over fresh ice in a rocks glass.Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon📺 XO Man Podcast launches Tuesday on audio platforms and Wednesdays on the @xoneoletv YouTube🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it.CockTales Channel on YouTube📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com todayBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

No guest this week, but we dive into birthday betrayals, petty payback, chaotic wax appointments, and why door-opening debates should never happen at the gym. Plus, we’re picking soft launch over sneaky link and maybe, just maybe, planning a little revenge brunch.🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES  for 10% off🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it.CockTales Channel on YouTubeLink to Watch this Episode on YouTube📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com todayBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

(00:00:00) Teaser (00:01:42) Cocktail of the Week- Heaux On the Rocks (00:02:45) Black Hair Woes & Braids (00:16:58) Brooklyn Bedding Code Cocktales (00:19:55) Family & Anxiousness (00:39:20) Vibe Fest in Sedona Aug 24-27 (00:40:33) Join Kiki's Book Club- June "The Nothing Man" (00:42:30) Weird Sex Segment- Sex Myths We Used To Believe (00:52:08) Main Discussion- Young Love (01:08:06) Indecisive Diane (01:08:55) Advice Segment (01:14:59) CockTales Segment We’re back! And this week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions has range, okay? From backshots and braids to funerals and family group pics, we cover it all. Kiki talks about heading to Louisiana a few hours after recording for her grandfather’s funeral and gives an update on the emotional rollercoaster that came with it (yes, grandma got her group photo and yes, it’s on YouTube). Meanwhile, Medinah just took her braids out in the most luxurious way and is deep in her "enjoy and romanticize every moment" era.  We’re talking young love, grown crushes, being a tender-headed Black girl just trying to function, and the ridiculous things we believed about sex back in the day. There’s also a new cocktail recipe (Heaux on the Rocks), a ridiculous listener confession, and of course, a little indecisive date suggestions from Diane.🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it.CockTales Channel on YouTubeLink to Watch this Episode on YouTube🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors:Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get30% off sitewide - We all deserve a good night's rest!📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: June Book of the Month "The Nothing Man" by Catherine Ryan Howard www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com todayBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re grieving, horny, and apparently being touched by trees. Kiki and Medinah catch up on soft launches, Sedona plans, vibrator injuries, and the men sliding into DMs after baptism. Plus, they break down a listener letter involving baby mama drama and what desperation doesn’t look like at 30. 🛒 Sponsors:Get 10% off your order with code COCKTALES here: soakingwet.comLifeRX- Visit LifeRX.md and use code COCKTALES for a special discount on your health journey📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comPurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Topics:Cocktail of the Week: “The Soft Launch”Soft launching vs hard launching relationshipsMedinah’s plans for the Sedona retreat & Issa Rae interviewGetting styled like “Hot Girl Martha Stewart”A vibrator story gone wrongCan a tree spiritually touch you… or was that the wind?Baby mama chaos and what “for better or worse” really meansDealing with DMs post-baptism and setting spiritual boundariesWhy being single over 30 isn’t desperation — it’s discernmentKids with silver teeth, gentle parenting, and who’s gonna take care of us when we’re oldBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, Kiki and Medinah are back in their original studio space catching up on life—both the beautiful and the hard parts. Kiki opens up about the recent passing of her grandfather, sharing intimate, funny, and touching memories that remind us how fleeting life can be. Medinah reflects on her trip to Pittsburgh for Mother's Day and the emotional rollercoaster of spending time with her grandmother, who’s battling dementia. The duo also dives into a trending quote from Marlon Wayans about not marrying because of his mom—and unpack the emotional and generational dynamics around “emotional incest,” legacy, and mother-in-law drama. Plus, why some old-school family values still matter, why fried catfish can cure anything (sorta), and a very necessary PSA on checking in on our elders.🛒 Sponsors:Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comPurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Main Theme: Love, Loss, Legacy & Emotional BoundariesTopics Covered:Returning to their OG studio and why the change of scenery mattersKiki opens up about her grandfather's death and grieving in real timeMedinah shares stories from her emotional Mother’s Day trip to PittsburghNavigating dementia, caretaking, and the humor and heartbreak of family agingMeals on Wheels and the importance of community-based support for seniorsReactions to Marlon Wayans’ post about not marrying to protect his mom’s feelingsDeep dive into emotional incest, in-law boundaries, and generational shifts in family dynamicsNaomi & Ruth as a model for in-law relationshipsLegacy as impact—not just having kidsA peek into Medinah’s “Silver Tooth Children” horror movie concept (yes, really)Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re breaking rules and wind 😅 Kiki and Medinah return to catch up on everything from bizarre fetishes to considering if they might be the toxic one in their love life. Tune in as they unpack Dutch ovens (the kinky kind), gym struggles, cravings, the “What Are We” pressure, and why intimacy without connection just isn’t hitting anymore.🛒 Sponsors: 💊 Try LifeRX for weight loss, hormones, energy and more — use code COCKTALES for $50 off your first month: Try LifeRX by clicking here and use code CocktalesTry Soaking Wet from VBHealth - Use our code for a special discount! www.soakingwet.com USE CODE COCKTALES If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALESand use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club: May Book of the Month "Colliding With Fate" by A.E. Valdez www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.comPurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!⏱️ Timestamps: 0:00 – Welcome Back + Trip Updates 4:00 – Weird Sex Segment: Dutch Oven Gone Wrong 10:30 – Cravings, Workouts & Wellness Woes 17:00 – Kiki’s LifeRX Journey Begins 23:00 – Are YOU the Problem in Your Dating Life? 44:00 – Changing Relationship Rules 55:00 – Sex, Confusion, and Sitting with Feelings 1:03:00 – Emotional Honesty & Hormone Drama 1:10:00 – When Friends Overstep 1:20:00 – Kindness, Boundaries, and Grown Woman ChoicesBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

(00:00:00) Intro Trailer (00:01:14) Turks & Coco Cocktail (00:03:08) Welcome Back (00:06:33) Worst Behavior Tour (00:07:15) Paradise + Vibe Trip (00:11:34) Weird Sex (00:17:03) Brooklyn Bedding Promo (00:22:40) Where Have We Been? (00:56:14) PantyDeal Promo (00:59:10) Girls Trip + Marriage Thoughts (01:08:19) Advice Segment (01:18:12) CockTales Segment Kiki and Medinah are back after a much-needed break and have a lot to catch up on—from barefoot birthday parties in Piedmont Park to wild moments in Curaçao, Chicago, and the club. Kiki shares updates on hosting a TV premiere, her sister’s wedding plans, and a scandalous Shannon Sharpe moment that made its way to “Weird Sex.” Plus, Medinah opens up about her baptism, and the ladies give advice on awkward mama moments and how to level up your Gawk Gawk game.🛏️ Brooklyn Bedding – Get 30% off sitewide with code COCKTALES at brooklynbedding.com💋 PantyDeal – Sign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales.”For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads📲 Instagram: @cocktalespodcast | @kikisaidso | @coffeebeandeanDetailed Show NotesTopics Covered:Taking a much-needed break and grounding at Piedmont Park 🌱Travel recaps: Curaçao group trip, Chicago speaking engagement, and sister’s wedding prep in DallasHosting the Travel Queens TV premiere for BET HerMedinah’s baptism and emotional growthKiki on caregiving and advocating for Black men’s healthShannon Sharpe's scandal and a “Weird Sex” take on race play and discernment 🤨Listener advice: When your man tells your mama y’all exclusive (but forgot to tell you)A gym crush turns into a kinky 8AM hookup (Barbells & Bondage anyone?)Sponsors: Brooklyn Bedding 🛏️ + PantyDeal 💸Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Currently voting on May's BookTravel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this special episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with AID Atlanta to talk all things HIV awareness, testing, and community care. From prevention to treatment to removing the stigma, this episode is packed with information every sexually active adult needs to hear. Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow AID Atlanta @aid_atlantaEpisode Subtitle:Real Talk on HIV, Sex, and Self-Advocacy with AID Atlanta Topics Covered:The difference between HIV and AIDSHow transmission actually happens (spoiler: it's not just through sex)The life-changing impact of PrEP and PEPWhat it means to be undetectable and why U=U mattersBreaking down stigma and misconceptions (especially in Black and brown communities)Resources available at AID Atlanta — from testing and mental health services to support groups and volunteer opportunitiesWhy getting tested regularly should be part of your self-care routineHow community, support, and education can empower people living with HIVA candid sponsor break on Pantydeal — a sex-positive, anonymous, and safe way to make money online while exploring kinksResources & Links:🌐 AID Atlanta Website: aidatlanta.org💬 Georgia HIV/STI Info Line: 1-800-551-2728 (anonymous)📍Free Testing Info: aidatlanta.org/testing📸 Follow AID Atlanta on IG: @aid_atlanta❤️ Support or Volunteer: aidatlanta.org/volunteerSign up for free and take your sales to the next level with 50% off a premium membership for sellers! Claim your discount now at pantydeal.com/cocktales💻 Pantydeal.com/cocktales🎁 Use code COCKTALES to get 50% off a premium membership✅ Keep 100% of your profit | Totally online | Anonymous-friendlyFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian"Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries.Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @tanacgilmoreRight now, Galatea is offering our listeners an extra 25% off on top of analready-irresistibly-affordable subscription when you go to www.GALATEA.COM/COCKTALES.If you’re 21+, try VIIA during their annual SPRING 420 SALE for Black Friday-level savings up to 35% OFF site wide! Go to https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!Check out ErikaLust.com and get 45% off your subscription with code COCKTALES45 www.erikalust.comFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian"Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, Kiki and Medinah sit down with comedian Tee Sanders for a juicy conversation full of laughs, confessions, and a few wild surprises. Tee opens up about her healing journey back to Chicago, her love life as a self-proclaimed "collector of wounds" Gemini, and what really goes down in lesbian dating scenes. From crazy ex stories to high standards for 90s-fine women, they cover it all—including the truth about fake straight girls, air mattress hookups, and the seductive power of R&B playlists. Plus, the ladies play their favorite game I'm Curious to Know, and Tee drops gems about embracing vulnerability and healing past traumas. Pour up a Peach Please and get ready for a good time!Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @teesanderscomedyFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week on CockTales it's just us! We're catching up on life!Try VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodJoin Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah welcome podcast queen Lex P from Pour Minds to sip the “Love Lexpie” and spill all the tea! From Lex P's new YouTube show to her love for entertainment news, the trio keeps it cute and candid. They dive into Love is Blind drama, Real Housewives mess, the power of platform-sharing, and laugh-out-loud confessions during “I’m Curious to Know.” This episode is a hilarious ride filled with gossip, game, and good vibes.Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%offtry Galatea www.galatea.com/cocktalesControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodJoin Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we get real about our 2025 glow-up plans — from fitness and fillers to spiritual sabbaticals and stepping back from dating. We talk walking pads, ClassPass adventures, and the fine art of subtle cosmetic upgrades. Plus, we read a wild cocktale submission featuring nipple clamps, butt plugs, and a short king with a long stroke. Tap in for the laughs, the real talk, and the cherry-flavored vibes.Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%offControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Remember that time when seasickness almost ruined a yacht trip, but you ended up laughing so hard that it became one of your favorite memories? That's how we kick off our latest adventure, as we navigate the vibrant chaos of planning a tropical getaway. We've got everything mapped out, from the bliss of homemade peach cocktails that taste like summer romance to the thrill of exploring new places on ATVs and e-scooters. And let's not forget those culinary experiences, where a Caribbean cooking class awaits, catering to all dietary preferences. Whether you're a thrill-seeker or a foodie, there's enough excitement and relaxation to keep everyone entertained.As the conversation unfolds, we switch gears to discuss the more intimate side of relationships. Inspired by nostalgic hits from Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam, we explore how confidence can transform your love life. We draw insights from Shan Boodram and even share quirky tips on using jewelry to amplify sensual moments. It's all about quality over quantity, and we touch on how different body types can experiment for ultimate satisfaction. This naturally leads to a chat about relationship dynamics, where we dissect the complexities of a 50-50 split and how it evolves as we mature. Whether you're curious about poly matchmaking or just how to balance time and energy in your relationship, there's something here for every listener.Finally, we dive into the whirlwind of upcoming adventures and personal journeys. From fitness challenges that have us reminiscing about youthful vigor to the liberating atmosphere of Hedonism Resort, it's a mix of inspiration and anticipation. Wedding planning woes make an appearance, too, as we tackle guest etiquette and cultural nuances with humor and sincerity. Whether it’s managing the chaos of a Nigerian American wedding or finding a trustworthy pet sitter, we share practical insights to help you navigate these life events with grace. Tune in and join us for a blend of laughter, advice, and heartfelt stories that promise to entertain and enlighten.Download Feeld on the App Store or Google PlayTry VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!Try Masterclass www.masterclass.com/cocktales for 15%offJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we're joined by Relationship Coach Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson. Dr. Stacii opens up about her transition from actress to host of "Put a Ring on It," sharing fascinating anecdotes from her acting days, including roles in "A Thin Line Between Love and Hate" and "How to Be a Player." Get a front-row seat to her personal family stories, where she reveals how her mother's heartbreaking experiences with love shaped her dedication to helping others break free from destructive relationship cycles.In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking generational love patterns and the importance of self-awareness. Through engaging discussions and humorous tales, we explore everything from the humorous pitfalls of dating dynamics to the complexities of gender roles and financial expectations. Whether it's navigating the minefields of gift-giving or setting boundaries in relationships, we offer insights and laughter that resonate with anyone who has ever loved or lost.Finally, we dive into topics often left unexplored, such as ethical considerations in adult content and the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning. Dr. Stacii shares her thoughts on building trust and authenticity in modern relationships, emphasizing the power of self-reflection and personal growth. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire anyone on their own journey of love and self-discovery.Download Feeld on the App Store or Google PlayVisit www.erikalust.com and use code COCKTALES45 for 45% offVisit www.galatea.com/cocktales and use code COCKTALES for 25% off Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google playFollow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow Our guest@justdategirlFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Can technology truly transform the way we navigate modern relationships? This week we're calling on the help of ChatGPT with some different dilemmas, have you tried this?Try Masterclass! Use our link for 15% off any annual membership.  www.masterclass.com/cocktalesDownload Feeld on the App Store or Google PlayJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google playFollow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow Our guest@bossbarbie1https://www.sierraluchien.com/For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week we're joined by Sierra Luchien. She shares her transformative story and insights from her book, "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover." We kick off with a Judge Judy cocktail and dive into judgmental attitudes in dating, setting the stage for a blend of nostalgia and revelation. Boss Barbie takes us on a journey through her childhood, the significance of her name, and the transitions from youthful aspirations to navigating the intricate dynamics of trust and change in adult relationships. Alongside her, Ciara's incredible path from foster care to becoming an advocate for foster children enriches our discussion about the strength and resilience found in life's challenges.Explore the emotional layers of love and partnership through stories of resilience, intimate connections, and the healing power of community. We touch on moments of personal growth and the hurdles of balancing individual healing within committed relationships. Anecdotes of support during challenging times, whether through emotional presence or navigating health crises, highlight the multifaceted nature of love. Discover how Boss Barbie and Ciara turn adversity into empowerment, with Ciara opening foster homes to create nurturing environments for children, inspired by her own journey of finding solace and love in unexpected places.The narrative continues as we discuss the rollercoaster of co-parenting, the emotional intricacies of past relationships, and the significance of trust in partnerships. Personal stories of persistence and self-discovery underscore the importance of finding one's path amidst life's chaos. From navigating complex family dynamics to seeking stability in uncertain times, our conversations emphasize the value of honest communication and fostering hope. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of personal transformations, the power of shared stories, and the lasting impact of building supportive communities.Join Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com Try Feeld by downloading the Feeld app in the app store or Google playFollow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow Our guest@bossbarbie1https://www.sierraluchien.com/For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

What if embracing your sexual desires could transform your life? Join us as we welcome Sir Leezus, a renowned kink expert with over 20 years of experience, who shares his journey of becoming a personal kink advisor, particularly for women seeking to rediscover their sensuality in their late 30s and 40s. Through enlightening anecdotes, Sir Leezus explains how normalizing conversations about kink can liberate individuals from the shackles of societal judgment and unsupportive relationships, encouraging them to explore their true sexual identities in a safe and validating space.Unravel the fascinating dynamics of lifestyle parties and alternative sexual expressions, as Sir Lisa's transports us to genderless gatherings where conventional norms are left at the door. With a candid look at personal preferences, from erotic content creation to BDSM, our discussion explores the art of shibari, the allure of extreme squirt porn, and the societal perceptions surrounding sex toys. Together, we highlight the beauty of communication and compatibility in intimate relationships, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners where they are, understanding boundaries, and celebrating the diversity of human sexual experiences with humor and openness.Finally, embrace the provocative world of foot worship, double penetration tips, and the art of erotic power exchange. Learn how confidence and energy can elevate sensual encounters, with Sir Lisa's providing insights on navigating kinks, setting boundaries, and maintaining professionalism in the sex industry. From the sensory delights of impact play to the nuances of BDSM, our conversation offers a bold exploration of intimacy, inviting listeners to challenge their preconceptions and explore new and adventurous expressions of desire.Lume DeodorantControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code COCKTALES at Lumedeodorant.com ! #lumepod VIIATry VIIA! https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! Check Us OutJoin Kiki In Curacao March 19-23- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Kiki in Negril at Hedo May 21-May 31, 2025 www.worstbehaviortour.comJoin Medinah in Arizona! www.paradiseandvibe.com For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- February's Book- Reel, By Kennedy Ryan https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.