Coffee Talks with Roddy

Awareness is everything!!!When you become present to how you are giving your power away, you have the ability to shift & start calling back in your energy.Tune in to today's Coffee Talks to start taking back your power & cultivating a life you absolutely adore!Available on iTunes, Spotify or YouTubeXo, RoddySupport the show

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Do you keep attracting the same type of person into your life?And wondering WHY you keep attracting the type of person that you don't really want?What if I told you that ONCE you learn the lesson of WHY this keeps happening, your energy will shift & you will start to attract a more aligned type of person into your world.I always say relationships are not about the other person, they are a MIRROR for us to look at ourselves & take responsibility for what we have called in.In order to magnetize an aligned relationship, whether it's in love or friendship, YOU MUST BECOME AN ENERGETIC MATCH!Come explore with me deeper on today's Coffee Talk episode & get some insights into how you can shift your energy & mindset to attract relationships that are deeply fulfilling!!!!XO, RoddyFor the month of September I have a few offerings available for you to explore!I've created a FREEBIE that will help you to start speaking clearly, confidently & authentically in just 20 minutes with my 5 STEP APPROACH-  CLICK HERE!Level up your communication with a crash course in EFFECTIVE communication & learning how to communicate from an authentic place   SPEAK UP!I also am offering a discounted rate for my ENERGY HEALING DEEP DIVE sessions. Usually $222, but for September it's only $88. Support the show

Oh man, triggers are the f*cking worst.AND I know (from too much experience) they can also be the f*cking best!Feeling energetically activated in your body by a trigger is actually a SIGNAL to you!Yes, it feels really uncomfortable to be triggered by a person or experience...It's also an invitation for you to experience LIBERATION from the things that are ultimately weighing you down.In today's coffee talk, I am guiding you through a simple process that will transform the way you respond to life & what comes in your pathway.It's empowering shit y'all!!!XO, RoddyALSO! For the month of September I have a few offerings available for you to explore!**I've created a FREEBIE that will help you to start speaking clearly, confidently & authentically in just 20 minutes with my 5 STEP APPROACH-  CLICK HERE!**Level up your communication with a crash course in EFFECTIVE communication & learning how to communicate from an authentic place   SPEAK UP!**I also am offering a discounted rate for my ENERGY HEALING DEEP DIVE sessions. Usually $222, but for September it's only $88. Support the show

What do you value in your relationships??What do you prioritize as your top three values or beliefs when it comes to your love relationships?Are you currently in a situation where your values are in alignment with your partner?I know these are BIG questions to sit withAnd may even be challenging to answer...So I'll pose this to you- do you think love is ENOUGH to keep you in a relationship that is OUT OF ALIGNMENT?A lot of my clients struggle to connect with their partners because they FELL IN LOVE and let love lead the way, even if they are not compatible or share similar life values.And now they are miserable & frustrated & wishing they had seen the signs that they ignored because of their feelings.It's vital to remember that at any moment, you can shift & change.You can elevate yourself & your partner through truth & taking responsibility for your role.You can liberate one another to create a relationship that lights both of you up, whether you're together or not...that's not the point of relationships.They are not meant to keep you trapped & in suffering.You do not need to compromise or let go of the life & experiences that light your soul on fire for another person.Relationships are the catalyst for you to become the best version of yourself.In today's Coffee Talk episode, I'm exploring these questions I am posing to you.Is love enough?Tune in to find out!!!XO, RoddyALSO! For the month of September I have a few offerings available for you to explore!I've created a FREEBIE that will help you to start speaking clearly, confidently & authentically in just 20 minutes with my 5 STEP APPROACH-  CLICK HERE!Level up your communication with a crash course in EFFECTIVE communication & learning how to communicate from an authentic place - explore  SPEAK UP!I am also offering a discounted rate for my ENERGY HEALING DEEP DIVE sessions. Usually $222, but for September it's only $88. Support the show

Transition is a necessary part of life.Sometimes you initiate the transition & sometimes life just throws it at you.Either way, it can be a very unsettling time shifting from the KNOWN to the UNKNOWN. HOW you move through such an unsettling time will determine how much you suffer or how much joy & magic you experience.I find myself in another transition in life & the Universe is showing me that this is a ripe time to ground down even more into my truth & trusting that this process is for my highest good, no matter how uncomfortable.There are a few practices I have been embodying during this time that have been GAME CHANGERS for how I move through this transition.Tune in to today's Coffee Talks to discover some ways in which you can anchor during your time of transition & stay connected to your magic.Remember, there is SO much gold waiting for you in the unknown & the more you give yourself permission to stay present & open, TRUST that you will come out the other side a more elevated version of yourself.ENJOY!!!*Also, if you want to work together, here are ways we can work together this September:Private 3 month mentorship container (SEND ME A DM TO CHAT DETAILS)Self study through one of my digital courses (CLICK HERE)LOVE YOU!!!Support the show

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Creating closure in your relationships is necessary for healing, but is not something that most of us have been taught.When closure doesn't happen, the loop isn't closed in a connection.  And when the loop is still open, it drains your energy & steals the present from you.Even though it's natural for most connections to end at some point, it can be really challenging to let go if it's not something you wanted to end in the first place.Creating closure not only sets you free, but it creates space for what's meant to come in.Do you feel like you need to create some closure in a relationship that just ended or maybe it ended a long time ago & the loop is still open?What do you think this has cost you?Has it worked for you to not close the door completely?Do you crave closure so you can move forward??Let me show you how!Today's Coffee Talk teaches you how to create closure so you can move the F on & open up space for what's next!XOXO!PS- If you feel like you have been wanting support around HOW to communicate your needs & feeling empowered in your relationships... check out SPEAK UP!  It's a 4-week crash course in effective communication that will literally TRANSFORM your relationships!  CLICK HERE!Support the show

Relationships are about becoming the best version of yourself.They create opportunities for you to give & receive.If you are someone that is a natural giver, most empaths are by the way, it can be very uncomfortable to learn how to receive.On the flip side, if you are someone that is really good at receiving,  you may not really know how to show up & give without expecting anything in return.No matter what side of the fence you're on, the imbalance creates disconnect, frustration & eventually resentment.So how do you create a healthy balance of both the masculine (giving) and the feminine (receiving)?I've got you!Tune in to today's Coffee Talk as I give you a simple way to create balance so you can get back to enjoying all the magic waiting for you in your relationships!!!XOXO,  RoddyPS.  SPEAK UP! is now available for download!  I'm SO excited to bring this offering to you!  This is a digital crash course in effective communication that will transform your relationships!!!  CLICK HERE FOR MORE DETAILSSupport the show

Communication can make or break a connection.It all comes down to your intention & HOW you choose to communicate.Toxic communication, such as being passive aggressive or gaslighting, can be  effective...BUT...can also leave a trail of destruction.Communicating to connect can not only elevate the connection, but create NEW possibilities for what's possible.Tune in to today's Coffee Talk episode to gain insights on how you are showing up & what's a more effective way for you to be heard & get what you want!Support the show

I stopped attaching to the outcome of my relationships and this is what happened...I started to trust myself, instead of bullshit myself.I quickly let go of connections that made me feel like shit.I let people show me who they truly are & not who I (secretly) want them to be.I communicate from a place of authenticity instead of toxic communication like being passive aggressive or not speaking up.Detaching from the outcome of a relationship has been one of the MOST liberating experiences.When a deep connection is felt, we often try to control it & label it & force it into what we want.Not all relationships are meant to be committed or romantic or last forever.Relationships are here to teach us SO much about ourselves & help us grow into the best version of ourselves.And it's our job to be in the PRESENT to soak up all the magic.It's time to let go of HOW things will unfold & the only way to do that is by giving yourself permission to detach & let flow.Tune in to today's Coffee Talks to detect behaviors that indicate it's time for you to detach!XOXO,RoddySupport the show

I went live on my Instagram last week to dive deeper around the question of whether or not you're attached to being asexual.Sexual attraction isn't important to everyone.Some people don't care at all about expressing themselves sexually.And that's OK.What's not OK are those that secretly desire to be connected sexually & claim the identity of being "asexual" because of their circumstances.Being fully expressed in your world, means that ALL things in your life align to your truest self.And if you feel unsure of what you truly desire, how you can shift your narrative to be MORE supportive of what you want to experience?XO, RoddySupport the show

A cheater is NOT always a cheater.More than 50% of men & women cheat in their monogamous, committed relationships.Most people don't talk about it.They carry the secrets, shame & guilt with them hoping they'll never get caught.Here's the thing...Cheating is not the problem.The root source of WHY people cheat is the problem.Tune in today on Coffee Talks if you want to know WHY people hide & cheat & HOW one can elevate themselves out of a situation that seems hopeless.There is ALWAYS magic in the shit y'all! If you feel triggered by this episode or need support in feeling in FULL alignment & authenticity in your relationships, reach out! Find me on IG @theroddymethodSupport the show

Recently I attended my 20-year high school reunion in Minnesota & it was hands down one of the most amazing experiences of my life!!I wanted to share this experience with you on today's Coffee Talks episode because there was so much healing & beauty that blossomed from remembering parts of myself that got lost along the way.Maybe you can relate?Sit back, grab your favorite beverage & get ready to go down memory lane with me!!XO, RoddySupport the show

My mother has been teaching me about universal laws since I was a little girl.Anytime I would try to fight against the law or try to ignore it, I would feel frustrated & trapped.Learning to live in accordance with the universal laws, I've learned will bring you a happier & more fulfilled life. You’ll find less struggle & way more flow. You’ll find more certainty & less confusion. And you’ll feel supported by the Universe as you let these laws help you navigate through your life’s journey.Today's Coffee Talks, I explore seven of the universal laws & how you can use them to your favor!!!Enjoy!Support the show

Self-sabotage kills your vibe.It drains your energy-It takes your focus away from what you really want to be present to-And it creates A LOT of unnecessary suffering  in your life & those close to you.I know self-sabotage is normalized.EVERYONE self-sabotages in their life.But not everyone stays stuck in the loop of such destructive behavior.Wanna know why?Those that ELIMINATE self-sabotage in their life, are able to do so because they notice the pattern, realize what it's costing them & they take UNCOMFORTABLE action to change.Yes it's uncomfortable af, but it is 1000% WORTH IT to make such destructive behavior a non-negotiable if your life!Tune in on Coffee Talks today as I give you signs of how you may be sabotaging your success & blessings from the Universe!XOXO, RoddySupport the show

Embodiment is the practice of taking knowledge & ideas & epiphanies & transmuting them into a way of being that feels supportive to you.It's a simple practice that gets lost when we don't take the time to INTEGRATE what we are learning from all the self-development.On today's Coffee Talks episode,  I am sharing with you HOW to be fully embodied in your life & what it looks like to...Slow down & let all the wisdom soak in...Give space for you to practice what you're learning...have a shit ton of compassion as you are trying out new behaviors & beliefs & boundaries.Being fully embodied in my truth has set me free in ways I didn't know were possible!My hope is that you too can tap into YOUR fullest embodied self & start living with SO much alignment & flow.Support the show