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Time to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together.
As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice.
Each week, the duo will dive into the real, raw, and often unspoken realities of blending parenting, business, and love — all while keeping it real. With their signature honesty, wit, and easygoing vibe, they’re baring it all. Whether they’re talking business wins, how to keep the spark alive after nearly 15 years, or just the chaos of everyday life, no topic is off-limits.
Tune in every Monday for the real secret behind what it really takes to Come Together.
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As you get older and "life starts life-ing," you might notice your friendships starting to change. And that's what we dive into this week: times when we've grown in a different direction than our friends, how we started getting more selective about our inner circle, and how we've let go of the guilt that can come with changing friendships in adulthood.We also talk about clingy friends Abe had when he was dating Erin (which of course, Erin warned him about!), differences between guy and girl friendships, and the friends we rely on to watch our kids without worrying about whether they'll keep them alive.And finding couple friends that both of us actually like? We get into that too.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Everyone wants to know how to keep things spicy... and pretending there one at all might actually be the problem.This week we get into what's worked for us — the '1-10 Rule' that that has genuinely saved us from so many stupid fights, why a little distance and independent interests can do more for attraction than any date night, and the story of how Erin told Abe to quit corporate law. (Spoiler: He did. We don't regret it.)We also talk prenups (which is less dramatic than it sounds), non-negotiable date nights when you have small kids, and what to actually do with the two hours after bedtime.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We thought Levi was doing face yoga. Actually? He was looks-maxing. And turns out he's not the only one.We found out there's a whole subculture here — soft maxing, hard maxing, bone smashing, clip farms, and a guy named Clavicular who ODed on a live stream. We had to look up half of these words in real time. Abe knew more than he should... like usual.We get into the bigger generational conversation, disagree about some of it, and somehow end up at dumpling hunting and no-phone clubs. Classic us.Soft maxing is fine by the way. It's just face yoga. The rest of it, well, we'll let you decide.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We have loooooots to catch up on. Being married in public is its own thing entirely, and this week we're getting into all of it.We go there on the Summer House drama and the Taylor Frankie Paul situation, and we have thoughts. A lot of them. What happens when you do something very high school while the whole internet is watching, why people feel entitled to your everything once you're a public person, and where the line actually is between what audiences are owed and what's still yours to keep.If your marriage can survive reality TV, it can probably survive anything.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Lindsey Metselaar has been in our lives since before she had a following, a husband, or a sleep schedule. Now she has all three, plus a 2.5-month-old. We reminisce about our extremely unproductive work era together, and then somehow spend the next hour covering postpartum bodies, C-sections, cosmetic work, the filler rabbit hole, sobriety, and why today's weed is genuinely not the same conversation it was fifteen years ago.Abe makes his case against the filler rabbit hole. Lindsay makes her case for a "beauty broker." We cover the NICU, postpartum resentment, and why watching your husband handle a toddler and a newborn at the same time is, apparently, very attractive.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We’re officially making sex a recurring topic because clearly, no one’s saying what’s actually happening. We get into the so-called “sex recession,” why Gen Z might be having less sex than anyone expected, and how phones, gaming, and living at home are quietly changing the whole dynamic. Then it turns into a very real debate about one-night stands, sleepover etiquette (or lack thereof), and what actually flies vs. what absolutely does not.And then we get honest about marriage. Kids, routines, exhaustion — all of it — and how that actually impacts your sex life. We talk about the whole “twice a week” narrative, why it feels a little fake, and what matters more than just checking a box.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We get into Love Story, the JFK Jr. casting (including the lisp debate), and why the whole thing feels like peak ’90s New York. From there, it turns into a bigger convo about dating before phones, why relationships feel harder now, and the myth of the forever honeymoon phase.We also talk about how social media has completely warped expectations — and why reality TV might actually be the most honest thing left.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week we sit down with Vienna Pharon – couples therapist, boundary queen, and someone who will lovingly call you out (spoiler: she definitely did for us). We talk about how the stories we tell ourselves about childhood (“it didn’t affect me”) usually… did, and how those early dynamics show up in our marriages, our nervous systems, and the way we fight. Vienna breaks down her five “origin wounds” — worthiness, belonging, prioritization, trust, and safety — and why conflict isn’t the problem, it’s what happens after that matters.We get into real-life examples from our own relationship (including an early Ultra Music Festival spiral), how to regulate instead of react, and why modeling repair is one of the greatest gifts you can give your kids.Get More Vienna@mindfulmftWork with ViennaGet More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week we sit down with Captain Jason — yes, that Captain Jason — and talk about what life actually looks like off the yacht. From filming six weeks straight on Below Deck (with basically no sleep) to building a villa in Bali, launching a gender-neutral fragrance, and structuring his entire career around being present for his daughter, there’s a lot more depth than the slow-mo beach shots suggest. We get into production realities, environmental work in Indonesia, dating while nomadic (and not getting into Raya), and why he skipped drinking at BravoCon. It’s equal parts charming, grounded, and unexpectedly thoughtful — with a little chivalry discourse for good measure.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Season two, baby.In this episode, we kick off the new season by looking back at what we learned from season one — and then get into what everyone actually wants to talk about: how to make a relationship last. We break down “the spark,” why it’s overrated if you don’t build something underneath it, how to fight without blowing everything up, and what spontaneity really looks like once you have kids, careers, and responsibilities. We talk celebrity longevity, friends dating in their thirties, and the different phases of marriage — from early heat to that third chapter where the kids are older and you actually get to like each other again.It’s honest, a little blunt, and very much about playing the long game.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we cover a very glamorous mix of topics: Erin's back injury, why Dry January is a scam (sorry), and the rise of Analog January—aka putting your phone down and remembering how to be a person. We talk about the chokehold screens have on adults and kids, what parenting looks like in a world of Roblox and endless content, and why boredom might actually be a good thing.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe sits down with Max Cohen, better known as Murray Hill Boy. Max talks about walking away from a legal career at 25, accidentally finding success on TikTok, and why growing up Jewish in New York gave him endless material. They get into what it’s actually like to build a following online, the not-so-fun parts of visibility, and being a gay guy in mostly straight friend circles without turning it into a “thing.” It’s funny, self-aware, and refreshingly honest about the work behind a career that looks effortless from the outside.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we sit down with Rachel and Jordan — entrepreneur parents, investors, and the brains behind of your kids’ favorite snacks – cadootz!. We talk about what it’s really like to build multiple businesses while raising a family, feeding kids real food, and working together without losing your minds (or your marriage). They share how their insistence on real ingredients shaped their brands, what’s coming next in their product line, and how they handle conflict, communication, and carving out actual quality time.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe sits down with Jade Shanker from Netflix’s Owning Manhattan for a real, behind-the-scenes conversation. Jade opens up about breaking into NYC real estate, what it was really like being cast on the show, and the competitive dynamics inside the office once the cameras were rolling. She also gets personal about navigating a separation in the public eye, handling scrutiny, and finding her footing while everything was playing out on screen. The conversation touches on ambition, spirituality, and what’s next for Jade as she builds beyond reality TV — because in New York, nothing ever slows down for long.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Erin's answering all your questions — nothing off limits. She gets into her favorite furniture and home décor sources (and why she's constantly designing my own pieces), baby essentials she actually uses, and the renovation chaos currently happening in the Lichy house. I also cover BravoCon, Australia plans, beauty routines, pregnancy cravings, and what it’s really like having cameras in your home. From interiors and fashion to family, friendships, and real-life logistics, it’s a full catch-up.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe teams up with fellow Househusband John Barlow to shake things up behind the bar. Between laughs, they talk reality TV fame, business hustle, and what really goes down when cameras stop rolling. The convo naturally drifts into the spirits world — from agave aging to distribution headaches — before wrapping with some solid advice on staying grounded, supportive, and (mostly) sober through the chaos of reality TV.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe's chatting with Dr. Amanda Kahn — the longevity queen who basically makes aging feel… optional. We get into why longevity is the new luxury, what’s actually happening at the cellular level, and how things like NAD, peptides, and hormones can make a real difference. We also talk stress, pollution, diet, and why waiting until something’s wrong to deal with your health is the worst strategy. Dr. Kahn breaks everything down in a way that actually makes sense, and we get real about what it looks like to stay healthy, energized, and feeling good as we get older. It’s smart, it’s approachable, and honestly — it’ll make you want to book a blood panel.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we’re talking about the glow-up that comes after your twenties—the new wave of people in their 30s, 40s, and 50s getting into the best shape of their lives. We dig into how the conversation around health and fitness has evolved, and of course, debate the age-old question: is it really about diet, or is it all in the workout? Later, we switch gears with a Vogue-style rapid-fire round where we spill everything from our biggest weaknesses to our best life advice. We wrap with some thoughts on ambition, reinvention, and how even in a world run by AI, there’s still no substitute for hustle and heart.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, we’re talking about the new rules of love — because apparently, having a boyfriend is now uncool. Inspired by a recent Vogue piece, we get into how younger generations are redefining relationships, independence, and what “commitment” even means anymore. We also touch on the weird rise of AI romance (yes, people are actually dating chatbots) and what that says about connection in the digital age. It’s a real look at how social media, tech, and “self-empowerment” culture have changed the way we love, date, and relate — and whether that’s actually progress or just another trend we’ll outgrow.Get More Erin + AbePRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week, Abe reunites with his best friend, Preston Konrad, for a catch-up that’s part Miami flashback, part business masterclass. They swap stories from Art Basel, debate city life versus vacation-home dreams, and dig into Preston’s latest ventures—his luxury home-fragrance line and the new Preston Lane Home Collection. They talk about finding the right business partner, learning when to let smarter people lead, and what it really takes to build something from scratch. It’s equal parts personal, practical, and a little bougie — just the way we like it.Get More Erin + AbeORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE!@cometogetherpod@erindanalichy@abe.lichyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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