Confessions of a Single Guy

Thoughts on life after separation and being single at 40.

Warning Signs + HIMYM

The signs that in hindsight, told me my marriage was over. Plus fan theories re: How I Met Your Mother.

03-29
25:53

Guilt and Moving On

Discussing guilt and how to internalize and move past it. Plus thoughts on Yellowstone. 

03-23
24:24

Hate and Love Plus an Ode to My Team

Thoughts on saying goodbye to complicated relationships and how to manage the outcomes. Plus thoughts on the Chiefs :). 

02-24
23:05

Why I Keep Analyzing the Past + Family Time

Why I keep revisiting my past relationships + creating a different experience with loved ones

01-12
25:20

Why I Hate the Holidays + Harry/Meghan

Thoughts on my hatred for the holidays and why Meghan is the new Dr. Evil

12-17
27:12

Random Musings in Effort and Relationship Pain

Why maybe you didn’t try that hard + thoughts on why it can hurt more the second time around. Plus my Orlando trip. 

12-08
24:46

Maybe Your Playbook is Broken + Alternate Realities

Why we may not have the right strategy or even approach to finding a partner after a breakup + maybe all roads create the same amount of happiness.

11-21
24:45

Quiet Quitting + Guy Red Flags + Halloween

Thoughts on quiet quitting relationships, why some red flags for guys aren’t really red flags (and some are!) + thoughts on Halloween.  

10-30
26:21

Compromising, Loneliness, and Patience

Why it’s harder to compromise when your older, how loneliness is way worse at 41 vs. 21, and playing the relationship long game.

10-28
24:58

Monogamy, Jealousy, and Injuries

Thoughts on monogamy in the new dating world, why jealousy never made sense to me and how injuries are helping me realize my age. 

10-04
26:24

Are You A Relationship Person + Cobra Kai

Thoughts on relationships and why they may or may not sense. Plus Cobra Kai is getting old. 

09-27
27:06

Dispelling Myths + My Amazing Family

Thoughts on key myths in relationships + how watching my family rally together has been super inspiring. 

09-19
26:27

Don’t Give Up on People + Invest the Time

Discussions around why we may have to let go of relationships but we don’t have to give up on people. Plus thoughts on why you have to invest the time in relationships. Finally, how friend groups change for us. 

09-16
28:25

No People Aren't That Lucky + Friends With Your Ex + Thoughts On Furniture Shopping

Today's podcast dives into why it's time to stop with the hate on "lucky people" because they probably created their own luck;  whether you should you be friends with your ex; and finally, how revealing furniture shopping can be for some of us. 

09-05
29:20

People Want to Get Caught + Like vs. Love + Thx Mom

When people are trying to get caught and why + do you like more people than you love? Finally, why my mom made me a better dad. 

09-01
33:31

Soulmates, Signs It’s Over + Indian Matchmaker!

Why soulmates don’t exist, what are the signs the relationship has hit the skids,  and thoughts on why I love Indian Matchmaker.

08-18
24:28

Love vs. Lust + Certain Races Treat Women Worse + Water Parks

Thoughts on why experience can help in relationships more than we would expect, why certain races are doomed to treat women poorly and how water parks showed me how old I am. 

08-10
22:11

When to Share Sexuality + “Blame Game”

Thoughts on what level of disclosure is required before a date + thoughts on who to blame when things go wrong in life. Finally, short discussion on my happiest moments.

08-04
26:27

Why We Don’t Really Need Advice + Money vs. Love

Why we usually know the answers to our problems without the consult of others + should you marry for love or money? Finally, thoughts on fast food creativity. 

08-01
25:06

Yes, Race/Backgrounds Matter + The Beautiful Authenticity of Children

Why race and socioeconomic background matter more than many of us think + why I love how honest kids are (even at my expense!).

07-30
25:04

Recommend Channels