I have been so in tune with my finances ever since I started obtaining all the knowledge from these 3 shows. I can honestly say that I believe my financial future is brighter because of the literacy I am developing. Mixing all of these creators is a great balance so I can pick and choose which advice is most attributable to my current life or the life I desire. Ever since I started focusing on this type of content, I have just been more confident in where my money goes and I am excited about the things to come!
I have been running around for the last two weeks to pull this whole thing off and in honor of my first official night in El Paso, I wanted to put this episode out. I must say that I have been looking forward to being out here ever since I made the decision that I was coming. Not necessarily because of what IS out here but mainly because of what ISN'T. I am so ready to laser my focus on my own personal growth and I can't wait to see what comes of this!
I have been missing my therapist for so long now that I am finally ready to return in general so I can get back to talking about the things that frustrate me before I boil over. I advocate for everyone to at least try therapy for a few sessions so you can get a feel for it, you may not burst into tears the first time or at all, everyone is different. I think by the third session or so you start to feel more comfortable with the concept and your therapist specifically so keep an open mind!
Feels good to be back on the mic again, I truly had a message on my mind and heart that I couldn't wait to share with anyone who would listen. Life has felt so seamless lately and I am overwhelmed with gratitude for every major and minor event that has taken place in the past few weeks. The things I have written about in my journal over the past few months are finally coming into fruition and I am ready to step into the version of me that has all of the things I have envisioned and more. I apologize for my long absence but appreciate that yall show me grace while also pushing me to keep showing up. Even if you didn't reach out asking about more episodes, I appreciate you for even listening. This means more to me than words can ever explain, happy to be back...AGAIN! Stay tuned for more episodes! Watch full episode on youtube: https://youtu.be/GukIBcR2nUs
I haven’t been so overcome with emotions in quite a while and I think I was long overdue for a moment of deep, focused gratitude. When I look back at all the things I’ve overcome to be in the position that I’m in, I can’t help but tear up. Gratitude is truly a tool to be put to use every single day. A positive mental attitude is rooted in the feeling of true greatfulness. It doesn’t really matter WHAT you believe in but find some thing that you can cling to when it seems like life is beating you down.
I truly had to take a step back, reflect on the unexpectedness of my last 48 hours and realize I could’ve handled the situation better. No one ever knows what life is going to throw at them so your ability to “roll with the punches” will determine how long anything will throw you off before you get back on track. This was a lesson for myself and I’m glad I could share it with you, enjoy!
In every aspect of your life you should be aware of the things that you’re allowing to affect you in a positive or negative way. When it comes to the people you surround yourself with, shows you watch and music you listen to there should be a known threshold of what is acceptable. Setting boundaries for certain things can allow you to completely avoid negative situations and things that may hold you back in the future.
The reality is, everyone wants to feel like they matter in this world and have a purpose to serve during their lifetime. You probably want to feel important too, I know I do, and that’s the main reason you should always treat people how YOU want to be treated. You’d be surprised how far a small bit of appreciation can go.
Proper planning prevent poor performance and the best way to feel successful on a daily basis is to plan for it! Simple things can be added into your current routine that will set you up for more productivity, efficiency and ease. Personally, I look forward to my morning and night time power hour sessions that allow me to get clarity on my day with no distractions, soon you will too!
If you’re going to bet on anyone in this life, bet on yourself, even if no one else does. The power to change your life is in the words you speak to your self on a daily basis whether you’re aware of it or not. Your mind will go to work for you once you decide that you are capable of improving yourself! Believe in yourself first and everyone else will follow.
Some things are truly better left unsaid and your goals would be one of those things. I am definitely guilty of getting overly excited about my plans then asking advice from the wrong person. Don’t allow someone else to cast doubt upon your vision, your accomplishments should be for you to believe in and enjoy. You don’t need anyone else to co-sign on your dreams.
TAKE THE FIRST STEP!!! You are given a vision for your life for a reason and the best thing you can do for your own happiness is being to move in the direction of what you’re truly passionate about. Create your own luck, soon things will fall in place to assist with the completion of your overall goal. Start now. Take action.
When emotions are high people truly throw caution to the wind and have to suffer the consequences of their actions after the fact. Everyone’s emotions are valid but before you go into a rage about something that happened to you, think about possible repercussions. Having emotional control is truly so so powerful and can save you from situations you never needed to be in.
Now listen, I am an avid goal setter too but I simultaneously realize the effect of being able to instead decide the character traits of my best self and begin to show up as her. It’s so crazy how little changes can compound to put you in a different place mentally, spiritually and physically. I truly love to think about how my future self acts and the things she does so I can make her appear ever quicker.
The best thing about expressing gratitude is that you can start small and you can start now. Every day you should challenge yourself to find a minimum of 3 things in your life that you are grateful for whether it’s a physical attribute, relationship or possession. Having awareness is the first step to welcoming more gratitude into your heart and getting more out of life
Never underestimate the power of a friendly smile, firm handshake and kind greeting! It could be so simple to form new relationships with individuals with whom you have a common interest. Developing the skill of expanding your network regularly can truly put you in conversations that you never expected to be in, with individuals you never imagined would know you, receiving opportunities that will change your life forever.
It’s so crazy how people can be your biggest fan one day and then your number one hater the next! I learn more and more every day that the internet is not made for the faint of heart whatsoever and it’s not the place for someone who struggles with a sense of self.
Responsibility can be a beautiful thing in the hands of one who is ready to accept it. I realize more and more as i age that I am exactly where I am because of ME! Not because of where I was raised, the car I drive, who my parents are, or anything like that. Taking full responsibility for the life you have, whether you’re satisfied with it or not, is truly powerful and can unlock so much potential for your future.
As a former “perfectionist” this is a reality that I had to quickly come to terms with if I wanted to actually change my habit of procrastinating the things I actually cared about. Sometimes you don’t have everything you need in order to start but that’s okay, just start. Everything you need will come when it’s time but if you’re always waiting for the absolute best opportunity to start your business, pursue your passion or any other life changing thing…it will never come.
Of course I’m very new to the “influencing” space so maybe some may think I’m speaking out of turn. However, I have seen this topic on my Tik Tok FYP numerous times and it really got me thinking about if people were seriously trying to downplay the idea of being a full time influencer. Lets be real, getting paid to make videos on social media is a steal I don’t care what anyone says. I think everyone should at least have the opportunity to see if it could possibly be for them.