Summary In this special episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi McVee and Cheyenne Carter discuss the critical issues surrounding child safety in early childhood education. They explore Chey's journey in the field, the impact of COVID on childcare quality, and the importance of transparency and communication between parents and childcare providers. The conversation delves into the dynamics of grooming and abuse, the psychological aspects of offenders, and the need for better training and support for educators. Parents are encouraged to be vigilant and proactive in ensuring their children's safety, while also understanding the systemic challenges faced by educators. The episode concludes with actionable steps for parents to take in assessing childcare environments and reporting concerns. Takeaways Child safety must be prioritised in childcare settings. COVID has exacerbated challenges in early childhood education. Grooming behaviours are often subtle and manipulative. Parents should be proactive in asking questions about childcare. Transparency from childcare providers is crucial for trust. Staff ratios and breaks are essential for child safety. CCTV can assist but is not a comprehensive solution. Legislative gaps exist in childcare safety regulations. Understanding offender psychology can help in prevention. Parents should feel empowered to report concerns. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Child Safety Concerns 02:28 - Chey's Journey in Early Childhood Education 04:25 - Consulting for Better Standards in Education 06:18 - The Importance of Child Safety in Education 07:39 - Kristi's Background in Child Protection 11:19 - Understanding Grooming Behaviours 12:02 - Identifying Patterns Among Offenders 12:28 - The Role of Grooming in Abuse 14:31 - Creating Safe Relationships in Childcare 19:15 - Staffing Ratios and Child Safety 22:01 - The Role of CCTV in Child Safety 23:35 - Legislation and Child Safety Measures 26:23 - Working with Children's Checks and Their Limitations 29:14 - The Psychology of Offenders and Child Safety 31:28 - The Impact of Early Exposure to Inappropriate Content 34:55 - Understanding Different Types of Offenders 36:24 - Ensuring Child Safety in Educational Settings 38:51 - Parental Vigilance and Transparency in Childcare 41:47 - Navigating Compliance and Regulatory Standards 45:15 - The Importance of Consistency in Regulatory Practices 49:37 - Empowering Parents and Educators to Report Concerns 52:40 - Advocating for Better Support for Educators 01:00:19 - Episode Close & Follow-Up Information For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at To learn more and connect with Chey please head to https://www.divergented.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/cheyannecarter/?originalSubdomain=au
Episode Summary: In this heartfelt conversation, Kristi McVee and Jeanie Dean discuss Jeanie's journey from being a survivor of childhood sexual abuse to becoming an advocate for child safeguarding. They explore the challenges of coping with trauma, the impact of addiction, and the importance of supportive relationships. Jeanie shares her experiences working with sex offenders and in child protection, emphasising the need to see the person behind the behaviour. The conversation also touches on parenting through trauma and the struggle to break cycles of abuse, ultimately highlighting the journey of self-discovery and healing. In this conversation, Jeanie and Kristi delve into the complexities of child protection, discussing systemic failures, personal trauma, and the importance of creating safe environments for children. They emphasise the role of organisations and parents in safeguarding children, the need for open communication, and the community's responsibility in ensuring child safety. The discussion highlights the challenges faced by professionals in the field and the necessity for proactive measures to protect vulnerable individuals. Key Takeaways: Jeanie is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and family violence. Coping mechanisms often lead to unhealthy behaviours, such as drug use. Arrest can serve as a turning point for change and self-reflection. Supportive relationships can be life-saving and transformative. Parenting through trauma requires awareness and intentionality to break cycles. Understanding child safeguarding is crucial for protecting vulnerable individuals. Working with sex offenders requires separating the person from their behaviour. Therapy and self-discovery are essential for healing from trauma. Labels like 'victim' can be triggering and limiting for survivors. Personal growth involves accepting oneself without needing a title. Systemic failures in child protection lead to repeated trauma. Personal experiences shape professional choices in child welfare. Creating child safe environments is essential for community organisations. Organisations must understand their legal duties regarding child safety. Parents should actively inquire about child safety policies in organisations. Older children face unique risks that require vigilant supervision. Open communication is crucial for safeguarding children. Community responsibility is vital in creating safe environments for kids. Education and awareness are key for parents in safeguarding their children. Child safety policies must be actively lived and enforced within organisations. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Personal Challenges05:28 - Coping Mechanisms and Consequences09:17 - Turning Point: Arrest and Realisations12:33 - Building a Life Together17:30 - Breaking Cycles: Parenting and Self-Reflection21:50 - Navigating Parenting Challenges26:18 - Career Path: From Personal Struggles to Professional Advocacy30:23 - The Complexity of Working with Offenders34:01 - Navigating Personal Bias in Professional Roles38:05 - The Challenges of Child Protection43:17 - The Systemic Failures in Child Safety48:10 - Creating Safe Environments for Children56:51 - Trust and Disillusionment in Public Service57:51 - Bridging the Gap in Public Service58:42 - The Reality of Child Protection Work01:00:57 - Navigating the Justice System for Children01:02:29 - Expectations for Child Safety in Organisations01:04:26 - Empowering Parents for Child Safety01:06:21 - Understanding Risks for Older Children01:08:05 - Meeting Children Where They Are01:10:13 - Creating Safe Spaces for Disclosure01:12:21 - Safeguarding Starts at Home01:14:03 - Community Responsibility in Child Safety01:15:47 - Policies and Culture in Organisations01:17:34 - Observing Organisational Culture01:19:43 - Intergenerational Culture in Sports01:22:02 - Accountability in Child Safety01:23:57 - The Importance of Compliance01:26:31 - The Role of Safeguarding Solutions01:27:42 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/GGJWDiFTm9Y To learn more and connect with Jeanie please head to https://safeguardingsolutions.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/jeanie-dean-90a46483
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kerri Sloper shares her journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and her mission to empower children and parents through her children's books. Kerri discusses the healing power of music and writing, the importance of speaking out, and the role of parents in preventing abuse. She emphasises the need for open communication about good and bad touching and how her books serve as tools for healing and understanding. The conversation highlights the significance of breaking the cycle of abuse and fostering a safe environment for children. Key Takeaways: Kerri Sloper is a musician and author who writes children's books about her experiences with childhood sexual abuse. Her books aim to help both children and adult survivors relate to their experiences and find healing. Music and writing have been crucial coping strategies for Kerri throughout her healing journey. Kerri emphasises the importance of speaking out about abuse to help others heal. She believes that forgiveness is an internal journey that does not require forgiving the abuser. Kerri's books are designed to be relatable for children and to help them understand their feelings about abuse. Parents play a vital role in preventing abuse by trusting their instincts and believing their children. Teaching children about good touching and bad touching is essential for their safety. Kerri's mission is to break the cycle of abuse and empower future generations. The conversation highlights the importance of open communication between parents and children about sensitive topics. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Kerri Sloper and Her Journey03:06 - The Healing Power of Storytelling05:44 - Navigating the Impact of Childhood Trauma08:50 - Understanding the Complexity of Belief and Truth11:42 - The Role of Forgiveness in Healing14:57 - The Journey of Writing and Sharing Her Story17:41 - Breaking the Cycle of Abuse20:32 - The Importance of Internal Healing23:20 - The Process of Writing and Publishing Books24:24 - The Journey of Writing and Inspiration26:01 - Understanding the Target Audience for Children's Books28:48 - Exploring Themes of Healing and Resilience30:28 - The Importance of Forgiveness in Healing32:32 - Navigating the Complexities of Disclosure35:42 - The Role of Art in Healing38:15 - Spreading Awareness and Reducing Stigma40:17 - Empowering Parents to Protect Their Children For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/O12JXIWLDDw To purchase Kerri's books please head to https://www.amazon.com.au/s?i=books-single-index&rh=p_27%3AKerri%2B%2BJ%2BSloper&s=relevancerank&text=Kerri++J+Sloper&ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1 and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/kerri-sloper-a56420253
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi we catch up with Susan Dunlop, Susan discusses her journey through self-development, the challenges of family dynamics, and her understanding of avoidance in personal growth. She reflects on her childhood experiences and the conscious choices she has made to improve her relationships and emotional well-being. Key Takeaways: Self-development requires conscious practice and effort. Family dynamics can significantly impact personal growth. Avoidance can hinder emotional connections and relationships. Recognising patterns from childhood is crucial for healing. It's important to make conscious choices in relationships. Personal growth often involves confronting difficult emotions. Therapy can provide valuable insights into personal behaviour. Breaking free from past patterns is a liberating experience. Emotional well-being is a continuous journey. Connection with others is essential for personal development. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Child Development and Healing03:46 - Understanding Abuse and Its Impact on Development06:46 - The Connection Between Childhood Trauma and Adulthood09:38 - The Drama Triangle: Roles in Trauma Responses12:35 - Parenting and Communication: Breaking the Cycle17:40 - Conscious Choices: Moving Beyond the Drama Triangle23:04 - Emotional Healing: Feeling to Heal26:00 - Understanding the Drama Triangle28:16 - The Impact of Childhood Experiences30:53 - Empowering Future Generations33:30 - The Ripple Effect of Change36:07 - Finding Your Voice and Healing41:05 - Rediscovering Leadership Through Trauma42:34 - The Impact of Sibling Sexual Abuse44:49 - Starting Conversations on Abuse46:13 - Understanding the Complexity of Abuse48:09 - Navigating Historical Cases of Abuse51:34 - Being a Supportive Listener53:42 - The Importance of Trauma-Informed Leadership55:48 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/hWvGKx-e8vg To learn more and connect with Susan please head to https://susandunlop.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/susan-dunlop-641526142
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, I speak with Diane Tarantini, a body safety educator and author, about the critical importance of conversations surrounding child safety and trauma. We discuss Diane's personal journey as a survivor of childhood abuse, the significance of body safety education, and the alarming statistics regarding child sexual abuse. The conversation emphasises the need for open discussions about difficult topics, the impact of pornography on youth, and the role of therapy in healing. Diane shares valuable tips for parents on how to create safe spaces for their children to talk about their experiences and feelings, highlighting the importance of consistent communication and education in preventing abuse. Key Takeaways: Every conversation about child safety is vital. Survivors often hide their trauma until they can't anymore. Body safety education is crucial for children. Conversations about difficult topics should start early. Statistics show a high prevalence of child sexual abuse. Peer-to-peer abuse is a growing concern. Education on consent and safe touch is essential. The impact of pornography on youth is significant. Therapy can be a powerful tool for healing. Writing can help survivors process their experiences. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Connection Across Borders02:09 - Diane's Journey: From Survivor to Educator06:22 - The Importance of Open Conversations06:58 - Statistics and Disclosure of Childhood Trauma10:40 - Understanding Peer-to-Peer Abuse14:24 - The Role of Pornography in Child Abuse18:29 - The Impact of Unsupervised Internet Access22:55 - Consequences of Misguided Sexual Education27:20 - Navigating Parenting in a Complex World27:49 - Understanding Body Safety and Consent30:03 - The Dynamics of Grooming and Peer-to-Peer Abuse32:54 - The Impact of Family Dynamics on Abuse35:56 - The Role of Parents in Recognising Abuse38:54 - The Complexity of Emotional and Physical Abuse41:48 - The Journey to Therapy and Healing46:02 - The Role of Trauma in Parenting50:35 - Exploring EMDR Therapy for Trauma Recovery56:11 - Healing from Trauma: The Power of Memory Work59:36 - Understanding Complex Trauma and Its Effects01:02:03 - Empowering Children: Body Safety Education01:06:05 - Fostering Open Conversations with Kids01:12:17 - Navigating Difficult Topics: Communication Strategies01:15:33 - The Journey of Writing and Sharing Stories For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/MboNI4FsHAY To learn more and connect with Diane please head to https://dianetarantini.com/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/diane-tarantini-b883938a
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we catch up with Nikki Butler to discuss the importance of teaching protective behaviours to children and instilling a sense of hope for parents who may feel they have missed opportunities in their children's upbringing. She discusses the significance of recognising non-verbal cues and behaviours that indicate harm, and encourages parents to forgive themselves for past mistakes, highlighting that it is never too late to start making positive changes in their parenting approach. Key Takeaways: It's never too late to start teaching protective behaviours. Parents should forgive themselves for past parenting mistakes. Recognising nonverbal cues is crucial in understanding children. There are ways to work with young people effectively. Hope is an essential element in parenting. Teaching kids about safety is a continuous journey. Understanding a child's language of harm is important. Parents can always improve their skills and knowledge. It's vital to address missed opportunities in parenting. Support and resources are available for parents. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Child Protection and Safety02:40 - Nikki Butler's Journey in Child Safety07:39 - Working with Young Mothers and Their Challenges11:08 - Navigating Teenage Years: Parenting Challenges16:45 - Understanding Teen Development and Identity30:56 - Building Communication and Connection with Teens37:21 - The Importance of Communication in Parenting39:36 - Understanding Teen Emotions and Self-Expression45:36 - Navigating Risky Behaviours in Adolescents50:16 - Recognising Changes in Teen Behaviour57:33 - Building Connections with Teen Friends01:01:34 -The Power of Vulnerability and Sharing Experiences01:08:37 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/6FiPVbiu4sI To learn more and connect with Nikki please head to www.nikkibutler.com.au and follow her on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikki-butler-577132149/
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we catch up with Colleen Murphy to discuss the importance of teaching children to trust their bodies and recognise their own signals, especially in environments where they may feel uncertain. Colleen discusses the role of adults in fostering this trust and provides practical strategies for empowering children to navigate their feelings and experiences. Key Takeaways: Trusting your body is essential for children. Children can rely on their bodies even in uncertain environments. Body signals are truthful indicators of feelings. Empowerment comes from understanding one's own body. Adults play a crucial role in teaching body trust. Resilience is built through body awareness. Practical strategies can help children trust their bodies. Encouraging open conversations about feelings is vital. Children need guidance to navigate their experiences. Creating a supportive environment fosters body trust. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Colleen Murphy and Her Journey07:53 - From Hairdresser to Victim Advocate12:54 - The My Body Tells the Truth Program16:54 - Understanding Disclosures from Children21:15 - The Impact of First Responders on Abuse Awareness23:35 - The Cycle of Abuse and Its Long-Term Effects28:50 - Supporting Families of Abuse Survivors33:23 - Empowering Children Through Education34:58 - Understanding Consent and Coercion37:35 - Empowering Children to Speak Up41:21 - Questioning Authority and Building Confidence44:17 - The Importance of Parental Guidance47:39 - Navigating Sleepovers and Safety51:16 - The Role of Community in Parenting54:10 - Empowering Children Through Education57:53 - Validation and Communication in Parenting01:03:57 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/fZJUcbJkXjg To learn more about Colleen and her mission, head to her LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/colleen-murphy-17416a182/
Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Andy and Kristi delve into the emotional dynamics of parenting, particularly focusing on how parents react to situations involving their children, emphasising the importance of remaining calm and understanding the underlying fears that often drive parental anger. They discuss strategies for effective communication and the need for support in navigating challenging conversations with children. Key Takeaways: There are people who are there to help you. Remain calm, don't freak out in tough situations. Most anger stems from fear for children's safety. Disappointment can arise from unmet expectations. Conversations about difficult topics can be challenging. Instant reactions often lead to exaggerated responses. Understanding emotional triggers is key to effective communication. Parents should strive for calmness in crises. Fear can drive parental anger and reactions. Support systems are crucial for parents. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Online Harms and Child Safety04:21 Understanding Online Harms and Their Complexity07:03 The Role of Algorithms in Child Safety09:24 The Debate on Social Media Regulations12:04 Challenges in Enforcing Age Restrictions14:51 The Need for Comprehensive Education on Online Safety17:22 Navigating the Legal Landscape of Online Content20:03 The Nuances of CSAM and CSEM Terminology23:09 Navigating Consent in Adult Content25:11 The Challenges of Law Enforcement and AI27:38 The Role of Education in Online Safety32:42 Understanding Sextortion and Grooming37:58 The Importance of Open Communication39:39 Addressing Broader Online Risks41:41 The Responsibility of Social Media Platforms44:31 Navigating Online Safety and Parental Responsibility47:34 The Role of Education in Digital Safety48:41 Resources for Parents and Guardians51:52 Understanding Misinformation and Influences54:59 The Landscape of Trust and Safety in Technology01:05:07 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/3hcCp_Nq2Ug To access the Global Child Safety List that Andy speaks about in his interview, please go to - Global List - Online Child Safety.xlsx - Google Sheets or follow Andy on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-briercliffe-760621191/
Episode Summary: This episode of Conversations with Kristi delves into the sensitive topic of child-on-child sexual abuse, highlighting the experiences of individuals involved in the ABAR project. It emphasises the misconceptions surrounding children's behaviour in such situations and the importance of recognising the seriousness of these incidents rather than dismissing them as mere experimentation or curiosity. Key Takeaways: The ABAR project focuses on child-on-child sexual abuse. Personal experiences can shape memories and perceptions of abuse. Misconceptions about children's behaviour can be harmful. Child-on-child sexual abuse is often underreported and misunderstood. It's crucial to recognise the seriousness of such incidents. Psychological support is vital for survivors of abuse. Awareness and education are key in addressing these issues. Children's experiences should not be trivialised or dismissed. The impact of abuse can vary based on frequency and context. Conversations about child abuse need to be more open and honest. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention03:27 Lauren's Journey as a Survivor05:52 The Importance of Trauma-Informed Care07:17 Navigating the Disclosure Process10:53 The Impact of Dismissive Language12:39 Understanding Child-on-Child Abuse17:32 The Complexity of Child-on-Child Abuse24:14 The Need for Better Terminology26:20 The Role of Education in Prevention30:05 Understanding Victim Behaviour and Support33:03 Finding Purpose Through Helping Others35:47 Parental Guidance on Child Safety41:07 Improving Police Response to Victims47:33 The Need for Support Services in Reporting Abuse49:34 Balancing Healing and Advocacy51:57 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjvH4Rc4aT0
Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Danielle Cheeseman shares her profound fears and anxieties about motherhood, particularly her concerns about raising daughters. She reflects on her own experiences and the challenges she anticipates in preventing her children from facing similar struggles. Key Takeaways: Danielle felt terrified about becoming a mother. She worried about her children experiencing her past traumas. Her fears were heightened by the thought of raising a daughter. She believed that the risks of trauma were still present regardless of gender. Danielle's reflections highlight the emotional challenges of parenting. The conversation emphasises the importance of resilience in motherhood. Personal experiences shape our fears as parents. Danielle's insights reveal the complexities of family dynamics. She expresses a desire to protect her children from pain. The discussion underscores the need for open conversations about mental health. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention03:57 Parenting Fears and Protective Measures05:21 The Impact of Recent Events07:05 The Complexity of Trust and Abuse09:02 Navigating Relationships with Abusers11:13 The Role of Family in Disclosure12:33 The Challenge of Believability15:19 Healing Through Discovery16:46 Support Systems After Disclosure18:02 The Importance of Therapy19:53 Preparing for Parenthood22:29 Teaching Children About Body Safety25:33 Navigating Childhood Trauma and Protective Instincts27:22 Recognising Red Flags and Setting Boundaries30:47 The Importance of Trusting Your Instincts32:19 Educating Parents on Child Safety36:07 The Dangers of Sharing Children's Images Online38:38 Implementing Changes for Family Safety41:19 Empowering Children Through Autonomy43:52 The Importance of Open Conversations About Abuse49:39 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/ncx4a4odqpg To learn more about Danielle you can find her details on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-cheeseman-15b3b89a/
Summary: In this episode of "Conversations with Kristi", Anna Sonoda discusses the grooming process that can occur with children and emphasises the critical role that adults play in recognising and interrupting this harmful behaviour. She highlights the importance of legal consequences and the need for adults to be vigilant in protecting children from potential harm. Key Takeaways: Every adult can interrupt the grooming process. Grooming often starts off appearing sweet. Grooming involves pulling children away from normal activities. Adults must be vigilant in recognizing grooming behaviors. Legal consequences are necessary for protecting children. Extended family may not always act in the child's best interest. Creating space between a child and their support system is a red flag. Opportunities to break rules can be a grooming tactic. Awareness of grooming is crucial for all adults. We must be the cornerstone of support for children. Podcast Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Conversations with Kristi 03:26 Anna Sonoda's Journey into Social Work 07:20 Understanding Grooming and Its Impact 10:16 The Four Steps of Grooming 15:51 Recognising Patterns in Grooming Behaviour 21:12 The Importance of Access and Space 26:06 Establishing Family Protocols for Safety 29:34 Understanding the Prevalence of Child Abuse 30:40 The Importance of Open Conversations 33:57 Empowering Parents and Caregivers 37:09 Recognising Grooming Behaviours 40:24 Building Trust and Open Communication 45:09 Addressing Child Sexual Abuse as a Public Health Issue 48:39 Resources for Survivors and Prevention Strategies 51:13 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/qBVVrNlK804
CONTENT WARNING - discussion about offender behaviours and methodology In this episode, Kristi interviews phD candidate, criminologist and psychologist Kelly Jackson. Kelly and Kristi discuss the research around offender behaviours and methodologies used in the commission of child sexual abuse and the many ways offenders groom children. This interesting conversation explains in detail the grooming process, the types of behaviours offenders use in order to find victims, the research that proves that stops offenders from abusing kids and how parents can actually protect their children from abuse. This is a must listen episode for anyone who loves to dive deep into the psychology of offenders. Connect with Kelly via her LinkedIn here: linkedin.com/in/kelly-jackson-b49a57150 If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
CONTENT WARNING - language warning, discussions around child sexual abuse, domestic violence of First Nations peoples In this episode, Kristi talks with proud Palawa woman Rachel Dunn, about the impacts of domestic violence and child sexual abuse on First Nations families and the difficulties in calling-out these tragedies in culture and family. Rachel shares her story and her experience in calling out abuse within her family unit, as well as trying to advocate and protect other First Nations children and women, against the prejudice and beliefs that perpetuate and prolong harm and trauma within community. Connect with Rachel via her LinkedIn here: www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-dunn-7a6060229 If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 13Yarn - 13 92 76. or www.13yarn.org.au Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
CONTENT WARNING - language warning, discussions about domestic violence and trauma In this episode, Kristi speaks with Kate Fylan who has over 20 years experience with a Diploma in Social Worker, a qualified Counsellor and Play Therapist, primarily working within in the domestic violence, childhood sexual abuse and harmful sexualised behaviours spaces and portfolios. Kate offers an interesting viewpoint around gendered based parenting, coercive control, domestic violence, how to have conversations with your kids around these topics and repair your relationships with your children when we make mistakes. This is a great conversation for parents of children of any age about the importance of being real with them and how to have conversations with your kids around important social topics. You can follow or connect with Kate via LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/kate-fylan-41829aa2. If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
CONTENT WARNING - Talk of child sexual abuse, intra-familial abuse, control and manipulationIn this episode, Kristi speaks with Deb Aldrick, Author, Survivor Advocate and Lived Experience Speaker about intra-familial abuse or child sexual abuse within the family group. Deb wrote the book, 'Circling the Wagons' about the different ways in which families hide and protect abusers with control and manipulation and how it effects survivors. This episode breaks down the effect and impacts of child sexual abuse and why the lack of protection and belief within our families often creates greater trauma than the abuse itself. Deb's book - Circling the Wagons by Deborah Aldrick is available via Amazon and Barnes & Noble or via Deb's website: www.dragonflyadvocacy.com.au or via LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/deborah-aldrick-188b4530b If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
Content Warning - talk around child sexual abuse In this episode, Kristi talks about child sexual abuse and child safety with survivor, child safety advocate and parent, John Cardamone. John shares his own survivor story of child sexual abuse at 6 years old where his perpetrator threatened him and his family to keep it a secret. John's story highlights the importance of body safety education, believing kids and being an approachable parent. This podcast episode underlines the 3 important steps of protecting kids and how EVERY parent can keep their kids safe. Connect and learn more about John via his LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-cardamone-86632738/ If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
Content Warning - discussions about domestic and family violence, suicide and self-harm In this episode, Kristi talks with Shannon Miller, a disability and family violence practice leader from the Centre Against Violence, gender-based violence advocate and father about the lack of visibility for children and young people in the conversations around domestic and family violence and gendered based violence. During this episode, Kristi and Shannon discuss the lack of consideration of the impacts of family violence on children and young people, the lack of support of children as their own victim in family violence as well as how to talk to our kids about these topics and issues. This is a great conversation for ALL families whether family violence has impacted you or NOT. For more information about Shannon, check out his LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannon-miller1984/ Check out the Centre Against Violence here: https://centreagainstviolence.org.au If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
In this episode, Kristi speaks with veteran Protective Behaviours educator Holly-ann Martin about teaching body safety education to children living with a disability or where english isn't their first language. Holly-ann shares a wealth of knowledge on how to simplify the body safety messages to ensure our most vulnerable children understand their body safety rights and education. This is a fantastic podcast episode in which even Kristi learnt some valuable and life saving lessons. Be sure to share this episode with your friends and family so that we can all ensure our children, especially those children living with a disability are protected from abuse. For more information or to find Holly-ann's resources, go to her website at www.safe4kids.com.au If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Sexual Violence Services in WA - Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
CONTENT WARNING - Talk about sexual abuse, child sexual abuse and the death of a perpetrator. In this episode, Kristi talks with author, youth activist, sexual abuse survivor, sexual assault group facilitator and coach, Renee Simpson. Renee is the author of the book 'I want to go home' - a book which explores and shares about her trip across the world on a sailing boat, where she sailed through storms, nearly starved from a lack of food and her journey recovering from child sexual abuse and rape. Renee now facilitates sexual assault support groups through The Survivor Hub and trauma informed coaching for sexual abuse survivors where she encourages survivors to write their own stories and heal their own lives via her 'Shake the Walls' writing course. This is a very interesting conversation about recovering from sexual abuse, exploring trauma and the ways we process trauma and recovery. You can find Renee via her social media @reneemariesimpsonauthor. If any part of the show causes distress, please seek support and help from either the following services or from your own family doctor/psychologist or counsellor. Lifeline - 131114 Beyond Blue - 1300 224 636 Service Assisting Male Survivors of Sexual Assault (SAMSSA) - (02) 6287 3935 1800 Respect - 1800 737 732 For more information or resources please visit the CAPE-AU website at www.cape-au.com.
In this episode, Kristi talks about sleepovers and school camps from her experience as a detective and police officer, as well as a parent. There is a lot of pressure on parents from many sources about sleepovers, so it is important that we take the time to consider all risk factors of where your child may be sleeping overnight. Kristi breaks down her latest blogs and goes through some of the risk factors, sharing stories that have made her reconsider her stance on both school camps and sleepovers. Check out both blogs via www.cape-au.com/blog If you want help in talking about body safety with your kids, grab a copy of the Conversation with Kids 'Body Safety' cards via www.cape-au.com/conversations-with-kids-body-safety Want to deep dive into child sexual abuse prevention, grab a copy of Kristi's book, Operation KidSafe - a detective's guide to child abuse prevention from Amazon via www.cape-au.com/book