In this conversation, Kirk Stange shares his unexpected journey into family law, emphasizing the importance of crafting effective parenting plans and navigating high-conflict co-parenting situations. He discusses the role of technology in communication, the significance of prenuptial agreements, and the emotional impact of family law cases. Stange also provides insights on choosing the right attorney, court expectations for cooperation, and remedies available for high-conflict situations. He ...
In this conversation, Christina McGhee discusses the complexities of co-parenting, emphasizing the importance of keeping children at the center of the process. She shares insights on navigating high conflict situations, the role of professionals, and practical advice for parents. McGhee highlights the significance of developing guiding principles, understanding children's perspectives, and creating meaningful moments. She also addresses the necessity of self-care, setting boundaries, and the ...
In this conversation, Elise Buie, a family law attorney, shares her insights on the emotional complexities of divorce and co-parenting. She emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, education on toxic behaviors, and the transformative potential of divorce. Elise discusses her personal journey through divorce, the role of AI in improving communication, and the necessity of building a supportive team for navigating family law. She advocates for emotional safety in co-parenting relati...
In this enlightening conversation, Heather Wolfe shares her extensive experience in social work and her insights into co-parenting with a narcissistic partner. She discusses the challenges faced by parents in high conflict situations, the importance of understanding narcissism, and practical strategies for managing these relationships. Heather emphasizes the need for documentation, building a support network, and self-care for non-narcissistic parents. The conversation also covers the nuances...
In this episode of Coparenting Beyond Conflict, host Sol Kennedy speaks with Stephanie McPhail, a Divorce Certified Crisis Counselor and Life Success Coach. They discuss the complexities of navigating unhealthy relationships, the importance of self-discovery and healing, and the role of boundaries in relationships. Stephanie shares her personal journey through an abusive marriage and how she learned to empower herself and others. The conversation also touches on co-parenting in high-conflict ...
In this conversation, Greg Wheeler shares his journey as a single dad and the challenges he faced, leading to the creation of resources for single parents. He discusses the importance of co-parenting, the concept of conscious uncoupling, and how personal growth can transform relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the need for awareness of negative patterns, the role of curiosity in communication, and the significance of individual work in fostering healthier family dynamics. Learn more about ...
In this conversation, we explore the complexities of navigating the family court system, particularly focusing on self-representation in high conflict divorce cases. Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson share their insights on the emotional challenges, strategic communication, and the importance of building a supportive team. They discuss common pitfalls faced by self-represented litigants and emphasize the need for proper documentation and understanding courtroom decorum. The role of technology and ...
In this conversation, Vicky Townsend discusses her journey through the divorce process and the systemic issues within the divorce industry. She emphasizes the emotional and financial toll of divorce, particularly on children, and advocates for alternative methods such as mediation and coaching. Vicky also highlights the unique challenges faced by first responders in navigating divorce and the importance of mental health support. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the role of tech...
In this conversation, Melissa Murphy Pavone, a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, shares her insights on navigating the financial complexities of divorce. She emphasizes the importance of understanding financial implications, avoiding common mistakes, and the need for effective communication during and after the divorce process. Melissa also discusses the significance of teaching financial literacy to children and building a support system of professionals to...
In this episode of Co-parenting Beyond Conflict, hosts Sol and Louise discuss the challenges of navigating special days like Father's Day and Mother's Day in high-conflict co-parenting situations. They explore how narcissistic or antagonistic co-parents can create conflict during these times and offer strategies for reducing engagement and stress. The conversation emphasizes the importance of reframing the significance of these days, allowing for flexibility in celebrations, and prioritizing ...
In this conversation, Hope Petrow shares her journey of navigating life after divorce, emphasizing the importance of building confidence, joy, and clarity in what one wants from future relationships. She discusses the challenges of co-parenting while dating, the significance of integrating children into new relationships, and recognizing the signs of a healthy partnership. Hope also provides practical advice on avoiding past mistakes and the healing process necessary for moving forward after ...
In this conversation, Wendy Behary, an expert in narcissism and schema therapy, discusses the complexities of dealing with narcissistic individuals, particularly in co-parenting situations. She emphasizes the importance of understanding narcissism, setting boundaries, and using empathic confrontation strategies to navigate relationships with narcissists. Wendy also highlights the impact of narcissism on children and the necessity of breaking the cycle of generational narcissism. Throughout th...
In this conversation, Tamara Rowles shares her transformative journey from litigation to mediation and divorce consulting. She emphasizes the opportunity for personal growth and healing that divorce can provide, framing it as a hero's journey. Tamara discusses the importance of mindset shifts, accountability, and self-reflection in navigating divorce gracefully. She introduces her app, Divorce Wave, designed to support individuals through the emotional challenges of divorce, offering guided m...
In this episode of Co-Parenting Beyond Conflict, host Sol welcomes Paulette Rigo, founder of Better Divorce Academy, who shares her personal journey through divorce and her transition into divorce coaching. Paulette discusses the common challenges faced by co-parents post-judgment, the importance of effective communication, and the emotional complexities involved in navigating new relationships after divorce. She emphasizes the need for self-reflection and learning from past mistakes to foste...
In this conversation, Anne Wintemute, co-founder and CEO of Aimee Says, discusses the complexities of co-parenting in high-conflict situations, particularly for survivors of relationship abuse. She emphasizes the importance of building a support system, navigating post-separation abuse, and effective communication strategies. The discussion also highlights the role of AI in providing accessible support for those dealing with coercive control and the limitations of the family court system in r...
In this conversation, Erika Wright shares her personal journey with codependency, exploring its definitions, societal roots, and impacts on relationships, particularly in co-parenting. She emphasizes the importance of self-love, authenticity, and vulnerability in breaking free from codependent patterns. The discussion also touches on the challenges of navigating co-parenting dynamics, recognizing codependent behaviors, and the significance of encouraging children's voices in the process. Ulti...
In this conversation, Dr. Don Gordon, founder and the Executive Director of The Center for Divorce Education, discusses the complexities of co-parenting, particularly in the context of divorce. He highlights the importance of understanding loyalty conflicts, the impact of parental behaviors on children, and effective communication strategies for co-parents. Dr. Gordon emphasizes the need for self-regulation techniques for parents and the psychological effects of conflict on children. He also ...
In this enlightening conversation, Jill Barnett Kaufman shares her expertise on co-parenting, drawing from her personal experiences and professional background as a therapist and divorce coach. She discusses the complexities of navigating co-parenting relationships, especially in high-conflict situations, and emphasizes the importance of communication, boundaries, and supporting children through the emotional challenges of divorce. Jill also highlights the evolving landscape of divorce suppor...
In this episode of Coparenting Beyond Conflict, Dr. Amy J.L. Baker, a developmental psychologist and expert in parental alienation, discusses the complexities of co-parenting and its psychological impacts on children. She explains the behaviors that contribute to alienation, how to identify them, and the importance of maintaining healthy communication between co-parents. Dr. Baker also provides insights into recognizing early warning signs of alienation, distinguishing it from legitimat...
In this conversation, Heather Tannenbaum shares her journey from experiencing divorce to becoming a divorce coach. She discusses the importance of co-parenting coaches, the dynamics of building a co-parenting team, and how to use divorce as an opportunity for personal growth. Heather emphasizes the significance of putting children first, navigating toxic relationships, and the ongoing nature of co-parenting. She provides insights on creating effective parenting plans, communication strategies...