In this episode, host Gretta is joined by Dr. Tirrell DeGannes, Psy.D., to explore ghosting, online relationships, loneliness, dating, and beyond. Dr. DeGannes shares highlights from Thriving Center of Psychology's "Report: Top 6 Reasons Gen Z and Millennials Ghost" and unpacks many psychological factors driving this behavior in today's digital age.Dr. DeGannes provides valuable insights on:- Why Gen Z and Millenials ghost - "Offended" ghosts and a deeper look into the definition of ghos...
Have you ever wondered, "Why do I keep getting ghosted?" If so, you're not alone, and it’s not your fault. Join Coach Gretta and Conscious Dating & Relationship Coach and Attachment Expert Taryn Newton-Gill as they dive deep into attachment styles, relational dynamics, and the complexities of ghosting. In this insightful episode, you'll discover:Why people with certain attachment styles are likely to ghostHow anxious attachment contributes to push-pull dynamics with avoidant partners...
Join Coach Gretta and Katie Stirling, Clinical Psychologist, Sexologist, and Gottman Certified Couples Therapist, for a compelling discussion on ghosting in intimate relationships. In this show, Dr. Stirling provides gentle guidance on:Being ghosted before becoming physically intimate with a partnerEncountering a one-night stand ghostExperiencing ghosting when there's more emotional closeness and bonding after sexBeing ghosted after an STD revelationPost-ghost sex: how to let go and enjoy you...
Discover how to protect your emotional well-being in the maze of modern dating with insights from Haifa Barbari, futurist and founder of the Be What Matters app. Learn how dating apps can hijack your brain's reward system, making ghosting feel like a gut punch, and explore essential strategies for using these platforms mindfully. In this episode, Haifa and host Gretta discuss how to stop obsessively checking up on ghosts and stop idealizing them. Haifa provides powerful techniques to reclaim ...
Radical acceptance is one of the best mindset strategies for healing after being ghosted. On this episode of "Coping with Ghosting," we welcome back the brilliant Dr. Terri Bacow, an expert in cognitive behavioral therapy. Dr. Bacow breaks down the concept of radical acceptance, emphasizing that it's not about approving hurtful actions but about adopting a self-compassionate strategy to ease your suffering. Host Gretta and Dr. Bacow's discussion reveals how resisting reality can be draining a...
If you're self-harming after being ghosted, you're not alone, and there are resources to help you through this journey. Jocelyn Fitzgerald, art therapist and EMDR consultant, joins Gretta to provide gentle guidance on acknowledging self-harming behaviors and finding healthier solutions. Jocelyn's career has spanned across various settings, from tackling self-harm in teens to helping refugees overcome trauma using EMDR therapy. She is also a published author and co-edited a groundbreaking text...
Have you ever felt the sting of being ghosted and wondered how to heal from the emotional fallout? Whether you were ghosted by a friend, family member, date, lover, or colleague - this show provides answers. Join Gretta as she interviews the incredibly insightful Dr. Kellie Kirksey, who is a licensed clinical counselor, certified rehabilitation counselor, author, yoga instructor, reiki practitioner, dancing mindfulness facilitator, clinical hypnotherapist, EMDR therapist, expressive arts ther...
Being ghosted can shatter your entire sense of self—but what if it could also pave the way for profound personal transformation? Join Gretta as she interviews Dr. Debi Silber, the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation® Institute, to explore her journey from experiencing deep betrayal to becoming an expert in the field. Dr. Silber shares insights from her groundbreaking PhD study, revealing how betrayal (including ghosting) affects the mind, body, and heart. You'll learn about post betra...
In this heartwarming show, friends Gretta and Coach Estee K. dive deep into the importance of treating yourself with kindness and compassion after being ghosted. From a beaver showdown in Massachusetts to a pigeon dance, glimmers, and guided relaxation - this show combines soothing reminders, funny stories, and calming words that tap into the lighter side of life. Connect with Mindfulness and Empowerment Coach Estee K.:InstagramSoulful Synthesis PodcastConnect With Gretta:Take Your Powe...
Have you ever felt nervous about making new friends because you're concerned that they'll ghost you? Do you feel anxious and struggle with trust in relationships? Have you ever been concerned about your physical safety while dating? If you answered YES to any of these questions, this show's for you.Karen Robinson, MSW, ACSW, LCSW, CCTP-II, a seasoned mental health therapist and trauma recovery expert, brings her wealth of experience to the table. She joins Gretta to discuss the heavy toll gho...
Have you ever felt strung along in a relationship without any clear commitment? Today, we uncover the truth behind breadcrumbing with the insightful Vasavi Kumar, therapist, coach, and author of "Say it Out Loud." Host Gretta and Vasavi break down this topic and help you:- Recognize the signs of being breadcrumbed - Learn what to say to somebody who's stringing you along- Find ways to maintain self-respect while being breadcrumbed- Discover strategies to manage anxiety - Define needs and boun...
If you've been ghosted in a long-term relationship or want to learn more about ghosting and dating, this episode is for you. Gretta is joined by Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, a clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). Dr. Tatkin speaks and teaches worldwide on how to understand, create, and sustain secure-functioning relationships. He's authored six bestselling books and has trained thousands of therapists.In this show, Dr. Tatkin shares ...
If you're struggling with the pain of being ghosted, this soothing and reassuring episode is for you! Mayra Rodriguez, LMFT shares important reminders as you heal from the shock, frustration and loss of your ghost. Her wise insights will help you cope with ghosting and feel better and more optimistic about days ahead. Connect with Mayra R., LMFT@thelosangelestherapist on Instagram@thelosangelestherapist on TikTok Connect With Gretta:Free Guide: What to Say To Your GhostCoaching Wit...
Join host Gretta and Dr. Heather Browne, PsyD, LMFT, for a lively discussion that centers around forgiveness and then branches off into many ghost-related subjects. In this episode, Dr. Browne shares her perspective on:Why you don't need to forgive the person who ghosted you The benefits of forgiving How to find closure after being ghostedNavigating embarrassment, shame, and guiltHow to communicate with a returning ghostWhen ghosting becomes abuseDating with integri...
Frank Anderson, MD, a world-renowned trauma treatment expert, Harvard-trained psychiatrist, and psychotherapist, joins host Gretta to share his perspective on all things ghosting. This episode includes Dr. Frank's take on the following:- How trauma can block love and connection and how love can heal trauma- A three-step process to heal after being ghosted that's rooted in Internal Family Systems and neuroscience research- Why people may choose people who aren't choosing them, and how to begin...
Music can serve as a profound source of healing, especially in the aftermath of being ghosted. In this episode, Gretta has conversations with two remarkably talented musicians who transformed their experiences of being ghosted into incredible songs. Gustavo Zaiah and Marie Pratt, hailing from different countries, share insights about ghosting and the journey toward healing.Connect with Gustavo Zaiah:InstagramListen to "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahConnect with Marie Pratt:InstagramYouTube "Talk t...
If you’re struggling with your body image or eating disorders after being ghosted, you’re not alone. In this episode, Dr. Michele Jensen, PsyD, LMFT, joins Gretta to discuss navigating difficulties, such as the belief that you were ghosted due to your physical appearance and what to do if your eating habits have been impacted by being ghosted. Discover ways to boost your self-esteem, challenge negative thinking patterns, and feel better after being ghosted. Connect wit...
This is one of my first and most popular episodes from the Coping With Ghosting archives. What do you do if somebody ghosts you? What happens if the ghost returns? Is it possible to reunite with your ghost? The brilliant Dr. Natalie Jones, PSYD, LPCC, owner of Lifetime Counseling and Consulting and creator of A Date With Darkness Podcast, answers these questions and more in this episode. Dr. Jones unpacks how to respond to ghosting and advises what to do if your ghost comes back to haunt you....
If you're suffering from insomnia, nightmares, or sleep issues, you're not alone. In this episode, Gretta and Dr. Bijoy John discuss everything you need to know about how to sleep well when you're stressed out, anxious, and heartbroken. Dr. Bijoy John is a board-certified physician and practicing sleep specialist with over 25 years of experience in Pulmonary/Critical Care and Sleep Medicine. This episode covers: - What to do if you can't fall sleep - How to stop oversleeping - The ideal ...
Has a friend ghosted you? Are you struggling to trust new friends after being ghosted in friendship? If so, this show is for you. In this episode, Gretta asks Dr. Daryl Appleton, M.ED, CAGS, LMHC, Ed.D. questions about friendship ghosting from the Coping With Ghosting online communities, including: - Why do friends ghost? - What if a ghost returns and acts like nothing happened?- Should you forgive a friend who ghosted you?- What to do if you keep getting ghosted by different ...