Crimes of the Heart: a love and dating podcast

TW: this episode contains a lot of sensitive subject matter like assault and abuse. It's a powerful episode but if it's not something you can handle right now, the episode will always be here. Rena Martine is a former sex crimes deputy district attorney turned intimacy coach, TEDx speaker, and author of The Sex You Want. She empowers women and couples to embrace their sexuality and build deeper connections through a blend of neuroscience and coaching. And today she is specifically going to use about trauma, how to process it and how to have a thieving love life in spite of it. To follow Rena on IG click HERE or to visit her website click HERE.PLEASE SIGN UP FOR MY SUBSTACK: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Did you know there are 10 flirt styles?... This week's guest is a sex scholar, sex therapist, trained dominatrix and this week's guest. She sits down with Rory to discuss sex trends throughout history, BDSM and how to be a better flirt! To learn more about Nadege click HERE or follow her on IG HERE. To take the flirt quick click HERE.To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever wished there was someone who could help you through your heartache? Today's guest, Amy Chan, created the Breakup Bootcamp and literally does just that. Plus! That's not all, she's recently expanded into helping people find partnership with her Dating Bootcamp. To get her book Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart click HERE. To follow Amy Click HERE and to visit her website click HERE. To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Guys! Swapping feeds with YOU PROBABLY THINK THIS STORY'S ABOUT YOU because I think that you might enjoy the show... and if you do, you can follow them here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-probably-think-this-storys-about-you/id1747985859 -- SEE YOU BACK IN SEPTEMBER!!! x,RoryWhen Brittani Ard matches with Kanon on Hinge sparks fly. Their first date revealed an instant connection and chemistry. Kanon is devastatingly handsome with a charm that disarmed even the most guarded heart — plus he is surprisingly emotionally available for a man in his forties. It’s as if the universe has conspired to bring them together, two soulmates destined to find each other. The couple spends the next five months diving fast into a whirlwind romance. Their connection so intense and their bond so deep that it seems like Brittani’s fairytale has finally found its happy ending. Until one weekend that changed her life forever. *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.Produced by Larj Media Executive Producer Brittani ArdSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Erika Ettin aka A Little Nudge, joins the podcast to share her no nonsense dating advice. We talk about why your less likely to have a date if you don't make a plan before exchanging phone numbers, how your texting style can actually lead you to less quality matches (no, really) and so many more useful tips on how to navigate the complicated world of dating and relationships. It's an incredible interview and I highly suggest you check out Erika's website HERE or follow her on IG HERE.REMINDER: I started a Substack which is where I will drop Video episodes: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A wild crime involving a basement deserves an equally wild guest! Enter: comedian Daphnique Springs. She joins the podcast to talk worst dates, remaining confident, not trusting people and "learning to love". It's an episode full of laughs and one truly unhinged crime. To watch Daphnique's special SINGLE FEMALE (for free!) click HERE. To follow her on IG click HERE. Or to see her in person, check her website: https://www.iamdsprings.com/Reminder! I started a substack which is where I will drop the video episodes: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Link to the substack: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/After a major meltdown I am back (for the second try) at a solo episode -- it's been a minute and I figured I would pop on and share some updates, where im at and also what I've learned as the host of a love/sex/dating podcast over the past three seasons. So here are 15 lessons I've learned. I hope you enjoy it. As a reminder, there are two more episodes before I take off for the summer and then the show will be back in September! x, RoryTo watch the show, make sure to sign up for my substack: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WOW -- I recorded a solo episode that never actually recorded... Hoping to rerecord tomorrow and get it up later in the day. I apologize for being SO BLONDE. Thank you, love you. xx, rorySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Want a new way to date? Want to find your soulmate but you're sick of outdated patriarchal dating advice? Lily Womble is your girl. We dig into everything from why your "type" isn't the person you'll end up clicking with IRL to the best questions to ask on a first date and so much more. To learn more about Lily follow her here: https://www.datebrazen.com/about-lily or get her book here: https://amzn.to/4ci5uhZTo watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dr. Nadine Macaluso joins the show to help us learn how to spot narcissism, pathologic lovers, and other toxic relationships traps. Plus! She give a lot of valuable tips on how to extricate yourself from those relationships, how to heal and more importantly how to bounce back better. For more information on Dr. Nadine please visit her site: https://drnae.com/about-dr-nadine-macaluso/ To get her book RUN LIKE HELL click HERE.Link to the shame compass: https://drnae.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Dr-Nae-Shame-Compass.pdfTo watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jade Catta Preta drops by to weigh in on an INSANE crime involving a kidney!! Plus, we discuss coming out, overcoming jealousy and insecurities, perimenopause, sex and so so much more. It's an banger episode. To follow Jade or see her live check her out here: https://jadecattapreta.com/ or follow her on IG HERE. Thanks to Colleen for sharing her story -- you can follow her HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Brittany Allyn aka Thirtywaves joins the show to share her confidence tips for people who have found themselves living outside societies norms. SHe's 38, single and THRIVING. Plus, we talk about her time as a matchmaker, her viral MeMoons, working at a dating app, and so much more. To learn more about Brittany you can check out her site here: https://thirtywaves.com/ or follow her HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

One winner will win a copy of Fighting For Our Friendships -- make sure you are signed up for the mailing list: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Are you conflict avoidant? Is it hard for you to make new friends? You do dread uncomfortable conversations with people you care about? Danielle Bayard Jackson has literally written the book to help you with all of these things and so much more. She's dedicated her life to heaping people be happier by helping them improve their friendships. It's a powerful conversation and I'm so happy to share her with you all. If you are interested in her book you can get it here: https://amzn.to/3yi8NqL If you're interested in learning more about Danielle check out her website here: https://www.daniellebayardjackson.com/ or, Follow Danielle on IG HERE(I may be eligible for commissions on select links)To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Rory and a listener we are calling Megan discuss what she's learned as both the cheater and the cheatee in this weeks episode of Crimes of the Heart. Shout out to "Megan" you know who you are :)To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Colton Underwood joins Rory Uphold to discuss his time on the bachelor and how it helped his love life, being a mental health advocate for others, especially LGTBQ youth, and all things Daddyhood. Colton gets real about his fertility journey in the hopes that it will help others who might not know what their options are... plus so much more!! To listen to Daddyhood click HERE to follow Colton click HERE and to follow the Daddyhood podcast click HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.