Cussing Like A Sailor

Following an enormously successful mini-series from Aray & Jray Today on Trauma Bonding, Jennifer and Aray launch a new podcast where they will dive deep into whatever the f*ck they want. From religion to relationships, the enneagram to educational information about the brain, there is nothing we WON'T talk about. Take a listen to our intro episode and shoot us a message on Instagram @cussing_like_a_sailor or shoot us an email at <a href="mailto:clasaosttm@gmail.com">clasaosttm@gmail.com</a> and tell us what you want to hear! New episodes drop next week!!

Accountability Vs Responsibility

In this weeks episode Jennifer breaks down the difference between accountability and responsibility! Play,share, and review.

09-10
41:59

15 Things You Don't Owe Anyone

It seems like everyone has an opinion on the things we do, no matter how small or insignificant those things might seem to us.

08-27
57:37

Imposter Syndrome

Even as others praise your talents, you write off your successes to timing and good luck. You don’t believe you earned them on your own merits, and you fear others will eventually realize the same thing.Consequently, you pressure yourself to work harder...if this is you push play.

08-13
53:29

Facing Fear

In today's episode, we talk about facing our fears to overcome them. Push play to learn more.

07-23
49:12

Undercover Trauma Bonds- The Fawn Response

The fawn response is the brain's attempt to escape an unsafe position by engaging in behavior that may please the abuser or the source of conflict or ease tension in an unsafe situation.

07-16
50:35

Undercover Trauma Bonds- The Freeze Response

What is the freeze response? Push play and find out! Please share with a friend and leave a review! Thank you so much for rocking with us!

07-09
51:30

Undercover Trauma Bonds- The Flight Response

the flight response is the brain's attempt to escape an unsafe position by removing oneself from it. Check out this weeks episode to find out more! Don’t forget to subscribe and share with a friend!

07-02
01:03:28

Bonus episode!!🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾🍾

Push play!!! 🔥🔥🔥

06-18
45:26

Undercover Trauma Bonds- The Fight Response

Let's find out what Truma is. Enjoy the show

06-11
57:18

Undercover Trauma Bonds

Do you know what trauma is?

05-28
54:36

Over 1k downloads & New series.

A look back and a look forward

05-21
44:10

Interview With Mom

Find out what Jennifer was like growing up in this weeks episode!

05-16
01:28:33

Interview with Daniel

Daniel opens up about his first date with Jennifer and what the most challenging thing about being with Jennifer is. Push play and share with a friend!

05-07
01:29:25

Trauma- Informed Connection: Commitment

Love is a feeling and a choice it is an investment!

04-30
01:06:07

Trauma- Informed Connection: Establishing the Relationship

In a trauma-informed connection, we are looking to establish the existence of the relationship as a separate entity. Push play to learn more!

04-09
47:40

Trauma- Informed Connection: Compromise & Collaboration

Collaboration is essential to ANY relationship and too many couples loose sight of the reality that no matter what they encounter, no matter what they are fighting against you stand a better chance if you are fight together against the problem rather than fight each other over the problem.

04-02
59:21

Trauma- Informed Connection: Perspective Sharing & Perspective Taking

When we’re moving into a trauma-informed connection, the opposite of gaslight is going to be perspective sharing and perspective-taking. Push play to learn more.

03-26
01:08:44

Trauma- Informed Connection: Constructive Feedback & Compatibility

Criticism implies the need for correction, but like it or not just because you don’t like something your partner does or doesn’t do doesn’t mean they have to change it. Constructive feedback requires accountability on the part of the complainant rather than responsibility on the part of the accused.Push play!

03-19
01:26:25

Trauma- Informed Connection: Boundary Setting & Communication

The trust and dependency stage of trauma bonding occurs when the initiator begins shaping the target to rely increasingly and eventually almost exclusively on them for mental and emotional support.

03-12
50:44

Bonus Episode!!!

Check out this bonus episode about the five love languages and five apology languages.

03-12
01:20:23

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