Dad, I am a Rich Man

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#3 Afterparty: sis, you win when you stop OVER explaining

2025-09-1608:25

In a world that constantly demands justification, there’s real power in choosing silence. This episode unpacks why you don’t owe everyone an explanation for your choices, your boundaries, or your growth. I’ll share how over-explaining can drain your energy, fuel unnecessary conflict, and often invite people to question you even more. True confidence is knowing your “no” doesn’t need a backstory, your vision doesn’t need approval, and your life doesn’t need to be on trial.

#2 Afterparty: Femininity needs Masculinity. It's called BALANCE

2025-09-0405:13

Femininity needs masculinity — not to survive, but to balance. On its own, femininity is powerful, but when it meets masculinity, that’s when harmony happens. It’s not about who’s stronger, it’s about how different energies complete each other — softness needs strength, intuition needs logic, and love needs both. That’s the real connection.Head over to my site hub ⁠Listeners Lounge Newsletter⁠ where you’ll get every unfiltered update straight to your inbox. That means:✨ Early drops of new podcast episodes ✨ Exclusive behind-the-scenes stories I don’t share anywhere else ✨ Special access to my NLY Cosmetics launches and offers ✨ Plus, little personal notes and extras I only share with my closest listeners.and don't forget to visit my shop: ⁠NLY Cosmetics

#1 Afterparty: The ick that I didn't see coming [SHOCKING]

2025-08-2206:35

Ever had someone totally misread your friendliness as flirting? Ugh, gross. In this episode, I spill a real story — the hug, the shock, the ick — and why it taught me a major lesson about respect, boundaries, and girl power. Because sis, not every smile is an invitation, and protecting your space is everything. 💅Head over to my site hub Listeners Lounge Newsletter where you’ll get every unfiltered update straight to your inbox. That means:✨ Early drops of new podcast episodes ✨ Exclusive behind-the-scenes stories I don’t share anywhere else ✨ Special access to my NLY Cosmetics launches and offers ✨ Plus, little personal notes and extras I only share with my closest listeners.and don't forget to visit my shop: NLY Cosmetics

Don't Just Call Me A Woman - I Can Be More Than That

2025-06-2714:17

A bold reminder that womanhood is just one part of a much bigger identity. This episode challenges the labels, breaks the boxes, and reclaims the right to be seen as more—more than society’s expectations, more than stereotypes. It’s a declaration of depth, ambition, and unapologetic self-definition.

Make Yourself a Priority

2025-06-1830:06

Let’s be real—you’ve been bending over backwards for everyone but yourself. Sis, it’s time to flip the script. In this episode, we’re discussing bold boundaries, unapologetic self-love, and why prioritising yourself isn’t selfish—it’s essential for survival. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and honestly? You deserve more than leftovers.

Stop letting people trigger you, OKURR?

2025-06-1117:55

Your peace is your power. The moment you stop giving people the ability to control your emotions, you WIN. Not everything deserves your energy. Stay grounded, stay focused—let them talk, but don’t let them touch your mindset. STAY UNTOUCHABLE. Peeeeerriodt!

The Unspoken Hierarchies

2025-06-0407:20

In this deeply personal episode, I invite you to join me on a journey of discovery as we peel back the layers of the invisible power structures that influence our lives. From our social circles and workplaces to cultural norms and online spaces, there's so much that often goes unnoticed. Together, we'll explore the unspoken rules, subtle power dynamics, and hidden systems that determine who holds power, who follows, and who gets left behind. Remember, you are important and you are loved. While some may exhibit bitterness and vengefulness in quiet ways, trust that your instincts are always your best guide. Let’s dive deep and unearth the truths that shape our experiences!

I don't mind being the villain in your story, I've been a villain, what's new?

2025-01-1016:50

It is a raw and unapologetic podcast about owning your truth, even if it means being cast as the "villain" in someone else's story. With unfiltered honesty and bold perspectives, I explore the power of embracing my past, rejecting labels, and living authentically — because being misunderstood is nothing new.

Healing Through Truth: Empowering Women to Rise

2025-01-0211:00

I am breaking the silence and confronting the truths that have held me captive. I have lived through years of masking this pain, so I will dive into this transformative journey of facing trauma head-on and reclaiming my voice. Drawing from personal experience, I empower women to rise above societal expectations and stop being "Miss Nice Girl" when it compromises their truth. This episode is a call to action for women hiding behind masks, encouraging them to step into their authenticity, speak their truth, and find freedom. If the truth hurts, it’s only because it’s real—and real change begins with facing it. It’s time to stop living in silence and start rising.

Confidence is rooted in self-love Season4 #1 - (Soundbite)

2024-09-2401:08

Confidence is rooted in self-love. Without self-love, confidence cannot flourish🩷

[FINALE] Don't allow the opinions of others influence your decisions

2024-05-0610:15

If you are constantly seeking approval or trying to make everyone happy at the expense of your own needs and well-being. It encourages individuals to prioritise their own values, desires, and boundaries instead of constantly seeking validation from others. It is okay to say "NO" when necessary, express your opinions and preferences, and focus on self-care. Striking a balance between meeting your own needs and considering the needs of others is key to maintaining healthy relationships and personal well-being. Don't let the noise of other people affect your choices and decisions. Your life is yours. You are your own boss. Don’t be a people pleaser. You are authentic in your own way. Here me out on how I stop being a “people pleaser” enough is enough. Yourself is a top tier. Your health is a top tier. No buts.

Girl, we only speak kindness here

2024-04-2315:33

Kindness is a fundamental virtue that can make a positive impact on individuals and society as a whole. It involves treating others with compassion, understanding, and respect, regardless of our differences and backgrounds. Being kind means extending a helping hand, showing empathy, and considering the well-being of others. Practicing kindness , besties. It fosters strong and healthy relationships, improves overall well-being, and promotes a sense of connectedness in communities. Kindness can also inspire others to reciprocate and create a ripple effect, spreading positivity and compassion. So, let us start spreading kindness to ourselves and others. But kindness with boundaries. Ok, Besties? Let’s delve in! Follow me on Instagram: @inthemomentpodcast_

This is how I deal with arrogant and dismissive people

2024-04-0810:12

it is important to understand that you can't always change the behaviour of others, but you can control how you respond to them. By implementing certain strategies, you can maintain your dignity, protect your well-being, and ultimately influence a more respectful and constructive dynamic. Dealing with difficult people can be challenging, but it's important to remember that your power comes from within. Take charge of how you respond and command respect from others. Remember, these types of people are everywhere, but you can rise above it by staying true to yourself and your values. 🤍 Follow me on Instagram: @inthemomentpodcast_

Take charge of your choices without compromising anything

2024-04-0114:53

It is time guys! It's time for you to take charge of your choices without stepping on anyone's toe.

Self-talk on how I actually level up my standards

2024-03-2709:29

Besties, Talking about levelling up your standards? and what measures should you use? ok, I got you. Besties, self-talk is an excellent habit, that is not a sign that you are going crazy. In fact, it is a healthy practice, especially when you are feeling anxious, down, or reflecting on your thoughts. I highly recommend it because I have been there, done that! While it's essential to have high expectations for yourself, it's equally important to be kind and patient with yourself along the way. To level up your standards, start by setting clear and specific goals. Take some time to reflect on what you want to achieve and break it down into smaller, actionable steps. This will not only help you stay focused but also keep you motivated towards your goals. If you need further insights, let me guide you through it.

Certified Vibe: Why should I care & judge others?

2024-03-2009:13

Besties, caring & judging are two different things. Caring and judging others are both complex aspects of human behavior, and they can be influenced by various factors such as personal values, cultural norms, and individual experiences. Caring for others have a ripple effect, inspiring kindness and compassion in the world while judging others can be a more complicated matter. But, then it is natural for humans to make judgments based on their observations and experiences, it's crucial to approach judgment with caution and empathy. Judging others can sometimes stem from biases, stereotypes, or a lack of understanding.

Stop making your life harder, shift your mindset into CAN DO attitude

2024-03-1118:53

It's undeniable that life can be a struggle in certain aspects of our lives. So today I will be sharing with you how to navigate the difficulties of it and still have a CAN DO mindset 🤍

Girl, you are the PRIZE. Act like it!

2024-03-0120:48

As a sisterly figure, it's my duty to empower young women and help them tap into their potential. I always make time to give valuable insights on how to recognise and embrace their worth. It's not about generalising men, but about valuing and pursuing women who meet certain standards. It's crucial to understand that any relationship should be based on mutual respect, equality, and shared values. I strongly encourage both men and women to have high self-esteem, set healthy boundaries, and seek fulfilling relationships that are based on mutual respect. Developing a strong sense of self and setting high standards for yourself is a continuous process that requires self-reflection, self-care, and personal growth.

Unlock your full potential and achieve your goals 🩷

2024-02-1616:02

I will always remind you to be confident in yourself and be the best version of yourself, as nobody is perfect. okay? So do your thing boo. Let me share with you some tips on how to boost your confidence and self-esteem. Believe in yourself and your abilities, even with all your flaws. Don't let the opinions of others define who you are. Remember, you have the power to rise above any challenge and reach your full potential. So what are you waiting for? CHOP CHOP! Go get your coffee or anything to drink. Sit back and relax while I will tell you how. 🫶💋

Stop oversharing your next move or plans. Just focus and let the noise speak

2024-02-0625:32

This episode will tell you not to overshare things to people even if you trust someone. Just keep moving in silence. Do not broadcast your goals to others as they can get jealous of you. I mean, it is nice to have somebody that you can tell your ideas and goals, but I don't think it is helpful. Let's practice not OVERSHARING things. Just keep it to yourself until such time that you have it already unfolded.

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