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You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.
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24 powerful life changing lessons I learned in 2024.
2024 was one of the most impactful, insane, incredible, exhausting, beautiful and chaotic years of my life. In this episode, I dive into 24 of the biggest lessons and takeaways I got from this year, and get fully transparent about my life and some of what happened. I hope this can inspire you to kickstar 2025 with excitement.
I love you, so grateful for this community.
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This was the most played episode of 2024 and I wanted to revisit it as we head into the new year - ready to uplevel and truly become the most unstoppable version of ourselves.
How to radiate self love, confidence, and power is probably one of my favorite episodes because it is a REMINDER OF WHAT IS IMPORTANT. What if it was your last day here on earth? Would you be living your life exactly the way you are now?
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When I first got to Bali, I felt really isolated and I had a few really difficult days that broke me down. I was unsure if I made the right decision to come here in the first place and give up the life I had built for myself in New York. When I sat down on the beach and surrendered my emotions to God, the world literally opened up and my experience here immediately shifted for the better in so many ways. In this episode, I cover the divine importance of letting go and surrendering in order to find peace and solutions in your life. Miracles will happen when you let go.
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1Hello, from Bali. In this episode, I dive into an experience I had recently feeling pretty isolated in Bali and how I met a stranger on the beach who made me feel way less isolated. In that moment of surrender, I felt nurtured and safe again, which inspired this episode. I also cover the importance of grounding your energy and knowing how to navigate life in a calmer way. Lastly, I cover a valuable takeaway I had after realizing WHY most people can't stay - when you're so powerful, it's hard for people to handle it.
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In this episode, I give you my best tips on how to manifest and attract whatever you want in your life, guaranteed.
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I love you all very very much x.
It's time to follow your soul's calling and purpose. Here is a sneak peek into one of the modules from my new masterclass, the Mind Body Soul Reset. In this masterclass, you will learn how to follow your soul's calling and completely reset your mind, body and soul. If you want to become the most unstoppable, powerful, confident version of you - my masterclass is designed to help you tap into your higher self in just 21 days. JOIN THE MIND BODY SOUL RESET MASTERCLASS HERE, DOORS OPEN ON THE 11/11 PORTAL. If you have any questions, please reach out to @lyss @mindbodysoulreset on instagram.
If you're seeing this right now, it's for a reason. I spent most of my life putting relationships and men as the center of my universe, my world, and bending over backwards to make things work out with a person...only to leave myself drained and feeling discarded. In this episode, I dive into why you should de-center a man and detach, and how it truly makes you the most powerful person in the room. Bali is a VIBE. ;)
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-Lyss
This is my favorite episode I've ever recorded. THE POWER OF DIVINE TIMING & FAITH. Having faith and staying strong. Being a warrior of love and light. Trusting in God and a higher power at play. Knowing that things WILL improve and turn around for you. You deserve the world, and I'm here to remind you of that.
I love you all so much.
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The book in this episode: Your Greater Is Coming by Joel Osteen
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On today's episode, I discuss some eerie things that happened to me as my life was breaking down and a big karmic cycle for me ended - I started seeing exes everywhere. God will break you down before he builds you up again and changes your reality for the better.
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This episode is very vulnerable as I start to open up about my 4 year toxic on and off narcissistic abusive relationship that I had struggled with mentioning because I'm still in the process of healing from what happened. What this relationship taught me most is that the universe and God will never allow you to settle in a narcissistic, abusive relationship - let alone any toxic relationship that is holding you back from fulfilling your destiny.
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I love you. Thank you for being my best friends and the most amazing community. <3
SET YOUR SOUL FREE. You deserve to be happy. In this episode, I get vulnerable about my current situation and dive into some mental health issues surrounding the concept of truly feeling free and knowing when it's time to change your life.
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For the ones who are sometimes just "too nice" and passive when it comes to dating...
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There's nothing worse than desperate energy when you are constantly chasing after people or wanting them to be obsessed with you or validate you in some way, shape or form. In this episode, I talk about how you should focus on becoming obsessed with yourself and not tolerating BS from anyone around you. I also cover how to set your standards high and the boss a** b*tch that you truly are.
I have a detachment masterclass, as well as a new masterclass for health and wellness coming later this year.
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I love you, sending you all my hugs and healing energy as always -Lyss
IN THIS VIDEO episode, I dive into all the tea about what really happened this summer in London with my last relationship...and why I've learned how important it is to take your time if you're looking to build a really strong foundation for a future with a partner. When newly dating someone it's very important to set boundaries and to remain in your feminine energy. This is ultimately my opinion, experience and perspective on how to approach future relationships.
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On today's episode, I talk about how the right person for you WOULD WANT to be with you and date you. If someone wants to be with you, they will be with you. If a man loves you and IS your soulmate, he will commit to you. It should feel easy. It should feel good. It should feel RIGHT. If you are waiting on someone to DECIDE if they want to be with you, this episode is a wakeup call.
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I've had so many questions about the cosmetic work I've had done, and this episode is dedicated to full transparency about all of the procedures I've tried, have done, and still currently do.
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It's time to end the toxic cycles. In this episode, I cover everything I know about going through heartbreak - and what I've learned over the years on how to recover quickly and how to move on. As I reflect back over the last two weeks, I feel like the rug had been ripped out from under me and at first I couldn't understand why...but I truly believe that everything happens for a reason - and the universe always remove someone or something in order to REPLACE IT with something better. Although I spoke highly of this person out of respect, after recording this episode and taking a step back, I recognize that I was mostly definitely love bombed, and no one should have to go through that.
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In full transparency, I recorded this episode back in July when I was still dating someone who I thought could be someone significant in my life. Although that relationship has recently ended, I still wanted to share this episode because everything I'm saying still holds the same truth to it - which is your reminder to never settle for basic behaviors in relationships. To experience someone who makes a genuine effort to see you, to spend time with you, and to focus on you - is what everyone deserves.
I LOVE YOU ALL and I'm so so grateful for this community.
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[REVISIT]
WORK ON YOURSELF SO much until they're not your type anymore. This week I'm resharing an episode from last summer as it's one of the greatest reminders to really own your power and remember your worth when it comes to dating someone. We often tend to lose ourselves in the thick of emotions when we really like or love someone, and this episode covers how to truly work on yourself in order to level up past a relationship that isn't right for you.
Open your heart and your mind to a brand new reality. You deserve unconditional love and abundance.
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DOORS ARE OPEN FOR AUGUST.
I love you all so much x
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I have listened to this episode twice already. Thank you Lyss💗
I absolutely love the perspective shared on 'Date Yourself Instead'! The emphasis on self-love and personal growth before seeking relationships is refreshing and empowering. https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/d89b3430-786b-49d8-b67b-07626a2f0a71/episodes/112dd24e-21ca-43e8-9887-f741e761d050/medical-billing-solutions-the-ultimate-guide-to-medical-billing-services
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I have a better solution. Surrender your lives to Jesus Christ and he will change your lives. You will love what he loves and hate what he hates. All of these self love approaches will seem silly. Love Jesus first and he will provide the answers.
i had a 6 month long distance relationship. 2 different countries. he said let's meet each other in between, which is turkey, but i wasn't in a good situation to travel there & asked him to come to my country. to make the story short, he refused & I was thinking if he wanted, he would travel. but at the same time, he can say the same shit about me. if I wanted, i would do it, but no one paid attention that I wanted but couldn't...
poor guy! its's obvious you have problems with your hormones. sdon't put it on the guys you meet.
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Same. last 2 relationships, I had to navigate, pay for shit, and come up with activities to do. exhausting!!
can u pls talk about long-distance relationships? i trusted him but one day, I woke up & and I saw he blocked me no other way to get in touch & just ask why?
I couldn't agree more with the title of this thread, "Date Yourself Instead." It's something I've personally embraced over the past year, and it has made such a positive impact on my life. https://find-open.com/brooklyn/cookie-packaging-pros-13912988 For the longest time, I was constantly seeking validation and happiness from external sources, whether it was through dating, friendships, or material possessions. I thought that being in a relationship would complete me, and I'd finally be truly happy. However, I couldn't have been more wrong. https://firmania.com/brooklyn/cookie-packaging-pros-14595891
Yo this episode is so powerful. I really relate to the way she describes childhood environmental factors impacting my self talk. Your message is so true and I really appreciate you sharing.
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as eng is my froigen language, it's hard for me to find appropriate & amusing podcasts but the way u speak makes me understand everything It's not that easy, not that hard besides learning relationship tips tnx♡
love your podcast, you have such a beautiful heart! you are helping me through a relationship that isn't right for me and teaching me to love myself. At 48, I've spent most of my life putting others 1st. So, loving and taking care of me is like an epiphany. Suggestion for pod cast topic: how do you deliver the break-up, If you are the bearer of bad news, what words do you say to respectfully break up, trying not to cause pain. When is the right time, right environment? Do you state your reasons, or just say it isn't working out and spare the sermon? Thank you!!!
I am a new listener, and I love, LOVE your podcast. I'm wayyyy🤣🫣older than you, and you are teaching me so much about being with the guy that is right for you. you are literally guiding me in making decisions that are best for me, so thank you! I wanted to comment on the story you told about when you were 15 and employed at the ice cream shop. Regardless as to if your mom is conforontational or not, she's your mama!🥰 and would have probably had that reaction if she weren't confrontational. She would have done that regardless bc you are her baby, her heart & soul. I am super chill and hate confrontation. But if someone treats my daughter (even with her being 21) horrible or is bullying my kid or is in the wrong, it's razor blades and lemon juice for that person🤣 I don't know what kind of crazy emotion that takes over when you're a parent, but you just see red. my boy is 25 and in the military. I'd stand in front of a train for him. when you have kids, I predict you will do the same fo
The title "Date Yourself Instead" instantly caught my attention, and I couldn't resist clicking into this discussion. The concept of self-dating is something that has grown in popularity, and I find it absolutely fascinating. https://www.sitelike.org/similar/printingmart.co.uk/ In a world that often emphasizes romantic relationships, taking the time to focus on self-care and self-love is crucial. Self-dating, as I understand it, involves treating yourself with the same kindness, attention, and consideration that you would offer to a partner. It's about nurturing your own well-being and creating meaningful experiences for yourself. https://www.provenexpert.com/printing-mart/
I really liked this episode. Started from the beginning I want to listen all of them. Glad to found You ♥️
I feel like that my whole life
girl ur smart thanks for sharing, too many people both men and women need this advice to not measure their value based on the treatment of a narcissistic partner