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My name is Lyss and I'm on a mission to heal all the broken hearts.
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In this episode, I’m diving into the importance of choosing you and really investing in yourself so you don’t end up with regrets later. I open up about my own journey of rebranding my business and my podcast, Date Yourself Instead—why I felt like it was time for a big change as I continue to grow personally and professionally.I share some of the transformational experiences I’ve had over the past few years, what went into my decision-making process, and why authenticity has been the key to everything. For me, it all comes back to self-trust, betting on yourself, and fully aligning with your real purpose.00:00 Introduction: The Odds of Regret 00:32 Personal Journey and Transformation 01:13 The Birth of 'Date Yourself Instead' 02:36 Rebranding: A New Era 03:46 The Decision to Rebrand 05:02 Betting on Yourself 07:46 The Power of Authenticity 09:45 Challenges and Reflections 11:08 Future-Proofing the Brand 12:35 The Importance of Self-Investment16:11 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 35:31 Conclusion: Believing in Yourself
1This episode is me unpacking my summer all through the lens of values. I realized that authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence aren’t just “nice to have,” they’re literally the blueprint for my entire reality. Every decision I made this summer.. who I dated, how I worked, what I tolerated, what I walked away from, all came back to these values. I want you to not just hear my stories, but to start writing down your own non-negotiables and embodying them like your life depends on it, bc it does.
September Reset!!! Embrace Your New Self for Fall 2025In this episode, I kick off a fresh season with a comprehensive guide to the ultimate September reset for Fall 2025. I share my personal experiences of feeling stagnant throughout the year and the transformative energy shift I felt as September began. I delve into crafting new daily routines, embodying higher-self affirmations, and reprogramming the mind to focus on future goals. I emphasize the importance of physical health, detailing my gut health detox and newfound running routine while advocating for lifestyle changes such as quitting alcohol. I also discuss the significance of revamping our external appearances to reflect internal growth and fostering relationships that uplift and align with this new identity. I encourage listeners to realign their thoughts, prioritize wellness, and let go of past negativity to step confidently into a transformed self for the remainder of the year.TIME GUIDE:00:00 Welcome to the September Reset01:02 Reflecting on 2025: A Year of Stagnation and Change02:07 The Ultimate September Fall Reset04:32 Visualization and Affirmations for a New You08:36 Rewriting Your Self-Concept13:01 Embodying a New Identity21:42 Health and Wellness: Gut Health and Detox33:26 Transforming Relationships and Letting Go36:38 Community Insights and Future Plans40:38 Conclusion: Embracing Freedom Fall
Never Be Someone's Maybe: Choose Yourself FirstIn this episode, I dive into the transformative power of fully choosing and loving yourself. I emphasize that once you make a conscious decision to prioritize yourself, everything misaligned will naturally fall away. I share personal anecdotes about my past relationships and how being someone's 'maybe' drained my self-worth and confidence. I explain that the uncertain 'maybe' energy in relationships kept me stuck and blocked me from receiving life’s blessings. By choosing myself first and stepping into my power, I was able to manifest a more abundant and fulfilling life. This episode underscores the importance of self-worth, certainty, and alignment in attracting the right people and opportunities into your life.00:00 Choosing Yourself: The Power of Self-Love00:40 The Pain of 'Maybe' Relationships02:04 Realizing Self-Worth in Relationships05:08 Breaking Free from Toxic Cycles09:27 The Journey to Self-Healing20:08 Living in the Fourth Dimension22:35 Navigating New Relationships with Self-Worth27:38 Choosing Yourself and Eliminating 'Maybe' Energy28:29 Personal Anecdote: The Equality Debate29:25 The Impact of 'Maybe' Frequency on Relationships35:41 Manifesting Through Alignment and Certainty44:00 The Power of Making Clear Decisions50:05 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement
TRUST THE DIVINE PLAN. There are no rules. Just be YOU.In this episode, I yap about the importance of self-love and letting go of societal dating rules. From a coffee spill incident to deeper reflections on destiny and soul bonds, I emphasize that what is meant for you will never pass you by. Through personal anecdotes and the concept of the 'removal prayer,' I encourage you to trust divine timing and live authentically without fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that rejection is merely redirection towards what is truly meant for your soul.00:00 Introduction: Embrace Self-Love and Authenticity00:43 Funny Story Time: Coffee Mishap04:00 Main Topic: You Cannot Mess Up What Is Destined for You07:08 Breaking Dating Rules: Trust Your Intuition07:31 Personal Story: Unconventional Relationship11:32 The Power of Self-Love and Confidence12:26 Story Time: Pub Encounter and Crushing28:51 Rejection and Divine Timing35:23 Conclusion: Trust the Divine Plan
Did you know authenticity helps you manifest instantly?In this episode, me and one of my best friends Isabelle chat about the importance of being authentic and true to oneself in the podcasting world and beyond. We cover topics such as the 4th dimension, Kundalini energy, and quantum manifestation. We also emphasize the significance of speaking positive words, being patient, and living in the present to achieve one's highest potential. Everything in DIVINE TIMING BABY....00:00 Introduction 00:21 The Power of Words and Positive Speaking00:47 Navigating Waiting Periods and Manifestation01:09 Welcome to the Podcast with Isabelle01:30 Authentic Conversations and Podcasting Style02:11 Introduction to the Fourth Dimension02:58 Isabelle Keating's Background and Kundalini Energy04:06 The Shift in Social Norms and Consciousness07:46 The Role of Authenticity in Social Media12:01 The Importance of Living in the Present18:25 The Wellness Trend and Kundalini Energy19:56 Overcoming Hardships and Achieving Alignment27:30 Building and Creating Together27:45 Lessons from My Dad's Business Journey28:47 Quantum Jumping and Focusing on the Future31:24 Manifesting Through Words and Thoughts42:30 The Power of Patience and Divine Timing47:46 Embracing the Present and Self-Love48:58 Mastering Time and Energy in the 4D52:10 Decide and Command Your Reality53:50 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude
In this episode, I sit down with one of my good friends and ultimate boss muses, Andraya Kenton - the visionary founder behind Celeste Starre, Meme London, and the newest self-love ritual essential, Luna Roca (yes, volcanic face rollers that literally shift your frequency).We talk about:The power of words and intention in building your dream lifeWhy your word is your wand (and how to cast with clarity)Manifesting success in business, love, and self-worthNavigating the sacred balance between work, motherhood, and home lifeTrusting you're worthy of big love and big dreamsThis episode is for the woman who knows she’s meant for more and is ready to claim it.✨ Use code LYSS for $$ off all Celeste Starre, Meme London, and Luna Roca orders — because you deserve to wear your magic.SHOP LUNA ROCA HERE. Use code LYSS.Shop Celeste Starre here. Use code LYSS.Follow Andraya on instagram: @andrayakenton
On today’s episode, I unpack my personal experience between dating in New York vs. London and how British men have been a whole new vibe for my healed, golden-era self. We talk intentional love, love bombing, faith, and what it really means to be seen for who you are versus what you do. I also reflect on the signs that someone isn’t right for you and how to trust your intuition the first time.
Divine feminine energy is the key to getting everything you want out of life. Living in flow, not force. Living in relaxation, not stress. Living in trust, not fear. Surrendering and letting the world come to YOU. If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend and leave a comment on Spotify. Xx, Lyss. 🐆✨✨
It's all in the divine timing, baby. It’s never too late to manifest your wildest dreams, kickstart a new career path or meet your soulmate. in this episode, I go into detail and a few personal story times about why everything is happening for you in perfect divine timing and how God always has a higher plan and see the bigger picture for us. if you are loving these episodes, leave a comment on Spotify and share it with a friend! Love, Lyss x
Over the last year, I've started to truly master my inner self and owning who I really am. I've dealt with this feeling of "guilt" underneath my accomplishments and who I was in my 20's, and in my thirties, I've been able to embrace who I am more openly and authentically. There is simply no reason to hold back who you truly are. You're a divine goddess put here to manifest your dreams, attract unlimited abundance and become your greatest self. IT'S TIME TO SHINE BABY.
Healing your inner child is a project, but it can be a FUN one.
A diary entry, from myself to you.One last TRY BEFORE THE MIRACLE MANIFESTS.One last date.One last job interview.One last shot before the final manifestation appears.Don't give up, the breakthrough is coming for you. xx LyssMasterclasses linked below:Use code goldenaura at checkout.
It's time to stop stalling your dream life and get the ball rolling. Here's an episode with some tough love, and a wake up call to you, but also to MYSELF. Can't wait for our goals to be accomplished together. I love you xxIf you enjoyed this episode, please share it and drop a comment below on Spotify and message me on instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead.DOORS CLOSING ON THE COURSES!JOIN MY MASTERCLASSES BELOW.Use code goldenaura at checkout for an exclusive discount.Dare to Detach - cut the energy cords now and step into your powerMind Body Soul Reset - heal yourself from the inside out With love and light,Lyss
You're not bitchy, you're not mean, you're not asking for too much. You just know your worth and refuse to settle for bad behavior. When you hold your standards, people respect you more. DETACH. FOR REAL. ACCESS HERE NOW.https://stan.store/dateyourselfinstead/p/daretodetachDARE TO DETACH - LAST WEEK TO ACCESS, EVER.DOORS CLOSE THIS WEEK…If you're still stuck on them, still chasing, still overanalyzing - you're delaying everything that's meant for you.The man. The money. The mission.Clinging is a form of self-abandonment.Detachment is self-respect.Tap here - last chance to download from anywhere worldwide.Learn how to cut the cord, reclaim your power, and become unavailable for anything that doesn't meet your standard.No more waiting. No more begging.It's now or stay stuck.See you there, xo. Lyss <3
ASK LYSS. DETACH. FOR REAL. Access instantly, now.https://stan.store/dateyourselfinstead/p/daretodetachDARE TO DETACH - LAST WEEK TO ACCESS, EVER.DOORS CLOSE THIS WEEK…If you're still stuck on them, still chasing, still overanalyzing - you're delaying everything that's meant for you.The man. The money. The mission.Clinging is a form of self-abandonment.Detachment is self-respect.Tap here - last chance to download from anywhere worldwide.Learn how to cut the cord, reclaim your power, and become unavailable for anything that doesn't meet your standard.No more waiting. No more begging.It's now or stay stuck.See you there, xo. Lyss <3
DETACH. FOR REAL. Access instantly, now.https://stan.store/dateyourselfinstead/p/daretodetachDARE TO DETACH - LAST WEEK TO ACCESS, EVER.DOORS CLOSE THIS WEEK…If you're still stuck on them, still chasing, still overanalyzing - you're delaying everything that's meant for you.The man. The money. The mission.Clinging is a form of self-abandonment.Detachment is self-respect.Tap here - last chance to download from anywhere worldwide.Learn how to cut the cord, reclaim your power, and become unavailable for anything that doesn't meet your standard.No more waiting. No more begging.It's now or stay stuck.See you there, xo. Lyss <3
The love of your life is on their way. They're around the corner. God is preparing you for a season of DIVINE LOVE AND BLESSINGS. Are you ready to receive it all?If you enjoyed this episode, please share it and drop a comment below on Spotify and message me on instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead.JOIN MY MASTERCLASSES BELOW.Use code abundance at checkout for an exclusive discount.Dare to Detach - cut the energy cords now and step into your powerMind Body Soul Reset - heal yourself from the inside out With love and light,Lyss
This episode is infused with kundalini energy and is an instant activation to your future self. Warning: listening will upgrade you to your highest timeline...NOW. It is now.If you enjoyed this episode, please share it and drop a comment below on Spotify and message me on instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead.JOIN MY MASTERCLASSES BELOW. DOORS CLOSING JUNE 19 ON BOTH COURSES.Use code abundance at checkout for an exclusive discount.Dare to Detach - cut the energy cords now and step into your powerMind Body Soul Reset - heal yourself from the inside out and have an instant golden glow upWith love and light,Lyss
Babe, your energy is extremely SACRED and divine. You are a magnetic force, and not everyone deserves access to how special you are. Protect your field and step into your power now with this episode of Date Yourself Instead. With all my love, abundance and healing sent your way...Lyss. xx
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Nice podcast, thank you from Iran.
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I have listened to this episode twice already. Thank you Lyss💗
I absolutely love the perspective shared on 'Date Yourself Instead'! The emphasis on self-love and personal growth before seeking relationships is refreshing and empowering. https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/d89b3430-786b-49d8-b67b-07626a2f0a71/episodes/112dd24e-21ca-43e8-9887-f741e761d050/medical-billing-solutions-the-ultimate-guide-to-medical-billing-services
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I have a better solution. Surrender your lives to Jesus Christ and he will change your lives. You will love what he loves and hate what he hates. All of these self love approaches will seem silly. Love Jesus first and he will provide the answers.
i had a 6 month long distance relationship. 2 different countries. he said let's meet each other in between, which is turkey, but i wasn't in a good situation to travel there & asked him to come to my country. to make the story short, he refused & I was thinking if he wanted, he would travel. but at the same time, he can say the same shit about me. if I wanted, i would do it, but no one paid attention that I wanted but couldn't...
poor guy! its's obvious you have problems with your hormones. sdon't put it on the guys you meet.
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Same. last 2 relationships, I had to navigate, pay for shit, and come up with activities to do. exhausting!!
can u pls talk about long-distance relationships? i trusted him but one day, I woke up & and I saw he blocked me no other way to get in touch & just ask why?
I couldn't agree more with the title of this thread, "Date Yourself Instead." It's something I've personally embraced over the past year, and it has made such a positive impact on my life. https://find-open.com/brooklyn/cookie-packaging-pros-13912988 For the longest time, I was constantly seeking validation and happiness from external sources, whether it was through dating, friendships, or material possessions. I thought that being in a relationship would complete me, and I'd finally be truly happy. However, I couldn't have been more wrong. https://firmania.com/brooklyn/cookie-packaging-pros-14595891
Yo this episode is so powerful. I really relate to the way she describes childhood environmental factors impacting my self talk. Your message is so true and I really appreciate you sharing.
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as eng is my froigen language, it's hard for me to find appropriate & amusing podcasts but the way u speak makes me understand everything It's not that easy, not that hard besides learning relationship tips tnx♡
love your podcast, you have such a beautiful heart! you are helping me through a relationship that isn't right for me and teaching me to love myself. At 48, I've spent most of my life putting others 1st. So, loving and taking care of me is like an epiphany. Suggestion for pod cast topic: how do you deliver the break-up, If you are the bearer of bad news, what words do you say to respectfully break up, trying not to cause pain. When is the right time, right environment? Do you state your reasons, or just say it isn't working out and spare the sermon? Thank you!!!
I am a new listener, and I love, LOVE your podcast. I'm wayyyy🤣🫣older than you, and you are teaching me so much about being with the guy that is right for you. you are literally guiding me in making decisions that are best for me, so thank you! I wanted to comment on the story you told about when you were 15 and employed at the ice cream shop. Regardless as to if your mom is conforontational or not, she's your mama!🥰 and would have probably had that reaction if she weren't confrontational. She would have done that regardless bc you are her baby, her heart & soul. I am super chill and hate confrontation. But if someone treats my daughter (even with her being 21) horrible or is bullying my kid or is in the wrong, it's razor blades and lemon juice for that person🤣 I don't know what kind of crazy emotion that takes over when you're a parent, but you just see red. my boy is 25 and in the military. I'd stand in front of a train for him. when you have kids, I predict you will do the same fo
The title "Date Yourself Instead" instantly caught my attention, and I couldn't resist clicking into this discussion. The concept of self-dating is something that has grown in popularity, and I find it absolutely fascinating. https://www.sitelike.org/similar/printingmart.co.uk/ In a world that often emphasizes romantic relationships, taking the time to focus on self-care and self-love is crucial. Self-dating, as I understand it, involves treating yourself with the same kindness, attention, and consideration that you would offer to a partner. It's about nurturing your own well-being and creating meaningful experiences for yourself. https://www.provenexpert.com/printing-mart/